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Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:45pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: So what happens if you finally inherits your father's property, the man will come take it as per being the 'head' that married the neck. . |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
LordReed: |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:49pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
chuksbogus: Except they have issues there's nothing wrong with a father buying a car for his daughter , he was first her father before he became her husband , he should go and treat his self esteem issues . 9 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:50pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Chillisauce: Exactly because else the society will be destroyed and the world come to an end. 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by EfemenaXY: 2:51pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
alutaa: I'm not being aggressive, and neither does this "talk" qualify as an argument in my book. Contrary to what you think, I don't see the issue as communication in marriage. The issue is the man's over inflated ego and sense of entitlement / self-worth. This isn't a village headmaster / errant pupil scenario. Oga is struggling. Madam is suffering. Papa has chosen out of the goodness of his heart to help out. Oga should do the decent thing and thank papa for his help. Or what would it profit him if his wife is run down to the ground from sheer exhaustion? 12 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by coogar: 2:54pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
LordReed: colonel save-a-sket to the rescue. 11 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 2:55pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: And it will be in history how feminism destroyed the world . |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by EfemenaXY: 2:55pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Chillisauce: Er...not only will he inherit the FIL's property left to his daughter, Oga will have no qualms collecting the car keys na. Come, how you go dey ask this kind qweshion? Abeg shine your eyes jare. carefreewannabe: LMAO! Madam, you are sooo cynical! 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Emaprince: 2:59pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Nairaland women will be quick to jump in and blame the man but if the tables were turned,they'll want to know if there's some rift bwtween the MIL and wifey... If this story is real,then the FIL and the son are not in good terms...may be the FIL never approved of him in the first place and he'll be quick to jump in and give the daughter anything she lacks just to spite the hubby and remind him that he's not the right person to marry his daughter and he(FIL) still see his daughter as single. But if there was no rift between hubby and FIL..I don't see any problem with the gift. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:00pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by EfemenaXY: 3:02pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Emaprince: And here I was thinking guys are usually cool with themselves and don't get into squabbles. The concept of a meddling FIL is beyond me. Yes, MILs are guilty of doing this, but FILs? Abeg, Oga husband should go sort out his insecurities and make peace with his FIL. The guy is just too damn proud imho. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:02pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:05pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Emaprince: Even if your assumption was true, the husband has NO RIGHT to tell a father what to give his daughter. He is HER FATHER! The husband has to respect it, whether he likes it or not. If any man dared to put himself between me and my family, he would quickly become part of my past. I am not joking when it comes to my family. I will respect his family and I expect him to do the same. Who does he think he is, my master? He will tell the people that raised me how to treat me? Scandalous. Apart from this, a smart man will be happy that a father supports them financially. Instead of showing how weak his ego is, he should begin to learn how to profit. 11 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Elantracey: This is totally wrong, let me tell you that as a married woman you are no longer under your father, even in your working documents your fathers name has been replaced with that of your husband , why would a Father favour his daughter when he knows this will brings negative felling amongst couple as it now, when only one car was functioning because of the love/understanding they has for each other they still manage to make sure the car served both of them, now, based on the way he got involved did he brings joy to them or asunder? as human dont forget that we think alot to see why individual take some certain action on some issue, mostly now that that sometimes you hear issue of Father sleeping with their daughters. Will you blame the husband if he thinks towards this direction? Heemmm lol Now the father failed to follow the right channel, it would have been better for him to call both of them and explain his feeling/concern to them and give both of them the car as a gift to thir family and as a lovely family the husband will prefer she used the one that will not be given her problem because the husband will want to avoid his wife calling him for assistance as a result of vehicle broken down. This would have be a better way in handling the issue. 6 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:08pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Proud? You put it quite nicely. |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by EfemenaXY: 3:10pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
freeboy604: Your perverted logic is quite sickening. So a father helping out his married daughter financially means he's sleeping with her? Just when I thought I'd seen it all, some nland males descend to new lower levels. 17 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Emaprince: 3:13pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:this isn't about guys being cool with eachother.. Maybe its about guys spiting each other.. But honestly,if I was in his shoes,even if I have a problem with the FIL..I won't even make any noise if he bought her a car..I'll just congratulate her but I'll not touch the car before dem go start dey yab me..especially the man himself. 7 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:13pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
alutaa: My mother in law has bought me cooking items infact she still dey buy. She likes shopping so if she sees she buys and sends no one has died, my breas-t hasn't fallen, my feminity still in check. Infact she makes soups, grills chicken, meat and others and sends. Kini big deal? Poverty makes us act like crazy people, fighting and beefing over inconsequential stuff. Relax and enjoy life. Your wife should not suffer because you think your peni-s will decrease by an inch if her father refuses to see her suffering to boost your pride and ego. And please before someone comes and concocts another story with " single and married women learn from my mistakes how my rich father destroyed my marriage " make I go find money hehehe 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by EfemenaXY: 3:17pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Emaprince: But that's just where you're wrong. Credit the FIL with some common sense and maturity na. Why would he want to make fun of his SIL's financial situation? You need to understand that if he genuinely gave out this gift from the goodness of his heart to ease his daughter's family's suffering, the last thing he'll want to do is stick his foot in it by making derogatory comments. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by LordReed(m): 3:19pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
coogar: If you like go and prostrate to your son in law when the time comes because you wanna sate his fragile self confidence. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by coogar: 3:21pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
LordReed: i would let my daughter & her hubby handle their marriage as responsible adults without interfering. this is what i would expect from a responsible father but then responsible fathers are not common in this day & age..... you are still a colonel save-a-sket though! 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:26pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
aisha2: 1 Like |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:35pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
The guy obviously needs to take it down notch. Marriage: Where non-issues are issues? 2 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 3:59pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: You have the right to show that you are myopic and reckless with your utterances, but I have made my submission known to those who are highly updated with current trends and realities. When people like us who are highly acquainted with frequent issue bothering on insex, happening around the entire Globe are talking, somebody of your caliber should be in an en-clave. You want to know me? I trust myself as an Orator of age 28, I like this scenario because its an opportunity to brush you up and be updated to face/understand the realities surrounding this issues and make meaningful contributions to subsequent or similar issues 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Shirley07: 4:06pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
coogar:Even when the husband beat her till death? Don't let me say that would be your portion. You know what a responsible dad does, give his children full security and protection from any harm, sufferings e.t.c. There is a reason christians equate God to a fatherly figure, not husband. 6 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by coogar: 4:13pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Shirley07: beating her at all, never mind beating her to death is a crime. sharing a family car isn't a crime. if the FIL didn't find him competent enough as a hubby, why did he marry his daughter to him? what kinda father in law revels in causing havoc in his daughter's marriage. how about calling the couple & presenting the car to them jointly? what kinda FIL undermines the self confidence of his son in law? if he loves his daughter so much, he shoulda married her himself. shirley, you no watch our game? 6 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
So many winning posts this thread! You guys are killing me! EfemenaXY: carefreewannabe: Chillisauce: carefreewannabe: aisha2: Lol! 8 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by Shirley07: 4:29pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
coogar:Your previous post says otherwise. You said a father shouldn't involve himself in his daughter's affair, why changing your tone now? Don't also forget the said husband has a car already. it's the wife that needs a car, not hubby. As for your Q, I'm not seeing the match. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by coogar: 4:35pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
Shirley07: change my tone? so letting 2 adults sort out their family palava is in equal weight with the murder or physical abuse of my daughter? come on - the analogy doesn't fit at all.
but he's sharing with the wife..... if her father is going to get involved at all, he should have called both parties & present the car to them jointly - let them sort the rest on who should drive which car
ok...... |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by remsonik(f): 4:39pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
My father remains my father so if he gives me a gift I don't see any reason why hubby should be angry. Only men with low self esteem and overbloated ego will have an issue with such. 10 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by crackhaus: 4:44pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
What happened to giving her the car to commemorate an occasion, like her birthday/wedding/wedding anniversary/child naming ceremony etc.? This is the normal routine among wealthy fathers who dote on their married daughters, at least among those I've come across. Any special event/ceremony which a father can use to dote on his married daughter is better than just outrightly presenting a car to her on the basis that he wants to alleviate her suffering - something about this story just isn't right. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Fights Wife Cus Dad Bought Her A New Car by coogar: 4:47pm On Dec 20, 2014 |
crackhaus: perhaps the OP does not have the full facts..... there's nothing wrong in a father getting a gift for his daughter but the circumstance has to be appropriate so it doesn't cause a rift between the married couple. 1 Like |
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