Cheating (Infidelity) and neglect actually do much more damage than lack of money.

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So many times I have read threads on relationship...and it struck me time after time that (some male) posters were/are on a mission to prove to us that the major/basic principle of managing a relationship is money and more money. I really don't know if this is a societal myth or a story we sold to ourselves to avoid dealing with the actual relationship issues...(perhaps it is a combination of both).

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This ideology is going to continue if we don't make a conscious effort to address it.
I am yet to see any human (male/female) who doesn't crave financial security.
Lets not act like Love and Money are mutually exclusive goods... they can both exist simultaneously in a relationship. If this is the case -Perfect.
Money is part of our everyday existence and as the number of gold-digging females rise...there is a big divide between the good/bad.
That doesn't change the fact that some of us want more than the money. We want you guys to communicate.
*We want you to be involved
*We want time/attention ...this is one of the most precious resources you can pour into a relationship.
*We want loyalty (please don't tell me to get a dog...lol)...etc
If we do all this and many more, there is a good chance, the relationship would improve drastically.

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In a nutshell, managing a relationship well isn't that complicated, yes- it could be time consuming but it isn't Further Maths...lol. It's one of those basic life skills that isn't taught @schools.
If a relationship is floundering, all it takes to improve it is a little time and commitment to making things better. Like all great relationships , the rewards are definitely worth the effort.
There are positive relationships . When you begin to inject the right attitudes into your relationship - you would see constructive results.


Money may not buy love, but fighting about it will bankrupt your relationship.” — Michelle Singletary
Thanks

englishmart:
don't tell me. Tell those gold digging specialists.

**Reading**

Lol @Bolded

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Love/Relationship was not meant to be about money.
But this days, money now do the talking for some guys
and the ladies respect the "benjamin".

60% of 100 ladies would go for a rich guy instead of an average loving dude. (Who no wan ferrari )


The average guy would rather stay on his own and wait till he gets few cash to impress a lady.
And when he gets small change, He will end up spending it on the lady, discarding his own problems

Among the 40% of the ladies, you will find the ones who dont really care about the financial strength of the dude.
They can be a source of inspiration to the dude.

I just assumed those numbers (60 and 40, Not sure about the percentage) .

Nobody is innocent here, both the guys and ladies are guilty !


Money and Love is needed to balance the relationship.

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VickyyB:
STORY! Story!! Story!!! Rubbish thread.

Seriously !!

Cwaya:


Seriously !!

jmoore:
Gold diggers don't like this thread.

VickyyB:

Broke dudes love this thread.

VickyyB:

Yessssss

jmoore:

And the lady with no manners quotes me. Better back off.

jmoore:

And the lady with no manners quotes me. Better back off.

VickyyB:

Says? The broke äss.

Cwaya:


Just say the 'KID' instead of lady.

Lady too mature for her.

jmoore:

Mumu continue. Na lack of comprehension dey worry you.

mcdreeezy:
Money answereth all things; love doesn't.

Chizzy20:
op u re ryt luv nd relationship isn't all abt money bt for a relationship to go smoothly or move to d next level money must b involved it doesn't necessary mean d guy should b extremely rich. lets nt deceive ourselves nd b realistic.

Impulse80:
Frontpage!!! Kachisbarbie see you when dey preach see your signature
Meanwhile..