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My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by gedtalks(m): 10:09pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
My people pleaseeee I need sincere advise here. Your advise will definitely guide me on the next step to take. There is a beautiful girl I've been considering getting married to, but the way she requests money and fast food is making her look very ... lol.. "hungry" and opportunistic to me. The values she sees in a man seem to me like its basically what he will BUY for her. I confess that I made matters worse initially by "fast fooding" each time we meet... Now I think she sees me like a free lunch at crunchies. If I call her in the afternoon, she says I'm hungry.. its so irritating now.. in fact I lost a lot of regards for her..but she doesn't know yet. Recently she asked me for some money and I refused very politely..she said she was "disappointed". I wonder if she even loves any other thing about me asides the MONEY I WILL GIVE HER. she pays ABSOLUTELY NO attention the things I want her to see in me...like level of maturity, my leadership skills, I taught she was just being childish, but lately I discovered its just her nature. her ideology about a guy is WHAT WILL I GET FROM HIM.. I might dump her .. i wont even talk to her about it. please advise me 60 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 10:10pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
Is this another palmchat story? 57 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 10:11pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
gedtalks:omo she has someone else joor.she doesn't love u 283 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by gedtalks(m): 10:15pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
STFUareyouGod: bros how old are you. What's the "story" here that looks in ONLY your eyes like "palm chat" 134 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 10:15pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
Keep on fast-fooding her naw. Why you wan stop ? 60 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 10:17pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
gedtalks:Looks like one of them And my age? Old enough to be your uncle 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by gedtalks(m): 10:18pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
nnamdiokere45: Thanks bro.. but she calls me often on phone.. and feels bad when I don't call. 7 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 10:18pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
You are dating a girl and not a woman. Shikenan. A woman would use the money you would have spent on fast food to cook you two or three different small portioned soups. As a means of your appreciation, you'll buy her gifts even without her demanding it. Most fast food and gifts demanding girls are unemployed so the only means to having their way is with men who are drooling after them. Who fine geh help? Marry a woman who will add value to your life first, spiritually, intellectually, emotionally and finamcially by helping u save. That one no mean say u go be aradite o. No woman wants to marry a stingy man or one who can't maintain her standard or improve it. 438 Likes 39 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by kinggogo: 10:21pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
Dump her sorryy broke asss na, u jst making us tell ya wat u already know Nawa 4 sm guys sha 66 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by eezeribe(m): 10:21pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
Just Dump her, before you end up marrying an ornament in the name of wife... 18 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by dollyjoy(f): 10:22pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
IamMissMarvel:Well said. 33 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by dollyjoy(f): 10:26pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
To all those advising the op to dump his girlfriend, breakups doesn't occur that way, breaking up should be op's last resolve if all means of correction fails. 30 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by luminouz(m): 10:27pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
gedtalks:Why won't she call u? U think anyone would be happy to lose their ATM? Coz Ur an investment to her bro! 265 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by spinna: 10:28pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
I would have thought you would have raised this issue with her, rather than raising it with NL. its no use observing something thats irritating you and not mentioning it. Also since you are the one spending its simply up to you to say no we are eating at home. if this woman was truly your potential fiancee then you have to raise the issue first before dumping, you have to try to educate her and see if she will listen. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by gedtalks(m): 10:29pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
Another thing that is really confusing me is that most of the girls I've dated frequently ask for money. I don't know if its the same thing all guys face. in fact honestly I see it as a Nigerian girls character. this one is annoying me cos I want her to pay attention to more important things.. but she is not. I am really the one reading her. I am seeing a lot of her secrets. Contrarily she doesn't know ANYTHING about me.. she hasn't seen my bad part.. The only way she can discover this is when her interest is in SEEING AND KNOWING MORE. like I am reading her glutinous characters 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by dollyjoy(f): 10:33pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
gedtalks:They probably request for money that way because you presented the image of a wealthy guy before then, to impress i think! 84 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by gedtalks(m): 10:35pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
Another thing that is really confusing me is that most of the girls I've dated frequently ask for money..maybe because they see I'm working.. I really don't know if its the same thing all working class guys face. in fact honestly I see requesting as a Nigerian girls character. this one girl is uniquely annoying me cos I want her to pay attention to more important things.. but she is not. I am really the one reading her. I am seeing a lot of her secrets. Contrarily she doesn't know ANYTHING about me.. she hasn't seen my bad part.. The only way she can discover this is when her interest is in SEEING AND KNOWING MORE. like I am reading her glutinous characters 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
One of my favorite quotes "A person's tongue can give you the taste of his heart." Most importantly, NEVER ignore your feelings, They are a best barometer as to where you should be heading, Can't stress that enough. As for her, don't judge her, Judgment doesn't help, I can't confirm (based upon the incidents you mentioned) that she is 'materialistic' Everyone has seeds of 'materialism' and 'spirit' and 'intellect' ingrained in them. Too difficult to judge a person I would recommend just talking to her about it and telling her how it makes you feel. Otherwise if you never speak up I can guarantee you that things are never going to change. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by henrydadon(m): 10:35pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
bros abort mission and run as fast as your leg can carry you..this one will dump you immediately she sense you are going broke..dump her before she dump you..you are not charity 177 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by gedtalks(m): 10:44pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
spinna: to be sincere I'm actually looking for a reason to keep her. permit me to say this : my "demand" is really higher than the average guy.. and I know it like I know my name.. I just don't allow it intoxicate me |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by ikp120(m): 10:45pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
A committed maga has been spotted! 41 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by favourmic(m): 10:51pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
Tell her to Come forward! Come! Come! She should not be afraid, What is happening to her eh! It's not ordinary oh! God has remembered her today... Oyaa raise your hand up... Raise it up very well! Then bend it and place it on your head... Preferably where your mind tells you your brain is located... your stomach or your head. Then repeat this prayer after me... *My father! My father* Where ever they have buried my sense and my brain... *In my maternal village* *In my paternal village* *in the coven* Let them Vomit it now! Oya start shouting it with anger ! Shooooooouuuuuuut it 104 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 10:53pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
gedtalks: You really need to work on your approach to/with women. First impression matters a lot and you my man, are selling yourself short. Ofcourse, I can't tell you who or what you should spend your money on but just bear it in mind that you really do not have to reach out for your wallet every single time you're out with a lady. As per the girl in question, I dunno, those sorts are never good for anything beyond a good blow anyway. Get your pound of flesh and next her. Good luck. EDIT: Oh, thread title says she's your fiancée? I can't laugh. 20 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by mofeoluwadassah: 11:05pm On Dec 03, 2016 |
Jxt tell her ur mind nd see hw she ll react 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 6:01am On Dec 04, 2016 |
gedtalks:na d scam na...she doesn't want to mke it obvious dat shez der for d moni. try dis, ask her to boro u a very little amt dat u wld pay her bck soon.hear Wetin she go talk n get back to me 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Greenbullet(m): 7:14am On Dec 04, 2016 |
gedtalks:bab,am sorry to say,u are in Nigeria. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Greenbullet(m): 7:15am On Dec 04, 2016 |
WHEN I TELL PEOPLE THAT MANY NIGERIAN GIRLS LACK COGNITIVE REASONING,THEY WILL SHOUT ,IYS THE GIRL YOU ROLL WITH,WHO ARE THE GIRLS U ROLL WITH,ARE THERE NOT YOUR SISTERS,YOUR FRIENDS AND YOU! IMAGINE A 1 WEEK RELATIONSHIP ,AND A GIRL IS ALREADY ASKING FOR MONEY TO MAKE HER HAIR.WHAT DO YOU WANT THE GUY TO THINK OF YOU? THAT YOU ARE SUPER SMART AND INTELLIGENCT,NO! HE WONT THINK THAT, HE WILL THINK YOU ARE A FRIVOLOUS FEMININE AND WILL PROBABLY TREAT YOU LIKE ONE.FROM WHAT I HAVE NOTICED MEN DATE FRIVOLOUS WOMEN AND MARRY CONSERVATIVE ONES,DONT THINK BECAUSE YOU ARE FAIR AND BEAUTIFUL YOU WILL MARRY A VERY GOOD MAN.SHAME ON YOU.WE MEN ARE WISER 133 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by windeal: 7:17am On Dec 04, 2016 |
She's not in love with you bro .she's only after your money ...and she's leaving you immediately you are broke so dump her before she dump you 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by falconey(m): 7:28am On Dec 04, 2016 |
IamMissMarvel: first of all girls evolve to women physically and cognitively and we prefer them young and at their prime. we are not responsible for girls waywardness and promiscuous lifestyle. one will probably not know whether she is a woman or a girl until you spend some quality time with either. if you deduce one can know through dresses I can prove you wrong. about the last paragraph, I agree no woman wants to marry a stingy man, perhaps I need a little clarification of a stingy man, thus, is it a man who doesn't take responsibility or a man who doesn't spend lavishly? because I reckon man doesn't run away from responsibility no matter how difficult it might be to accomplish,though can be practical in disbursing their cash. stingy isn't stingy if you never had it - fal lastly "man who can't maintain her standard or improve it" I find this statement hysterical same way women do maintain our standard, fantasy and taste. does the beauty that attract us enhance or does the asset stay firm for eternity? you want to enjoy life riches enrich yourself!. 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by shedy03(m): 8:40am On Dec 04, 2016 |
spinna:op, this is a reasonable one. better take it. |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 8:42am On Dec 04, 2016 |
I just came to say hello to the Mr. DASUKI that opened this thread. Please I have some pretty cousins incase you need more than one fiancee. 48 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Is All About Money And Fast Foods.. Pls Advise by Nobody: 8:44am On Dec 04, 2016 |
gedtalks:You have assesssed and seen all that is wrong. So why seek advice? |
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