Ezeanna:


The best advice to the couple is to get a divorce. Beating the woman up isn't going to solve anything. And from your post the wifey is certainly capable of violence i.e breaking her husband's head as u narrated.

One day one of them is going to kill the other or maim them permanently.

#saynotophysical/verbalabuseinmarriage#

obongproff:


madam u lie for hia. Some women can be so stupid and as such deserves to be yelled at so dat day will reason well. I yell at ladies when day begin to act stupid, to scold dem, but I neva beat woman before oh (becos I no get money for hospital bills)

skelefish:

My brother wetin u dey yan sef, because na woman if she misbehave u will be looking @ her? 2 hot slap for her cheek is not a bad idea.


Honestly, nobody is infallible, so when she is stepping out of line u scold her, if she continues, slap her,dat hot slap will instil some sense of reasoning in her, because if u don't, she will probably tink she's ryte. Am talkin frm experience, I used to be very lax with women, until they started taking me for granted, then I realize women need iron hand.

Inability to scold & disagree with a lady makes u a weak man b4 her.proverb say it's better to live in a dessert,than with a contentious woman, if u can't scold her, don't live with her, cos she will definitely rile u.

iamrealdeji:

The woman is scared of divorce cos she thinks she may not get a husband anymore after a child,the man is ready for divorce and and can't wait,he said it yesterday,and he has some beautiful young ladies that keep him happy

rubey:
The day a guy tries to lay his hands on me, it ends that very second he makes an attempt. Infact a guy who shouts at women is more likely to be a wife beater and there are lots of them here on nairaland

ABEngine:



Correct guy! I no see this post o.. You sure say one week no too much

zaragal:
See hw it goes for my and my ex boyfriend, sometimes I get reckless And naive, I act up and go nasty but he has dis thunder voice once he rolls and yelled @ me, my brain rearrange and I come back to my senses and apologise and den we hug eachoda and he says am sorry dat he doesn't hav any oda harsh means of knocking some senses into my head, now dat walks for us, we dated a long tym and he neva brought his hand close to my cheek even wen he is dead angry, now dat works! U don't need to beat ur woman to communicate, find strategies to make her listen! Find something to make her calm or behave, but beating ur wife doesn't make u more of a man, it makes u 100% less and more of a coward, u derive ur strength wen u cn handle a woman's recklessness without having to lay a hand on her Dats wen u can talk of being a man, and believe me dere re 101 ways to beat a woman without physical abuses, without talking her, I her u she ll beat herself up, one of my ex use to beat me up without hav to talk me, believe me dat guy has strategies on hw to deal with women, so figure out to deal with ur woman without physical abuses else u re not worthy to be a man. U re nothing less dan a COWARD

prettyjo:
observing.
this world is really an irony.
most of the people saying they can't tolerate such might be actually enjoying the beating

dechandel:
Odiegwu..
Beat me and see fire.. Its either Jesus allows you in or devil adopts you

rubey:


There is a reason why a girl nag. As a man, you should be responsible enough to solve that problem

Hollamydey:
any man that beats a woman is an animal!

joseph1832:
And there's also a reason why a man shouts, as a woman you should try and find out why instead of outrightly condemning such men as potential wife beaters!.

rubey:


We are women for christ sake, we are suppose to nag! That's how we keep reminding you to stop that silly thing we don't like. Men shouldn't shout, you should take care of the situation!

9jaforlife:




Soo, what if YOU step out of line Do you hit your head on the wall?

Guys like you are very difficult to live with, our society is full of heartless people thanks to guys like you, who lay shameless examples for their poor children. My heart breaks for the women that have to put up with you

Truth be told, men who beat women are not better than the women that they beat. These men lack sense of dignity, suffer from low self esteem and believe that they can't do better. A reasonable man would rather walk out of a relationship than give the silly excuse that he's a brute because a woman made him so!

rubey:


We are women for christ sake, we are suppose to nag! That's how we keep reminding you to stop that silly thing we don't like. Men shouldn't shout, you should take care of the situation!

rubey:


We are women for christ sake, we are suppose to nag! That's how we keep reminding you to stop that silly thing we don't like. Men shouldn't shout, you should take care of the situation!

Truckpusher:
Quit watching telemundo and face reality.

jemimaa01:
smack who,d way we will join hand and rush u ehnn,u go shock

Truckpusher:
All na talk jare...

You never jam devil in human clothing - Even fellow guys keeps their distance as he seem to have a death wish.

Then i will be the one to sign his death warrant

rubey:
The day a guy tries to lay his hands on me, it ends that very second he makes an attempt. Infact a guy who shouts at women is more likely to be a wife beater and there are lots of them here on nairaland

rubey:
The day a guy tries to lay his hands on me, it ends that very second he makes an attempt. Infact a guy who shouts at women is more likely to be a wife beater and there are lots of them here on nairaland

skelefish:

My brother wetin u dey yan sef, because na woman if she misbehave u will be looking @ her? 2 hot slap for her cheek is not a bad idea.


Honestly, nobody is infallible, so when she is stepping out of line u scold her, if she continues, slap her,dat hot slap will instil some sense of reasoning in her, because if u don't, she will probably tink she's ryte. Am talkin frm experience, I used to be very lax with women, until they started taking me for granted, then I realize women need iron hand.

Inability to scold & disagree with a lady makes u a weak man b4 her.proverb say it's better to live in a dessert,than with a contentious woman, if u can't scold her, don't live with her, cos she will definitely rile u.

dechandel:
Then i will be the one to sign his death warrant

rubey:


We are women for christ sake, we are suppose to nag! That's how we keep reminding you to stop that silly thing we don't like. Men shouldn't shout, you should take care of the situation!

AdeniyiA:
Some men are so clueless about the physical/physiological, emotional and psychological make up of a woman before getting married, there are many ways a man can control/correct his wife if she errs, not by physical abuse, go and box your mate outside.
It's true that most women provoke, but your ability to live with them unprovoked to beating level with wisdom, makes you a man