naijaboiy:

Just see the way she's raining curses on a total stranger.

And you feel you deserve a man who can tolerate your bullshit

SMH -_-

italo:
To all the women judging men who hit women...one question.

If your brother's wife hits and physically humiliates your mother in his presence, and he hits his wife, would you condemn him?

rubey:


We are women for christ sake, we are suppose to nag! That's how we keep reminding you to stop that silly thing we don't like. Men shouldn't shout, you should take care of the situation!

rubey:


We are women for christ sake, we are suppose to nag! That's how we keep reminding you to stop that silly thing we don't like. Men shouldn't shout, you should take care of the situation!

rubey:
The day a guy tries to lay his hands on me, it ends that very second he makes an attempt. Infact a guy who shouts at women is more likely to be a wife beater and there are lots of them here on nairaland

AdeniyiA:
Some men are so clueless about the physical/physiological, emotional and psychological make up of a woman before getting married, there are many ways a man can control/correct his wife if she errs, not by physical abuse, go and box your mate outside.
It's true that most women provoke, but your ability to live with them unprovoked to beating level with wisdom, makes you a man

seangy4konji:
Beating a woman is barbaric but one slap to put their dirty mouth in place is good. Always a reminder that u don deh over step.

Ps. No quote me oo if me and u not get business as I not mention r name here oo. Na wetin me think I talk.

dechandel:
Odiegwu..
Beat me and see fire.. Its either Jesus allows you in or devil adopts you

Nneka123:
Women beater are COWARDS!!!! period!,Because a man is supposed to protect his woman, not be the one he turns into a punching bag . In all the cases I have seen, wife beaters beat up their wives, when they need to make them "shut up" about something, Which i found silly! there are so many ways to walk out from that situation, once you lay your hands on her, you won't stop doing it. And i can't stop shaking my small head at some men here , saying that women nags! so we nag! that's true, getting physical on us, will that solve the situation, huh? But rather Anything that harms their fragile egos is trigger enough to "teach that woman a lesson", by exerting superior physical strength. It is just sick.
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The man that strikes his woman, is thus, a coward with low self esteem , who, outside his home, no-one gives a shit about. Deeply insecure, this kind of man feels the need to re-enforce his power and masculinity by lording over the weakling, who he knows will not dare to strike back, and will continue being his punching bag for all the time to come.
And no!! hell to da no!! having a temper is not an excuse, there are other ways to express your anger than getting physical. Being far too "provoked" is also not an excuse. Would the same man dare raise a hand against his boss who probably 'provokes' or 'insults' him even more? Of course not. bunch of cowards!!

zaragal:


God bless u adeniyi, dis is exactly wat I was trying to communicate and some cowards guys got it all wrong!! Dey said beating d lady is the best way to correct bullshit, let's take for example u re living with their mate a man like dem and he get u as hell mad as a woman would, ll dey beat him up??, it's jst dis conscious superiority dey re dwelling on, we re stronger?? Nobody said we re weak??, we re jst less stronger dan man on the physical, we re the head?? No body ever said we re tail? As a matter of fact we re the neck without us the head itself cannot stand, we re to be submissive?? God gavp us dat commanded because he knws we re already a creature of love so to make it all perfect he ask us to humble ourselves, now God ask u to love ur wife, does loving ur wife involve beating her to correct her?? Ur WIFE not ur kid God didn't ask u to scold ur wife he ask u to love ur wife and scold ur children!! I repeat u cn have a woman beat herself up without physical abuses..

Eljay24:


Dislike wife Beating' Its unethical. .. That reminds me of a story where a man kept beating up his wife tho*
She had to go gather some self defence skillz, and the next time the man got drunk and tried laying hands on her. .. He woke up on hospital bed all bruised and wondering what happened" lol

zaragal:


, truth!!

Deefuray:

Like seriously? A woman has to nag to be able to train her sons properly.

dechandel:
If i stay in that abusive relationship any longer than i should.. Then yes!! He might be coming home in a coffin

But then i wouldnt even give that a thought cause i would have been long gone..

I dont see any reason why victims in an abusive relationships shouldnt take the fire exit door
I dont see why victims think walking out seem like a rock and hard spot decision to make. It isnt. Walk away!! Cause even after all the "i am sorry" "i was so tensed up" and the mumu words. He is gonna do it again!!

Infact any girl willing to endure in any abusive whatever it is with the mindset that he is gonna change needs to be ascertained of psychological disorders!!


Panel beater you say?? Me na confirm carpenter
Anyhow it goes

zaragal:


And the who is gonna tolerate ur own fuccking bullshit dat u forgot dat guy attacked me first, don't u ever read??... wat re u guys thinking?? dat u mess around and except woman to b treated like ur children??, like kids??.. u re so fuccking kidding me....am a wife to my husband not a daughter, I deserve a good men, not coward like u all who thinks beating dere wife is the best way to handle, I don't wat any trouble don't quote me..beside dis isn't ur business btw!!

Lol...what is my business?

I really do hope the way you rant like a dog here is the same way you do off line

If not please just be real

Don't come here and claim tigress and then be a humble and submissive dove to your man outside

All these girls sha!

zaragal:


Pls tell dat to italo and naijaboiy, dey re looking for an angelic woman, dey want to marry a woman who dey treat like DAUGHTERS not WIFE

You can simply read my previous posts again

with the way most of you girls are arguing and throwing insults up and down just to prove your point simply depicts the kind of ladies you are.

Not one single girl on this thread has made a point without any form of insult...SMH.

And so when you get married and you insult your man always at any slight provocation you expect him to always keep quiet? No.

You women are here giving excuses and claiming you are right when you nag and insult. For what? Who made it right? Even God never accepted nagging in the bible so you people should just close that chapter.

If it's not a usual thing then it's understandable,,but when it's a regular behaviour then you definitely need some hard reset.

We all have our diverse opinions about this view and my own point still stands.

Keep your mouth in check and your Man keeps his hand in his pocket.

zaragal:


Pls tell dat to italo and naijaboiy, dey re looking for an angelic woman, dey want to marry a woman who dey treat like DAUGHTERS not WIFE

Nneka123:
Women beater are COWARDS!!!! period!,Because a man is supposed to protect his woman, not be the one he turns into a punching bag . In all the cases I have seen, wife beaters beat up their wives, when they need to make them "shut up" about something, Which i found silly! there are so many ways to walk out from that situation, once you lay your hands on her, you won't stop doing it. And i can't stop shaking my small head at some men here , saying that women nags! so we nag! that's true, getting physical on us, will that solve the situation, huh? But rather Anything that harms their fragile egos is trigger enough to "teach that woman a lesson", by exerting superior physical strength. It is just sick.
.
The man that strikes his woman, is thus, a coward with low self esteem , who, outside his home, no-one gives a shit about. Deeply insecure, this kind of man feels the need to re-enforce his power and masculinity by lording over the weakling, who he knows will not dare to strike back, and will continue being his punching bag for all the time to come.
And no!! hell to da no!! having a temper is not an excuse, there are other ways to express your anger than getting physical. Being far too "provoked" is also not an excuse. Would the same man dare raise a hand against his boss who probably 'provokes' or 'insults' him even more? Of course not. bunch of cowards!!

You are shouting Cowards Cowards up and down. (still wonder how that relates to the topic)

So women who verbally abuse their men are what?

Mother Theresa? Queen of England? Holy mary?

There are many ways to avoid beating your wife when she insults you...Good. how about you discovering ways in which you can keep your mouth and attitude in check so as not to provoke your man every time.

Do you know that there are men who actually do all those things you listed above but still it doesn't work. You think it's always easy to ignore every woman!

What you are simply saying is that you have the right to nag and insult but your husband has no right to correct you even when it gets to the extreme. He should always keep quiet like a sullen dog.

Silence only works when it's not a regular thing but if it's in the norm in a house where the woman always nags i'm sorry one day she wouldn't see it coming.

I still say it again women who can't keep their attitude in place need a hard reset from their men. Call it cowardice or say he's not a real man,,that's just cheap blackmail.

If your boss in the office behaves anyhow will you raise your voice and insult him? Dragging his shirts and trouser?

I think Not

italo:


I'm not looking for a woman to treat like a daughter. I want to treat her like a wife. But not your kind of wife who expects a man to be the one to teach her how to behave like a decent woman.

That's your mother's job.

zaragal:


Exactly now Dats the point, a man is the head of the home, he needs wisdom to run it, starting with his wife down to the kids, beating ur woman isn't wisdom?? Hw ll ur kids see u?? Will dey tag u an awesome daddy?? One who is beating my mum?? Ofcos not! We re meant to b role models to our own children, a man needs God's wisdom to run his home, starting frm managing a woman, ofcos women cn be reckless and naive @ times but dey re things I fear more Dan physical abuses. Wen d man I love gets to shout @ man and say "mirabel! Wat ask cum over u," my head reboot and am good on my knee again , now every man needs to find a way to handle dere woman, u cn shout to communicate, u cn punish her by keeping out late and hanging out wit friends make her so lonely, u cn even eat outside or refuses things she offer for a day or two jst a little emotional things will work! And she ll regret her wrongs, but beating a woman doesn't make u the best man!!... no woman is ever proud dat their men beat dem up? even tho dey love him

zaragal:


Exactly now Dats the point, a man is the head of the home, he needs wisdom to run it, starting with his wife down to the kids, beating ur woman isn't wisdom?? Hw ll ur kids see u?? Will dey tag u an awesome daddy?? One who is beating my mum?? Ofcos not! We re meant to b role models to our own children, a man needs God's wisdom to run his home, starting frm managing a woman, ofcos women cn be reckless and naive @ times but dey re things I fear more Dan physical abuses. Wen d man I love gets to shout @ man and say "mirabel! Wat ask cum over u," my head reboot and am good on my knee again , now every man needs to find a way to handle dere woman, u cn shout to communicate, u cn punish her by keeping out late and hanging out wit friends make her so lonely, u cn even eat outside or refuses things she offer for a day or two jst a little emotional things will work! And she ll regret her wrongs, but beating a woman doesn't make u the best man!!... no woman is ever proud dat their men beat dem up? even tho dey love him

Lol @Role models.

Ok when you shout and insult your husband you're a good role model to your kids abi?
Especially if you have a daughter?

Nice

naijaboiy:

Lol @Role models.

Ok when you shout and insult your husband you're a good role model to your kids abi?
Especially if you have a daughter?

Nice

naijaboiy:

Lol...what is my business?

I really do hope the way you rant like a dog here is the same way you do off line

If not please just be real

Don't come here and claim tigress and then be a humble and submissive dove to your man outside

All these girls sha!

italo:


The way she has been throwing insults around, you can tell the kind of role model she has/had.

zaragal:


God y re u so senseless

yes I know you're sensible

Keep it up

naijaboiy:

You can imagine bro!

The man should be the one to always call her and tell her how to behave when she goes wrong. He should never think of touching her.
Even if she slaps him.

What were her parents doing all the while when she was still a Kid?

Even parents sometimes apply a little spanking when they can't condone your bad behaviour any longer.

italo:


The way she has been throwing insults around, you can tell the kind of role model she has/had.

zaragal:


Look son of a bitch!! Never and never u call my parents again, dey ren't ur mate, re u insane or some wat stupid?? Wat the heck is ur problem @u nd italo, is sth wrong wit u or sth... or because I was talking it cool...if u re looking to make dis hot, pls bring it on u both of u and I bet u wnt like to see hw it rolls bastard @ the both of u. I believe becos ur godforsaken father was busy teaching ur bitch of a mother a lesson thru physical abuses, u think it's the best way to treat ur woman, I ain't a bitch lyk ur gf or parent so rot in hell u two!!.. nonsesne!!

Whoever called your parents?

Now I can see the reason why your Ex-boyfriend's mother advised him against marrying you.

You're so lousy and bad mouthed like a market woman

Abeg I don't have time to exchange words this morning

#BYE

naijaboiy:

Whoever called your parents?

Now I can see the reason why your Ex-boyfriend's mother advised him against marrying you.

You're so lousy and bad mouthed like a market woman

Abeg I don't have time to exchange words this morning

#BYE