Please, I need a serious advise from people in the house. I really don't know what to say to my mother in-law, may be to beg her or ignored as if nothing happen.

Let me give you a little summary of what happened to me.

My wife just put to bed and the whole loads of work have been much for her that she called on her friend who just graduated from the university to come and stay with us so that she could help with little work at home.

We didn't have problem with her because it will save her from paying bills whereas we have more space in our own house for her to occupy free of charge without having to pay any bills.

She was so hard-working and even without telling her,she knows what to do at the right time. She does all the cooking for us and most time before I get home from work, she calls me to ask what I would love to have for dinner which she will gladly organise.

Gradually, we get little bit close and talk freely to each other without having to define our boundaries.

Wumi is a dark skinned chobby lady with a 42DD size (please don't ask me how I got to know her size). And am sure those that have the picture of sizes on their brain will understand my point. It was tempting.

It all started when I got home and saw her cooking with one nasty top showing off her assets. She caught my attention and smiled and I returned my gesture given her a soft smile too and that was how the whole madness started.

My mother in-law just came from nigeria few days ago to help us as well. But left for me, I was enjoying the new atmosphere with Wumi in our house.

Just yesterday the nasty incident happened. Mama caught me in d washroom kissing and touching wumi . Meanwhile, my wife went for Dr appointment for our son with cold.

Right now, I'm afraid because mama didn't say anything and I don't know how to convince her as well.

Wumi is not comfortable at home again and I can't look into ma ma's face anymore.

The funny thing is that mama didn't discuss what she saw with my wife because I knew if my wife heard, in fact, I wont be on nairaland now to narrate the story of my life.

Please, do I call mama and beg her? Or should I just ask my wife to allow her (wumi) go since mama is around. ?

I'm really confused here because I can't not face or talk to Mama freely at home anymore.

Please what do I do?

Bribe mama

Cutehector4u:
Bribe mama

How?

Cutehector4u:
Bribe mama

With what? Money? So that another woman will steal her daughter's husband?

OP, abeg tell Wunmi to go. She can't stay in that house any longer.

Well, the deed had been done. If you truly want to end this, talk to grandma that it was purely a mistake stating it won't repeat itself again and also tell Wunmi to give your wife an excuse that she has to go back to school or somewhere else. Guy, trust me, as long as she is still in that house, there's no telling that you will be tempted once again to touch and this time, your a.ss might not be saved.

By the way, 42DD is not something me i fit overlook....chai imagine dat kind packaging...

Nice...



What's the title of the movie?

Tymax:


With what? Money? So that another woman will steal her daughter's husband?

OP, abeg tell Wunmi to go. She can't stay in that house any longer.

dnt mind me am just bein silly. D husband sef thank God mama caught him. Now he shoud go and report himself to madam

zeefa:


How?

buy her hollandis wrapper

Cutehector4u:
dnt mind me am just bein silly. D husband sef thank God mama caught him. Now he shoud go and report himself to madam

Na dat one hard pass. It will be two women (mother and daughter) against him in that house. Chai.

See wetin Wunmi don cause o.

Tymax:

Na dat one hard pass. It will be two women (mother and daughter) against him in that house. Chai.

See wetin Wunmi don cause o.

wats hard dr, my wife I kissed sumbody and am deeply sorry for it. I am not fit to be called ur husband anymore, please treat me as one of ur ex boyfriends. And d wife wil say oh no, u r my husband and all my heart is yours. I hav forgiven u already, and she wil tell d gateman to go and kill goat. Looooooooooooool

mama knws ur wife love you nd wouldn't want to destroy ha daughter's happiness.. thats the reason for her silence, jez wait for d dust to settle nd plead with her with the normal lines na (it was devil's work and i wasn't thinking straight)

but u too.....

Cutehector4u:
wats hard dr, my wife I kissed sumbody and am deeply sorry for it. I am not fit to be called ur husband anymore, please treat me as one of ur ex boyfriends. And d wife wil say oh no, u r my husband and all my heart is yours. I hav forgiven u already, and she wil tell d gateman to go and kill goat. Looooooooooooool

Lwkmd

BUT GUY YOU FUMBLED.
COMMITING ADULTERY IN YOUR HOUSE?
ARE YOU A HE GOAT(MKPI)?
CAN YOU CONTROL YOURSELF?

STOP THAT, CAUTION AND DISCIPLINE YOURSELF FOR ONLY WHEN YOU RESIST SUCH THAT YOU'RE TRUELY A MAN.

TELL YOUR WIFE AND PLEAD WITH HER TO BEHAVE AS IF NOTHING HAPPEND. TAKE THE BLAME AND DONT BE THE COWARD HERE, TELL HER YOU KISSED HER BY FORCE AND.....

Even if Wunmi leaves, you will probably hook up with her someplace else......*smh it's your wife i blame, why would she bring in her friend in the first place when her mother was available.........and you are something else!

Kiss mama

Its better to tell ur wyf ur self ....den ask her for forgiveness

pls tell wumi to leave the hse....its very bad ur flirtin with ur frnds wife...how do u think ur wife wil feel if she finds out....pls stop before its late..

very annoying story. u must be a lizard.

ur wife made d mistake in d first place. I've said it times without number a man can bleep a girl even if he's not in love with her so u don't take such risks with men.
the first thing to do is this. send Wunmi packing. without words that will tell ur mother in law that u mean business. then call her n talk to her about it. tell her exactly what I said about men being weak but that doesn't mean u don't love ur wife. make sure she opens up her mind n as much as possible let her show some emotion, anger, disappointment especially. don't tell her not to tell ur wife(hopefully she won't, but if u do it will make u look like u r trying to cover it up) but tell her that if she decides to tell her she should stand by u when ur wife starts reacting. of course this will only work if u have explained n convinced the mum that u still love her daughter.
I hope this helps. don't bother thanking me of it doesn't.
remember, it's all about winning the mother over psychologically. all d best.

GOBE!

You screwed up in the wrong place, with the wrong woman and got caught by the wrong person.


Your case is something that only the gods will determine your fate - Mama will keep your secret but just remember that you are at mama's mercy and of course your wife too .By doing that you have lost some self worth before your mother in-law which will force you to be nice to her and her daughter more than necessary even if she is messing up with you big time.

You just used your own hands and blackmailed yourself.

My friend you're in an awkward position and it would get more interesting as life goes on or better still pray for mama to die without vomiting it out.

In case

Send d wunmi of a gal packing. She's a goat in sheep clothing. Dont allow her destroy ur biuriful home. After dat, discuss wif ur mother in law n hear wat she has 2 say b4 u later confess 2 ur wife 4 peace 2 reign.

Give mama a kiss too..

OGeeKush:
mama knws ur wife love you nd wouldn't want to destroy ha daughter's happiness.. thats the reason for her silence, jez wait for d dust to settle nd plead with her with the normal lines na (it was devil's work and i wasn't thinking straight)

but u too.....

Thank u for telling us d normal lines... Incase of next tym i no go gree..

Zehner:
Even if Wunmi leaves, you will probably hook up with her someplace else......*smh it's your wife i blame, why would she bring in her friend in the first place when her mother was available.........and you are something else!

Or hook up with someone else.

Prixus:
ur wife made d mistake in d first place. I've said it times without number a man can bleep a girl even if he's not in love with her so u don't take such risks with men.
the first thing to do is this. send Wunmi packing. without words that will tell ur mother in law that u mean business. then call her n talk to her about it. tell her exactly what I said about men being weak but that doesn't mean u don't love ur wife. make sure she opens up her mind n as much as possible let her show some emotion, anger, disappointment especially. don't tell her not to tell ur wife(hopefully she won't, but if u do it will make u look like u r trying to cover it up) but tell her that if she decides to tell her she should stand by u when wunmi starts reacting. of course this will only work if u have explained n convinced the mum that u still love her daughter.
I hope this helps. don't bother thanking me of it doesn't.
remember, it's all about winning the mother over psychologically. all d best.

Thanks, I just woke up.

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