Women respond to love. I think a husband's greatest weapon is unconditional love. Love her unconditionally in all things and you will see your wife blossom into a better woman than the woman of your dreams.

What do you think?

What about his financial ability to take care of his family
Some ladies ll still run away no matter the amount of love if a man cant take care of his family financially.

I think we all know what a husband's greatest 'weapon' is

ArchEnemy:
What about his financial ability to take care of his family
Some ladies ll still run away no matter the amount of love if a man cant take care of his family financially.

We all know that a sensible woman will choose love over money. Money can't buy love. love can make you improve your earning power.

5minsmadness:
I think we all know what a husband's greatest 'weapon' is

hmmm. tell us

Lateralmaths:
Women respond to love. I think a husband's greatest weapon is unconditional love. Love her unconditionally in all things and you will see your wife blossom into a better woman than the woman of your dreams.

What do you think?

So true, papa brito read this. Love me unconditionally and see the best of me. You dey stalk me for nl abi? come read this one too. Anyway I promise to love you unconditionally too.

Exactly what i was thinking about
Love is more of a shield to protect

5minsmadness:
I think we all know what a husband's greatest 'weapon' is

Lateralmaths
In maths there is something called equivalence
Unconditional love is not one person's sole responsibility

Lateralmaths:
Women respond to love. I think a husband's greatest weapon is unconditional love. Love her unconditionally in all things and you will see your wife blossom into a better woman than the woman of your dreams.

What do you think?

I totally agree.
But it doesn't work on worldly women

pickabeau1:
Exactly what i was thinking about
Love is more of a shield to protect





Lateralmaths
In maths there is something called equivalence
Unconditional love is not one person's sole responsibility

I am talking to just husbands here.Its not easy sha to just ignore someone's weakness while loving unconditionally. But every wife deserves that from her husband. Its not easy but it works.

BTW are you a mathematician?

adanduka:


I totally agree.
But it doesn't work on worldly women

pls explain. Why won't it work on worldly women?

Lateralmaths:
pls explain. Why won't it work on worldly women?

Such women never know the worth of what they have; and they are constantly comparing themselves and their spouse with outsiders.
Men too. You see a homely girl who adores her husband but the man would rather be with another girl

Lateralmaths:
I am talking to just husbands here.Its not easy sha to just ignore someone's weakness while loving unconditionally. But every wife deserves that from her husband. Its not easy but it works.

Ok
Good you later recognised constraints around it
Yes it is an admirable objective

BTW are you a mathematician?

No but I dont hate maths

adanduka:


Such women never know the worth of what they have; and they are constantly comparing themselves and their spouse with outsiders.
Men too. You see a homely girl who adores her husband but the man would rather be with another girl

hmmm so true. even at that the man should still love unconditionally.

Lateralmaths:

hmmm so true. even at that the man should still love unconditionally.

Once again, i ask
Why is it the man's duty to love unconditionally

pickabeau1:


Once again, i ask
Why is it the man's duty to love unconditionally

because

Ephesians 5.25-28


Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:

ok

Greater love has no man than this than to lay down his life for his friend/wife/child etc
Im glad you recognised this is a calling which all cannot strive to

Lateralmaths:
because

Ephesians 5.25-28


Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;

That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,

That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.

So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:

pickabeau1:
ok

Greater love has no man than this than to lay down his life for his friend/wife/child etc
Im glad you recognised this is a calling which all cannot strive to

This is how it should be. a man should love his wife to the extent of being willing to lay down his life even when she does no deserve it. when a woman knows you love her this way, her response will be wow. it works for me.

Lateralmaths:
This is how it should be. a man should love his wife to the extent of being willing to lay down his life even when she does no deserve it. when a woman knows you love her this way, her response will be wow. it works for me.

The bolded is right

Lateralmaths:
Women respond to love. I think a husband's greatest weapon is unconditional love. Love her unconditionally in all things and you will see your wife blossom into a better woman than the woman of your dreams.

What do you think?

You're not married. Come back and share the results of unconditional love after your tenth year of marriage. Goodbye

Unconditional love can only last so long, it has to be reciprocated or at least appreciated for it to grow roots and blossom - we are nought but humans.

Timbuktou:
You're not married. Come back and share the results of unconditional love after your tenth year of marriage. Goodbye

You don't believe in unconditional love?

Timbuktou:
You're not married. Come back and share the results of unconditional love after your tenth year of marriage. Goodbye

I am happily married bro.

crackhaus:
Unconditional love can only last so long, it has to be reciprocated or at least appreciated for it to grow roots and blossom - we are nought but humans.

every woman will appreciate unconditional love.

Lateralmaths:
every woman will appreciate unconditional love.

Therein lies the problem.

Do you think every woman will appreciate unconditional love even when she's not satisfied in some other aspect she believes is important to her?

ArchEnemy:
What about his financial ability to take care of his family
Some ladies ll still run away no matter the amount of love if a man cant take care of his family financially.

Love encompasses all other virtues including care & the ability to meet the needs of one's spouse (of which financial need is one). As such, a man who truly & sincerely loves his wife would always do his best to satisfy the needs of that spouse. He would avoid making his spouse sad or unhappy the best he can. And if indeed he knows his best isnt still good enough, he will not hesitate to seek help in the right places pending when he is able to get on his feet.

crackhaus:

Therein lies the problem.

Do you think every woman will appreciate unconditional love even when she's not satisfied in some other aspect she believes is important to her?

unconditional love will make the man look into those aspects.

ArewaSweetheart:



Love encompasses all other virtues including care & the ability to meet the needs of one's spouse (of which financial need is one). As such, a man who truly & sincerely loves his wife would always do his best to satisfy the needs of that spouse. He would avoid making his spouse sad or unhappy the best he can. And if indeed he knows his best isnt still good enough, he will not hesitate to seek help in the right places pending when he is able to get on his feet.

you too know book jor.

ArewaSweetheart:



Love encompasses all other virtues including care & the ability to meet the needs of one's spouse (of which financial need is one). As such, a man who truly & sincerely loves his wife would always do his best to satisfy the needs of that spouse. He would avoid making his spouse sad or unhappy the best he can. And if indeed he knows his best isnt still good enough, he will not hesitate to seek help in the right places pending when he is able to get on his feet.

excellent

ArchEnemy:
excellent

Lateralmaths:
you too know book jor.

thanx

Lateralmaths:
unconditional love will make the man look into those aspects.

Interesting, the God-quality...

Lateralmaths:
I am happily married bro.

And you practise unconditional love? Seriously? As in, unconditional. You show this love irrespective of what your wife does. Note I didn't ask if you're working towards it o.

bukatyne:


You don't believe in unconditional love?

No such thing exists, whether in heaven or earth. No, I don't believe in it.