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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Straightarrow: 10:30am On Jan 30, 2015
Well, and this is my own experience, my ex said she ws raped by her uncle or was it cousin n that ws how she lost her virginity, one of my friends(not gf), same story, my present gf, twas her cousin dat raped her. It's really worrisome. It's either rape is so rampant and we aren't dealing with it legally and as seriously as it should be dealt with or 90% of the girls around even tho forming good girls , are really just .... and liars. I'd rather go with the first cos the level of distrust something this little can generate ehn. Btw, you dont need 2tell me how many pple u slept with or how u lost ur whatever, cos i dont care. Buh if u choose 2tell, why lie? And all of them, I never asked. The information was volunteered. Hmmm.. quote author=chimkaire post=30265894]Did you say ''every''? Now, 'cos the females around you says so doesn't mean it's thus for all undecided undecided undecided undecided
Smh at some peep's reasoning sha. Why would a sane person claim''R.APE'' sad sad sad[/quote]

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:01am On Jan 30, 2015
na wa oo
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:01am On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

Am just trying to correct the op that not all of them lie about how they were deflowered.
Most of the ladies ive been with always say the truth, ave heard of just one, so i wonder the world this op is from that is filled of liars. grin
one of the ladies you've been with undecided
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Misogynist2014(m): 11:04am On Jan 30, 2015
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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Misogynist2014(m): 11:05am On Jan 30, 2015
Misogynist2014:
I am very skeptical when I hear the word rape.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by joseph1832(m): 11:06am On Jan 30, 2015
If the world is filled with virgins I wonder how many of these girls claiming rape would have entered it!.

Everywhere you turn you see many of them saying they were raped! Even the ones who are runz girls will still claim they were raped when a dude refuse to pay them.

None the less, to rape a woman is among the biggest low a guy/girl can stoop!.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by donbrowser(m): 11:07am On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

why is the truth always bitter?

because i said the truth you are chasing me away.

it's unfair
cry
My ex told me she was raped by her headmaster. I just walked away like Craig David. She thought I was angry because she wasn't a virgin but I was angry because she lied to the wrong guy.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by justynneke(f): 11:08am On Jan 30, 2015
Most girls in truth were actually raped
Young girls suffer voilence n deceit
Wot is rape?
Rape is aving canal knowledge of a woman without her consent
Rape from uncles,neighbours,in-laws r kinda diff. Frm rape frm boyfriend
D boyfriend makes d girl biliv hez checking if trully shez a virgin or any oda tin unknown to d girl dat shez bn disvirgined

Only if our parents had tot our girls sex education @ early stages of puberty
Only if parents had drawn dirls close enof for dem to reveal wot apnd btw dem n dia friends
Only if parents had nt denied dia girls wot D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ need (love especially n oda material tinz)

Our girls won't b too gullible to fall prey

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:09am On Jan 30, 2015
[quote author=lilzeel post=30262142][/quote]

I couldn't even read your article. I'm disgusted by just the title. Rape is a serious issue and whether you like it or not, a lot of people more than you think have experienced abuse at least once. Using this as a reason to throw jab at women is a new low. Will it increase your bank account balance? Please grow up.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Jakeattah(m): 11:09am On Jan 30, 2015
the thing don tire me......

there's no story I haven't heard
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:10am On Jan 30, 2015
donbrowser:

My ex told me she was raped by her headmaster. I just walked away like Craig David. She thought I was angry because she wasn't a virgin but I was angry because she lied to the wrong guy.

You are pathetic

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:10am On Jan 30, 2015
I am a guy and I'm hearing this for the first time. No girl ever mentioned to me that she was raped. Op....depends on the type of ladies u meet. Let's not ridicule our ladies..they are our moms and wives!

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Olutola88(m): 11:10am On Jan 30, 2015
95% of them are bloody liars! But I love listening to their stories and pretending to believe them like a bloody fool will always do.

I love making people feel dey are wise by pretending to be foolish. Nothing feels better.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:12am On Jan 30, 2015
bond77:
Sometimes I just ask myselfundecided... .. do virgins still exist?... Or are they fairy tales?
They will exist if guys let virgins be.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:12am On Jan 30, 2015
Zohan:
i dont like virgins.
This is the 21st century and life is more than that.
a friend came to me one day shedding hippopotamus tears. "he raped me, he raped me"... My only questions were, when and how?
you visit a guy just because he said some sweet nonsense to you and you expect him to do vigil or play candy crush with you?
for me, i don't care if you're first class, second class or virgin with attendance, Just be a good girl.

This mentality of Nigerian men needs to change. Not every girl who spends the night at your house wants to have sex with you. Why can't you just accept that? It doesn't give you a free pass to molest her. And in case you didn't know, even husbands rape their wives. Rape simply means unconsented sex. Don't try to justify it. Ugh disgusting!

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by tellwisdom: 11:15am On Jan 30, 2015
One idiòt told me she was raped, but decided to give in aftermath and continuously for years..i just swear for her and her mama...Don't believe 20% of their spoken words...it's all lies
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by justynneke(f): 11:18am On Jan 30, 2015
Bia olu-otula(otula means nyash in owerri lang) abi wetin b ur name
According to ur post Ʊ just claimed bng a bloody fool which Ʊ just shoed by ur statements
I tot muslims respect ladies
Well go ask ur mother hw she lost her virginity n hw Ʊ r d end result of d loss

Otula
quote author=Olutola88 post=30268165]95% of them are bloody liars! But I love listening to their stories and pretending to believe them like a bloody fool will always do.

I love making people feel dey are wise by pretending to be foolish. Nothing feels better.[/quote]
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:21am On Jan 30, 2015
netizenbuzz:


This mentality of Nigerian men needs to change. Not every girl who spends the night at your house wants to have sex with you. Why can't you just accept that? It doesn't give you a free pass to molest her. And in case you didn't know, even husbands rape their wives. Rape simply means unconsented sex. Don't try to justify it. Ugh disgusting!
thank you. buh please dont use "you" next time. why would i molest someone that came to visit me?
Makes me think you putting the Blame on me.
have a great day.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:21am On Jan 30, 2015
naijaboiy:
This Op is a big thief.

His write up is just a copy and paste of one of tosyne2much's threads.

I wonder why y'all couldn't notice it undecided

I knew this was Tosyne's Ministry and Sermon... but... Whom should we really put the blame on grin
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:22am On Jan 30, 2015
The kind of silly thread on front page ehhh.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:26am On Jan 30, 2015
softysparky:
The kind of silly thread on front page ehhh.

It is not totally silly...i think it has an element of truth even if...wink
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:28am On Jan 30, 2015
I really don't understand some guys/men too? If u are dating a lady..? Simply ask her are u a virgin/not? If she's not, then she must have lost her virginity somehow.. How many guys tell their gals how they lost theirs too without lying.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Ewatomi26(f): 11:28am On Jan 30, 2015
Rape is a big stigma. Y shuld anyone lie about it. To feel special undecided
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by ehis05(m): 11:34am On Jan 30, 2015
True talk...not met a girl dat accepted dat her vriginity was lost by mutual consent...all of dem na rape rape....
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by ukandi1(m): 11:35am On Jan 30, 2015
AdeniyiA:
One told me that his boyfriend raped her in his village(east) after travelling with him from the west!
Could she have hated him &also travelled wt him?
a baby came out of the 'rape' undecided

chai..... She cari Hypo take wash ur head be that oh....
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by ukandi1(m): 11:36am On Jan 30, 2015
AdeniyiA:
One told me that his boyfriend raped her in his village(east) after travelling with him from the west!
Could she have hated him &also travelled wt him?
a baby came out of the 'rape' undecided

chai..... She cari Hypo take wash ur head be that oh....
This one pregnant virgin story
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by kendrick9(m): 11:37am On Jan 30, 2015
don't know what this Op talkin about.most girls are ashamed to even tell someone they were raped.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by tosyne2much(m): 11:38am On Jan 30, 2015
emusmith:


I knew this was Tosyne's Ministry and Sermon... but... Whom should we really put the blame on grin
[i] Egbon I dey ground dey prostrate greet u ooo.. Shey make I stand up. ?
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Olutola88(m): 11:38am On Jan 30, 2015
justynneke:
Bia olu-otula(otula means nyash in owerri lang) abi wetin b ur name
According to ur post Ʊ just claimed bng a bloody fool which Ʊ just shoed by ur statements
I tot muslims respect ladies
Well go ask ur mother hw she lost her virginity n hw Ʊ r d end result of d loss

Otula
quote author=Olutola88 post=30268165]95% of them are bloody liars! But I love listening to their stories and pretending to believe them like a bloody fool will always do.

I love making people feel dey are wise by pretending to be foolish. Nothing feels better.
What is this one saying? This is what I detest most on Nairaland ; An unintelligent person quoting me *sobbing*
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:39am On Jan 30, 2015
emusmith:


It is not totally silly...i think it has an element of truth even if...wink
Element of truth yes!!
But I think if a guy can't stomach stories of how a girl was disvirgined, he shouldn't bother asking.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 11:40am On Jan 30, 2015
This is real. Was beginning to wonder y all gals I dated always av same version of story. " I was raped by my neighbour,by my cousin nd sometime uncle.
If u ask them were is the uncle dey would say he is dead. Lies from pit of hell.

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