Me I don't form about it o I am not a VIRGIN no be news abeg

netizenbuzz:


I couldn't even read your article. I'm disgusted by just the title. Rape is a serious issue and whether you like it or not, a lot of people more than you think have experienced abuse at least once. Using this as a reason to throw jab at women is a new low. Will it increase your bank account balance? Please grow up.

seriously,jobless kids are on nairaland. Whe they are idle instead of reading or doing something meaningful with their time,they come to nairaland,copy and paste any rubbish they can get hold of. I'm very sure the poster's female relatives also lie about losing their virginity via rape unless they are nt Nigerians.

bossminded:


Abeg carry ur drama comot frm here....

Gbam !

Expsbterror:


Sorry to b frank but ladies that tell such "gist" are mostly from Delta, rivers and Edo States.

Just been real ooo

My ex is from Enugu state and she gave me the 'rape story too!.
I don't think the op was trying to make a big deal out of the so-called virginity issue. this is about most Nigerian girls playing the "I was molested" card to get sympathy which is sooooooooo wrong!!!!!!!!

y wud i lie dat i was raped? dats rubbish. i did it. it wasn't a mistake. simple. if u like stay, if u like go. as long as i don't open ma legs for evri tom, dick and harry. i av nuttin to be ashamed of.

AlphaGentleman:
They both copied it from some1's page so relax.

huh ?

This is a fallacy

Afrobasic:


How did you come by this stat? Cooked up?.

Totally agree with the op tho, a lot of females cook up these rape stories(not saying all) and it pisses me off

Honey ask around. That will do.

Stories ... What's the need lying again sef ... Virginity does not water love ..... you bang I bang we're even I'll tell the dude #no fakings

Guys should just please stop accusing girls about this virginity/sex issue. Afterall, a girl cannot get disvirgined by herself, a guy is always involved.

Opytim:
Guys should just please stop accusing girls about this virginity/sex issue. Afterall, a girl cannot get disvirgined by herself, a guy is always involved.

They do that cos they don't have hymens

klassiquette:

They do that cos they don't have hymens

that's true my sister, and they have forgotten that 'it takes two to tango'.

1. In my opinion, this whole rape issue happens far too often in Nigeria than we want to believe and is largely under reported. About ladies lying about it- I think more ladies lie about the number of partners that they have had than the fact that they were raped.

2. Almost all the cases I've heard firsthand (too many if I might add) happened before the age 10 and by a resident in the house, name it- uncle, cousin, house help, etc.

3. Rape victims don't talk?- They can and they usually do once they have dealt with the shame/guilt/ any other bad emotions, or are coerced to. In Nigeria though, there is not really an enabling environment for victims to seek justice. You talk, then there's a family meeting and it is sorted internally. Dude gets to walk- victim gets emotional baggage.

Check the front page - Police officer raping a 9 year old, let me know how that ends.

Rilamaka:


Reasons why every Nigerian girl says she lost her virginity via rape is because they lost their virginity via RAPE!!!!

Are you not aware of the society you live in? Are you selectively ignorant? Are you claiming that you don't know that the level of sexual assault among girls (and boys) are heavily underestimated?

Have you carried out a survey? Do you know if any of your sisters have been raped?

Its this suppressive environment that makes victims suffer in silence for the rest of their lives. Even if they are lying, who are you to judge?

Why the hell would Seun Osewa allow this thread to make front page?

This is a demeaning, disrespectful, callous, and wicked post. It very upsetting for female readers who have been sexually assaulted in the past.

I advise you to take down this post, it is highly INSENSITIVE!!!!!

Seun try to censor some of the topics your mods put on front page sometimes, stop being complacent about everything.

Let the girls speak for themselves.

They have, but according to the post- they are lying

RedSeaKing:
Let the girls speak for themselves.

AyokunleRuth:

Am just trying to correct the op that not all of them lie about how they were deflowered.
Most of the ladies ive been with always say the truth, ave heard of just one, so i wonder the world this op is from that is filled of liars.

but u are a lady nah! abi u be les?

you can't understand this gist unless u are a man or a les

VisionPlus:




but u are a lady nah! abi u be les?

you can't understand this gist unless u are a man or a les

if you really have nothing to say then don't quote me.

what exactly is your point?

it's too early to annoy someone jare

AyokunleRuth:
did i hear you say every nigerian gal?

hmmmmmmmm it's like you roll with liars and it's because you are one too

Madam, why did you attack the OP? The man is saying the pure truth.

Tymax:

Madam, why did you attack the OP? The man is saying the pure truth.

i did not attack him joor

but to say every nigerian gal is wrong jawe

funny enough! I don't like a V! so the V stuff don't make me love you more or less! Cos I believe a girl is always a V the very first time you touched her to you she's a V Cos that was your first time to do that, even if the whole is tight or open! for me it won't change my mind! I don't like a V Cos I hate it when a girl cries during love making and I hate blood!

[quote author=lilzeel post=30262142][/quote]
1)WHY do you guys make things look every girl is a liar especially when it comes to SEX.
2)why always wanting to know if they are virgins or not,is it ur biz?
3)if u're asked the same question do u even care to answer? And if u do,are u honest?
Stop making it luk like only girls are liars.

funmilayoB:

lol

Hahahaha. Nice dp.

AyokunleRuth:

if you really have nothing to say then don't quote me.

what exactly is your point?

it's too early to annoy someone jare

OK, I blow u some kisses n hugs instead. .
good mrng <3

VisionPlus:



OK, I blow u some kisses n hugs instead. .
good mrng <3

good morning

Deshannel:

And its always the ones that are far from decent that tell this story.
The true victims are embarrassed to admit they were raped.
Modified: FTC without even attempting. Dedicated to the FTC strugglers.

true word
runz girls claiming they were raped since 40 AD

softysparky:

They will exist if guys let virgins be.

They will exist when they learn to close their legs.

softysparky:
The kind of silly thread on front page ehhh.

The truth is bitter

beckyomas:

My problem with him is the fact that he said 'every', is he alright?
Even guys mess up one way or the other but you don't see the girls coming out to say thrash and 'every guy'. Even if they have dated one thousand, it still doesn't matter (maybe they are just sharing the same set of girls among themselves).
I'm not happy with you for not condemning the thrash he said because 'every girl' includes you Funmi.

The truh is bitter that's why you are so pained...sorry o

Youngpo413:
The truh is bitter that's why you are so pained...sorry o

if you had an iota of sense in that your coconut head you wouldnt have quoted me. Where were you when people were receiving sense? What do you even know about truth?
Go and look for something better to do or pick up a book and read.

beckyomas:
if you had an iota of sense in that your coconut head you wouldnt have quoted me. Where were you when people were receiving sense? What do you even know about truth?
Go and look for something better to do or pick up a book and read.

thanks