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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by kelly224: 3:58pm On Jan 30, 2015
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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by keenn: 4:04pm On Jan 30, 2015
I don't attach much meaning to virginity status, but as conversation gets deeper matters evolve them-self. OP, it amazes me that all the girls, I repeat, all the girls have made with that are not virgins(except one), claim to have lost their virginity to rape. Thanks for bringing this, for I once thought may be am being cursed to meet R/A/P/E ladies only. Na wa ooo
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Creamish(f): 4:19pm On Jan 30, 2015
sauceny:
Gurlz that were truly raped,are the ones that are shy & would take a whole lot of trust & confidentiality in a being to open up.

Raped victimz don't talk,or hardly talkz

U have a point.. so what if the victim tot u to b trustworthy & confides in u...does dat make her a liar? watz ur yardstick to justify whoz a liar?

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by lovemaths(f): 4:46pm On Jan 30, 2015
joblessness is bad o.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 4:54pm On Jan 30, 2015
Richydos:


d pleasure is mine......would gladly welcome d idea of knowing u better!!!...sorry if itz sounding awkward
grin are you handsome and tall?
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by obaayo2: 5:02pm On Jan 30, 2015
chai.....these girls of nowadays sef...i don dey fear them o.
.so dem still dey use rape lie... God pls help Nigeria.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 5:15pm On Jan 30, 2015
[quote author=lilzeel post=30262142][/quote]

Reasons why every Nigerian girl says she lost her virginity via rape is because they lost their virginity via RAPE!!!!

Are you not aware of the society you live in? Are you selectively ignorant? Are you claiming that you don't know that the level of sexual assault among girls (and boys) are heavily underestimated?

Have you carried out a survey? Do you know if any of your sisters have been raped?

Its this suppressive environment that makes victims suffer in silence for the rest of their lives. Even if they are lying, who are you to judge?

Why the hell would Seun Osewa allow this thread to make front page?

This is a demeaning, disrespectful, callous, and wicked post. It very upsetting for female readers who have been sexually assaulted in the past.

I advise you to take down this post, it is highly INSENSITIVE!!!!!

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jan 30, 2015
nickydof:



I aint saying there are no genuine rape cases and child molestation. We are talking about the sample of the rape population who bring up 'craps' to get sympathy. We aint talking of those genuinely molested as children, we are talking of those who make false claims because 'rape' is (perceived) common. How many of these rape cases are even verifyable? How many have you, yourself verified? Or you believe there are no instances where girls cook false rape stories to guys?

Even they cook up rape stories, rape as an action should be expressly condemned!!! I can't believe I am seeing these comments with my two eyes. Its our complacency towards rape matters that make sexual assault cases thrive in our society. "Blame the victim, she seduced him". You don't know how it feels until your sister or anyone close to you experiences that gut wrenching and horrible experience.

What am I saying? even guys on this platform may be rapists themselves, who knows?

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 5:38pm On Jan 30, 2015
EOOJ:



When I see ladies complaining about generalisations like dis, I just laf it off because seriously we d guys have suffered more in una hand...dis single phrase alone says it all "all men are same"

But notwithstanding, d op no try shaa...not all naija ladies are like dat sha grin
now ya talking grin
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 5:40pm On Jan 30, 2015
Xavier9ja:
are u a virgin? if no, then how were going disvirgin?
hmmmmm nice question













for the gods undecided
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by naijaboiy: 5:54pm On Jan 30, 2015
tosyne2much:
wink

How far parley ?
Oga I dey jare! Howfar you?
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by shady26(m): 5:56pm On Jan 30, 2015
HizMissy:
why in God's name will i lie about getting raped?
same reason why u r lying now
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by tosyne2much(m): 6:06pm On Jan 30, 2015
funmilayoB:


How did u come abt this thread? is it frm experience i noticed som1 said u wrote it originally. Tell d truth o
I'm the original writer of everything I post on this forum... If you see any of my threads somewhere else, be sure it was stolen
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jan 30, 2015
tosyne2much:
I'm the original writer of everything I post on this forum... If you see any of my threads somewhere else, be sure it was stolen
that's amazing
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by HizMissy(f): 6:44pm On Jan 30, 2015
shady26:
same reason why u r lying now
Get lost o jare....
Na u rape me?
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by nickydof(m): 6:44pm On Jan 30, 2015
Rilamaka:


Even they cook up rape stories, rape as an action should be expressly condemned!!! I can't believe I am seeing these comments with my two eyes. Its our complacency towards rape matters that make sexual assault cases thrive in our society. "Blame the victim, she seduced him". You don't know how it feels until your sister or anyone close to you experiences that gut wrenching and horrible experience.

What am I saying? even guys on this platform may be rapists themselves, who knows?

See lemme tell you! I condemn rape with the strongest of language available! But we refuse to be fooled & manipulated by a girl seeking sympathy using false rape. So let's stop flogging a dead horse. Don't try to make someone look bad, I use God beg you!

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 7:00pm On Jan 30, 2015
nickydof:


See lemme tell you! I condemn rape with the strongest of language available! But we refuse to be fooled & manipulated by a girl seeking sympathy using false rape. So let's stop flogging a dead horse. Don't try to make someone look bad, I use God beg you!

Even if she is using a false rape story, why don't you find out first before you condemn the person. This post is outrageous and in a bad taste. How dare the poster use a blanket term? Don't you know that more than a third of our female population have been sexually assaulted? So if most girls say that they have been raped, then it means that they have actually been raped. Go out there and ask questions, you will be be amazed, enraged and disgusted. So please you guys should not trivialise rape, its an ugly thing. This is mean and unfair for rape victims (who might be reading this thread this very moment), that's all I am trying to make you understand.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Maamin(m): 7:03pm On Jan 30, 2015
HizMissy:
why in God's name will i lie about getting raped?

hope for you to tell me grin
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by HizMissy(f): 7:05pm On Jan 30, 2015
Maamin:


hope for you to tell me grin
Pls rephrase
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Maamin(m): 7:15pm On Jan 30, 2015
Rilamaka:


Even if she is using a false rape story, why don't you find out first before you condemn the person. This post is outrageous and in a bad taste. How dare the poster use a blanket term? Don't you know that more than a third of our female population have been sexually assaulted? So if most girls say that they have been raped, then it means that they have actually been raped. Go out there and ask questions, you will be be amazed, enraged and disgusted. So please you guys should not trivialise rape, its an ugly thing. This is mean and unfair for rape victims (who might be reading this thread this very moment), that's all I am trying to make you understand.

Much ado about nothing my dear!..you are still making a mountain out of mole hill..nobody endorses rape..it is greatly frown at in every society...the same reasons you are so bitter about this thread is the same reason the Op is bitter about girls using societal crime as rape and sexual assault as an alibi of looking chaste and being pitied even they honestly know that they shouldn't lie with such things.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Maamin(m): 7:16pm On Jan 30, 2015
HizMissy:

Pls rephrase

Never mind angry
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Afrobasic(m): 7:18pm On Jan 30, 2015
Rilamaka:


Even if she is using a false rape story, why don't you find out first before you condemn the person. This post is outrageous and in a bad taste. How dare the poster use a blanket term? Don't you know that more than a third of our female population have been sexually assaulted? So if most girls say that they have been raped, then it means that they have actually been raped. Go out there and ask questions, you will be be amazed, enraged and disgusted. So please you guys should not trivialise rape, its an ugly thing. This is mean and unfair for rape victims (who might be reading this thread this very moment), that's all I am trying to make you understand.

How did you come by this stat? Cooked up?.

Totally agree with the op tho, a lot of females cook up these rape stories(not saying all) and it pisses me off angry

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by ronald4lif(m): 7:21pm On Jan 30, 2015
naijaboiy:

Oga I dey jare! Howfar you?

Hey bro, this is coming as a shock to me, please I wouldn't want to join words with you or anyone else. Just log in to see this but please I have nothing going with your girlfriend. And this is the whole truth whether you believe it or not. I hold you in high esteem and please try and straighten up things with your woman. Please I am so innocent and heaven knows. This is embarrassing!

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Richydos(m): 7:21pm On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

grin are you handsome and tall?

lolzzz.....I don't blow my trumpet but u won't b disappointed #winkx
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jan 30, 2015
Richydos:


lolzzz.....I don't blow my trumpet but u won't b disappointed #winkx
ah ah ah. grin
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Richydos(m): 7:29pm On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

ah ah ah. grin
lolzz.....howz ur day been
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by nickydof(m): 7:36pm On Jan 30, 2015
Rilamaka:


Even if she is using a false rape story, why don't you find out first before you condemn the person. This post is outrageous and in a bad taste. How dare the poster use a blanket term? Don't you know that more than a third of our female population have been sexually assaulted? So if most girls say that they have been raped, then it means that they have actually been raped. Go out there and ask questions, you will be be amazed, enraged and disgusted. So please you guys should not trivialise rape, its an ugly thing. This is mean and unfair for rape victims (who might be reading this thread this very moment), that's all I am trying to make you understand.

You are taking this matter to a different dimension. The Op tried highlighting a section of females engaged in abusing rape, although the use of 'every girl or woman' was wrong. We know how devastating rape is and condemn it all day. Even the Op I believe condemns rape and has no intention of messing with the feelings of rape victims. The Op does not support rape but rather condemns the abuse of rape.
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 7:40pm On Jan 30, 2015
Zohan:

Don't be a fool

Pot calling kettle black. Okay.

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Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jan 30, 2015
Richydos:

lolzz.....howz ur day been
great ooo. urs?
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Richydos(m): 8:00pm On Jan 30, 2015
AyokunleRuth:

great ooo. urs?

day was a bit hectic
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by Expsbterror(m): 8:03pm On Jan 30, 2015
[quote author=lilzeel post=30262142][/quote]

Sorry to b frank but ladies that tell such "gist" are mostly from Delta, rivers and Edo States.

Just been real ooo
Re: Reasons Why Every Nigerian Girl Says She Lost Her Virginity Via Rape by SenatorJames(m): 8:03pm On Jan 30, 2015
searching for the real rape victim on this thread.



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