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Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by Mubbyleey(m): 10:07am On Feb 02, 2015
miraclewonder:
shebi, u know dat u will reap wat u sow
anD dEy Won't PrAy FoR SaMe tIn tO HapPeN tO DeM.

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Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by 9jatatafo(m): 10:09am On Feb 02, 2015
Nonsense talk. So you telling me that no single man chased you ever since your BF left you and you ended up with a married man. I see greed and long throat here. Don't worry, when you get married, other younger single girls will share your man with you. You are shameless!

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Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by Mubbyleey(m): 10:10am On Feb 02, 2015
jemimaa01:
I don't even want to read the post...there is no excuse for dating a married man,except of cos u want to ruin your future...imagine a wife who is faithful to her hisband and does everything possible to make her husband happy,then you and the useless husband wld now be causing the woman heartbreak and misery....well God punish all the ladies chasing after married men knowingly.
AlL wHaT thEy ArE aFteR Is mONey, Do U tiNk If ThE hUsbAnd Is PoOr, ThEy WouLd Be rUnNiNg AFteR Dem.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by staymore: 10:12am On Feb 02, 2015
He chased her for 3years, she afterwards broke up with her boyfriend of 5years.

Thereby leaving her 'Vulnerable'

She was helpless and needed any available man to pamper her.

I don't see any reason to abuse her the way most of you are doing, some of the girls here even chase after the married men and they are here claiming Virgin Mary.

I'll rather pray God gives her a man to call her own.

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Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by lollybee15(m): 10:18am On Feb 02, 2015
Hmmm, life has been like this from inception and forever it shall be.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by Elipsis: 10:18am On Feb 02, 2015
Freecocoa darling, wat's ur take on this?
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by wisdompraise(m): 10:21am On Feb 02, 2015
jemimaa01:
I don't even want to read the post...there is no excuse for dating a married man,except of cos u want to ruin your future...imagine a wife who is faithful to her hisband and does everything possible to make her husband happy,then you and the useless husband wld now be causing the woman heartbreak and misery....well God punish all the ladies chasing after married men knowingly.

Dear, I like the word "knowingly" because some men can be very deceptive, even when they are married they can swear with their lives that they are single. that's how they use to snatch our ladies from us.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by Eneze1(f): 10:21am On Feb 02, 2015
LesbianBoy:

Don't mind all these small small girls jare! Instead of them listen to what their fellow lady nairalander ''jackpot'' posted they are here making noise! grin grin grin grin grin grin



donodion see what i mean! grin grin grin grin @Eneze1, believe it or not, MAJORITY of married men cheat not because they want to, but because their madam at home is ''fucking up''

it's not necessarily because the madam are fu*cking up, it's because they feel they are polygamous in nature. I have a colleague at work that always talks about different style his wife use to satisfy him, yet he still has a gf at work that they are virtually living together now
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by andrewoche2(m): 10:23am On Feb 02, 2015
U beta change frm chasing maried men cos dat man wil eva leav u cos he is nt ur own man
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by staymore: 10:24am On Feb 02, 2015
Setaje:
See you people talking like kids. Am not saying adultery is good . But please life is not a one way traffic like everybody sees it. I have seen women who married as virgins yet their husbands still look outside, and some still looking for fruit of womb, would we now say they deserve it? I have seen repented hoes marry pastors. I see useless women marry the best set of men every weekend. Sometimes u cannot explain certain things that happens in life. A lot of men do not set out to commit adultery but it happens so does a lot of women. When it comes to matters of the heart, things are more complicated than paper talk and sometimes no matter how you try not to be caught in that situation, it happens and you have to deal wiv it. For as long as there is human interaction between both sexes in the work place, church, events and meeting, somethings will never change.

Many of you people talking don't no what your father's and mothers have done or are still doing and u cannot adequately say what u would do unless u are in that situation. We all just pray our spouses are different.
Thank you, I share the same opinion with you. Those screaming crucify her could have done worse than her own case.
The man that chased a single girl for three years is innocent abi? I feel for her because she was helpless and the he goat married man took advantage of her vulnerability after chasing for 3years.

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Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by Janetozi(f): 10:26am On Feb 02, 2015
I didn't see any tangible reason to date a married man in this story.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by Nobody: 10:39am On Feb 02, 2015
carozy112:
NIGERIANS: forming holier than thou since 1800.
1) Most of you people here are hypocrites. I know for sure that most of the girls claiming saint here don sleep with a married man at one point or the other in their fake life for whatever reason.

2) Some of them are still sleeping with married men.

3) Some will still sleep with married men.

4) As for the married guys spewing rubbish, 85% of them has girlfriendssss.

5)To the unmarried guys, there is a probability that your present girlfriend wey u dey see as saint has a married man somewhere shinning her Congo. You are probably going to get married to a coded olosho except u ain't gonna marry a Nigerian gal.

6) Most of Nigerian married men are in 1 or more serious relationships.

7) Most of the girls forming saint here are only doing so just to appear responsible to prospective magas on nairaland.

coolMost of the guys forming faithful husband material toooo......Na lie. All na acting. Na dia type dey go honeymoon wiv gf.

9)Quote me and Die.

10) I am not saying Doing Married Men is right though. WRONG IS WRONG even if everyone is doing it.
1000 likes and i agree with #7 grin

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Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by blakky97(m): 10:42am On Feb 02, 2015
jemimaa01:
I don't even want to read the post...there is no excuse for dating a married man,except of cos u want to ruin your future...imagine a wife who is faithful to her hisband and does everything possible to make her husband happy,then you and the useless husband wld now be causing the woman heartbreak and misery....well God punish all the ladies chasing after married men knowingly.
the same people will be crying against sharia. if your neighbour was stonned to death for adultry in ur presence I dont s3e what you will love In a married man.

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Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by scribble: 10:46am On Feb 02, 2015
maryhaam:
you know we apply lots of sentiment in this part of the world,morally is wrong.......the wives also have a role to play,tame ur husband,as per people saying I didn't date people husbnd don't date mine,guard him meticulously,men love varieties accept or not.dont quote me


its funny to me because everyone knows Nigerian men are polygmous

I was just telling my wife to be about one babe that promised me her "virginity" tomorrow

And I said I declined the offer because

1. I dont want to hurt her so close to nuptials
2. I have nothing to offer any side chick because Im preparing to get married and all my emotional, physical and financial resources are booked

I have no other love to give...my wife drains me consistently...she is too lovable

But truth is the other night I was drunk and outside the babe's hostel...she would have come outside if I had told her I was coming earlier...I happened to be passing by after going to drop off another girl (friend) at her hostel

If the babe had come out that night...I may not have been able to have said conversation honestly with my babe with me appearing SAINT

So men are fickle...its never the womans fault...even a woman that is deliberately being seductive can be turned down...but MEN just like poking something exotic from time to time

Exotic meaning different...CHANGE
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by Olutola88(m): 10:50am On Feb 02, 2015
jackpot:
All married women in the house this post is for you

Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo! wink
*This kind girl na ihm I wan marry*
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by sigmundfreud(m): 10:58am On Feb 02, 2015
jackpot:
All married women in the house this post is for you

Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo! wink
JACKPOT!
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by nairabetguru(m): 11:00am On Feb 02, 2015
Brymo:
i can't stop laffin. Rich background my foot. When God starts to punish you, even husband u will not find. Shiyo.


It is only gold diggers dat hang around with married men
Its as simple as ABC but many fail to realize this..... Its a shame how many people noadays confuse love with "guilty Pleasurez"
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by maryhaam(f): 11:04am On Feb 02, 2015
scribble:



its funny to me because everyone knows Nigerian men are polygmous

I was just telling my wife to be about one babe that promised me her "virginity" tomorrow

And I said I declined the offer because

1. I dont want to hurt her so close to nuptials
2. I have nothing to offer any side chick because Im preparing to get married and all my emotional, physical and financial resources are booked

I have no other love to give...my wife drains me consistently...she is too lovable

But truth is the other night I was drunk and outside the babe's hostel...she would have come outside if I had told her I was coming earlier...I happened to be passing by after going to drop off another girl (friend) at her hostel

If the babe had come out that night...I may not have been able to have said conversation honestly with my babe with me appearing SAINT

So men are fickle...its never the womans fault...even a woman that is deliberately being seductive can be turned down...but MEN just like poking something exotic from time to time

Exotic meaning different...CHANGE
love the drain aspect,what I tell my male friend is everyone can steal,is just our level of covetousness and greed,nyone could fall prey,nobody holy,all the best in your wedding preparation.hugz
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by Ericardo7(m): 11:05am On Feb 02, 2015
Whether he takes care of "madam" or not, the fact remains that What you're doing is wrong. You're committing a grave sin.
No go dey catch witch when your own marriage doesn't work out sha. That's not the devil in action. It's the prayers of the man's poor wife at work.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by scribble: 11:13am On Feb 02, 2015
maryhaam:
love the drain aspect,what I tell my male friend is everyone can steal,is just our level of covetousness and greed,nyone could fall prey,nobody holy,all the best in your wedding preparation.hugz

and i tell women friends

nobody is falling prey...men like to do the thing...but some men are just more selective than others

thus they have fewer opportunities
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by maryhaam(f): 11:24am On Feb 02, 2015
scribble:


and i tell women friends

nobody is falling prey...men like to do the thing...but some men are just more selective than others

thus they have fewer opportunities
hmmmm dt ssome cool point,no matter ow strict,one loose guard attimes, we learn vryday thou,thnks fr dt
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by David4best(m): 11:43am On Feb 02, 2015
Almost 70% of Edo State young girls date married men. Some will say they don't need umarried young guys until they are prepared to settle down in marriage. Their parents justify the act by thanking those married men for d money and gift those married men are giving their daughters. They are saying young guys are not spending enough money for them. There are many broke guys and unemployed/under employed graduate without a girl friend. The rate at which girls in Edo State are demanding money from guys in Benin City is alarming. At least #1000 for transport fare if they come to your house whereas d normal to and fro t-fare is not more than #200. At least #3000-#5000 for their make-up which is atleast 3 times a month. U must take the U must buy new phone for them. They will lie to u that their phone is not good. U must take them to MR. BIZ 2 to 3 times before they will accept your proposal for relationship. Some will be asking to know your monthly salary in order to know how to demand from u. Some are boasting they can never collect anything less than #1000 or #2000 from a guy. They don't care to know whether your salary is very small or big. They only break those. Principles when they are over 30yrs.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by vega84(m): 11:44am On Feb 02, 2015
Dear ops,as u are enjoying another woman's man remeber that what goes around comes around! Dnt come here 2morw and complain on Hw ur husband is cheating on u wit a single gal.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by omogemi: 11:56am On Feb 02, 2015
lalasticlala:
Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know They Are Sometimes Not At Fault For Dating Their Husbands






http://www.ladunliadinews.com/2015/02/single-lady-wants-married-women-to-know.html?m=1


take a good look at urself and ask why that married man has not 'married' u if he 'loves' u. obvoiusly, u r just his plaything; his sex object. no sane man will leave his wife for any single girl. i dont knw why u single girls cannot build a realationship with single guys/ur boyfriends that can lead to marriage. u are busy sleeping around with another womans husband at the same time keeping ur boyfriend on one syd; a case of eating ur cake and having it. looking for a ready made man and not a struggling one. . . no wonder ur boyfriend left u. he obviously saw that u are not a wife material.
so if u are not in for d money what are u in for. . . sex?? . dont worry what goes around comes around. ur own husband will do it to u- that is if u ll ever get married coz i doubt if any guy will ever want to marry u after 'married man' don turn u to old hag finish.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by Missmossy(f): 12:09pm On Feb 02, 2015
This still doesn't justify their immoral actions undecided Some people say its a free world anyway.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by gemini35(m): 12:19pm On Feb 02, 2015
rubey:
I am not chasing after any married man now o. Any lady that will chase after my future husband,let the fire from above consume her in advance! >
rubey
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by tintingz(m): 12:37pm On Feb 02, 2015
Polygamy is the answer. smiley

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Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by tnktosin(m): 12:52pm On Feb 02, 2015
jackpot:
All married women in the house this post is for you

Sex is holy within marriage, & there is no prescribed style. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran does it say that the missionary position is the only sexual style. Not discussing sex in a relationship leads to separation! Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual pleasures in clubs and brothels, or with girlfriends. Have you ever asked yourself what those ladies have that you don't? Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with their panties on. If you're a married woman, you should sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband. Today you find men going out of their way to get a glimpse of a vagina. They page through magazines and even go to lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's hidden under panties, because their wives hide it from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do some modelling to tempt her husband. There are many married women who don't know what their husbands' "kobokos" look like. They only feel it when he enters her. They always switch off d lights before undressing. The koboko is a wife's toy - she is supposed to play with it. I blame couples for not making time for sex & complaining about being tired after work. You find couple who've been sexually starved for years.

WHO SAID U CAN ONLY HAVE SEX AT NIGHT?
Why not drive home during lunch and have a quickie wit your husband?

Pls, it just a piece of advice; me i dont know anything oo! wink
God bless your father
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by eyinjuege: 1:19pm On Feb 02, 2015
rubey:
I am not chasing after any married man now o. Any lady that will chase after my future husband,let the fire from above consume her in advance! angry

What of a situation where your husband chases after single ladies?
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by eyinjuege: 1:27pm On Feb 02, 2015
blakky97:

the same people will be crying against sharia. if your neighbour was stonned to death for adultry in ur presence I dont s3e what you will love In a married man.

Sharia permits polygamy. Of course before marrying another wife you are allowed to court them. Provided you dont have intercourse.
Re: Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know Why They Date Their Husbands by kelobestline(m): 1:58pm On Feb 02, 2015
[quote author=lalasticlala post=30331337][b]Single Lady Wants Married Women To Know They Are Sometimes Not At Fault For Dating Their Husbands[/b]indeed a super story.






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