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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Bonapart(m): 3:15pm On Feb 10, 2015
F*uck all these everyday list about relationships all the time. Life isn't about relationship alone. I hvnt seen any list on how to gain and know God more..... F*uck ur list once more

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by alotofgrace(m): 3:16pm On Feb 10, 2015
wll
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Burger01(m): 3:16pm On Feb 10, 2015
All this wahala self..
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by eHustler(m): 3:16pm On Feb 10, 2015
I dey come first
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:18pm On Feb 10, 2015
These are not mistakes
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:19pm On Feb 10, 2015
You know the only mistake i make? I spend more time in the Studio than with her. Buh young nigga's gat to make that money to be able to survive. sad sad
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Penboy: 3:20pm On Feb 10, 2015
Okay. Noted.


+++++MODIFIED+++++
#6. you dint give her enough money she wanted. This can make her to entertain the idea of cheating on you. She has needs to be taken care of. Do your responsibility as a man. Then the relationship would definitely be "smoothier".
tongue
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by sirnoah(m): 3:21pm On Feb 10, 2015
U re right OP#...Value what u have Before "had I know" starts knocking on your door!
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:23pm On Feb 10, 2015
ilotriouzAY:
1. You Don’t Fight For Her.

No matter how much you love each other, disagreements are an inevitable part of being in a relationship. Men often make the mistake of fighting against their partner rather than fighting for her. A man who fights for his partner makes her feel safe and cared for.

2. You Never Took Time To Study Her.

Though men are often all-too-aware that the women they’re in relationships with are complex, they often make the mistake of relying on surface knowledge in the way they relate to their partner without really understanding her.

3. You Ain’t Trustworthy.

Nothing destroys a relationship more quickly or more thoroughly than doing something that breaks down your partner’s trust in you. Nothing cultivates a relationship more than being dependable.

4. You Never Made Her A Queen.

Many relationships suffer when the woman begins to feel either unimportant or less important than something else. The best relationships are often cultivated most by the value a man places on the woman he loves.

5. Your Didn’t Take Her To Different Places.

Relationships can grow stale when dating becomes routine by doing the same things over and over. Studies have shown that couples who spend their time trying out new activities are generally healthier.

What do u think??
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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:24pm On Feb 10, 2015
ilotriouzAY:
1. You Don’t Fight For Her.

No matter how much you love each other, disagreements are an inevitable part of being in a relationship. Men often make the mistake of fighting against their partner rather than fighting for her. A man who fights for his partner makes her feel safe and cared for.

2. You Never Took Time To Study Her.

Though men are often all-too-aware that the women they’re in relationships with are complex, they often make the mistake of relying on surface knowledge in the way they relate to their partner without really understanding her.

3. You Ain’t Trustworthy.

Nothing destroys a relationship more quickly or more thoroughly than doing something that breaks down your partner’s trust in you. Nothing cultivates a relationship more than being dependable.

4. You Never Made Her A Queen.

Many relationships suffer when the woman begins to feel either unimportant or less important than something else. The best relationships are often cultivated most by the value a man places on the woman he loves.

5. Your Didn’t Take Her To Different Places.

Relationships can grow stale when dating becomes routine by doing the same things over and over. Studies have shown that couples who spend their time trying out new activities are generally healthier.

What do u think??
....thump up my nigga....nice 1 cool if I TRULY love her, fight 4 her n if otherwise, let her GO Ooooo cool
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by AreaFada2: 3:24pm On Feb 10, 2015
FredHandsome:
How can you make a gold-digger bitc.h a queen? U dey craze?
.

Let dem dey yan for there.

A girl who wants your money for everything: fake hair, school fees, rent, iPhone, transport money.

The first thing is MOST girls fail to earn their man's respect. By being too needy, demanding, attitude and displaying inordinate sense of entitlement.
And all they have to offer is sex. Commercialised sex in fact.

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ilotriouzAY(m): 3:25pm On Feb 10, 2015
bushdoc9919:

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U are welcome
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ilotriouzAY(m): 3:25pm On Feb 10, 2015
omojoshy:
....thump up my nigga....nice cool

Tanks
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by tziz(m): 3:26pm On Feb 10, 2015
Tallesty1:
If your senses are still intact then it is not love. Love turn off other senses.
Can't let luv turn off my senses, i'd rather put my senses on stand-by mode with back-up incase of general failure. Lol
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ePUNK: 3:27pm On Feb 10, 2015
if we keep trying to adopt all the attributes and in some cases fantasies of western society. we may end-up like them

higher divorce rates
society that deflates a man's natural ego

please go and find out why we have alot of expatriates marrying Nigerian women

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Penboy: 3:28pm On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:


You are what you attract.
hmm. Really? Is that always the case??
Sometimes "like poles repel while unlike poles attract". #ThatsIfYoureAPhyiscist.
Or why do ugly girls get attracted to hans guys?
grin
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by K9blunt(f): 3:29pm On Feb 10, 2015
iceberylin:
How can i make her a queen undecided
My papa no be king

nope but it means you were raised by a queen.

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by lovala(m): 3:30pm On Feb 10, 2015
what of woman wey no gree make her man chop im tin for more than a year. she no dey gree kiss but at d same time want make her husband d worship am. dat one korrect?
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by dahreyM: 3:30pm On Feb 10, 2015
6. requesting for her nude picture.
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by savio93(m): 3:30pm On Feb 10, 2015
me no get babe
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by unapologetic: 3:31pm On Feb 10, 2015
If i do the aforelisted for a Naija girl ehn, Make I bend
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by ilotriouzAY(m): 3:32pm On Feb 10, 2015
tziz:

Can't let luv turn off my senses, i'd rather put my senses on stand-by mode with back-up incase of general failure. Lol

grin grin grin
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by iyky(m): 3:36pm On Feb 10, 2015
Serious true talk......walking on it...but will she be queen while am not King?... lol
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by harffie(m): 3:37pm On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:
undecided They'll never learn made

Nigerian men, unromantic since ........
n how many have you encountered?

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Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by liquiddeep: 3:47pm On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:
undecided They'll never learn jare

Nigerian men, unromantic since ........
Same as your FATHER.
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by crownprince102: 3:47pm On Feb 10, 2015
MzNelly:
undecided They'll never learn jare

Nigerian men, unromantic since ........
hope ur boyfriend is a togolese or Guinean grin
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:48pm On Feb 10, 2015
iceberylin:
How can i make her a queen undecided
My papa no be king
u done reach here again
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Mattpopson101: 3:49pm On Feb 10, 2015
@OP

5. Your Didn’t Take Her To Different Places.

What if you are broke niqqa. where would u take her?


ilotriouzAY:
1. You Don’t Fight For Her.

No matter how much you love each other, disagreements are an inevitable part of being in a relationship. Men often make the mistake of fighting against their partner rather than fighting for her. A man who fights for his partner makes her feel safe and cared for.

2. You Never Took Time To Study Her.

Though men are often all-too-aware that the women they’re in relationships with are complex, they often make the mistake of relying on surface knowledge in the way they relate to their partner without really understanding her.

3. You Ain’t Trustworthy.

Nothing destroys a relationship more quickly or more thoroughly than doing something that breaks down your partner’s trust in you. Nothing cultivates a relationship more than being dependable.

4. You Never Made Her A Queen.

Many relationships suffer when the woman begins to feel either unimportant or less important than something else. The best relationships are often cultivated most by the value a man places on the woman he loves.

5. Your Didn’t Take Her To Different Places.

Relationships can grow stale when dating becomes routine by doing the same things over and over. Studies have shown that couples who spend their time trying out new activities are generally healthier.

What do u think??
Re: 5 Major Mistakes Nigerian Men Make In A Relationship by Akalia(m): 3:49pm On Feb 10, 2015
If not for bearing children and sexual gratification, women are dispensable, cos at the end of the day, they bring more burdens on men.

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