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Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Holywizard: 9:25pm On Feb 11, 2015
Hello my fellow nairalanders...
I recently caught two of my neighbour's kids aged 10 & 13 having sex & i flogged & punished them. But de funniest part is that de kids are sexually exposed.

What is bothering me is that...should I tell their parents & On what ways should I tell them because the parents might take it against me/might not believe me.

What is ur take on that?

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by misfab(f): 9:31pm On Feb 11, 2015
first offs..are they siblings shocked and yeah...u hav to tel their parents. they r too young to b into such.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by baby124: 9:35pm On Feb 11, 2015
Separate them and ask each of them who taught who to do it. Ask the teacher where they learn't it from before you tell their parents. You need to get to the root of who the abuser is so that they can get the person arrested. Someone abused one of those kids, or they saw their parents doing it.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Vision4God: 9:38pm On Feb 11, 2015
OP if u love dem, tel der parents. Try get close 2d kids & know wat de c,read and how der parents relate wt dem all round.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by nairalife2013(m): 9:42pm On Feb 11, 2015
The parents may be ashamed of themselves if u speak to them. seeing this befall them , they may feel guilty of failing to lead the kids in the "proper way" and recall it each time they see u. I sugest u have a bit of patience in telling and rather talk to the kids about the enormity of thier shameful action and warn them not to ever do it again or thier parents will certainly be informed. It could be thier parents do it in thier presence, it could be they saw it somewhere else etc. If the girl is the elder, talk to her sternly and paint a picture of public disgrace over such act and let them know satan gets into bad kids minds to perpetuate such morbid act and ask her how she enjoys satan dwelling in her heart. Pray for them.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by mutter(f): 9:44pm On Feb 11, 2015
You had no right to flog them.

You should report them to their parents immediately. They are responsible for the children and need to know.
If they believe it or not is no longer your problem.

For God`s sake don`t go asking their teacher or anyone else. That is wrong because the kid`s are not in your care.
You know I was just trying to imagine you catching them and flogging them there. It is a perverse picture,

This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by MARKone(m): 9:50pm On Feb 11, 2015
Holywizard:
Hello my fellow nairalanders...
I recently caught two of my neighbour's kids aged 10 & 13 having sex & i flogged & punished them. But de funniest part is that de kids are sexually exposed.

What is bothering me is that...should I tell their parents & On what ways should I tell them because the parents might take it against me/might not believe me.

What is ur take on that?

You shouldn't have flogged them, just drag them at that very moment to their parents, let them deal with them, the way they deem fit, by that your conscience will be cleared, by bringing the inglorious act to the parents attention.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by cococandy(f): 9:52pm On Feb 11, 2015
Tell their parents

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by emeraldoe(f): 9:57pm On Feb 11, 2015
No need to think about it. Jst go straight and tell their parents. But u shudnt av flogged dem

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by watered(m): 9:59pm On Feb 11, 2015
misfab:
first offs..are they siblings shocked and yeah...u hav to tel their parents. they r too young to b into such.
because dey wia caught abi? What abt d ones dat are at large enjoying demselves.

Bros since u don flog and punish dem, just forget am but warn dem seriously abt d consequences of a repeat.

Also debrief dem abt d ills of what dey are doing, tell dem why its wrong. Cite scriptures and d health implication.

In future doz kids will love and respect u. Dey will as well trust u.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Toktee(m): 10:13pm On Feb 11, 2015
mutter:
You had no right to flog them.

You should report them to their parents immediately. They are responsible for the children and need to know.
If they believe it or not is no longer your problem.

For God`s sake don`t go asking their teacher or anyone else. That is wrong because the kid`s are not in your care.
You know I was just trying to imagine you catching them and flogging them there. It is a perverse picture,

This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.
what do you mean by "he has no right to flog them?
With that statement i know that you are a teenager,grow up

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by tolugar: 10:21pm On Feb 11, 2015
If u re a vag"in go ahead and report them

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by mutter(f): 10:22pm On Feb 11, 2015
Toktee:
what do you me by "he has no right to flog them?
With that statement i knw that you are a teanager,grow up

How I wish I could be a kid again grin
You would need to spend the whole night and more turning back the hands of time.

He has no right to flog them because they are not his kid`s. The kid`s are not under his care. He is not related to them in any way.

No matter what they did there is no justification.

This jungle justice approach is barbaric.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by soulglo: 10:32pm On Feb 11, 2015
OP, what exactly did you see? I'm just asking because many times people do not think before they speak.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by soulglo: 10:34pm On Feb 11, 2015
Toktee:
what do you me by "he has no right to flog them?
With that statement i knw that you are a teanager,grow up

Why do you feel that you could put your hands on someone else's kid? Not only could you go to jail for that, you might end up with your own ass whooping before you go to jail

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Holywizard: 11:19pm On Feb 11, 2015
misfab:
first offs..are they siblings shocked and yeah...u hav to tel their parents. they r too young to b into such.
they re nt siblings.
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Holywizard: 11:21pm On Feb 11, 2015
tolugar:
If u re a vag"in go ahead and report them
be serious!! no matter hw bad/holy i claim to be it does nt affect de fact dat dey re still very young

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Holywizard: 11:24pm On Feb 11, 2015
Vision4God:
OP if u love dem, tel der parents. Try get close 2d kids & know wat de c,read and how der parents relate wt dem all round.
de parents might attact me directly/indirectly. I knw de kind of pple dey re.
They two families carry Church foundations 4 head
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by soulglo: 11:35pm On Feb 11, 2015
Holywizard:
they re nt siblings.

So they are children from two different neighbors? I still think you should tell the parents. It's funny how you have no problem hitting someone else's child but you are afraid to tell their parents of their behavior.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Holywizard: 11:47pm On Feb 11, 2015
soulglo:


So they are children from two different neighbors? I still think you should tell the parents. It's funny how you have no problem hitting someone else's child but you are afraid to tell their parents of their behavior.
if on a very gud day i touched de kids when they're on de right path eeeh...and they reported it to their parents. Hell will loose on the entire street because dey will nt try 2 hunt me down only, but make sure everybody start seeing me as a child abuser

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 12:22am On Feb 12, 2015
mutter:
You had no right to flog them.

You should report them to their parents immediately. They are responsible for the children and need to know.
If they believe it or not is no longer your problem.

For God`s sake don`t go asking their teacher or anyone else. That is wrong because the kid`s are not in your care.
You know I was just trying to imagine you catching them and flogging them there. It is a perverse picture,

This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.
who else read this bulcrap

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by fr3do(m): 2:23am On Feb 12, 2015
mutter:



This kind of thinks happens among siblings, it actually occurs at a much younger age- not sex but the curiosity about each others bodies.

That it developed into this is because there was neglect and lack of parental care.

Tufiakwa! You paint inccest in such a mild light.
Do not attribute such an abominable act to curiosity.

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by missdebs(f): 3:31am On Feb 12, 2015
put yourself in the parents shoe...there you go, you have your answer

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by bewla(m): 4:17am On Feb 12, 2015
its right to no move they of the same parent that make it two
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by bewla(m): 4:19am On Feb 12, 2015
its there right to no. more over they are of the same parent that make it two
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 4:35am On Feb 12, 2015
It happens. No surprises.
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 4:38am On Feb 12, 2015
congratulation!
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 4:42am On Feb 12, 2015
Holywizard:
Hello my fellow nairalanders...
I recently caught two of my neighbour's kids aged 10 & 13 having sex & i flogged & punished them. But de funniest part is that de kids are sexually exposed.

What is bothering me is that...should I tell their parents & On what ways should I tell them because the parents might take it against me/might not believe me.

What is ur take on that?
Holywizzard or whitch, first off, I’d like to
congratulate
you for penning an eye catching title
there. ;o)I’ve volunteered in SE DC before, I
know exactly what you’re talking about.what
size is d kid boy d!ck?may be bigger than u think
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 4:50am On Feb 12, 2015
sex position? standing $peepin or goat stye
Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Nobody: 5:28am On Feb 12, 2015
Who are these 'You shouldnt have flooged them' people

Op...Go ahead and involve their parents

I was part of a bible club holiday teaching for children of primary school age
It baffled me when these children started dropping condoms, pornography, etc after different sections of counselling.
The confessions were shocked

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by Bebetter: 6:04am On Feb 12, 2015
[size=14pt]10 and 13! forget, these ones don spoil finish...

possible causes: Natural naughtiness, someone forgot bluefilm in the dvd, careless parents having sex, houseboy/housegirl teach them, school and friends house they go to, too much protection/seclution not allowing them to mix with their peers, stupid homevideos especially the ghana ones.... the list is endless. parents need to be careful. [/size]

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Re: Caught My Neighbour's Kids Having Sex...should I Tell Their Parents? by idu1(m): 6:09am On Feb 12, 2015
Smh.... For all these u shouldn't ve flogged them people.

Don't tell their parents counsel them on your own.

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