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10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Djicemob: 1:48pm On Feb 12, 2015
I notice that SOME girls dont seem to really know what they want and what bothers them atimes.A girl cant help but contravene herself in many ways.One minute she wants this,if you give her this,she wants that and the circle continues.Take for instance the points am going to highlight below...

1.A Couples in a relationship.If the guy gets jealous easily the girl says he is inmature and insecure,why get jealous when there should be TRUST,and so it becomes a problem.

2.If you dont get jealous easily,the girl says you dont love her enough to protect her from other men.She says you dont take her serious and in most cases accuse you(the guy) of making her the side chick since you dont care if he flirts with other men or not.

3.She ask you if she looks good in that new dress and you say "yes",it becomes a problem.She says you might be lying and you are not sincere,that you might just be saying so to impress her and so the arguments starts.

4.If you say she doesnt look good in that new dress,it becomes a bigger problem.You just hurt her feelings,She says you are a jerk for not complimenting her,she did all that/this(buying the new dress and trying to look good)for you but this is what she gets in return,resulting to more arguments.

5.If you say you love her,she says you dont mean it,you might just be saying it to please her.She ask you to say it like you mean it(Like what?).I mean,how do you say "i love you" like you mean it? Shed a tear? go down on your knees? while saying it...Or in the case when its on an online chat,you type it out in uppercases?

6.If you dont say you love her,you are in for a Boko haram type of trouble.You are bombarded with a truck load of nagging.She says you are not a bit romantic,you dont express your feelings to her and so on...In some cases,she commands or challenges you to say you love her(This mostly happens at the end of phone conversations)

7.If you check up on her or call her up often to enquire how she's doing,it slowly becomes a problem,she says you dont have a life and you are too attached,you are stalking her and you should learn to give her space.

8.If you dont check up on her often,it becomes a problem of "you are not caring", "you dont call", "you dont take me seriously" and so on...

9.This point is actually surprising and confusing to even me,but some people would understand what i mean sha.If you are glued to only her,it becomes a problem(confusing right?) Lemme make it clear,if other girls are not attracted to you it becomes a problem for her ego and complex,she take it that there is nothing special about you for other girls to want,you are not attractive as far as you cant attract other girls.She basically want other girls to be envious of her for having you but if not,she gradually becomes tired of you and maybe dump your azz for a more ladies man(can you imagine?).In a nutshell,she wants you to cheat but dont want you to cheat? Lol.

10.If girls flock around you,it becomes another problem.She says you are a playboy,a cheat,a flirt.She says you are not a boyfriend material,you can break her heart easily and all that.It gradually becomes a NAGGING problem for you...irrespective of the fact that those girls might just be your friends. wink

My guys,what would it take to understand these sets of people? To make it worst,we cant do without them,we love them like that. angry cry kiss

Abeg add yours if you will
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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by BeeBeeOoh(m): 1:54pm On Feb 12, 2015
She said you are not romantic, you got her a flower on valentines day & she's like, "Just Flower's?? Yes! That's 1 xteristic of being romantic..

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 1:58pm On Feb 12, 2015
Book on how to understand girls/ladies/women. . .

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by blueandbirds(m): 2:02pm On Feb 12, 2015
Well said @op you jus hit the nail on the head, shout out to all the mamalets worldwide despite there foolishness and stupidity we still love dem lol no offence tho*

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by djeezy(m): 2:05pm On Feb 12, 2015
Interesting.
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Djicemob: 2:17pm On Feb 12, 2015
Blackett:
Book on how to understand girls/ladies/women. . .
Who cm write dey book? grin

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 2:17pm On Feb 12, 2015
lol,thumb up for ur list op!so so true.#guilty of all tho* embarassed

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 2:20pm On Feb 12, 2015
Blackett:
Book on how to understand girls/ladies/women. . .
lmao!written and edited by Blackett tongue
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Djicemob: 2:23pm On Feb 12, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
She said you are not romantic, you got her a flower on valentines day & she's like, "Just Flower's?? Yes! That's 1 xteristic of being romantic..
Funny part is when you buy her an iphone6 on vals day and she returns the favour with a banana republic boxers grin ...and you are like,what!!!? Then she says "Gift dont mean anything,what matters is a loving heart" grin grin grin

angry

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 2:25pm On Feb 12, 2015
prettythicksme:
lmao!written and edited by Blackett tongue
Una wahala too much.
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Djicemob: 2:26pm On Feb 12, 2015
prettythicksme:
lol,thumb up for ur list op!so so true.#guilty of all tho* embarassed
Lol.We still love you that way. kiss
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 2:30pm On Feb 12, 2015
blueandbirds:
Well said @op you jus hit the nail on the head, shout out to all the mamalets worldwide despite there foolishness and stupidity we still love dem lol no offence tho*

If no be say u don add no offence, d kain thing i for do u?! angry

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 2:31pm On Feb 12, 2015
Women get problem sha...even themselves know. The best way to deal with it, is to be firm sometimes. When u knw u re doing the right thing, jst be firm about it. Eg. She says u dnt attract other women, jst ignore her since u dnt want to cheat on her. Sometimes, u need to tell her that what' she's saying doesnt make sense.

At other times u jst have to play along and make her happy. E.g. When she says u dnt mean the 'i love you' u said. Then u have to say it how she wants it.

It all amounts to balance. Knowing when to be firm and when to pamper.

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Odunharry(m): 2:32pm On Feb 12, 2015
prettythicksme:
lol,thumb up for ur list op!so so true.#guilty of all tho* embarassed
no wonder..i 4 say
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Enegod(m): 2:32pm On Feb 12, 2015
another nice guy thread undecided

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by yemicoal(m): 2:34pm On Feb 12, 2015
Lol.. grin, op you are so on point... Ladies can be confusing, m yet to see that Lady that knows what she really wants. They are all d same angry
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by BeeBeeOoh(m): 2:37pm On Feb 12, 2015
Djicemob:
Funny part is when you buy her an iphone6 on vals day and she returns the favour with a banana republic boxers grin ...and you are like,what!!!? Then she says "Gift dont mean anything,what matters is a loving heart" grin grin grin

angry
tonda faya devul. Dis is a true definition of "Monkey Dey Work Baboon Dey Chop..

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by elantraceey(f): 2:38pm On Feb 12, 2015
Not all ladies!!!!!

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Djicemob: 2:48pm On Feb 12, 2015
elantraceey:
Not all ladies!!!!!
Though Quite a lot of them have these attributes
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Djicemob: 2:50pm On Feb 12, 2015
Enegod:
another nice guy thread undecided
Thanks.I tire for these girls matter atimes.

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 2:52pm On Feb 12, 2015
elantraceey:
Not all ladies!!!!!
You're making me believe you've never sent confusing signals to someone before.

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Djicemob: 2:55pm On Feb 12, 2015
vfactor:
Women get problem sha...even themselves know. The best way to deal with it, is to be firm sometimes. When u knw u re doing the right thing, jst be firm about it. Eg. She says u dnt attract other women, jst ignore her since u dnt want to cheat on her. Sometimes, u need to tell her that what' she's saying doesnt make sense.

At other times u jst have to play along and make her happy. E.g. When she says u dnt mean the 'i love you' u said. Then u have to say it how she wants it.

It all amounts to balance. Knowing when to be firm and when to pamper.
The problem is,how do you say i love you like she wants? How would you know how she wants it?

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 2:56pm On Feb 12, 2015
Blackett:
Book on how to understand girls/ladies/women. . .
grin can i get a copy for my future wife? Women are men's greatest 'cross', Carry them like 'eggs'! grin shout out the real women out there! wink

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 2:56pm On Feb 12, 2015
soooooo true
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 3:00pm On Feb 12, 2015
Odunharry:

no wonder..i 4 say
no wonder what? grin
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Djicemob: 3:00pm On Feb 12, 2015
diddydiva:
soooooo true
wink ThankGod you know. cheesy
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by lordraiden(m): 3:01pm On Feb 12, 2015
These being called gals have been complicated since d time of moses,dey only upgraded d complications,

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 3:02pm On Feb 12, 2015
Djicemob:
Lol.We still love you that way. kiss
If u dont love us the way we are then who will? cheesy

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Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 3:04pm On Feb 12, 2015
Blackett:
Una wahala too much.
hehehehe dont mind me dear.
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Odunharry(m): 3:04pm On Feb 12, 2015
prettythicksme:
no wonder what? grin
no worry...i no what to do
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 3:06pm On Feb 12, 2015
Djicemob:
wink ThankGod you know. cheesy
grin
Re: 10 Confusing Behaviours Of Girls/Ladies by Nobody: 3:17pm On Feb 12, 2015
Djicemob:
The problem is,how do you say i love you like she wants? How would you know how she wants it?

You ask her how she would want it, and let her say it. Most times the question will show her that she doesnt really knw what she's asking. However if she manages to give u a pattern on how to say it, just follow along. It might sound awkward to you, but with practice, u'll get used to it. wink

Women re very delicate, we have to learn how to manage dem so as to enjoy them and they too enjoy us. And i'm learning everyday.

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