Meringe:
I was molested too by a maid/sister of our neighbor. Till today, it's still like it happened today. That was around 1990,1991 1992. The feelings was something I couldn't understand them. She called me in her room and sent nephews and niece away to play. She asked me to climb on her, I did without knowing what was going on. My little man was just touching d tin without much impact.
God have mercy.

That's sad.. I bet you were very little then...

francizy:


That's sad.. I bet you were very little then...

Was in primary two then. I should be 6 or 7 years then.

Meringe:

Was in primary two then. I should be 6 or 7 years then.

You were really little then.. But I hope you're getting over it?

francizy:


You were really little then.. But I hope you're getting over it?

It didn't affect me like yours though it left a scar on my life that I can't forget that a lady about 6 or 7 years older than me took my innocence, I was followed up with mom strict rules to religious life and I was also faced with no option than to follow my older siblings footsteps, who were/are morally strict but it didn't stop me entirely from d fantasies of the feeling I was introduced to.
When I was growing up, I was inducted in a belief that any immoral and sinful life will attract failure in academic and in future . I was the least in my class at some point , I was booed at home by my friends then and my siblings who were taking the best position, I had to cry to God, I cried every night and morning as little as 8, 9 years begging God to forgive my act with the maid and to make me intelligent. I was depressed and God answered my prayer , I was changed from the public school to a private school in 1993, I took a better position after a term and I later took the 1st position; my experience with my friends and siblings laughing at me for taking the last position killed any urge to continue with the life I was introduced to. Long story. God have mercy.

Meringe:

It didn't affect me like yours though it left a scar on my life that I can't forget that a lady about 6 or 7 years older than me took my innocence, I was followed up with mom strict rules to religious life and I was also faced with no option than to follow my older siblings footsteps, who were/are morally strict but it didn't stop me entirely from d fantasies of the feeling I was introduced to.
When I was growing up, I was inducted in a belief that any immoral and sinful life will attract failure in academic and in future . I was the least in my class at some point , I was booed at home by my friends then and my siblings who were taking the best position, I had to cry to God, I cried every night and morning as little as 8, 9 years begging God to forgive my act with the maid and to make me intelligent. I was depressed and God answered my prayer , I was changed from the public school to a private school in 1993, I took a better position after a term and I later took the 1st position; my experience with my friends and siblings laughing at me for taking the last position killed any urge to continue with the life I was introduced to. Long story. God have mercy.

Wow.. Happy for you bro..

I had a similar experience tho I didn't pick up in my academics till my degree program when I started topping my department..

I did fairly well in primary school, but my secondary school grades weren't that good...

From your story and mine, I wouldn't be wrong to say that child molestation not only affects one's sexual urge, it also affects one's academics

francizy:


Wow.. Happy for you bro..

I had a similar experience tho I didn't pick up in my academics till my degree program when I started topping my department..

I did fairly well in primary school, but my secondary school grades weren't that good...

From your story and mine, I wouldn't be wrong to say that child molestation not only affects one's sexual urge, it also affects one's academics

It affects. Our people use to say that if a child didn't come of age before tying wrapper, if breeze blows, it will carry him and the wrapper away. There is time for everything, I strongly believe. Though it might not be the case for every abused child but it's not ruled out from any disorder in social and academic life.

francizy:


Welcome boo.. Hope things are going well for you?

Things are going well for me hope you are doing fine aswell.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY in advance.

mutter:


I am sorry I did not sympathize with you!
Yes what was done to you was evil, it was wrong.

But you see you were also not "forced" with physical force but you were still forced because pressure was mounted on you and you had no choice, their will was imposed on you.

But that does not justify your doing the same to others.
If you ask a house help to sleep with you, she would do it for fear of you maltreating her or coursing her to leave.
You just have to admit that there was no justification for what you did.

i am certainly not condemning you but also just pointing that out to you.
If you have a chance apologize to your victims.

It's psychological due to being sexually abused, studies has shown that this is how a child that has been sexually abused behaves, she/he is reacting on what was taught to them so don't blame the victim blame those despicable evil parasites walking around pretending to be human beings also known as pedo.philes. I hope they rot in hell.


Traware come and read how your sexual behavior can effect a child's life forever.

Meringe:

It didn't affect me like yours though it left a scar on my life that I can't forget that a lady about 6 or 7 years older than me took my innocence, I was followed up with mom strict rules to religious life and I was also faced with no option than to follow my older siblings footsteps, who were/are morally strict but it didn't stop me entirely from d fantasies of the feeling I was introduced to.
When I was growing up, I was inducted in a belief that any immoral and sinful life will attract failure in academic and in future . I was the least in my class at some point , I was booed at home by my friends then and my siblings who were taking the best position, I had to cry to God, I cried every night and morning as little as 8, 9 years begging God to forgive my act with the maid and to make me intelligent. I was depressed and God answered my prayer , I was changed from the public school to a private school in 1993, I took a better position after a term and I later took the 1st position; my experience with my friends and siblings laughing at me for taking the last position killed any urge to continue with the life I was introduced to. Long story. God have mercy.

I am sick to my stomach, this breaks my heart and makes me mad as hell in the same breath.
I pray you will forget this ever happend to you and live a happy rest of your life, and there is no need to ask God for his forgiveness on this matter because sweety it wasn't your fault, you did nothing wrong.
The sick poor excuse for a human being *pedo.phile* should be asking God and you for forgiveness, I'm sure you weren't her only victim. May she kiss the devil goodnite.

Wow
This is so deep

From a seperated home and lived in a face me I face u
I think I rem this neigbhour , he was a banker, married with a kid or so, called me to his room to get him some stuffs and then asked me bend down to put his thing in my mouth, put spit and suck
I didn't understand what he meant, so he actually made0me kneel down, removed his thing and pushed my head further

I was a naughty child, I was rude

He kept pushing my head further with his D in my mouth, I was choking and spitting, I cldnt take it no more I bit him hard, pushed my head and asked me leave the room


He didn't stop there as he called me in again another day but this time I said I will tell his wife, the whole compound and in fact I will scream
He thought I was joking until he tried to do it again
But no one was home
I kept thinking abt it, until this night I slpt off in their house and woke up heraring strange sounds, he was actually sucking his wifes cousins boobs, they both saw me

Next day I called anty funke that I saw what she was doing with daddy halima and I will tell, na dia the anty begin beg tell me say he don do for almost all the young gals in the compound


This is the first time am sharing this story in 24yrrs



Did it have effects on me?
Maybe yes maybe no
But then I had my first bf after secondary sch
I actually did followed mums rule that if a man comes close to u, touch/hug/kiss u will get pregnant
It did worked for me even with bilogy and all
I had this fear for my mum and I maintained it

But uni days, I guess I had to erm erm
I wldnt say I was with bad companies cos if not them, I may/ may not marry as a virgin
But in all I thank God

Meringe:

It affects. Our people use to say that if a child didn't come of age before tying wrapper, if breeze blows, it will carry him and the wrapper away. There is time for everything, I strongly believe. Though it might not be the case for every abused child but it's not ruled out from any disorder in social and academic life.

So much I've learnt right now.. Thanks for this..

khiaa:



Things are going well for me hope you are doing fine aswell.
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY in advance.

Well, am bout to sit for some tests.. Your Valentine wishes will guard my path to success on these tests hopefully..

Happy Valentine to you dear..

dytbabe:
Wow
This is so deep

From a seperated home and lived in a face me I face u
I think I rem this neigbhour , he was a banker, married with a kid or so, called me to his room to get him some stuffs and then asked me bend down to put his thing in my mouth, put spit and suck
I didn't understand what he meant, so he actually made0me kneel down, removed his thing and pushed my head further

I was a naughty child, I was rude

He kept pushing my head further with his D in my mouth, I was choking and spitting, I cldnt take it no more I bit him hard, pushed my head and asked me leave the room


He didn't stop there as he called me in again another day but this time I said I will tell his wife, the whole compound and in fact I will scream
He thought I was joking until he tried to do it again
But no one was home
I kept thinking abt it, until this night I slpt off in their house and woke up heraring strange sounds, he was actually sucking his wifes cousins boobs, they both saw me

Next day I called anty funke that I saw what she was doing with daddy halima and I will tell, na dia the anty begin beg tell me say he don do for almost all the young gals in the compound


This is the first time am sharing this story in 24yrrs



Did it have effects on me?
Maybe yes maybe no
But then I had my first bf after secondary sch
I actually did followed mums rule that if a man comes close to u, touch/hug/kiss u will get pregnant
It did worked for me even with bilogy and all
I had this fear for my mum and I maintained it

But uni days, I guess I had to erm erm
I wldnt say I was with bad companies cos if not them, I may/ may not marry as a virgin
But in all I thank God

That man really deserves to be tortured and jailed! That's disgusting of him..

All the same, I thank God you came out fine afterwards.. Some other people might have been affected badly after that day but God helped you get over it.. Am happy for you, and I pray/hope/wish your husband loves you till death, never cheats on you, never hurts you, be the perfect husband to you and the perfect dad to your kids..

Wish you the best dear..

Thank you for sharing your story. I try to protect my kids and teach them that no one is to touch their private part, but in the end it is God that will save us.

francizy:


Well, am bout to sit for some tests.. Your Valentine wishes will guard my path to success on these tests hopefully..

Happy Valentine to you dear..

Thank you and good luck with your tests.

francizy:


That man really deserves to be tortured and jailed! That's disgusting of him..

All the same, I thank God you came out fine afterwards.. Some other people might have been affected badly after that day but God helped you get over it.. Am happy for you, and I pray/hope/wish your husband loves you till death, never cheats on you, never hurts you, be the perfect husband to you and the perfect dad to your kids..

Wish you the best dear..

Lol
Amen to ur prayers
But u sound like u pitying me?


Seriously I don't even rem it but I hated men before I had a second thought

Maybe I was lucky sha

khiaa:



I am sick to my stomach, this breaks my heart and makes me mad as hell in the same breath.
I pray you will forget this ever happend to you and live a happy rest of your life, and there is no need to ask God for his forgiveness on this matter because sweety it wasn't your fault, you did nothing wrong.
The sick poor excuse for a human being *pedo.phile* should be asking God and you for forgiveness, I'm sure you weren't her only victim. May she kiss the devil goodnite.

That's life for us. I ve come to accept that fact. But I can't forget it. It rings like a bell and shows like a movie in my memory.

khiaa:


Thank you and good luck with your tests.

Thanks hun..

dytbabe:


Lol
Amen to ur prayers
But u sound like u pitying me?


Seriously I don't even rem it but I hated men before I had a second thought

Maybe I was lucky sha

Yes, you most definitely lucky

there is nothing to thank god about here.

The girl that molest you probably she was molested by someone old of her age too.

Someone has to put the idea on someone head. And the game goes on. But the funny thing is that once you tested it. Your life will never be the same again as you will want to do it further.

That's why girls molest little boys because someone did it to them as well.

Joel3:
there is nothing to thank god about here.

The girl that molest you probably she was molested by someone old of her age too.

Someone has to put the idea on someone head. And the game goes on. But the funny thing is that once you tested it. Your life will never be the same again as you will want to do it further.

That's why girls molest little boys because someone did it to them as well.

How sure are you that all the ladies who do such were molested too?

francizy:


How sure are you that all the ladies who do such were molested too?

yes very sure? Where do you think they learnt it from?

Joel3:
yes very sure? Where do you think they learnt it from?

What if they learnt it from movies?

The first person that molested me was about 22 or so, must have had sex on several ocassion before doing me.. So its possible that just being sex starved made her do what she did..

francizy:


What if they learnt it from movies?

The first person that molested me was about 22 or so, must have had sex on several ocassion before doing me.. So its possible that just being sex starved made her do what she did..

ok how I wish you are the type that molest kids then think about the circle.

She did it to you, then probably not only you.
Maybe up to 500 boys is she has her way. That will be detriment to the society.

Joel3:
ok how I wish you are the type that molest kids then think about the circle.

She did it to you, then probably not only you.
Maybe up to 500 boys is she has her way. That will be detriment to the society.

Now, am not ruling out the possibilities that she was molested, also let's not rule out the possibilities of she not having being a victim of molestation before.

if she molest 20 boys. And 10 of this boys molest 50 girls. These girls also molest 50 boys. The circle continue.

Not only that lesbian women also molest girls and end up putting the spirit of lesbainissm on them.

The circle continues.

Joel3:
if she molest 20 boys. And 10 of this boys molest 50 girls. These girls also molest 50 boys. The circle continue.

Not only that lesbian women also molest girls and end up putting the spirit of lesbainissm on them.

The circle continues.

Ur point is what now?

Dyt:


Ur point is what now?

who to blame?

Joel3:
who to blame?

And it's the victim?

Dyt:



And it's the victim?

since they are still too young to really knw what they were doing. So You cannot compare the guy now and when he was a kid? Can you.


Not forgetting that I and my friends use to have sex with girls when I was around 10years old. But the truth is that is not sex, as our dick did not enter the hole we only wined waist ontop girls.

Not until we started watching blue firm from one chair man window.

Before I learnt that the dick need to enter the hole where urine is coming out from. I was like put my dick in that hole?

then We don't really knw how to sex.

Beside some girls also romance me when I was 3 to 5 years old. they kiss and press me to their breast. Although they are older but still young to really knw the consequence. Those girls can't do that again now since they are married and have kids of their own now.

Its all part of kids play and drama. You cant tell me you don't have sex as a kid. Don't lie.

Joel3:
since they are still too young to really knw what they were doing. So You cannot compare the guy now and when he was a kid?

Its all part of kids play and drama. You cant tell me you don't have sex as a kid. Don't lie.

Like seriously did u just type this thrash?

If u are/were too lazy to read the comments at least u read the subject

This is molest young man
*hammer*

Not our usual lay on me we kids called daddy and mummy

This is u as an adult doing what we call peadophile
*strong hammer*
These ones actually put it in the right place as they are experienced
* very angry and continues hitting with hammer*

Dyt:


Like seriously did u just type this thrash?

If u are/were too lazy to read the comments at least u read the subject

This is molest young man
*hammer*

Not our usual lay on me we kids called daddy and mummy

This is u as an adult doing what we call peadophile
*strong hammer*
These ones actually put it in the right place as they are experienced
* very angry and continues hitting with hammer*