Bridgetown:
My wife has been beating me mentally and psycologically, we haven't spoken to each other for two months now. I would have actually preferred she beat me in physical than this mental torture.

malice is worse. Better to fight/ yell ,express your mind then make up right away or day after. My friend does the same. She doesn't fight her husband when he wrongs her....just ignore him for weeks. The husband go beg tire.

Its very wrong in everyway to beat ur wife, she is an adult and not a kid, there is no beating u'll beat an adult dat will change him/her. Only illiterate husband will be their wife, tell her what u need, if she has done sumtin very wrong discipline her bt not by beating her. Understand n love is the key.

Come and beat me

first of all OP shld change the beat the devil out to ONE or TWO slaps,some women do frustrate we men, I've handed my woman one or two slaps and some pushing her away from the door but after making up with her I regret and I wish I can take back my action but sometimes her AM SORRY will end d matter can b annoying @tyms and also d NAGGING part...aaaaaawwww....but try as much to walk away and if she prevents u from walking away then I will okay ONE or TWO slaps and SHOVING her away from the door path..but at the end of the day if u truly love her u will def regret it but DON'T beat the devil out ooo,only 1or2 igbaju will reset her brain and try apologise to her weda u are right or wrong after making up..

kilokeys:
i imagine a scenario where she overpowers u.. beats u to pulp, dislocates ur knee with pestle remove two teeth with frying pan..

u would still never admit ur wife beat u, would u?


u go form accident

I go shout ojoro

ccaramel:
malice is worse. Better to fight/ yell ,express your mind then make up right away or day after. My friend does the same. She doesn't fight her husband when he wrongs her....just ignore him for weeks. The husband go beg tire.

when pusssyy dey everywhere? Sweet sweet ones. Don't strangle your marriage

if she slaps me first imma reset her to her default settings

Wife beating is very wrong and so is an assault in marriage

i once slapped my hubby one day in midst of a hot quarrel, den i was waiting 4d worst to happen... to my utmost surprise, he just looked at me n went out of d room quietly, HABA!! I FELT SOOO BAD!! i ran to him immediately crying n beggin 4 4giveness.. #ILOVEYOUBOO#

XBLadez:
That's why it's good to fight ur girlfriends and determine their physical strength. Before person use mistake go marry female Klinchsko

lmao

who be this op!!!

elantraceey:
Wow , can't believe someone is harbouring thoughts of fighting even before marriage

wat of u girls that harbours divorce in ur minds before marriage?

No matter wat ur wife do to u, dnt lay ur hands on her. The best tin to do is to leave d house for dat moment. She wil b d one to call u and beg u to forgive, wen u c her 1st call dnt pick until d 3rd or 4th one den u pick, she wil b d one to ask u to cum back home.

I recommend one knock for every five slaps, make e no pass knock o. Lol.

Some ladies prefer being beaten. They say it coordinate them better

One needs only a thread like this to see how demented most of these guys are.

So she's disrespetful or rude or doing things that piss you off and the answer is to beat her up.

I pity who will end up with these deranged folks.

I know the OP was correct to say he can hit her back in self defense.
Which is a stance I share myself too.
(Even though one can practically cut the violent mindset oozing from his post with a knife. Hmm)

You can't fold your arms because you're a man and watch a violent woman pummel you to death or serious injury because you are being a gentleman

But it is amusing to see sadistic folks using the OP as cover to justify violence.
With watery excuses like 'she pushed him to the wall' 'she was disrespetful' ' she's frustrating him'

*Shudders at the generation of monsters being pushed into the the world at an alarming rate.

rationalmind:


Even when she hits me first? I should fold my hands and watch as it turns violent and she injures me?

Sorry, like I said, I'll beat that devil out of her.

U beat her u loose ur reputation b4 her & som oda piple.
Truth b told: ladies(women) dont need 2 b beaten. Der ar 1001 method 2 mk her respect n value u & she'll nevr try or evn think of raising her hand

awon eranko united plenty for nl.i am not suprised

elantraceey:
Wow , can't believe someone is harbouring thoughts of fighting even before marriage

cococandy:
One needs only a thread like this to see how demented most of these guys are.
So she's disrespetful or rude or doing things that piss you off and the answer is to beat her up.
I pity who will end up with these deranged folks.
I know the OP was correct to say he can hit her back in self defense.
Which is a stance I share myself too.
You can't fold your arms because you're a man and watch a violent woman pummel you to death or serious injury because you are being a gentleman
But it is amusing to see sadistic folks using the OP as cover to justify violence.
With watery excuses like 'she pushed him to the wall' 'she was disrespetful' ' she's frustrating him'
*Shudders at the generation of monsters being pushed into the the world at an alarming rate.

Its not this generation. It has always been like that.

Ewuro4:
Domestic violence.. The day you ( man or woman) raise your hand to hit your loved one , have it in mind that you're devalued in bits till you're completely Valuless.

Devalued in various absolute instances . Is it really worth it??

This is why exceeding patient is required when you are or have a hot tempered partner . As the matter of fact if you genuinely love someone, you'll have a second thought before hurting them.

Authentic Love does NOT devalue any human being. It shouldn't. Please pick up your overnight bag and LEAVE an irrational partner till the storm is calm.

Hmm this your paragraph was taken from the just concluded Grammys: True or false

isnt this one of the many reasos i warned you to stop arguing with some folks especially the chauvinists.many of them are animalistic and violent and they have some screws loose up in their head

cococandy:
One needs only a thread like this to see how demented most of these guys are.

So she's disrespetful or rude or doing things that piss you off and the answer is to beat her up.

I pity who will end up with these deranged folks.

I know the OP was correct to say he can hit her back in self defense.
Which is a stance I share myself too.
(Even though one can practically cut the violent mindset oozing from his post with a knife. Hmm)

You can't fold your arms because you're a man and watch a violent woman pummel you to death or serious injury because you are being a gentleman

But it is amusing to see sadistic folks using the OP as cover to justify violence.
With watery excuses like 'she pushed him to the wall' 'she was disrespetful' ' she's frustrating him'

*Shudders at the generation of monsters being pushed into the the world at an alarming rate.

Amynature:
No matter wat ur wife do to u, dnt lay ur hands on her. The best tin to do is to leave d house for dat moment. She wil b d one to call u and beg u to forgive, wen u c her 1st call dnt pick until d 3rd or 4th one den u pick, she wil b d one to ask u to cum back home.

What happens in a scenario where the man tried to leave the house and the wife held him back on his waist?

rationalmind:


Don't be too sure. It's been a year since we last saw. Several things about you must have changed, same with me.

Abeg, hit like if you think rationalmind jilted elantraceey while in school

You should only hit your wife is she is attempting to murder you. In other instances, it's not justified.

rationalmind:


Even when she hits me first? I should fold my hands and watch as it turns violent and she injures me?

Sorry, like I said, I'll beat that devil out of her.

My kind of man, would have called you a real man but that word does not exist, so will prefer calling you a man. Just like the lady stalking me, women have to be viciously and vigorously caned from time to time in order to reason well, just like babies.

And yeah don't try that cra.p with Edo babes cause they'll ruin you physically or........

rationalmind:
I saw this thread (https://www.nairaland.com/457400/why-husbands-beat-wives) earlier and noticed how ladies claim it's unacceptable for a man to beat a woman under any circumstance.

How about a scenario where the wife raises her hands to beat the husband? Yes, I'll beat that devil out of my wife if and only if she ever raises her hand to beat me first.

this guy is still a kid.in stead of engaging her.a matured man leaves d home temporary for his wife when she start to misbehave that way she will come back to her senses and even value her husband d more as long as i know beating a your can neva earn you respect,i mean dz trend is nt even suppose to be in front page.we dont have to reply him.probably i dont think he is up to 20.

awon eranko and associates.i just knew it that i will meet his likes here.of course i am not suprised.animals always attract their kinds

Czarina1:
I recommend one knock for every five slaps, make e no pass knock o. Lol.

For the men who can actually beat their wives.....Abeg where you dey see dey nake for woman body??

KellyNicole:
i once slapped my hubby one day in midst of a hot quarrel, den i was waiting 4d worst to happen... to my utmost surprise, he just looked at me n went out of d room quietly, HABA!! I FELT SOOO BAD!! i ran to him immediately crying n beggin 4 4giveness.. #ILOVEYOUBOO#

U didn't complete the gist ooo. So what happened afterwards.? A makeup sex or a carryover wahala to the following day.?

rationalmind:
I saw this thread (https://www.nairaland.com/457400/why-husbands-beat-wives) earlier and noticed how ladies claim it's unacceptable for a man to beat a woman under any circumstance.

How about a scenario where the wife raises her hands to beat the husband? Yes, I'll beat that devil out of my wife if and only if she ever raises her hand to beat me first.

As an Irishman I was raised NEVER to hit a woman. If she raises her hand to me I will ward off the blows as best I can. Elsewise as a REAL man I can take anything she can muster!

In our culture only a GAY or a COWARD would strike a woman.

I appreciate some African cultures are different but all cultures have their positive AND negative points and on this particular issue I much prefer my own.

The alternative encourages violence against women which we see all too often.

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looool

abi na shey she no sound senseless ?