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Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Sibele(m): 8:36am On Feb 25, 2015 |
But why must a lady hit a man first shmmmmmm |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by 5minsmadness: 8:37am On Feb 25, 2015 |
EggovinMma:I have a question for you. Its a bit personal so pls don't be embarrassed. The question goes thus: This eggovin, is it sweet or does it taste like raw egg? And what does it do to the body? Sorry for derailing. |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 8:39am On Feb 25, 2015 |
5minsmadness: It tastes like lynpetra. |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by 5minsmadness: 8:45am On Feb 25, 2015 |
EggovinMma:Av never tasted lynpetra b4 either though I heard she is exceptionally sweet especially when she [edited] smiles just right... Am rambling. Seriously Na, am curious. What does it taste like? |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 9:00am On Feb 25, 2015 |
kilokeys: I guess this happened to you hahhahahajaha ohhh poor u |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 9:05am On Feb 25, 2015 |
5minsmadness: IRU. |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Amynature(f): 9:21am On Feb 25, 2015 |
My dear there is noway a woman can over power a man. Push her aside and leave. |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by 5minsmadness: 9:35am On Feb 25, 2015 |
EggovinMma:What does IRU mean? |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by kilokeys(m): 9:38am On Feb 25, 2015 |
gofyourself: i am nt married. the only weapon a lady used on me were her eyes. .. |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Fellonigerians: 9:57am On Feb 25, 2015 |
kestolove95: If my wife. Raise ha hands. On me...I will just leav d house and come back at nyt...by den d devil go don leav her..may. God not let me raise on on ma wife Well said!!! Period!!! |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 10:00am On Feb 25, 2015 |
kilokeys: I dont remember asking u your marital status |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by kilokeys(m): 10:08am On Feb 25, 2015 |
gofyourself: silly you.. the keywords to d above thread are "wife", "beat wife", "marital abuse" and so on.. u quoted me and inferred i had experienced such. to a degree we are all expected to have grey matters in our brain.. i guess urs is pure white (blank) 2 Likes |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 10:12am On Feb 25, 2015 |
kilokeys: Ahhh irrelevent. Different topic was quoting than saw its u. doesnt matter u stupidd shitt muahjahhahahaj.nobody cares what u think of me anyway. Just die in ditch |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by kilokeys(m): 10:17am On Feb 25, 2015 |
gofyourself: the only ditch i see here is ur foul mouth. and i am to big to be eaten by u.. u haven't heard of Amadioha, right? whitey keep ranting 1 Like |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by incrediblestev: 10:22am On Feb 25, 2015 |
KoloOyinbo:You must think because you call yourself oyinbo you must be some special human being that's perfect or something...... Go and tell your hogwash to unexposed people..... The issue of battery in any relationship cuts across cultures, race, tradition and even individual. You being Irish does not make you any more or less a "batterer"..... Unless you are trying to claim that in Ireland there has never been a case of battery reported before in its history...... That will be interesting to hear. Again I repeat, nobody, man or woman has the right to violently hit anyone and expect not to get a response. I get it if some of the feminists and youngsters shout blue murder over the fact that I will beat a woman blue-black that first hit me, most of them are just starting out in life, the other ones are angry women. I don't believe in herd mentality. Pray you don't get into an abusive relationship, it is not as easy as working away or stopping her, there is no prescribed gentle man way of reacting to violence 2 Likes |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 11:06am On Feb 25, 2015 |
kilokeys: yh i actually can see how big u r its not a compliment jeez u r delusional with your amadioha. u think u r him ?:DDDDD u need mental health help darling |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by kilokeys(m): 11:13am On Feb 25, 2015 |
gofyourself:if u r bored and need to talk to somebody.. just ask.. is that too hard? |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 12:10pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
kilokeys: what? to you? pleaseeee |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by OkunrinMeta: 1:40pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
A lady once slapped me in sec school, i waited for two hours after she had apologised, snuck up behind her and returned the favor, when she started crying and i saw my finger marks from the side of her neck to her cheek, my heart melted and i started begging her to stop crying. Lol i was even begging her to slap me again because her cry was just too much. Lol. The girl just dey cry dey go. I know that was mean but if that kind of situation comes up, i will still act thesame way. They called assembly to flog us that time oo. I hapily received my 12 strokes. IF YOU CAN GIVE A SLAP, YOU CAN TAKE ONE, LIFE IS GIVE AND TAKE. A SLAP IS A LOAN THAT SHOULD BE RETURNED WITH OR WITHOUT INTEREST. |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by mayrho(m): 1:42pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Some bolts have to be loose for any man to hit any woman |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 2:42pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Justfollowit:if u are a lady, u too correct. A woman feels its her right to hit a man, but considers a man hitting her back as cowardice. Mere lookin at my face alone will make any lady think twice before raisin her hands to hit me, and it for any reason the slap lands on my cheek, I won't touch her there if its in public so I don't embarrass myself, but u better not follow me home with ur two left legs else na TKO. But if u are my wife, u better start beggin me from there with ur two kneels on the floor or better still get ur parents to come beg. I am too large to be disrespected by a woman 1 Like |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 2:47pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Amynature:madam do u know that to some women, pushin her aside is domestic abuse and they will even say u pushed them like u beat them. How can a woman make u get annoyed and when u want to leave the house to get some fresh air outside or to chill, she will still block ur way? Some ladies here will still say, sit her down and talk to her or stay inside the house and receive all the insult and abuse... |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by kandiikane(m): 4:54pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
chibic: Stop deceiving yourself. Since we are being superficial, i hope you are not talking about nigeria, With all the stuff you say about nigerian women? Unless you have money you won't breathe the same air as a young and beautiful woman. And don't come bullshyting us because the likelihood of being a rich man in nigerian is like 0.00001. The thing is many nigerian men have nothing to offer at that age, it's not like they look like George Clooney, all they have going on is a pot belly and very strong BO( maybe an exaggeration but trying to prove a point here) Case example: what exactly has this man got to offer this woman? Money This? Good genes maybe? Naah, money! [img]http://1.bp..com/-yUE5vo_r-dY/VCQY3hsBjLI/AAAAAAABKdQ/mxP_SNOdMsE/s1600/ByUqA_3CUAAxU5A.jpg[/img] Now, a young woman can marry will Smith or George Clooney even without their money because they are good looking older men that don't make their stomach churn. Same way, a young man can marry jada pinkett, lola omotayo etc. many of those who live in poverty do so because there is no other way out and the only way is to marry an older man to help them, uneducated women or those forced into marriages. No, you cannot get a good and beautiful woman with good genes at anytime. you can only get a 50 naira ashawo you won't want to be seen with in public at anytime. It is easier for women to get a younger stronger good looking man because they can do so without money. They are on average more attractive than men. Our society hasn't really opened up to older women dating younger men that is why you don't see many cases of it. It's not because they cannot get them. Check back at secondary school even, the amount of guys that reminisce about having a crush on a teacher and many still carry on. With men, you guys aren't so lucky, not everyone is blessed with huge pockets. I am not trying to dampen anyone's spirit or make this a guy vs woman issue but people should be honest with themselves. An average older man won't just go out and pick up an attractive young woman just like that. Obviously, you won't understand until you get to that age But before then I hope you find a woman that you will be spending your life with at that age and not you trying to cradle rob. 3 Likes |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by gemini35(m): 5:22pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
kestolove95:. You will leave the house and come back at nyt? What if you want to leave the house she still stand at the door,and block u from going out,? |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 5:55pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
pomsky: Ma niqqa! I see you. These kids here just rant about, as far as I'm concerned, there are no absolute situations in life. It is because of the wusses we see here on NL that these girls are becoming more daring by the day. Women sef! They want gender equality only when it favors them, at other times, they remember they are the weaker sex. Beat not and you shall not be beaten. I may tolerate it once, but with serious reprimand/consequences. But if it happens again, oh blood of maggi! I will restore her to factory settings. 2 Likes |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by KoloOyinbo(m): 6:51pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
incrediblestev: I never called myself special don't know why you brought that up. I just contrasted two approaches in differing cultures. I described accurately my cultures approach to this issue sorry If that makes you feel a need to insult and rant. It doesn't mean that there has never been a case in Ireland, of course there has, these are the exceptions and frowned upon by the vast majority. To use that argument is most disingenuous and usually indicates a failure to support your own point of view. A real man does not need violence against those physically weaker than him! And I repeat that I would consider any man I saw beating a woman as a latent homosexual or bully or only half a man. Just as there are many cultures where woman beating is accepted there are many where it is abhorred we clearly belong to differing camps! (Thankfully) 2 Likes |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by haryomikun(m): 6:56pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
rationalmind:Rationalmind, don't just smile dere. Tell us the truth. Abi you be the second MaziOmenuko |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by KoloOyinbo(m): 6:57pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Justfollowit: There are MANY different cultures in 'oyinbos'. I don't think refusing to hit a woman make me perfect? Please say where I stated this. Why do some folks here have to twist words to make a counter argument? Sorry you cant follow my perfectly logical argument! There is little contradiction if you actually calm down and think about it. I do know your culture is very different from mine (one of my initial points) but you must accept that some cultures look at things this way. I just cant hit a woman and still feel that I am any sort of a man at all. 2 Likes |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
KoloOyinbo: Lol Your culture? Like you actually grew up in Europe You can't hurt a woman and still feel like a man because you know deep inside you that they are physically weaker. Simple. Stop trying to complicate matters When you know that there are different cultures in a society then I suggest you refrain from generalisation. People who are not aware that domestic abuse exist in Ireland would assume from your post that it has never even existed. What part of Ireland, Northern or main? |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 7:16pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
lrguru: Begging you with her two legs. On top wetin? Say na to do your own and let her be |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by KoloOyinbo(m): 7:23pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
Justfollowit: Ireland (North and South) is in Europe (although we regard it as one and the North as British Occupied but that's a different issue) so of course I grew up in Europe. I never said domestic abuse did not exist in Ireland (yet another case of people trying to support a weak attack by inventing something without actually reading what the poster says). Of course I generalise (we are dealing with cultures involving MILLIONS of people - how could you NOT generalise?). My POINT is that in my culture it is considered abhorrent for a man to strike a woman! Now if that seems to annoy you so much I would be somewhat worried as to WHY? On a related point - cultures all change and at differing rates. In Europe for example they now reject physical punishment of children in the home and at school. Fifty years ago it was perfectly acceptable. (YES I'M GENERALISING so because a few group still do it does not mean that this is the general trend in the entire western world. Perhaps instead of condemning change for the better you might actually try it? 1 Like |
Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Feb 25, 2015 |
KoloOyinbo: It is not the culture, it is the law If assault and battery (in the case of domestic abuse) is no longer punishable under the law today. It will amaze you how Irish hospitals would be overflowing with battered women within an hour. So therefore you should know this the abuse culture has been merely suppressed. I already know enough history about Europe including UK. I have this feeling that you are trying too hard to feel among in that society. It is good for migrants to integrate but it must not be at the risk of losing their identities. I know you are to appear refined you are to the uncivilised blacks on Nairaland, I understand your plight but it should on no way blindfold your every thought, perception and reasoning. I understand the conflict within you but it would be in your own interest to resolve it very soon else you end up as confused as Chimamanda Adichie. |
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