cold:
Well after my post i just did a quick check of the age of consent & marriage worldwide and Nigeria happens to be 13,wow! So on the face of it your friend might not be doing anything wrong legally,save for the morality and friend's trust betrayal aspect. There's really not much you can do here...sigh.

You are wrong. There is no marriage involved here. The Child's right act stipulates that having sexual intercourse with a child is an offence punishable with life imprisonment and it is a strict liability offence meaning that consent or intention is immaterial. this is a law duly passed by d national assembly and domesticated by most states. This is not just in theory, I have personally handled cases where people were charged under section 31 of d child's right law of diff states. What he is doing is a crime.
I don't why people are bringing marriage into this.

boss1310:
tell mr A to call mr B and apologise for taking advantage of miss J and you mr C better start looking for an accomodation though make sure the landlord is not mr D as his daughter miss K loves men more than miss J and you dont wanna incur the wrath of her brother mr E who is over protective of his younger sister....sigh

Chai!!! Jesus!!!! una no go kill me ooooooo. Thank God for nl. hahaha hahahahaha

Act lika CIA, go to http://www.sendanonymousemail.net to send an anonymous mail, inform him in details of what is going on and he should watch his sisters movement. it is as simple as ABC.

BRO, i understand how painful it is.
seriously, there are a hundred things to do to stop this. first, u cud present this situation to Mr B in twisted language... remember d story of prophet Nathan and King David? know ths: u have done nothing so far...
also present d story to Miss J's parents in 'twisted' language. advise them to take proper care of their children(laying emphasis on d female) making ur msg as vague as it is specific.

Wen dey de flowered u, was dat hw u started jumping frm john to phillip?... there is always a way out..

Sexystella:
As long as he has deflowered the young girl..theres no going back. I think she likes the feel of it.

Did he force the girl?Did she not know that having sex at her age is bad?Children of this days should learn ethics of life.

realGURU:
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Is everything OK?
what is the matter?

bloglover:


After using mr A,B and J u still went ahead to put a profile picture. what if Mr B is on nairaland?

are you a CIA personnel?

incrediblestev:
crime in which country exactly, abi you think say na America we dey...... You have been listening too much to tyga and kyle shut lately.
In this condition, I can only do two things, either tell her brother or mind my damn business, matter of fact, mind your business.

E be like say the guy escort person come naija. In nigeria anything goes

akinsadeez:


You are wrong. There is no marriage involved here. The Child's right act stipulates that having sexual intercourse with a child is an offence punishable with life imprisonment and it is a strict liability offence meaning that consent or intention is immaterial. this is a law duly passed by d national assembly and domesticated by most states. This is not just in theory, I have personally handled cases where people were charged under section 31 of d child's right law of diff states. What he is doing is a crime.
I don't why people are bringing marriage into this.

I didn't say marriage. I said 'age of consent & marriage'. Meaning the age of consensual sex in Nigeria is for a child above 13. I'm sure you're not unaware of the fact this issue caused a major rift in the Nass last year when they tried to change the law and our Muslim brothers with senator Yerima in tow halting the bill in its tracks. Legally the poster's friend is doing nothing wrong. The law is an asś but that's the law. Legislation in some states might take a different view though.

Redlips22:
Wen dey de flowered u, was dat hw u started jumping frm john to phillip?... there is always a way out..

Lemme first commend your stupidity..you are stu..pid!

Who said there's no way out? But it's more of determination and will. Tough road.

Call Miss J and warn her against the act and threaten to tell her parents if she doesn't stop, that will serve as a cog in there wheel. You will see that she probably will stop coming!

Guy you have finished yourself today o...your picture is on your profile and you think by now her parents wouldn't have found out who the Mr.A and Miss J are?

Police are on their way


..but..all the way from zimbabwe? Ahh

changes1:
Mods please take to the appropriate section.

Hello House,
I'm going to make this brief and explainable.

I have a program to run at a location and its supposed to last for six months. I wasn't having enough money to rent and furnish a place for a year since that's the minimum one can pay in that area.

Luckily for me I have a friend (Whom I'll refer to as "Mr A" who has a room to himself in that town allocated to him.

I spoke to him and he willingly and happily agreed for me to stay with him.

Now Mr A has a friend (whom I'll call "Mr B" who later became my friend too.
Mr A who is my mate is far older than Mr B.

Mr B stays with his parents and they have an only daughter who is almost 16 years old (Let's call her "Miss J". Mr B loves his only sister to the core.

Mr A started a kind of training that would lead to work and he invited Mr B to join instead of constituting nuisance at home. Mr A & B related well and did everything together.

After some time things became "rough" for us as our money got finished. My host Mr A told me not to bother organising what to eat for both of us as he will be taking care of himself. (I later got to find out Mr B's parents were constantly feeding Mr A cos they were happy he meant well for their son and also took him as their soon too)

Mr A told me how he badly wanted to "have" Miss J and I discouraged it and let him see reasons that she is still 15+, the only daughter, "our friend" Mr B's sister and her parents trust him and feed him.. I continued to kick against it until I travelled in the month of Miss J's birthday.

Sadly, I returned and told me he "deflowered" her in the week of her birthday while I was away. And since then he has been a regular visitor in between her laps.

I felt bad and still feel hurt cos its not good and I see her like my younger sister. I told him to stop or I'll expose him. We had exchange of words and I finally held my peace.

But now I'm confused.

Should I tell Mr B (our friend) and his parents?

If I tell them there will be serious "war" (if you know what I mean) and Mr A, my host will be ejected from the house meaning I'll have no where to stay too. There's no space in Mr B's house cos they are already chocked up in their house.

If I keep quiet and people find out it'll look like I've been in support of this wicked act and we might receive same punishment. (police fit dey involved)

If I talk it'll be like someone willingly offered to help and accommodate me and I paid him back by back stabbing him.

Pls what do I do?

Mature response please cos I really need it.

I piri u o, u might be held responsible for miss J's pregnancy and nothing stay hidden forever, if u tell mr b na wahala u dey find u o..since dey both reject ur advice leave the environs for them make den nack theisef enter gwagwalada and make she blow with belle..no tell anyone o

Uncle the mooooron will meet his water loo. If u are going to blow the whistle on him at least be very discrete about it. U could buy a new sim and send a text to her patents. That asssssz has it coming...

U said no going bak which implies no way out.. Stop forming wat ur nt.. (Smart)

Sexystella:


Lemme first commend your stupidity..you are stu..pid!

Who said there's no way out? But it's more of determination and will. Tough road.

The best way is to discourage the girl from the relationship, you can educate her on the risks she is exposed to disease, early pregnancy and all...you can also threaten to tell her brother and parents...

My brother, do this o!!! As for the anonymous text part, I advise that you keep a record of it so that if accusing fingers start getting pointed around wildly, you can defend yourself with it. Whatever you do, don't allow yourself to be considered party to Mr 's actions.

chaircover:
First of all start looking for a new place to live straight away.

Youve already spoken to Miss j and Mr A and they have ignored you . . so time to do someting else.

I am sure that you have this girls parents number.
Send them an anonymous text message letting them know what is happening
As parents, they will know how to deal with it
cos really at the end of the day, if the girl gets pregnant or anything happens, as they parents, they are the ones who will have to deal with all the mess.

When faced with making descsions always go for the one that is morally right and one that will please God. It may be a difficult and hard descsion at the time, but everything that we do is a seed and we will reap it at some point in our lives.

Dont be worried about accomodation, cos I beleive that God will open a door of favour for you & God can easily raise helpers for you too.

toluleke:
The girl is mature to make her choice. So far he hasn't forced himself on her.one day she would reap the reward of her foolishness..I don't bother myself about matters like this.if she was just 0-12years I would report but 15yrs she knows what she is doing

Mister, you have a serious problem. Why does a 15 year old know what she's doing and a 12 year old doesn't? Where's the difference?

if the girl is under 16 and you are sure of the age,please report him.but if the guy is also of the same age,we all did that before so just warn the two of them .

fanex:
you a selfish human being.

What makes him selfish? His need to have the fifteen-year-old girl all to himself?

Mitsurugi:
Its not just sexing... it is called 'statutory rape' regardless of consent of the minor who is 16 and it is a criminal offence. Report him to the police or you shall be held as an accomplice later.

Reporting to the police is not the issue.Even police go like register and clean mouth if they get the opportunity.

Redlips22:
U said no going bak which implies no way out.. Stop forming wat ur nt.. (Smart)

Tackle someone else

Sexystella:
As long as he has deflowered the young girl..theres no going back. I think she likes the feel of it.

"Sweet" things kill the most .

madgoat:
Mr OP, Wats ur business if Mr A is sexing Miss J. How is it affecting u? Smmmhhhh.... U are just a spoiler and a busy body. I think the bottom line is u are interested in Miss J and u did not av the balls to appraoch her but now dat u see ur frnd has taken her u feel so envious..... Reading ur post is so annoying..... Damn busy body person.
Just leave d two alone and mind ur damn business. Pple like u piss d sh*t out of me.

Why? Are you 15 too?

cold:

I didn't say marriage. I said 'age of consent & marriage'. Meaning the age of consensual sex in Nigeria is for a child above 13. I'm sure you're not unaware of the fact this issue caused a major rift in the Nass last year when they tried to change the law and our Muslim brothers with senator Yerima in tow halting the bill in its tracks. Legally the poster's friend is doing nothing wrong. The law is an asś but that's the law. Legislation in some states might take a different view though.

Wow. where did you find a law that says age of consensual sex is 13. please point out that substantive law and not a google page. There is absolutely no law like that in Nigeria. Yerima's issue was about section 29 of the constitution which is about d age at which a married person can renounce citizenship. Also it is under sharia that you can marry a girl of 13. Section 21 of the childs right act says a person cannot marry under the age of 18 and d punishment is 5yrs imprisonment. The child's right act is a federal enactment and it says a minor (unmarried) cannot have consensual sex because d minor is deemed incapable of giving consent. and you are still saying it confidently that legally he is doing nothing wrong. I laugh in spanish. I only wish the OP can let me know where his friend is, he will soon know whether what he is doing is wrong.
I wont even reply you again. Its quite obvious you don't know much about the position of d law on this.

hungryboy:
Guy make i tell u true,
So that you will not become an enemy of Mr A,
the toto no be your own,
the house no be your own
you got nothing to lose here man
pretend as if u don't know what is going on,
one day Mr B or her parents will catch her in the act with mr A

if he does this,the girl's life will never remain the same cuz she will graduate frm mr A to Mr C,D...Its better for them to knw now.

MyPWisINCORRECT:
As a psychologist, I can deduce you are angry that you aren't the one ramming Miss J's cockpit.

haba mr psycho, abi u want it to

Nah.. want to tackle only u for been silly..

Sexystella:


Tackle someone else

EmoBoy:
How old is mr a?

Almost 29 years old

akinsadeez:


Wow. where did you find a law that says age of consensual sex is 13. please point out that substantive law and not a google page. There is absolutely no law like that in Nigeria. Yerima's issue was about section 29 of the constitution which is about d age at which a married person can renounce citizenship. Also it is under sharia that you can marry a girl of 13. Section 21 of the childs right act says a person cannot marry under the age of 18 and d punishment is 5yrs imprisonment. The child's right act is a federal enactment and it says a minor (unmarried) cannot have consensual sex because d minor is deemed incapable of giving consent. and you are still saying it confidently that legally he is doing nothing wrong. I laugh in spanish. I only wish the OP can let me know where his friend is, he will soon know whether what he is doing is wrong.
I wont even reply you again. Its quite obvious you don't know much about the position of d law on this.

A good defence counsel will take your case to shreds. Bigamy is still a crime in Nigeria. How many people do you know have been successfully prosecuted on this?I still maintain this is about morality,indiscretion and abuse of a friend's trust. The legal technicalities will be trumped by a sound attorney

madgoat:
Mr OP, Wats ur business if Mr A is sexing Miss J. How is it affecting u? Smmmhhhh.... U are just a spoiler and a busy body. I think the bottom line is u are interested in Miss J and u did not av the balls to appraoch her but now dat u see ur frnd has taken her u feel so envious..... Reading ur post is so annoying..... Damn busy body person.
Just leave d two alone and mind ur damn business. Pple like u piss d sh*t out of me.

Well, your monicker says it all. Ewu, ewure, akuya nmmiiieeeee.