breadandbutter:



Ok. but remember i warned you people

britiko:


So how do u recognize the Anonymous donors suggestions?

Because someone didn't contribute cash doesn't mean he/ she can't make a sensible suggestion as to how to handle d funds.

Seun:
The money should be used to help other people. It was donated for the purpose of saving lives and not to restock shops. This is wrong IMHO.

breadandbutter:



Ok. but remember i warned you people

chidyhels:
For me
Tehn needs to be schooled on how NGO operates
You dont have to involve the whole donors when decisions are being made.
Just gets some competent hands to make decisions while you communicate decision to the general donors


If all cash was expended on saving dj and probably empowering him after he recovered
Will we be talking about the situation in his family, improving their lives and all that?

Money was raised by tehn onbehalf of dj
Now his gone
Empower just one individual in the family
And let them countinue their hustle

I work for an ngo that takes up medical issues like this
When we lose a patient
We empower just one person in the family and focus on other cases.
The family has no say as to how money should be spent

Tehn has an already recommended option
Go ahead with it
Then let the donors know that this is what you have been doing with their money.
You dont have to involve all at this stage.
My50kobo#

breadandbutter:



His religion is the one and only religion God recognizes so we should encourage building a mosque on his behalf

Idowuogbo:

Ewo!! are you serious? E b like say them go book bed space for this one o...Hian!

chidyhels:
For me
Tehn needs to be schooled on how NGO operates
You dont have to involve the whole donors when decisions are being made.
Just gets some competent hands to make decisions while you communicate decision to the general donors


If all cash was expended on saving dj and probably empowering him after he recovered
Will we be talking about the situation in his family, improving their lives and all that?

Money was raised by tehn onbehalf of dj
Now his gone
Empower just one individual in the family
And let them countinue their hustle

I work for an ngo that takes up medical issues like this
When we lose a patient
We empower just one person in the family and focus on other cases.
The family has no say as to how money should be spent

Tehn has an already recommended option
Go ahead with it
Then let the donors know that this is what you have been doing with their money.
You dont have to involve all at this stage.
My50kobo#

olu4life:

Oga park well, na u go buy land? Or u think to construct a building is beans? Pls leave religion out of it. If it was on a religion platform he used, do u think we will all be here?!

sinizia:


I disagree with the embolden. If TeHN doesn't involve us the members, this stuff won't end well. I remember the earlier fisticuffs on this thread earlier this year was because TeHN didn't keep the threadmates updated. We contributed to this cause and keeping us out of the decision-making process will yield catastrophic consequence and accusations.

pickabeau1:
Akinsadeez

Yet you r aware that when some people attack tehn when decisions are made seemingly without any consideration from the people
I used seeming because all decisions are well thought out yet our integrity as called into question by some here

If an option had been provided to the house to roll over some or all of the balance for another project, some people will accuse tehn of diverting money

We considered carefully the ramifications of each option before tabling to the house.

If your preferences is for tehn to roll over the funds to another case..state it

Seun the administrator has stated his.

Jarus:


If TEHN had made up their mind, why did they come here for options with an express statement that "the consensus here will be implemented". So if the options are counted next week Friday and an option prevails, you mean TEHN will act contrary?

Let's be fair.

akinsadeez:


Yes, I remember the time you guys were seriously under fire and I disagree with those people. I don't think you guys should consult us everytime you are to take decisions. putting tehn in charge implies that we have trust in your ability to take effective decisions. You should update us regularly though on the decisions you have taken and the current state of affairs.



That's d point. No matter which option you take there will still be disgruntled people. If you use the money for another project some people will say they donated specifically for Djdola's case. If you use the balance to set up d mom, some will still say they didn't donate their money for d family. Asking for our preference will not change that. It is inevitable.




I don't have a preference. I trust you guys to sit down, consider the issue from all angles and pick the best option. Whichever option you guys go for will not stop me from donating if another case comes up and I am willing and able to donate. You guys are doing a great job btw.

exxell:


Ok... Lets assume that Nairalanders vote that the whole money be used to buy land for the family, are you telling me that TEHN will go ahead and buy the land?

sinizia:
I understand those that said the money should be used only to help another verified Nairalander. I share that sentiments too, after all the money donated was for DJ's health not his family's problem. But let's put others things into consideration.

DJ's mother had spent huge chunk of her money into treating DJ and it'd have dwindled her income. And DJ's mom would've been DJ's main concern in the outcome of his death.

So what I think should be done is to stock up her shop, or give her a definite amount of money to invest in her business (let her choose the better option that suits her), nothing else. if at all we can go further to help her, one year rent only (added to the shop money) should suffice. After that, we dust our hands and move on. How they fend after that is not our business. We're here to save a life not finance a family. This is my humble submission.

P.S: ignore that Breadandbutter troll please. He's not worth quoting. Thanks.

exxell:


Lols @ Mr Jarus. You should have gotten a hint of what am saying by implication. Ok... Lets assume that Nairalanders vote that the whole money be used to buy land for the family, are you telling me that TEHN will go ahead and buy the land? If I hear! All the same, I know that they are just following protocol to avoid people feeling left out even though they contributed. We all know that Number 3 is the best option if implemented properly. Time is not on anybody's side. Whatever is being done, let it bw done ASAP and close that chapter... Simple.

britiko:
your analogy is quack.
Tehn, needed suggestions, that's why the question was thrown to d house. Its none of your
Business whether someone contributed or not.
Cos you av funds doesn't make you smarter than
Your counterpart that has nothing today

babyosisi:
My last statement for now will just be a restatement to Tehns
Whatever you decide to do,remember that you must also do it for the next case

If you relocate,restock or buy a store and fill it with goods,you must do same for the next case
The simple way to end this is give the mom a sum of money as a gift from the group to her and cut this lose
And remember that in another case,you must do same.
Keep it simple