pickabeau1:


Some people's shiit does not smell

JoeCutie:


Nne biko ndo oh? I didn't mean to.
Anwukwana biko.

Those two people are learners. Very funny.

Well, aren't we all learners?
Shebi na who wear hin BYC come out we go fit point to say e dirty, meanwhile some of us own dirty pass dotty.

This is just an eye opener to me that people go through stuff.

The fact that we are able to neatly package and hide our own doesn't make us any better.

I never know wetin want make me carry my matter come NL o. (owh...I did some days back )
But I want to commend those who do so as brave.
To them (us).....there wasn't any other way to get the needed help.

Never underestimate the power of written words.

That said...@OP and Macdoks...please....if you can, avoid these kind of scenarios (Thread opening I mean).
And if you can't then bring it on. Some of us, like me, are willing to offer unsolicited help if we can.

cococandy:
you will grow old while waiting

kaboninc:


They say you are actually the first to smell your shit.

So you can say your own shit does not smell.

MizMyColi:


That said...@OP and Macdoks...please....if you can, avoid these kind of scenarios (Thread opening I mean).
And if you can't then bring it on. Some of us, like me, are willing to offer unsolicited help if we can.
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pickabeau1:


All shiit smells.. dude

Some are just oblivious or pretend to have perfect lives

babyosisi:


You started this whole mudslinging thing off by your posts
The girl had a nairaland handle since 2014 and you come here talking rubbish and don't expect her to respond
You have no reason to send her any texts
Women don't appreciate texts from men who have hurt them physically
If I were her,you won't even see that little child I held in my hands while you beat me up

kaboninc:


Don't worry nau.

No be for here?

Just pray you don't use your moniker like pickabeau1 said.

kaboninc:


[size=18pt]THANK YOU!!!![/size]

So I look forward to that of babyosisi and cococandys'.

mcdokwe:
Like I always say, even though you would and continue to insult me, I'm not about to say disparaging things about you or family here.
Thank God you are here finally and would hopefully state the truth. Even though I don't remember which friend you said I harrassed, I remember I had to sacrifice my relationship with the so-called ex to be with you, I remember how you tried your best to be friends with her and moan that I leave her, she was at an advantage but loved you and came for you, thankfully she was wise and gave me all the support to be with you instead, but remains a good friend whose impact in my life can't be overstated.
The post you refer to wasn't a pity party or a plea for you to come back(I've done that, don't regret it and like I said to you, I'm proud my ego didn't stop me) it was rather an advice to people out there not to create reasons for others to hit them, I only tried using my story to pass a message.
I remember saying I said some words but never could match you in words, saying I used you to explore sex was one of them but the least I could say as sex was explorable and we both explored each other.
It has been making the rounds that I insulted your dad to his face, lol. I won't say I didn't because I talked proud when I should be ashamed I got his daughter pregnant. But for those that would discern, I got a shocking call from your so called pastor, and then your dad that I shouldn't do anything I might regret, both sounding as though I had plans to harm anyone when the only thing I asked was for you to come so I could see you and my child and go back to base, I didn't understand but having wished to get across to your dad without success, I figured that could be my chance to sort out things with him and then offered to travel to meet him so we could sort things out, but your dad said I shouldn't bother coming but should rather wait till more than a year to try again. In that fit of anger (admittedly stu.pid) I asked if he expected me to abandon my own child like he abandoned you over a year and that was the insult.

bestestgirl:

chai Owliver make una fear God na, you guys keep making it seem that the reason why he eventually beat her was because she locked the door and would not let him go out to vent. but have you forgotten the part where he said that he beat her senseless in another location (without locked doors) where even several women could not stop him?
Her child was just two months at the time (stitches never heal finish sef). He then collected the child from her and gave a neighbor and went to buy milk so that the baby "will not suck her silly breast" (I guess thats why he said he was afraid that his daughter will learn bad behaviour from her Mom, maybe e think say dem dey suck behaviour from breast)

Just call a spade a spade, the man is abusive and does not deserve her. you sef think am na, if your girlfriend caught you cheating, will you not expect her to call you 'unprintable names'?
will you not expect her to fight you even a little?
Should you not endure it knowing that you bleeped up?

remsonik:


Shebi its because the father hasn't thrown him into jail for impregnating his daughter that's why he has the effontery to still open his poo mouth and type trash!!!!

kaboninc:


[size=18pt]THANK YOU!!!![/size]

So I look forward to that of babyosisi and cococandys'.

pickabeau1:
Too late

The die has been cast

Insults have been said
Blows have been thrown
The guy is not as buoyant anymore
The lady is not respectful

We are witnessing the last sparks of the flame that was.

Owliver:
odun hahahaha. No go do amebo ooo. Abeg ooo

cococandy:


I can't deal.

Can we please face the guy who think beating women is ok before throwing jabs at those who their lives aren't perfect but are pretending to be so?

Oh well since our lives aren't perfect, I guess we should clap for the guy who's insiting a woman deserves to be beat.

kaboninc:


Now we are communicating.

It is generally accepted that a man should not lay his hands on a woman. Maybe you think you are not the 'over-nagging' type to your husband. But some women, if you were a man, you would do more and worse.

Note am not justifying any form of physical abuse.

And YES, some men justify their action because you do not know what they've passed through or are passing through. Also, the 'culprit' here, did REGRET his action and wished he never hit her. Meaning that he is also against any form of physical abuse. Then if you see his responses so far, he has never insulted anyone here, including his ex (Miraijj) but state that he regrets his action.

Finally, I do have a personal experience, not hearsay.

cococandy:
don't worry next time I hear someone is punching his wife or girlfriend, I will throw a congratulatory party for him because I don't have a perfect life hence I should root for violence so that my imperfection won't be exposed.

How silly.
Sometimes I wonder what angle some people like you post their comments from.

What does calling out this abusive guy have to do with having a perfect life?

Well 21 million people are insane in Nigeria abi? Not surprising

MizMyColi:


Sadly you're correct.

But I'm kynda hopeful......

kaboninc:


HAHAHAHAHA...

21 Million are insane and only FEW are roaming.

Well, they also say if while bathing and your cloths were taken by a mad man, you do not run after him because people will think you're also mad.

While calling the guy abusive, did you also note the ABUSIVE TRAIT of Miraijj?

cococandy:
And what has all that got to do with me having an imperfect life?

He says she deserved it. That's not the attitude of a sorry person.

mcdokwe:
But my only advice would be that you desist from saying unsbustansiable lies, so that in the future you'd have very few things to be apologetic for. You could be better and I want to see that part

fem29:
miraijj, to be honest, your post sounds very disjointed and makes you sound unstable.

What exactly happened. Were you married to this guy or what. It sounds like you need to work on yourself, stabilise yourself. Life is not about what friends say.

From his post he beat you up badly, I'm sorry to hear that as violence is never excusable. You are best out of the situation. But please try and learn from this whole saga, the real tragedy will be if we do not learn from things that happen to us. What do you think YOU could have done differently. We cannot control what others do but we can control how we behave.

cococandy:


No. I noticed a pained lady.

I'm still asking what this topic has to do with my imperfect life.
If I understand where that came from, maybe next time I will understand your angle better.

fem29:
Miraijj so you are lurking reading up the shit storm you created . Na wa for you oo, respond to us naa

sweetcocoa:
I'm a woman but can we leave sentiments aside for a minute and try to be realistic?

Having read both sides of the story and now kinda confused because everything is still not clear, I must say that, the OP must be very very verbally abusive, she doesn't sound like someone who respects people at all.

Yea, she's hurt and all but is this how to vent? Why all the names calling? I don't remember the OP calling her names in his thread, he wrote that she deserved the slap(which is wrong) because she wouldn't stop with the insults and she's here proving him right.

I'm not supporting the dude o but this babe no try at all.

I can slap you
I can cuss you

You can't but take it from us

Because we are women...