Wedon:


It's easy for him to appear calmer and cooler on Nld . . . What does he have to lose afterall?

He is a man and will just go right ahead and live his life . .

She on the other hand, is stuck with a child out of wed-luck for a man who not only beat her senseless, insulted her family. Abeg we are all humans, lets not pretend that is not enough to drive someone insane.

He may not have called her names . . . but what he did is worse. Imagine opening a thread on Nld and watching you ex talk (calmly) in details about how he beat you up!

we know how parents treat girls who get pregnant outside wedlock.

They are judged loose and irresponsible.
This man who got her pregnant who should be supporting her in her predicament is calling her irresponsible and saying her parents abandoned her because of her irresponsibility while he was the architect of the so called irresponsibility.

Cold.

kaboninc:


No dear. I know you do not have a perfect like.

I just don't like you JUMPING into conclusions and BASHING someone because you FEEL you're right.

take your own advice too. Thank you.

What's my business? * continue eating my popcorn and banana*

Wedon:


It's easy for him to appear calmer and cooler on Nld . . . What does he have to lose afterall?

He is a man and will just go right ahead and live his life . .

She on the other hand, is stuck with a child out of wed-luck for a man who not only beat her senseless, insulted her family. Abeg we are all humans, lets not pretend that is not enough to drive someone insane.

He may not have called her names . . . but what he did is worse. Imagine opening a thread on Nld and watching you ex talk (calmly) in details about how he beat you up!

Can we not do the "he is a man and she is a woman" thing? I don't like to think like that, it makes me feel like a hypocrite and I hate being one.

She is stuck with a child because she wants to be, she is an adult who got pregnant because she engaged in unprotected sex with a man, she wasn't raped, so why use that to score points?

He didn't just write how he beat her up, he wrote what led to that path which the OP didn't refute, please understand that I'm not making excuses for the guy but I'm actually beginning to understand what men mean by saying "women use the excuse of being women to get away with so much" this is actually true to an extent as can be seem from so many posts here.

He knows she's on NL yet went ahead to write that thread, he was never ashamed to reiterate that he loves her in all his posts. We are all human ofcourse and I can understand the OP feeling hurt but she's too abusive, she could have passed her message across without all the insults but she just couldn't, because that's how she is, just like the dude said.

Hmmmmmmn, I said it! From his post and all the dumb comments he made on that thread, I could tell that the broke as#s negro was up to no good. I mean, what kind of father who cannot afford to buy his daughter a feeding bottle will come on NL and start talking about something other than to build his future that seems bleak at the moment??! No atom of responsibility and ambition. Just a sex hungry character coming to receive pats on the back from miscreants on NL. Op, I'm glad you opened your eyes and ran with your beautiful daughter. Face her and your job- stay away from broke as#s boys. They have absolutely nothing to offer but doom only.

fem29:


Ermmm who do you think you are, back off!, how dare you

Oh i wish i can like this comment a thousand times..

Wedon:


It's easy for him to appear calmer and cooler on Nld . . . What does he have to lose afterall?

He is a man and will just go right ahead and live his life . .

She on the other hand, is stuck with a child out of wed-luck for a man who not only beat her senseless, insulted her family. Abeg we are all humans, lets not pretend that is not enough to drive someone insane.

He may not have called her names . . . but what he did is worse. Imagine opening a thread on Nld and watching you ex talk (calmly) in details about how he beat you up!

And tell us how she deserved the beating
Then he sat back to read comments from eediots supporting him while saying all sorts of disparaging remarks about a woman who supposedly bore his most precious jewel.
He can't take any of that back can he?

cococandy:
we know how parents treat girls who get pregnant outside wedlock.

They are judged loose and irresponsible.
This man who got her pregnant who should be supporting her in her predicament is calling her irresponsible and saying her parents abandoned her because of her irresponsibility while he was the architect of the so called irresponsibility.

Cold.

Very very cold
This is the reason I advise girls never to marry any man their parents disapprove
That is the most fooolish thing any girl can do,you would have dug a grave for yourself
That same man will turn around and do you ntoorr for not having any family members on your side
Let this be a lesson to other girls

remsonik:


But this woman has an account since 2014 and saw how he shamed her on this forum. I dont think she's verbally abusive to have restrained herself from commenting on his thread and also opening her thread more than 2 months later.
What do you do when you respect and worships a guy so much that he starts to walk all over you?
yes she's angry and whatever words she's using to describe him now I wont really blame her much because she gave so much of herself to this guy and he doesnt respect her or treat her with any dignity.

How do you know she didn't just see the thread? If she actually replied this way immediately to his thread, I would be cutting her some slack but to still sound like this even after two months(assuming she saw it since) says a lot, 2 months is enough time to calm down and think.

You are using her anger to justify her words, why then are you all screaming that he slapped her? Doesn't he have a right to also be angry? Why can't his anger be used to justify the slap?

If she actually worshipped him, she won't sound like this.

Many of us know Debrief and her story,that's a victim of abuse, this OP doesn't sound like a victim abeg.

Mehn, with the kind posts from some women/ladies here... Many men dey see SHEGE!

God help us.

babyosisi:


Very very cold
This is the reason I advise girls never to marry any man their parents disapprove
That same man will turn around and do you ntoorr for not having any family members on your side

Even in his so called repentance, he's making and remaking the point that he had better options to choose from but chose to be with her.

Can't wrap my head around that kind of remorse.

sweetcocoa:
I'm a woman but can we leave sentiments aside for a minute and try to be realistic?

Having read both sides of the story and now kinda confused because everything is still not clear, I must say that, the OP must be very very verbally abusive, she doesn't sound like someone who respects people at all.

Yea, she's hurt and all but is this how to vent? Why all the names calling? I don't remember the OP calling her names in his thread, he wrote that she deserved the slap(which is wrong) because she wouldn't stop with the insults and she's here proving him right.

I'm not supporting the dude o but this babe no try at all.

this is what i call objectivity.
it saddens me when women who ask for equality cannot own responsibility of their bad behaviour. she was as abusive in the relationship as he was.

All these stories for the gods self. One thing that always amuses me when these chick's say they have moved on is the fact that whether you like it or not the fact that u were bleeped by the person will forever remain in the dictionary of ur pussy

fem29:


I am woman, from Ijebu, very married

Damn! What a shame.
We have to turn back the hands of time so to "unmarry" you then fast forward to make you available for me.

Dreyl:
Oh i wish i can like this comment a thousand times..

Lol, how can she just come and tell me be quiet as if I'm a child

yagbaboy1:
All these stories for the gods self. One thing that always amuses me when these chick's say they have moved on is the fact that whether you like it or not the fact that u were bleeped by the person will forever remain in the dictionary of ur pussy

Two people have sex mister, the fact that she fecked him will also forever remain in the dictionary of his d1ck, thank you.

coogar:


this is what i call objectivity.
it saddens me when women who ask for equality cannot own responsibility of their bad behaviour. she was as abusive in the relationship as he was.

Yea, they were both abusive, I remember him saying she reached for things with which to hit him, locked his shirt and things like that. You don't do all these and turn around to say he abused you.

sweetcocoa:
How do you know she didn't just see the thread? If she actually replied this way immediately to his thread, I would be cutting he some slack but to still sound like this even after two months(assuming she saw it since) says a lot, 2 months is enough time to calm down and think.

You are using her anger to justify her words, why then are you all screaming that he slapped her? Doesn't he have a right to also be angry? Why can't his anger be used to justify the slap?

If she actually worshipped him, she won't sound like this.

Many of us know Debrief and her story,that's a victim of abuse, this OP doesn't sound like a victim abeg.

His anger should be used to justify the slap, yet after the slap he couldn't have a rethink and still had the effontery to beat her up again??. Do you still think she would have gotten over that in 3 months?? babe a boyfriend or fiance is different from a man you have a child for o

Lemme tell you she can never forget the pain
Cut the babe some slacks please, the guy can talk here since it's easy for him but the lady won't find it easy to move on.
@the bolded, Do we now have to use physical abuse to justify verbal abuse??

cococandy:
we know how parents treat girls who get pregnant outside wedlock.

They are judged loose and irresponsible.
This man who got her pregnant who should be supporting her in her predicament is calling her irresponsible and saying her parents abandoned her because of her irresponsibility while he was the architect of the so called irresponsibility.

Cold.

Seriously though, why do you clamor for equality when you want to be treated differently in some aspects? How is he the architect of her irresponsibility? Is she underage? Was she raped?

Double wahala....

God bless you for this!! leave the hypocrites alone

sweetcocoa:
Can we not do the "he is a man and she is a woman" thing? I don't like to think like that, it makes me feel like a hypocrite and I hate being one.

She is stuck with a child because she wants to be, she is an adult who got pregnant because she engaged in unprotected sex with a man, she wasn't raped, so why use that to score points?

He didn't just write how he beat her up, he wrote what led to that path which the OP didn't refute, please understand that I'm not making excuses for the guy but I'm actually beginning to understand what men mean by saying "women use the excuse of being women to get away with so much" this is actually true to an extent as can be seem from so many posts here.

He knows she's on NL yet went ahead to write that thread, he was never ashamed to reiterate that he loves her in all his posts. We are all human ofcourse and I can understand the OP feeling hurt but she's too abusive, she could have passed her message across without all the insults but she just couldn't, because that's how she is, just like the dude said.

sweetcocoa:
Can we not do the "he is a man and she is a woman" thing? I don't like to think like that, it makes me feel like a hypocrite and I hate being one.

She is stuck with a child because she wants to be, she is an adult who got pregnant because she engaged in unprotected sex with a man, she wasn't raped, so why use that to score points?

He didn't just write how he beat her up, he wrote what led to that path which the OP didn't refute, please understand that I'm not making excuses for the guy but I'm actually beginning to understand what men mean by saying "women use the excuse of being women to get away with so much" this is actually true to an extent as can be seem from so many posts here.

He knows she's on NL yet went ahead to write that thread, he was never ashamed to reiterate that he loves her in all his posts. We are all human ofcourse and I can understand the OP feeling hurt but she's too abusive, she could have passed her message across without all the insults but she just couldn't, because that's how she is, just like the dude said.

You are so wise for your young age.

MarvellousGod:
Why do you think she will come begging one day?

Anyway, I won't be surprised if I see your wedding pics on nl front page one day.. That's why it's said that people shouldn't intrude on husband and wife issues .


As I have said earlier, let's just help these two make peace... That's what nl is meant for...

she may not beg me, but if every other thing fails we will have to explain to the child why daddy and mama didn't work

remsonik:


His anger should be used to justify the slap, yet after the slap he couldn't have a rethink and still had the effontery to beat her up again??. Do you still think she would have gotten over that in 3 months?? babe a boyfriend or fiance is different from a man you have a child for o

Lemme tell you she can never forget the pain
Cut the babe some slacks please, the guy can talk here since it's easy for him but the lady won't find it easy to move on.
@the bolded, Do we now have to use physical abuse to justify verbal abuse??

Why did she go further to insult him with everyone asking her to stop to no avail, did she tell you she didn't hit him too? I know you'd say a man hits harder but that's just bull.

Who's fault is it that she has a child?

Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse, in most cases sef, verbal abuse brings about physical abuse, so yea, they are pretty much the same, so if you decide to stay with a man who would hit you for insulting him especially because he can't keep up with you in that department, then that's your fault.

fem29:


Lol, how can she just come and tell me be quiet as if I'm a child

hahahaha you gave the LovePeddler a death blow, i really like that post, next time don't have mercy on the dilapidated hoe, give her a harder punch

mcdokwe:
she may not beg me, but if every other thing fails we will have to explain to the child why daddy and mama didn't work

Things like what


You still have not detailed your plans

How do you want to make this right

sweetcocoa:
I'm a woman but can we leave sentiments aside for a minute and try to be realistic?

Having read both sides of the story and now kinda confused because everything is still not clear, I must say that, the OP must be very very verbally abusive, she doesn't sound like someone who respects people at all.

Yea, she's hurt and all but is this how to vent? Why all the names calling? I don't remember the OP calling her names in his thread, he wrote that she deserved the slap(which is wrong) because she wouldn't stop with the insults and she's here proving him right.

I'm not supporting the dude o but this babe no try at all.

That's just the summary of the whole thing
You are so objective about the whole issue and you subjectively apportion the right judgment.





We need to call a spade a spade and not a farm implement... The toxic words from the ladies mouth is the genesis of this problem and if a lady can control her mouth most of this problem would have being talked about btw both parties and sorted out.
For heaven sake they claimed to be married and i don't know how their commitment and love they once shared could just evaporate just like that.


Both parties need to work on themselves to become a better person as they moved on with their lives because to be frank...... It will be hard to reconcile both parties now

Dreyl:
hahahaha you gave the LovePeddler a death blow, i really like that post, next time don't have mercy on the dilapidated hoe, give her a harder punch

Ahh noo oo, I don't condone all that prostitute talk ooo, I don't know her and she came for me for no discernible reason. Dont come for me unless I send for you.

Also I don't use bad words against people. I just explain my points concisely

Gosh I've spent the whole day on this bloody thread. Neglected so many things I'm meant to do, amebo nor be work oo

sweetcocoa:
Two people have sex mister, the fact that she fecked him will also forever remain in the dictionary of his d1ck, thank you.

I understand ur point cocoa, but the fact she is calling names and making moving on look grand made me input that
And u self busy body, why u come dey quote me I call ur name. BTW wether u agree or not, it's d man Dat bleeps d woman. Shikina

koyyess:
Hmmmmmmn, I said it! From his post and all the dumb comments he made on that thread, I could tell that the broke as#s negro was up to no good. I mean, what kind of father who cannot afford to buy his daughter a feeding bottle will come on NL and start talking about something other than to build his future that seems bleak at the moment??! No atom of responsibility and ambition. Just a sex hungry character coming to receive pats on the back from miscreants on NL. Op, I'm glad you opened your eyes and ran with your beautiful daughter. Face her and your job- stay away from broke as#s boys. They have absolutely nothing to offer but doom only.

someone give this guy a beer
your head was correctly positioned.