Please help me. I went to visit my fiance at his village because there was a family occasion going on. I came two days before the occasion and stayed 3 days after the occasion.

Each time I want to take my bath, my would be mother-in-law will carry her bucket and want us to bath together. I've been avoiding her but it is getting out of hand.

What does she want to see? What is her motive? Please I need solutions to this problem.

wehehehehehehe sorry i had to laugh. I can imagine. Wahahahahaha.....

I guess she wants to use native eyes to check some signs of womb that has carried a baby.

mother-inlaw being hating since the days of abacha

What do you have to hide?
Your inlaws will soon be here to advise you.

She wants to know if you have a dikk or what? What kind of MIL be this?

Allow her for a day and find out

Your MIL is a woman now, she can see whatever you want to hide.....

This is kinda how my friend's engagement to his fiancee ended. He sent his soon to be wife home to spend some days with his mum. One fateful day, fiancee went to have her bath. Future mother in-law came in for inspection, discovered a scar on her lower abdominal region, enquired what that was and was told the scar was left there when she had a myomectomy. All hell broke loose. My people na so relationship take end oh. @OP future MIL wants to inspect oh. Simple. So you either oblige her or u don't. Choice is yours cos its ur body. Or maybe she just wants u both to be bff. Lol

If it were someone young, like his sister, I would say she's a lesbian.

Maybe she wants to see whether you are physically OK for his son.

Jackeeh:
This is kinda how my friend's engagement to his fiancee ended. He sent his soon to be wife home to spend some days with his mum. One fateful day, fiancee went to have her bath. Future mother in-law came in for inspection, discovered a surgical mark on her lower abdominal region, enquired what that was and was told the mark was left there when she had a myomectomy. All hell broke loose. My people na so relationship take end oh. @OP future MIL wants to inspect oh. Simple.

That's bad. Everyone is entitled to their privacy.

If you want to inspect me, don't ask your mum to do it. Just inform me. We go to a hospital of your choice, and then the doctor does all those tests.

I would be very offended if a would be mother in law walked in on me (bathing) to inspect me.

bellong:

Your MIL is a woman now, she can see whatever you want to hide.....

Would you be OK with your future father in law seeing you naked?

Your head dey there my brother. You said it better..... @OP if you don't have anything to hide from your mother-inlaw, take shower will her as the intelligent mother-inlaw want to inspect wetin her son want to buy........ Please you are strongly advise to bath and even instruct the woman to bath you for her to have completely inspection.....if the mother-inlaw certified you okay, I SWEAR YOU DON MARRY her husband.

Jackeeh:
This is kinda how my friend's engagement to his fiancee ended. He sent his soon to be wife home to spend some days with his mum. One fateful day, fiancee went to have her bath. Future mother in-law came in for inspection, discovered a surgical mark on her lower abdominal region, enquired what that was and was told the mark was left there when she had a myomectomy. All hell broke loose. My people na so relationship take end oh. @OP future MIL wants to inspect oh. Simple. So you either oblige her or u don't. Choice is yours cos its ur body. Or maybe she just wants u both to be bff. Lol

LadyX:


That's bad. Everyone is entitled to their privacy.

If you want to inspect me, don't ask your mum to do it. Just inform me. We go to a hospital of your choice, and then the doctor does all those tests.

I would be very offended if a would be mother in law walked in on me (bathing) to inspect me.

Yea I agree. Dude didn't have to involve his mum sha.

GreenApple123:
Your head dey there my brother. You said it better..... @OP if you don't have anything to hide from your mother-inlaw, take shower will her as the intelligent mother-inlaw want to inspect wetin her son want to buy........ Please you are strongly advise to bath and even instruct the woman to bath you for her to have completely inspection.....if the mother-inlaw certified you okay, I SWEAR YOU DON MARRY her husband.

The way this old village women dey use only eye discover things dey amaze me oh

Orisirisi

Immaangel:
Pls help me. I went to visit my fiance at his village because there was a family occasion going on. I came two days before d occasion and stayed 3days after d occasion. Each time I want to take my bath, my would be motherinlaw will carry her bucket and want us to bath together. I've been avoiding her but it is getting out of hand. What does she want to see? What is her motive? Pls I need solutions to this problem.

This is a mild taste of what you will experience if you end up marrying her son
It is up to you what you do with this revelation.
Tell the son how uncomfortable you are about this and that he should warn his mother to desist from that crude behavior

You can't compare their level of observation with anything my brother. Looking at a lady body alone, our elder women will tell you the type of lady she is. They will tell you please don't marry this lady cos she has used her body beyond repair.....And as a caring mother, she will not want her dear son to marry to an expired woman as she fully knows the implication....

Jackeeh:



The way this old village women dey use only eye discover things dey amaze me oh

some Nigerian MILs are something else. My instincts tells me it has to do with something fetish, another thing tells me she wants to fully certify you are physically fit. No fallen/saggy bosoms, no unnecessary incisions, no wide veejay etc but God knows best, if you ain't comfortable, simply tell her you aint cool with her creeping in on you, if it is your body she wants to see, she should ask and you will oblige her but not in the bathroom except you too have something to hide.

Immaangel:
Pls help me. I went to visit my fiance at his village because there was a family occasion going on. I came two days before d occasion and stayed 3days after d occasion. Each time I want to take my bath, my would be motherinlaw will carry her bucket and want us to bath together. I've been avoiding her but it is getting out of hand. What does she want to see? What is her motive? Pls I need solutions to this problem.

Nollywood movie - Lesbo mother-in-law part 2.

LadyX:


Would you be OK with your future father in law seeing you naked?

Why not.... HE is a man and I have nothing to hide....

bellong:


Why not.... HE is a man and I have nothing to hide....

Why do I find it hard to believebelieve you?

She probably wants to check the type of product u are " lool

LadyX:



Why do I find it hard to believebelieve you?

It is your choice not to believe me and you are entitled to it.....

Na by force to baff?

Don't let her watch you, smh you have a right to privacy.
Who does that, I don't even let my own mum watch me birth then its going to be a mother in law.

lol...when you eventually marry the son, She'll be walking into the kitchen too to inspect what you cook o...mothers sha..lol

bennyrazz:
some Nigerian MILs are something else. My instincts tells me it has to do with something fetish, another thing tells me she wants to fully certify you are physically fit. No fallen/saggy bosoms, no unnecessary incisions, no wide veejay etc but God knows best, if you ain't comfortable, simply tell her you aint cool with her creeping in on you, if it is your body she wants to see, she should ask and you will oblige her but not in the bathroom except you too have something to hide.

That last sentence was totally unnecessary
The man's mother has no right whatsoever to see her body
Period!!
It's invasion of her privacy.

I am glad these threads are coming out because when people speak of some strange MIL stories they sound made up and folks are quick to blame the DIL for not being loving.
Is this not about to be hell for this poor girl if she marries this man?
What does she want to see her naked for?
So barbaric

Mama wants to inspect you.

What?

GreenApple123:
Your head dey there my brother. You said it better..... @OP if you don't have anything to hide from your mother-inlaw, take shower will her as the intelligent mother-inlaw want to inspect wetin her son want to buy........ Please you are strongly advise to bath and even instruct the woman to bath you for her to have completely inspection.....if the mother-inlaw certified you okay, I SWEAR YOU DON MARRY her husband.

But can't you ask mama why she wants to shower with you naturally you will ask in a nice way.

@OP:


It depends on If you are desperate or not.

Or your MIL to be inspects you and your father inspects yourguy.

I don't understand Some MILs sha.

If you think no woman is Good enough for your son, please marry him yourself.

All these irritating stories