babyosisi:


They are not married to begin with and his reaction to this should determine if she wants to go ahead with it
Regardless,the son is the best person to pass across such message

seriously it is like your husband reporting your mum to you. Did U think your mum won't be annoyed. She might not say anything because she doesn't want to approach him but sometimes she'll hate him for the rest of her life. It is better for her to ask the MIL that moment in a polite manner than report to the son. I can imagine the woman telling the lady * u think say I been wan sleep with U? wetin u get wey I never see before. No be woman we be*... Nobody like been reported to another... If she tried it, I bet the woman would take it personal. #PEACE

;DSome MILs have eagle eyes. One casual glimpse at your nude b is enough to tell her where you're coming from. Allow her if you wan be in one piece or flee

she just wants to check if your konji game is topnotch

LadyX:


That's bad. Everyone is entitled to their privacy.

If you want to inspect me, don't ask your mum to do it. Just inform me. We go to a hospital of your choice, and then the doctor does all those tests.

I would be very offended if a would be mother in law walked in on me (bathing) to inspect me.

Omo this one you are speaking is english o. When the matter is heated up, you wont be talking like this.

Atk1nson:

when u become a MIL urself u will understand better. Her method is quite crude, but I think it's with the best of intention for her son. She doesn't want a lady who has a 'past' (be it abortions, children or 'wasteful living') to marry her son.
However, there are more modern n coded ways to achieve such tins

I cannot understand such degradation

I am married and none of my SILs did such for me.

Did the MIL bath in front of anyone?

Immaangel:
Please help me. I went to visit my fiance at his village because there was a family occasion going on. I came two days before the occasion and stayed 3 days after the occasion.

Each time I want to take my bath, my would be mother-in-law will carry her bucket and want us to bath together. I've been avoiding her but it is getting out of hand.

What does she want to see? What is her motive? Please I need solutions to this problem.

Run for your life. She is a witch and want to initiate you.In fact I have never heard of such, unless the would be mother=inlaw is a lesbian.

Listen, just call off that marriage from the so called fiance.

My mum can't even try that with my wife ..she be inspector General

This outright disrespect, is she going to sleep with her would be daughter in-law?. ALL these years her son had never had any problem with the lady's body, what is she, an OB/GYN.. This is silly..

Oh Lord!

redcliff:


Omo this one you are speaking is english o. When the matter is heated up, you wont be talking like this.

May God help me so that I don't go through such.

This is an old fashioned common sense village woman (mother in law).. You never understand the hard work put into raising a son until you see his mother descend upon ~in the shower~ the would be woman who would just come and pluck him for free... Would you spend your life building a castle and easily let some one just come in and take over without properly inspecting that they have the proper requirements to entitle them to move in and take over?
Wise Mother in-law knows all these modern day girls raised in the city who involve in all kinds of <#%*¥\#> ..

How will she know if na transgender deceive her boy until he commit suicide after discovering after the wedding..?

How will she know if you have birthmarks that she learned in traditional times to be signs that person na born of bad spirits set to do bad works in this world..?

How will she know if she needs to disinfect you from what contagions you may bring her son? It would be best to let her clean you, good for you and her son..

How will she know if.... Chai make i stop here now before a village mother's wisdom gets me banned from this Nairaland sef..

sherap you girls, needs to be checked, so much secrets and issues with your dirty pasts relationships, dirty lifestyles, liees, deceits, who want his son to fall into the pit of despair you terrible nowadays girls dug and hid. if you have nothing to hide,then let her check,the truth always prevails..

bukatyne:
@OP:


It depends on If you are desperate or not.

Or your MIL to be inspects you and your father inspects yourguy.

I don't understand Some MILs sha.

If you think no woman is Good enough for your son, please marry him yourself.

All these irritating stories

Well, since you can't cope, let Jesus offer hope.

Edusouls:
sherap you girls, needs to be checked, so much secrets and issues with your dirty pasts relationships, dirty lifestyles, liees, deceits, who want his son to fall into the pit of despair you terrible nowadays girls dug and hid. if you have nothing to hide,then let her check,the truth always prevails..

Keep quiet and don't quote me with your senselessness again

Your mother can check your fiance and her family's bodies So that she can be certain What you are buying Sorry marrying

What you will will never take, you will encourage women to take it.

Hypocrites.

Wetin pesin no go hear bikonu

of course mil's are doing the right thing, women of nowadays are calamity that if it befalls a man, that man regrets even been born, lots of past relationships,lots of dirty pasts and secrets that could explode with time and devastate the marriage if not discovered..you dont blame these mothers they were not so lethal,during their own time, so they are trying to put their son on the safe side. who wants her son to end up with a snake in human form...

Ask ur father to invite ur fiancé, so both of them can bathe together, tell him ur father is interested in seeing the hammer that will be hitting his dota's honey pot every night.
QED

Only in Africa. UnBAlieVAble!

LadyX:


Would you be OK with your future father in law seeing you naked?

God bless u ask him oooo. Its easy to talk when it's the lady. Lol. Just imagine ur. Future father in-law checking the Rod that will be handling his daughter whether small or big

Omo see gobe.


Bathe with her na and get it over with.

Seriously though, that's just really weird and a gross invasion of your privacy, If I were you, i'll politely tell her I'm not comfortable bathing with her.

macdelene:

God bless u ask him oooo. Its easy to talk when it's the lady. Lol. Just imagine ur. Future father in-law checking the Rod that will be handling his daughter whether small or big

macdelene:


God bless u ask him oooo. Its easy to talk when it's the lady. Lol. Just imagine ur. Future father in-law checking the Rod that will be handling his daughter whether small or big

Should have asked him that question.

Atk1nson:

when u become a MIL urself u will understand better. Her method is quite crude, but I think it's with the best of intention for her son. She doesn't want a lady who has a 'past' (be it abortions, children or 'wasteful living') to marry her son.
However, there are more modern n coded ways to achieve such tins

Can tell the past of a lady by mere looking at her body, or tell if she had aborted any pregnancy, if so, please share your skills with the rest of us..

redcliff:


Omo this one you are speaking is english o. When the matter is heated up, you wont be talking like this.

Which heat? So u will now send ur mother. Then I will send. My father too on u

that is what i call africanisation, a slave orientation very annoying. In this net age? na wa o

Kachisbarbie:


hahaha
Thanks much.
The woman may not have evil intentions o, but I am all for doing things I am comfortable with.

I advise people to do same.

You are right, but is never morally wise.
Imagine my father in~law asking me UnCloth so he can check what i have under my pant.
Hahaha!

macdelene:


Which heat? So u will now send ur mother. Then I will send. My father too on u

Men and women are two different species. Men dont care unlike you women

LadyX:

May God help me so that I don't go through such.

May God help you.

toluleke:
My mum can't even try that with my wife when she no smoke igbo..she be inspector General

see u even dey abuse your mumsy indirectly. If your mumsy tried such what will you do? It seems you haven't seen the strenght of nigerian men's love for their mother. Wait until u see men dey murder their father because he dare to slap their mother... It is ok for you to say something is wrong when it is. Stop boasting to the extent of saying when ur mum no Fa'gbo. It is wrong.
I can't say much about other people but as for me I will never disown my mum cos of any woman. It is not worth it. A wife can desert one but one's mum never will. If there is a problem I wil just try to resolve it wisely.

No gree o.

redcliff:


Men and women are two different species. Men dont care unlike you women

Are u sure? Let's say after the inspection and a wrong result was given and leads to the end of the relationship. It will matter then. See I knw a woman who married for 15yrs no child evry body blamed the woman not knwing that it was the man fault. They divoced and lady remarried. I tell u now she has three kids,one for each year. So u see its matters

All these ones shouting that's it's imperative the MIL checks her body, abeg who gets to check her fiance's body? Abi is it only women that deserve to be checked?