babyosisi:


That last sentence was totally unnecessary
The man's mother has no right whatsoever to see her body
Period!!
It's invasion of her privacy.

I am glad these threads are coming out because when people speak of some strange MIL stories they sound made up and folks are quick to blame the DIL for not being loving.
Is this not about to be hell for this poor girl if she marries this man?
What does she want to see her naked for?
So barbaric

GreenApple123:
Your head dey there my brother. You said it better..... @OP if you don't have anything to hide from your mother-inlaw, take shower will her as the intelligent mother-inlaw want to inspect wetin her son want to buy........ Please you are strongly advise to bath and even instruct the woman to bath you for her to have completely inspection.....if the mother-inlaw certified you okay, I SWEAR YOU DON MARRY her husband.

LewisO:

[size=14pt] Teacher I knew.

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IYANGBALI:
you are next. Your own go be your father inlaw,o ti rogo ni ye

LadyX:


That's bad. Everyone is entitled to their privacy.

If you want to inspect me, don't ask your mum to do it. Just inform me. We go to a hospital of your choice, and then the doctor does all those tests.

I would be very offended if a would be mother in law walked in on me (bathing) to inspect me.

freecocoa:
All these ones shouting that's it's imperative the MIL checks her body, abeg who gets to check her fiance's body? Abi is it only women that deserve to be checked?

fzero:

my dear, nothing we no go hear

bellong:


Why not.... HE is a man and I have nothing to hide....

Sophyrocks:


When i say there are a lot of riff raffs that are mentally unstable in nairaland, people think im joking. Please where do you even hear such happening? Is this normal? NO!! That MIL must be a witch! She better run for her life. Nonsense!

Jackeeh:
This is kinda how my friend's engagement to his fiancee ended. He sent his soon to be wife home to spend some days with his mum. One fateful day, fiancee went to have her bath. Future mother in-law came in for inspection, discovered a scar on her lower abdominal region, enquired what that was and was told the scar was left there when she had a myomectomy. All hell broke loose. My people na so relationship take end oh. @OP future MIL wants to inspect oh. Simple. So you either oblige her or u don't. Choice is yours cos its ur body. Or maybe she just wants u both to be bff. Lol

redcliff:


May God help you.

freecocoa:
Just imagine o.

I'm all for respecting MIL, applying wisdom in dealing with her and all but this one? Mba o, I will tell her straight up how uncomfortable I am about it, shuo.

gmoni2:


Can tell the past of a lady by mere looking at her body, or tell if she had aborted any pregnancy, if so, please share your skills with the rest of us..

LadyX:


That's bad. Everyone is entitled to their privacy.

If you want to inspect me, don't ask your mum to do it. Just inform me. We go to a hospital of your choice, and then the doctor does all those tests.

I would be very offended if a would be mother in law walked in on me (bathing) to inspect me.

bennyrazz:
some Nigerian MILs are something else. My instincts tells me it has to do with something fetish, another thing tells me she wants to fully certify you are physically fit. No fallen/saggy bosoms, no unnecessary incisions, no wide veejay etc but God knows best, if you ain't comfortable, simply tell her you aint cool with her creeping in on you, if it is your body she wants to see, she should ask and you will oblige her but not in the bathroom except you too have something to hide.

og2711:


I swear i was taking you serious until i saw bff. LMAO!!!

Edusouls:
sherap you girls, needs to be checked, so much secrets and issues with your dirty pasts relationships, dirty lifestyles, liees, deceits, who want his son to fall into the pit of despair you terrible nowadays girls dug and hid. if you have nothing to hide,then let her check,the truth always prevails..

bukatyne:


I cannot understand such degradation

I am married and none of my SILs did such for me.

Did the MIL bath in front of anyone?

Sophyrocks:


Simple!! I wont stoop low to disgusting demands simply because i am marrying somebody's son. ladies need to know when to say NO and STOP! That woman must be a witch and mentally unstable!

ALAYORMII:


You'd be happy to open ursef to a doctor bur not ur would be Mother (monster) in law?

Dyt:


Lwtmb

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andromida:
Mama wants to inspect you.

cococandy:

aflyingbird:
you no get mouth ni? rather than avoid her, tell her no. you have the right to say no! she can't force you to take a shower with her, the heck. tell your fiance about it, if he sides with her then you'll have to think twice before marrying him

Miami11:
Don't let her watch you, smh you have a right to privacy.
Who does that, I don't even let my own mum watch me birth then its going to be a mother in law.

Immaangel:
Please help me. I went to visit my fiance at his village because there was a family occasion going on. I came two days before the occasion and stayed 3 days after the occasion.

Each time I want to take my bath, my would be mother-in-law will carry her bucket and want us to bath together. I've been avoiding her but it is getting out of hand.

What does she want to see? What is her motive? Please I need solutions to this problem.

babyosisi:



This is a mild taste of what you will experience if you end up marrying her son
It is up to you what you do with this revelation.
Tell the son how uncomfortable you are about this and that he should warn his mother to desist from that crude behavior

LadyX:

Excuse me! I don't remember calling anyone a monster.

If you like being 'tested' by your in-laws, parade yourself before your father in law to check how good you are physically, including how big or small your John Thomas is.