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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by mirexxx(f): 11:35am On Mar 27, 2015

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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 27, 2015
mirexxx:
a guy on here?? lol! did u do the underground runz before thinking of that??
what is the romance section for anyways??
I also did the same thing in one of my threads! cheesy
for my bf tho!
babe come and see bashing! shocked grin
i was shocked oo shocked

like who did it affect? people were busy taking chloroquine for my headache! chai!! grin grin grin grin grin
Yeah I remember though I was not a registered user then

You wrote love quotes to adore your bf and the next thing was bashing here and there.. Many were like, why are you publicly advertising a guy who doesn't give a damn about you
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:44am On Mar 27, 2015
[b] You meet each other online, you hit it off. You chat at length about everything and anything. You start ignoring every other person to focus on your conversations. You both find each other physically and mentally appealing. Your curiosity becomes heightened. "I need to meen the son of Mark in person". "Mz.Nelly seems to complement me". But the son of Mark isn't making the moves so you decide to take the bull by the horn.


My missy was subtle about hers. She's a 200 level student in my school so after weeks of chatting online and on the phone (we met on my school's Facebook group), she asked if I'll be attending UniUyo bonfire night. I said 'yes' and she told me she would too though her friend wouldn't so she'll be all by herself. I read inbetween the lines - it was a subtle invitation. She is quite egoistic so I know having to ask me out wasn't an easy task. I took it from there.
Long story short: we met, held hands and had our first kiss. We've been dating since then.
[/b]

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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 11:48am On Mar 27, 2015
ireneony:
you are not alone sha....
the dude I really have a crush on just snobbed me just like that
what!!! this is why i have to keep to my shell.
but its somehow sha
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 11:50am On Mar 27, 2015
TheSonOfMark:
[b] You meet each other online, you hit it off. You chat at length about everything and anything. You start ignoring every other person to focus on your conversations. You both find each other physically and mentally appealing. Your curiosity become heightened. "I need to meen the son of Mark in person". "Mz.Nelly seems to complement me". But the son of Mark isn't making the movies so you decide to take the bull by the horn.

My missy was subtle about hers. She's a 200 level student in my school so after weeks of chatting online and on the phone, (we met on my school's Facebook group) she asked if I'll attending UniUyo bonfire night. I said 'yes' and she told me she would too though her friend wouldn't so she'll be all by herself. I read inbetween the lines - it was a subtle invitation. She is quite egoistic so I know having to ask me out wasn't an easy task. I took it from there.
Long story short: we met, held hands and had our first kiss. We've been dating since then.
[/b]
waooo...you are lucky
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 11:55am On Mar 27, 2015
lordthree:

ask him out and if he comes on here and talks about or doesn't show up then you know He's not the kind of guy that deserves your attention
scared jor
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 11:56am On Mar 27, 2015
Midehi:

what!!! this is why i have to keep to my shell.
but its somehow sha

Who knows, urs maybe different. Theirs no harm in trying u knw
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 12:00pm On Mar 27, 2015
Midehi:

scared jor

U are not woman enough grin
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 12:03pm On Mar 27, 2015
figo05:


Who knows, urs maybe different. Theirs no harm in trying u knw
i know, i dont want anything that will dstub my mind..
he may honour it but my fear is,he might come here and say odd tins that never existed cos i av read a nairaland guy narrated about his outing with a nairaland babe here & nasty things too, it was really degrading
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 12:04pm On Mar 27, 2015
That's how it should be. Since no sane man would reject a pretty lady... Side chics are allowed...
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 12:05pm On Mar 27, 2015
figo05:


U are not woman enough grin
maybe
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 12:07pm On Mar 27, 2015
Midehi:

i know, i dont want anything that will dstub my mind..
he may honour it but my fear is,he might come here and say odd tins that never existed cos i av read a nairaland guy narrated about his outing with a nairaland babe here & nasty things too, it was really degrading

Do u care?
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by ElFenomeno1: 12:12pm On Mar 27, 2015
There is no fu..cking big deal about it!
This is not 1990 or 1890!
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 12:34pm On Mar 27, 2015
ireneony:
I wanna know if it's right for a lady to ask a guy out on social media without being tagged cheap...
and what If the lady guineally crazy about the dudesmiley
now tell me, who are you crazy about in this forum, and who do you wanna asked out?
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by danbrowndmf(m): 12:51pm On Mar 27, 2015
Pinkycute derz ntn wrng abt it. b4 askn a guy out u shuld knw hw intelligent he hez n intelligent guy wunt go spreadn it up n down dt u ask him out.daz d more reason u shuld do stuff wif intelligent guyz wif ambition dan a rich kid who is poor upstair.sad
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Lentulus(m): 12:55pm On Mar 27, 2015
Nothing wrong about it. Just try to be creative about it; and not the obvious/clichéd methods.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by heatmeup(f): 12:58pm On Mar 27, 2015
ki lo buru nbe have done it b4 and it paid off
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by ShirelleBaby: 1:01pm On Mar 27, 2015
Midehi:

i know, i dont want anything that will dstub my mind..
he may honour it but my fear is,he might come here and say odd tins that never existed cos i av read a nairaland guy narrated about his outing with a nairaland babe here & nasty things too, it was really degrading

My darling
I read that saga too.
Pls just go through his past post.
There are some really cool and matured guys here.
If the guy u are crushing on talks and curse too much...pls just forget it.
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 1:15pm On Mar 27, 2015
heatmeup:
ki lo buru nbe have done it b4 and it paid off

If Nairaland is not accessible for just one will you be able to stay? Because its like here is where you earn a living. No day without post!
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by mirexxx(f): 1:17pm On Mar 27, 2015
Bisolarh:
Yeah I remember though I was not a registered user then

You wrote love quotes to adore your bf and the next thing was bashing here and there.. Many were like, why are you publicly advertising a guy who doesn't give a damn about you
Lol
they have no idea and are simply clueless grin grin

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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by tameera(f): 1:34pm On Mar 27, 2015
pinkycute:
Hmmmmmmmm

Tameera, com in and share ur thought wink

For me))) I think dere is something wrong with that ( Is not proper ).... I can't imagine myself asking a guy out on any social media... This days, some guys are kind of awkward in thinking...



I'm a very traditional lady, still love the chase nd butterflies!!!

I'd rather die than ask a guy out (no matter the circumstances)
you never can tell if the feeling is mutual or he'd just use you for jokes!
All ladies should learn to comport themselves and allow the guys do the chase!

#back to my assignments

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Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Owliver(m): 1:47pm On Mar 27, 2015
*passes by** smiley

Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 2:00pm On Mar 27, 2015
ShirelleBaby:


My darling
I read that saga too.
Pls just go through his past post.
There are some really cool and matured guys here.
If the guy u are crushing on talks and curse too much...pls just forget it.
yea...he dosnt
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by lordthree(m): 2:11pm On Mar 27, 2015
Midehi:

scared jor
eyah now you know what guys go through, who knows maybe the guy's scared as well
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by ipleddge: 2:14pm On Mar 27, 2015
ireneony:
I wanna know if it's right for a lady to ask a guy out on social media without being tagged cheap...
and what If the lady guineally crazy about the dudesmiley
Nothing bad in asking a guy out on social media as nothing bad asking a girl out in social media
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by stephenqueen: 2:17pm On Mar 27, 2015
Bisolarh:
I though of doing it to a dude on this forum just because of the crucification I will face, I decided to stop
undecided undecided
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 2:17pm On Mar 27, 2015
lordthree:

eyah now you know what guys go through, who knows maybe the guy's scared as well
i have not send anything yet
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Nobody: 2:18pm On Mar 27, 2015
lordthree:

eyah now you know what guys go through, who knows maybe the guy's scared as well
i have not send anything yet, he dosnt evn know
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by lordthree(m): 2:22pm On Mar 27, 2015
Midehi:

i have not send anything yet, he dosnt evn know
you both dont pm?
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Macmilla(m): 2:23pm On Mar 27, 2015
mirexxx:
who are those frowning? grin grin
there's nothing wrong in expressing urself as a lady
"freedom of expression"
not only restricted to the guys!
if the guy sees it as "sumhw" then he should f^ck off! smiley
Please ask me out naah. Pleeeaase cry
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by Macmilla(m): 2:25pm On Mar 27, 2015
Bisolarh:
I though of doing it to a dude on this forum just because of the crucification I will face, I decided to stop
Seriously? Please where are you? Can we have lunch together? embarassed
Re: Is It Proper For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out On Social Media by mirexxx(f): 2:35pm On Mar 27, 2015
Macmilla:

Please ask me out naah. Pleeeaase cry
grin grin

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