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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by cococandy(f): 5:43am On Mar 29, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Abbott(m): 6:36am On Mar 29, 2015 |
MadCow1: Wow!!! Bravoooo!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 6:37am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Raymie:But then it's not just two women feuding, is it? How then can I treat it as such? 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by pickabeau1: 6:55am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4: This is d same question I asked op but he has not answered Mama is diabolical but her son is clean ba.... Yeye dey smell.... |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by dBard: 7:23am On Mar 29, 2015 |
freecocoa: I particularly like what you said about authority. It's astonishing that peeps be giving reasons why a young wife will raise her hands against an elder one. Frankly. Lesson though; it's not everyone that opens a thread about counseling has something good to pass on. The messenger is as /even more important than the message. 'nuff said. This thread should end. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 7:54am On Mar 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: As in ... A case of black mud pot begets a delicious and tangy white pap? Yeah before nko, woe betide that dirty good for nothing achaic occultic looking muddy pot , kik it to the curb already abi wetin sef. Respect ko, Referal ni.. 'That's soo old school'. Everyone will definately sow what they reap... oh sorry .. 'reap what they sow IN FOLDS ON EARTH' , I mean. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by iiichidodo: 8:01am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Flytefalls:[b] Utter sentimental crap...the sort that should get the OP serious marital trouble with the wife pretty much encouraged to do worse maybe poison the OP if ever she suffers any indiscretions like all humans must go through,if you ask us.Then when you now look at rights you'd noticed a sinster pattern here..the wife being obsessed with her turf and going eyeball to eyeball with a greater extention of the OP,a matriach, a living institution, this is akin to desecrating a hallowed altar or shrine for that matter,what happened to 'stoop to conquer'? That shows a massive disrespect to the OP nevermind the OP's brothers,sisters,father even kinsmen,worse still the OP,his kids stands a greater danger of being isolated from the greater commune - a development that could negatively affect them in critical aspects of their young lives- if he doesn't show who is in charge here because no one will want anything to do with a poisoned apple of a family.Yes, it is better for worse death do us part blah blah but a tree cannot make a forest alone-this is not America-especially if that tree's innocent children face the injustice of being cut off due to the mad indiscretions of the mother and the bumbling hesitancy of the father(in Africa the child becomes the bizness of everyone including the extended family).The matriach might be wrong slapping the wife but all that flew outta the window the moment she battered the matriach especially if the wife cannot do the same to her own mother.OP is not lookin to make friends btw the two-that ship has since sailed since the wife didn't voluntarily leave after the slap- but should look out to solving this matter laying down the law and boundaries but not before dishing out punitive measures to both parties...and we believe the wife should bear the greater brunt of it to get her to reformation,remorse and true repentance( how else is he gonna set down markers if he's percieved as a wuss?) while the mother who beared most of the bodily harm should recieve medical treatment before a serious telling off by her son with threats or bluffs of cuttin her off completely and maybe an extended family censure. [/b] 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 8:14am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4:After growing up with a mother(african own o), I go come raise hand slap my MIL sake of say she slap me? Lol, my mama will bow her head in shame in the grave. I just pity the naive, gullible and misguided ones, who will swallow all the read here because they are being told MILS are evil. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 8:36am On Mar 29, 2015 |
freecocoa: None of my family members will follow me to apologize which kain yeye apology be that, we all know it's an eye service one. Had a thorough thought concerning this MIL issue and came to a conclusion that people are product of their upbringing & experience ( I've said that before on Male teacher thread too) ... Example; I Read a post on this same thread about how the poster's Father stopped relation with his mother (poster's grandma) because she had a heated altercation with poster's mom. His father never spoke to none of his relatives including his mother, till his mother's passing ( no money for food , nothing from a son you raised & go hungry for to pay his tuition) .. What advice do you expect from such person Biko? I'll look for that post.. I'm coming |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by crackhaus: 8:38am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4:Hehehehe... Figurative 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 8:40am On Mar 29, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez: He got 35likes from DILs from HELL See advice; 'Your mama time don pass' Lord have mercy. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 8:42am On Mar 29, 2015 |
crackhaus: Crack' na you I dey follow oh |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by crackhaus: 8:47am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4: 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 8:49am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4:Just imagine, and they usually blame it on bible saying a man shall leave his parents and become one flesh with the spouse, how does that mean disrespecting and abandoning them? If you become one with a man, doesn't that automatically mean whatever is his also becomes yours? Why then won't you treat his mum like yours? I do know that there are exceptionally bad MILS, so are there also bad DILS, it is not fair to push the blame on MIL always, especially not in cases like this one. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 8:58am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4:As in eh, I no even fit shout. You know people filled with hate when you read from them. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Chillis: 9:02am On Mar 29, 2015 |
crackhaus: You know the strength of an angry man. Trust me you won't see it coming. You only feel the numbness As per my teeth, I no fear o. Dem Don comot am finish. So nothing to loose. That's the change I'm talking about. |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 9:03am On Mar 29, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Ewuro4: 9:05am On Mar 29, 2015 |
freecocoa: You get. Nite |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by crackhaus: 9:07am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Chillis:My reflexes are supersonic, I will see it coming Pics of your mouth with no teeth or adonbelivit... |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by edwife(f): 9:11am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Chillis: Chills go church! Na plastic you get for mouth? |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by edwife(f): 9:12am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Morning 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by freecocoa(f): 9:14am On Mar 29, 2015 |
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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Chillis: 9:16am On Mar 29, 2015 |
edwife: Fake teeth |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Chillis: 9:18am On Mar 29, 2015 |
crackhaus:
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Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Emaprince: 9:20am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4:these DILs will become MILs oneday and they will know how painful it is to be disrespected by wife of the boy they trained. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by edwife(f): 9:22am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Chillis: You are crazy . I just came to read you and crackhaus comments,i love reading from both of you .... |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by pickabeau1: 9:23am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Ewuro4: No mind them.... Mama wan use the pishurr do jazz na Nansense n ingredients In d old days the girl should go home for some re training If this man loses his job, this kind of wife will beat the hubby up. 1 Like |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by edwife(f): 9:24am On Mar 29, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Lol |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Chillis: 9:27am On Mar 29, 2015 |
edwife: Did you read my story in our ****. I have taken it off. Hope you saw it. If not, too bad. It's gone. Happy Sunday. Btw, do you remember akpu ka nti.you know this swollen jaw . childhood days when you eat strong dry corn . What's the name in English. I don't see it happening again |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by pickabeau1: 9:27am On Mar 29, 2015 |
edwife: I am telling you She does not respect her hubby even after his admonitions to be calm around his mum |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by edwife(f): 9:29am On Mar 29, 2015 |
Chillis: story when? chills please go back and write,biko Why should i be the only one missing?not fair.... @swollen jaw,me sef i don't know Happy Sunday sweetie |
Re: Pls Help!! My Wife Fought With My Mother Following A Quarrel. What Should I Do? by Chillis: 9:35am On Mar 29, 2015 |
edwife: That's how crackhaus jaw will look like when they knock off his teeth. The story long. I will type again when I come back from church. I wan go church today. Bless you |
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