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Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 10:47am On Apr 05, 2015 |
People have in their mind set as Love being the most important reason of settling down. But don't you think marriage goes beyond love? My friend has been battling with this marriage stuff, he has been looking for a Lady he could truly luv,to settle down with. For more than 5 years now but all to no avail. And age is not on his side,he needs advice!!! Wot are the major things dat cud be considered for one to go into marriage when the true luv is not found yet? ...
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Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Acekidc4(m): 10:48am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Huh!! |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by iceberylin(m): 10:49am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Since he cant find a Girl in 5yrs he should hunt for Ladies. |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 10:49am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Acekidc4: Any advice bro? |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 10:53am On Apr 05, 2015 |
iceberylin: Error from me (gal) .he wants a lady he could luv...but he usually av just likeness for dem, he finds it difficult to find the one he cud truly luv |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by njuwo(m): 11:26am On Apr 05, 2015 |
rexericx:People dey marry goat now na. Must he marry girl? |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by fuckshit: 11:29am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Wot are the major things dat cud be considered for one to go into marriage when the true luv is not found yet?now, this to a moderate extent is of interest to me; shouldn't love be the fücking core foundation amongst others; be the fücking key issue here; “marriage" or just fücking “others" minus fücking “true love" (which could be another fücking subject of debate “True Love" ) just fücking wonder what them fücking “others" would be 1 Like |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 11:39am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 11:41am On Apr 05, 2015 |
fuckshit: Others minus true luv or it sud just be based on true luv |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by mirexxx(f): 11:47am On Apr 05, 2015 |
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Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Ezedon(m): 11:49am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Just stay single, may be its not in your destiny to marry, nobody runs away from destiny |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 11:54am On Apr 05, 2015 |
Ezedon: Infact the guy is so used to himself, dat he spend much of his time all by himself wishing some day he wud find true luv, cos he does nt want to b going around breaking innocent ladies hearts. But age is d problem. Time, and he is scared of Divorce . |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Ezedon(m): 12:05pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rexericx:No time is late, true love dont fall from heaven, one need to build up love by himself, he should start taking the right step 2 Likes |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 12:09pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Ezedon: Thank u thank u, but responsibility on his shoulder. He is d first son. N d only son,parents n people are looking up to him , frustration is setting in already,phew! |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 12:11pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 1:05pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Doh he had a lady he dated for 4 good years, but after d lady got tru wit her nysc n started working, she started showing different colors n she was becoming "Unavailable", until she found the courage to tell him dat she as an Anambra lady wud not be allowed to marry an Ondo man (yoruba)..her mother said no.all of a sudden she realized dat 'Genenotype' wise dey are not compatible! and dat marked d end of d relationship. Ever since den he has been doing all he can to find tru luv. 5yrs now still waiting |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by fuckshit: 1:11pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rexericx:from my fücking angle; true love & “others"; to a certain extent “others" helps true love grow; to me this is the fücking crux of the issue growing in love; which is what certain relationships fücking lack today; leaving that stage of “falling inlove" to fücking “growing in love" together. by others, I am not just referring to money alone here; motive is one; Our fücking motives can influence how we fücking feel about our intimate relationship, Trust; how fücking trusting we are of our partner & even what we hope to gain from each other Understanding; this can fücking help foster long-lasting & mutually satisfying relationships; meaning that understanding what fücking drives ones relationship can fücking help one to understand thier partner & how to fücking respond to each other. for me I feel these are some of the shїt in “others" that fücking helps true love grow; but this has to be a fücking two way thing; for those who fücking want to be in a serious honest relationship, with the fücking hope of probably leading to marriage 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Nobody: 1:24pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Tell him to marry his best friend. 1 Like |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 1:33pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
fuckshit: Wow- u are rite,dis is making sense 1 Like |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 1:35pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
MzNelly: Dis is another good point, one sud marry his best friend. My friend usually say sud i marry my best woman or a rite woman Lik- a BestMan or Right man? 1 Like |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Nobody: 1:39pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
A marriage without love? Man I don't believe in that. Because of love, you will tolerate the other person, because of love you will come to understand the other person. Because of love you will learn to live with the other person. Because of love you last through the years even after the spark is gone and the passion has faded. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 1:42pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rokiatu: Do u mean luv sud b d foundation. Of marriage, but is likeness not enuf, wen u can't seem to find tru luv |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Nobody: 1:45pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rexericx:love should be part of the reasons. |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Nobody: 1:49pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
You cant have a marriage without love .. If there is no love it will never work .. Whether its love for the oerson , his family some its even money But love is the foundation.. Then u have trust , loyality, honesty, communication ....... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 1:50pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rokiatu:But can't luv be grown as d relationship grows,or marriage, sud one find luv first before going into marriage? But wot sud b d core reason for one to go into it |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 1:54pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Lala247: If u mention luv dis way,den d luv has become conditional. Tot luv is meant to b unconditional wen it comes to loving. ,cos if it's conditional, d tins dat made it conditional cud fade away, n d marriage cud crumble easily |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Nobody: 1:55pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rexericx:I believe in love marriage so am just saying what I believe in. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 1:58pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rokiatu: Everyone wants marriage dats build on luv but it seems it's rear to find dis days, if one can't find it, wot sud b other reasons one can consider. Luv can b do beautiful wen its found |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Nobody: 2:00pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rexericx:I wouldn't advice you to marry without love sorry. I believe someone else may advice you thou. Good luck. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Nobody: 2:02pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rexericx: The bottom line is there is no marriage without love .. If they marry for other reason it will never work . *sips red wind* 1 Like |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by Nobody: 2:04pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rokiatu:bcaus of love u will send me an email containing ur whatsaap number,BBM pin, instagram username,facebuk username,twitter username,skype username and even 2go username. because of love u gv me all ur contact unless u dnt love me. 1 Like |
Re: Other Reasons For Getting Married by rexericx(m): 2:08pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
rokiatu: Hmmm,dere is a lot of sense in ur comments, luv is d bedrock,rite? |
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