I over heard some people talking some days ago and since then ,it has been disturbing my mind and I felt I should share with fellow nairalanders .
I learnt one of the guys have been dating a lady for good two years .the lady all the while has been a regular church girl and there has been holy relationship between them -no kissing ,no sex . the girl all along has been a gentle girl and respectful . one of the reasons the guy decided to settle down with her because he loves peace of mind in any relationship and the lady has been cooperating in that line too . to the guy surprise , two days to their wedding during one of the plans to make the d day successful an argument came up and the lady stood up to the guy ,shouted on him and he nearly slap the guy . the guy said he was just confused and it was as if he was dreaming . he didn't believe the lady has such a loud voice and such attitude all these while and now its two days to the wedding .
If you find yourself in this kind of situation what would be your next line of action . knowing fully well that this is just introduction to problem

I will dump her sorry a.ss

Sparrow13:
I will dump her sorry a.ss

Not that simple

This OP and his "I heard" stories.

This path of business you are treading won't pay you

*in D banj's voice* "now u don enta one chance,one chance,one chance.







...... Still processing apporiate Response

angelTI:
This OP and his "I heard" stories.

This path of business you are treading won't pay you

So u sabi d guy.
Ok, my eyes r on him too.

yomi007k:

So u sabi d guy.
Ok, my eyes r on him too.

Lol

ammyluv2002:
Not that simple

a broken relationship is always, better than a broken marriage

angelTI:
This OP and his "I heard" stories.

This path of business you are treading won't pay you

It just came upon me ni ..like a spirit .lolzzz
Next week it may be on technology lol

yomi007k:

So u sabi d guy.
Ok, my eyes r on him too.

I can't laugh ...

ammyluv2002:
Not that simple

No mind am..... *mimics him* Yeye ye ye Yeye ye
Like it's that easy?

angelTI:
This OP and his "I heard" stories.

This path of business you are treading won't pay you

ademega:

It just came upon me ni ..like a spirit .lolzzz
Next week it may be on technology lol

You better rebuke the spirit bro

angelTI:


You better rebuke the spirit bro

Its good naw ..at least people will learn .that is why this forum was created

This is see gobe!

What caused the argument?

angelTI:
This OP and his "I heard" stories.

This path of business you are treading won't pay you

itx not a bad deed to hear a story and tell others about it for lesson's sake. This is an important issue for younger folks who are looking to settledown. If u are a peaceful dude and u suddenly encounter dis kind of situation u will quickly opt to change yur mind whereas dat may not be d best sollution. I spoilt my wife wid expensive gifts and valuable cash and got a car for her befor we got married. She was still in sch. I wouldnt advice som1 to do dat cause it caused a lot of strange character breeding that took divine intervention to curb. Not every home would be that lucky, so u stop it now by learning from others and being patient on love no matter the urge. We survived divorce by the whiskers! Never discourage posters cause of hearsay reasons - som1 is there who is learning. U 1day will need it, even tho u do now but dont know or refuse to admit. U are bigger than this my dota. Now this post is part of yur history and registered to yur username as a bad contribution. Some members just get bitter and post it and cant go a day without hating. They are bent on being their badselves. Dontbe like them so it wont becom yur inbuilt habit. I like to look at forum members' history. Am not alone. Always be reasonable and watch what u post esp wen it comes to discouragement, mudslinging and malicious black&white silence... or u just skip to another thread without any comment or rejoinder. There is so much to learn in the world.

Sparrow13:
I will dump her sorry a.ss

After dumbing her, start writing your auto biography, buy a space in cemetery, do the necessary plan for your ....
I promise you she must get to you no matter how fast you may run for your dear life.


Bro. Drop such idea.
Ladies don't take it easy with men that broke their heart. The funny thing about their action is they are not ready to reason and accept if their action warrant such reaction from you or not. The only thing running in their ungodly mind is a deadly revenge at all cost.

nairalife2013:
itx not a bad deed to hear a story and tell others about it for lesson's sake. This is an important issue for younger folks who are looking to settledown. If u are a peaceful dude and u suddenly encounter dis kind of situation u will quickly opt to change yur mind whereas dat may not be d best sollution. I spoilt my wife wid expensive gifts and valuable cash and got a car for her befor we got married. She was still in sch. I wouldnt advice som1 to do dat cause it caused a lot of strange character breeding that took divine intervention to curb. We survived divorce by the whiskers! Never discourage posters cause of hearsay reasons - som1 is there who is learning. U 1day will need it, even tho u do now but dont know or refuse to admit. U are bigger than this my dota. Now this post is part of yur history and registered to yur username as a bad contribution. Some members just get bitter and post it and cant go a day without hating. They are bent on being their badselves. Dontbe like them so it wont becom yur inbuilt habit. I like to look at forum members' history. Am not alone. Always be reasonable and watch what u post esp wen it comes to discouragement, mudslinging and malicious black&white silence... or u just skip to another thread without any comment or rejoinder. There is so much to learn in the world.

Hhmmà

nairalife2013:
itx not a bad deed to hear a story and tell others about it for lesson's sake. This is an important issue for younger folks who are looking to settledown. If u are a peaceful dude and u suddenly encounter dis kind of situation u will quickly opt to change yur mind whereas dat may not be d best sollution. I spoilt my wife wid expensive gifts and valuable cash and got a car for her befor we got married. She was still in sch. I wouldnt advice som1 to do dat cause it caused a lot of strange character breeding that took divine intervention to curb. Not every home would be that lucky, so u stop it now by learning from others and being patient on love no matter the urge. We survived divorce by the whiskers! Never discourage posters cause of hearsay reasons - som1 is there who is learning. U 1day will need it, even tho u do now but dont know or refuse to admit. U are bigger than this my dota. Now this post is part of yur history and registered to yur username as a bad contribution. Some members just get bitter and post it and cant go a day without hating. They are bent on being their badselves. Dontbe like them so it wont becom yur inbuilt habit. I like to look at forum members' history. Am not alone. Always be reasonable and watch what u post esp wen it comes to discouragement, mudslinging and malicious black&white silence... or u just skip to another thread without any comment or rejoinder. There is so much to learn in the world.

Well said . people like you will not make some of us to stop posting what will be beneficial to humanity .
Thanks .I couldn't have replied her this better

venatus25:

After dumbing her, start writing your auto biography, buy a space in cemetery, do the necessary plan for your ....
I promise you she must get to you no matter how fast you may run for your dear life.


Bro. Drop such idea.
Ladies don't take it easy with men that broke their heart. The funny thing about their action is they are not ready to reason and accept if their action warrant such reaction from you or not. The only thing running in their ungodly mind is a deadly revenge at all cost.

I think u are talking from experience. Women were molded wid kid-like minds. U hav to be careful wid them or u go down six feet widout her even knowing she is d1 dat killed u!

nairalife2013:
I think u are talking from experience. Women were molded wid kid-like minds. U hav to be careful wid them or u go down six feet widout her even knowing she is d1 dat killed u!

You are on point bro. May God protect us from bad ladies. And give us the wisdom to cope with them.

what is cause of the argument?

Sophyrocks:
what is cause of the argument?

I Dont know . but I guess it was on arrangements of the day

The elders say "If your partner has never farted in your presence, dump him/her cus such person will hide things from you".. That said, i wonder how she was able to camouflage for that long.. Maybe because of age, its not my bizness sha.

Girls and pretence are like bread and butter.

Some lose their cool so easily. Others take time to do so.

But before you claim you know a girl, make sure you have seen her worst..

I dont get this? Do you know the stress of planning a wedding and fear of the unknown can make you flare up?2yrs you say....no 'outspoken'lady can pretend that long to curb her emotions!

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ademega:
[b]I over heard some people talking some days ago [/b]and since then ,it has been disturbing my mind and I felt I should share with fellow nairalanders .
I learnt one of the guys have been dating a lady for good two years .the lady all the while has been a regular church girl and there has been holy relationship between them -no kissing ,no sex . the girl all along has been a gentle girl and respectful . one of the reasons the guy decided to settle down with her because he loves peace of mind in any relationship and the lady has been cooperating in that line too . to the guy surprise , two days to their wedding during one of the plans to make the d day successful an argument came up and the lady stood up to the guy ,shouted on him and he nearly slap the guy . the guy said he was just confused and it was as if he was dreaming . he didn't believe the lady has such a loud voice and such attitude all these while and now its two days to the wedding .
If you find yourself in this kind of situation what would be your next line of action . knowing fully well that this is just introduction to problem

Why are you Always Hearing Stories?

It seems you are a Professional Gossip

venatus25:

After dumbing her, start writing your auto biography, buy a space in cemetery, do the necessary plan for your ....
I promise you she must get to you no matter how fast you may run for your dear life.


Bro. Drop such idea.
Ladies don't take it easy with men that broke their heart. The funny thing about their action is they are not ready to reason and accept if their action warrant such reaction from you or not. The only thing running in their ungodly mind is a deadly revenge at all cost.

are you speaking from experience

moski5:


are you speaking from experience

Ask a learned senior bro, may be he will be able to clear your doubt on my point.

This happened to a friend of mine. Infact, his own was at the registry where they went to do the court marriage. He was stuck in traffic and got there late only for the lady to start screaming at him in the presence of his family and hers. This was a woman that had never shouted at him before even when he had done worse. He felt really embarrassed but that was just the beginning.

The marriage lasted only 9 months. Almost a year now and he is yet to get over it. He said the incidence at the Court was just a sign from God because at that time he had seen another side of her he had never seen before and considered not going through with it.