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Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by morgba(f): 12:13pm On Apr 08, 2015
I neva seen such a thing, una do well with ur advice
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by OracleMxNelson(m): 12:14pm On Apr 08, 2015
You may need to see your psychotherapist or psychologist... Just in case there are any psychological undertones as to why you bedwet... It has been shown that a history of traumatic childhood experiences especially as it relates to family life can put one at risk of enuresis... (bedwetting)

Also a neurosurgeon can explain to you what bladder training is... It involves having a strict timetable for passing out urine until your bladder gets used to it... You may need a very loud alarm clock.

You may pm me
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by ojnnaco(m): 12:15pm On Apr 08, 2015
They is absolutely nothing wrong with u.. In fact,am telling u from my own experience and when u will stop d bed wettin u won't even know.. Just try as much as possible to reduce ur liquid intake towards night and do eat ur dinner on time

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Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by Nobody: 12:17pm On Apr 08, 2015
I struggled with this until I was way past 20 or there about...

These might help:

1) reduce your food intake whether day or night, Especially at night. Like some others have suggested, eat before 6pm or if you must eat after that, it should be half your normal ration.

2) avoid excessive video games and movies especially till late in the night. You should endeavour to sleep early, as this will enable you wake up at intervals at night. Like someone mentioned earlier, observe your siesta even if it's for 15-30 mins.

3) stop watching porn movies. This will build up lustful desires in you, and ur urino-genitals will be weak, and difficult to control.

4) reduce your alcohol intake, and don't be coerced to do what you do not want by peers. . . Imbibe self discipline.

5) be conscious of yourself, and your environment while you sleep. Set mental alarms for yourself and ensure you meet up with them. When I did mine, there were no phones and there was no alarm clock in my house.

6) I can now drink alot of water as I've always liked it, but there was a time I restrained myself from excessive water intake. . . Whenever you drink water at night, ensure you attempt to take pee- no matter how little it may be.

7) this list is not complete yet. . . If I recall any of the tricks I used, I'll add them.

8.) avoid the psychological effect the stigma might have caused you... Don't be depressed, and don't lose your self-esteem.

9) send me a private email.

10) above all, believe in God and be prayerful. . . It's worth it.

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Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by rbabadiddi: 12:25pm On Apr 08, 2015
I'm 19 and still bed wetting. I have done everything I could do, it hasn't stopped.

Please anyone who has any information about what I can do should please share with me.

Thanks!


*These things can be treated in the hospital but many people don't know that. I advise you to go to the hospital and don't feel shy to disclose every detail to the doctor. Also, make sure you take all the drugs he prescribed to you no matter how expensive. Remember, don't go to the chemist but hospital pls and by God's grace your problem will be solved!!!
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by airzzee(m): 12:37pm On Apr 08, 2015
I have a relative who bed-wetted till he entered the university. He stopped at about 19 years of age, when he had s3x for the first time. It is still a surprise to me.

On a serious note, ARE YOU A VIRGIN?

Confirm if you are. Be honest to yourself. But, if you are still a Virgin, and wish to continue that way, then, you can:

1. Reduce water intake in the night;
2. Determine the time you usually bed-wet
3. Set an alarm to wake you up half an hour before then;
4. Choose to read more in the night, if you are a student; even if you are not a student, reading is still very good for you.


NOTE: IT SURELY PAYS TO REMAIN A VIRGIN UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED. TYERE IS NOTHING IN S3X.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by tayeshe86(m): 12:38pm On Apr 08, 2015
You should try and caution yourself by reading till 2:00am before you sleep off
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by donlyone(m): 12:39pm On Apr 08, 2015
It has to do with the mind.

When you urinate in the day time you always do it absent minded. You think about other things when you urinate.

the best way to fix the problem is concentrate when urinating. Clear all thoughts from your mind when urinating. Make sure that no drop of urine is passed without your effort/say so.

Continue this until it becomes a part of you. You'll notice that when sleeping and a drop of urine escapes you, you'll wake up immediately.

With time you'll wake up just before you need to pee.

Hope I'm helpful
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by Ilekeh(f): 12:49pm On Apr 08, 2015
OP, if you post with your original ID, I may be a bit more sympathetic.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by anigold(m): 12:55pm On Apr 08, 2015
Ekiseme:
prayers for what exactly?

dude Am a Christian and I strongly believe that Prayers can open doors...
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by anigold(m): 12:57pm On Apr 08, 2015
emperormero:
I struggled with this until I was way past 20 or there about...

These might help:

1) reduce your food intake whether day or night, Especially at night. Like some others have suggested, eat before 6pm or if you must eat after that, it should be half your normal ration.

2) avoid excessive video games and movies especially till late in the night. You should endeavour to sleep early, as this will enable you wake up at intervals at night. Like someone mentioned earlier, observe your siesta even if it's for 15-30 mins.

3) stop watching porn movies. This will build up lustful desires in you, and ur urino-genitals will be weak, and difficult to control.

4) reduce your alcohol intake, and don't be coerced to do what you do not want by peers. . . Imbibe self discipline.

5) be conscious of yourself, and your environment while you sleep. Set mental alarms for yourself and ensure you meet up with them. When I did mine, there were no phones and there was no alarm clock in my house.

6) I can now drink alot of water as I've always liked it, but there was a time I restrained myself from excessive water intake. . . Whenever you drink water at night, ensure you attempt to take pee- no matter how little it may be.

7) this list is not complete yet. . . If I recall any of the tricks I used, I'll add them.

8.) avoid the psychological effect the stigma might have caused you... Don't be depressed, and don't lose your self-esteem.

9) send me a private email.

10) above all, believe in God and be prayerful. . . It's worth it.


excellent post and excellent advice.
The OP should read this..

bed-wetting can be so embarrassing..
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by NgwaManNaija4LF(m): 1:00pm On Apr 08, 2015
Drink more water baby,drink,drink,drink. Then you will notice your penis singing pi pi pi pi ro pi pi ro. grin grin grin grin Any sorry, I hope you can control yourself soon boy.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by Nobody: 1:01pm On Apr 08, 2015
stop drinking water in d evening, urinate as much as you can before sleeping.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by cana882(m): 1:03pm On Apr 08, 2015
once its 6pm, don't take any liquid. bt d fastest way's by tying a snake arnd ur waste so if u wee, it'll bite u grin
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by Nobody: 1:04pm On Apr 08, 2015
ronkiss:
am a girl, av tried most of this things.
Visit any psychiatrist hospital close to you. A relative was had same issue was referred there by a family friend(doctor) and a drug was prescribed to him(imipramin). Now the rest is history
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by gidjah(m): 1:06pm On Apr 08, 2015
i did same till my sec sch .reduce too much filled stomach and mental play.work on the kind of activities u engage during the day else it will tell on u at night. pray about it constantly too.above all watch too filled stomach and water.reduce films and games seriously
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by funkyjms: 1:08pm On Apr 08, 2015
mercylicious:
Lots of nice advice given so far.
I've noticed that most ppl DT bedwet play a lot during the day, they sleep off and don't turn till morning.
Get someone to be waking u up intermittently at night to go and urinate. When they wake u up, even if u are not pressed to urinate ,attempt to pee. This should be done every night, and with time, ur body system will adjust to waking up every night to pee.

FOr now, once its 7pm, stop water intake or intake of any liquid.

If u fall into d group DT dream of urinating, have it in ur subconscious to wake up whenever u have such dream. Never urinate on ur dream.

I hope these works for you.

This is true. In fact, when you manage to get them up from bed at night-this is another herculean task on its own, they sleep-walk down to the kitchen, open pot of stew and when they recover, voila the deed is done!

It takes proper monitoring, care and discipline, above all, God's grace.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by NobleG1(m): 1:14pm On Apr 08, 2015
ronkiss:
I'm 19 and still bed wetting. I have done everything I could do, it hasn't stopped.

Please anyone who has any information about what I can do should please share with me.

Thanks

Bedwetting can be an embarrasing issue. And it tends to run in families. It's more common among among boys than girls.

Do not blame yourself. Remind yourself that it is not your fault. There is no need to feel guilty or dirty. And remember that no one can tell just by looking at you that you have this problem.

Cut down on alcohol. Trial and error will show you if this helps. Similarly, try cutting down on all liquids, especially, in the evening. It's very important.

Use an alarm clock to wake you a couple of hours or so after going to bed, and a couple of hours before your usual waking time. Vary the time every few days, to avoid getting into the habit of emptying the bladder at the same time each night. 

Try sleeping in a different bed, or moving to a different room or even just moving your bed into a different position – some people find this helps.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by Shollay20(m): 1:29pm On Apr 08, 2015
If you are the type loving physical playing, like playing football during the day time it may leads to bedwet, running, dancing, or any sort of physical playing... If you can minimize or stop it, and avoid unlawful dreaming, like i hold my girl friend or we kiss each other. You may thing its aday time playing, or do funny thing, but before you no bedwet has occured.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by Nobody: 1:32pm On Apr 08, 2015
Simple thing......just stop drinking water.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by chlowi(f): 1:33pm On Apr 08, 2015
i Op,
Firstly, i want to assure you that the situation which you find yourself has been faced and conquered by a lot of people. Secondly you are not the only one facing this challenge. it can really demoralize and dampen one's spirit , many a times it leaves many with low self esteem . But in all you need to trust God and go the extra mile of hard work to change this.

i will be as short as possible in my write up as i am currently working on other stuff

1. please pray to God about it
2. you need to have the zeal to change the situation.
3. identify the problem (medical or otherwise ), if medical, please see a doctor. Otherwise ? continue reading
4. please do not eat or drink after 6pm, if you must, ensure you eat/ drink in small quantity/amount
5. Before bed , make every conscious effort to pee at least 3times every night, if you would require help, call on a relative to wake you up every one /two hours to go pee.
6. THE FAMOUS PEE DREAM: op you need to speak to your inner man to be alert even in sleep, because the bible also mentioned sleep as one of the times a christian can be vulnerable. tell yourself that what you see in that dream is not real (seeing yourself urinating in an exotic toilet in a dream only to be awakened to a stream of your own urine drenched in it , while sleeping ) train your unconsciousness to wake up when you experiencing the pee dream because psychologically , that is your brain telling you you need to go urinate , only that it plays a fast one on you (deceit), so the challenge here (which is not too hard if you really want to stop bed-wetting) is to wake up when you see that dream .
7. remember its not easy but it is doable , the reason i said pray about it .once you do all of these consistently for a period of 3months, if your condition is not a medically related one , then your problem is solved .

i wish you the best and ill say a prayer for you. cheers.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by Benice007(m): 1:48pm On Apr 08, 2015
Read Psalms 23 for seven days and seven night, use the Bible as a pillow for seven nights. God bless you.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by grad2012(f): 1:50pm On Apr 08, 2015
Dont worry it will stop, just try and reduce ur rough play ok cas dat actually causes it.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by Nteogwuija(m): 1:57pm On Apr 08, 2015
My brother I was once like you but God through his infinite mercies saved me, mine was worst even till when I was 20, I still saw my self bedwetting, that was three yrs ago, I read through all the solutions that has been proffered so far, all are good ones but in my case I did all of those but it never worked, even to the extent i will stay purposely stay awake till 12am even 2am but when I sleep, I still bedwet b4 morning. My case was embarrassing, frustrating and it was more of an ordeal, it even got worst, to the extent i even bedwet in my shared hostel room and even when I slept in the church, this is to show you how outrageous my situation was. I couldn't take it anymore. This fateful day I woke up crying profusely, thinking I was helpless in trying to salvage my situation, but I took courage and I went to meet a coordinator in my fellowship while on campus, I narrated my ordeal with tears rolling down my chin, after then we prayed together and to the glory of God I was made whole, that was three years ago. To the best of my knowledge I think this bedwetting stuff has its limit, but when it's a persistent occurrence from 15 upward then I think it's no longer normal. My candid advice is that you too can do what I did, look for a spiritual confidant, it must not necessarily be your general overseer, then explain your situation and wait for God to perform his miracle in your life. Also never stop praying!
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by Nobody: 2:15pm On Apr 08, 2015
Do not eat nor drink any liquid e.g water after 5pm and if bedwetting continues after applying these measures then u need go see a doctor ASAP.

Signs of prostate for men or diabetes that is if it is medically related issue.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by davidigomanel: 2:26pm On Apr 08, 2015
It happens to me at that age but wht help me is bladder training. Learn to control ur self when urinating, don't eat lata from 6pm take little containing of water, check ur glucose levels is u re not hv DM, if u hv treat it and others.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by kalybaly: 2:27pm On Apr 08, 2015
Anytime u feel like peeing. Hold it up for as long as u can.
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by davedave1: 2:31pm On Apr 08, 2015
Note : Take my advise seriously, if symptoms persist afta 3weeks, kindly consult ur spiritual guidance.



1. Drastically reduce water intake afta 6pm

2. Anytime u are preesed, always do it at ur will, i.e dnt give in immediately, restrict it fr abt 10mins or more dan if u can, then go and urinate willingly.

3. Practice waking up at least 2wice in a night, and wen u do, go nd urinate, even if its nt coming, go to d bathroom nd do dat *hiss* thin old women used to do fr children.

4. Repeat dis method daily
Thank me later nd thank d mod dat helped u push ds to FP...peace out
Re: No INSULT Please.... 19 Years Still Bedwetting... by ricki: 2:35pm On Apr 08, 2015
Mine stop at 14 and I was determined to just stop it. I started to study the cause of the problem which eventually are my DREAMS. I play hard during the day and continue during my sleep. So immediately I fixed that problem solved.

I trained myself by waking and catching myself trying and or wanting to wee either during dreams or otherwise.

Secondly, I decided to let go of my bad habits like insolence, mad manners, anger, been disrespectful , laziness, lack of concern because they all follow you to the bed.

Just my experience

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