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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Lilprincey(m): 3:54pm On Apr 09, 2015
Konji never hold am b4 leave am
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Odunharry(m): 3:54pm On Apr 09, 2015
shocked
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by moscobabs(m): 3:54pm On Apr 09, 2015
Drop ur phone number




Maybe one Samaritan from nairaland could help


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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by ilovecritics(m): 3:55pm On Apr 09, 2015
Andrew114:
[sup][/sup] lols you bad o so na the advise way u give be dat grin:-D

I dey type my advise.. I just say make I buy land! grin
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by justjify(m): 3:55pm On Apr 09, 2015
ilovecritics:
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for your mind you be FTC abi? angry
now, aside robbing LewisO the chance of being the FTC, tell me what you have contributed? angry

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Yeeyo: 3:55pm On Apr 09, 2015
Go 4 prostitution......
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Apr 09, 2015
ayoayo911:
My husband is a very faithful man, no extra babes or stuff but only makes love to me like once a month,yes we sleep on same bed under same roof. He disvirgined me after we were married 6 yrs ago. i feel sex starved, and cant even think of cheating on him. how do i tell if its low libido and what can i do to improve our sex life. i need help pls. thanks


CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER? MY WIFE STARVES ME OF SEX TOO. WE CAN HOOK UP IF YOU WANT. I HAVE A 10 INCH DEEK. THINK ABOUT IT AND PM ME undecided
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by MARKone(m): 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2015
ayoayo911:
My husband is a very faithful man, no extra babes or stuff but only makes love to me like once a month,yes we sleep on same bed under same roof. He disvirgined me after we were married 6 yrs ago. i feel sex starved, and cant even think of cheating on him. how do i tell if its low libido and what can i do to improve our sex life. i need help pls. thanks

Madam, you see, not all men are sex freaks, some have a very low libido, which might be natural, self induced or health related. Have you discussed this extensively with your husband? and what is his take on it, probably admitting that there is a need to seek for help, since you claim that he is faithful.
Remain faithful while you guys sort this issue out. You won't die because u r sex starved

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by zizirecords(m): 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2015
There is no easy answer to your question. There are several reasons why he may have lost interest but the most likely culprit would be boredom with the sex life.

Think about ways to spice it up - Google has so many discussions about this. Discuss it with him and just be open and honest about your feelings.

Unless you have morality issues, self-servicing is a last option.

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2015
#team virgin! Come learn lol grin



You should always taste the candy before you buy the candy shop lipsrsealed



Quote me negative and you a % gay grin

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Eberex(m): 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2015
hmm ...........OP joined today 9th April 2015 just because of this story. Abi you don dey write and you never enter front page na him make you change your monika so that seun go fit put am for FP.

Observation: you can join nairaland today and make front page. just saying undecided

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by eme1n(m): 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2015
What ever you do, don't cheat on him. Men are very fickle, possessive and emotionally weak. They can't stand another man sniffing around. My 1 kobo.

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by eminikansoso(m): 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2015
he need sex education and his believe about sex is not encouraging.
You can still educate him more and by the time he start enjoying it you will be the one to beg

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Kanmyos(m): 3:58pm On Apr 09, 2015
word nd opposite.....me ex staved me of x.....i tlkd to her nd she improved...
#ma opinion---tlk to ya man...tel him hw u feel.

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Haryorqunley(m): 3:58pm On Apr 09, 2015
Gud
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Skoopy(m): 3:58pm On Apr 09, 2015
viallaxa:
see a sex therapist, I don't know if we have in Nigeria. If you really love him, talk it out. If you're unhappy, leave. It's far worse to be in an unhappy marriage

How you mouth dey sef wen I ask her to leave?

Pls keep this type of advice to urself.

@op. This is d very reason why I frown bitterly at exposing my relationship issues with other people not to say the least, the public. There are relationship /marriage counselors, s*x therapist, doctors etc. See any of the above for professional guide.

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by LewisO: 4:00pm On Apr 09, 2015
justjify:


for your mind you be FTC abi? angry
now, aside robbing Lewis.O the chance of being the FTC, tell me what you have contributed? angry
Very funny! grin
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by bigfrancis21: 4:00pm On Apr 09, 2015
ayoayo911:
My husband is a very faithful man, no extra babes or stuff but only makes love to me like once a month,yes we sleep on same bed under same roof. He disvirgined me after we were married 6 yrs ago. i feel sex starved, and cant even think of cheating on him. how do i tell if its low libido and what can i do to improve our sex life. i need help pls. thanks

You might not like what I am about to say but this is often common with men who don't like sleeping with women - your husband might be gay and obtaining se.xual satisfaction from other men outside. He might not even be attracted to you in the first place but had to use you as cover to mask his sexuality.

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by donblue(m): 4:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
storry for d gods
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by sweathold(m): 4:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
Who we go believe now, a nairalander (male) wrote same yesterday now it's a lady aba...U guys shud free up oo.
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Daresh(f): 4:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
ayoayo911:
My husband is a very faithful man, no extra babes or stuff but only makes love to me like once a month,yes we sleep on same bed under same roof. He disvirgined me after we were married 6 yrs ago. i feel sex starved, and cant even think of cheating on him. how do i tell if its low libido and what can i do to improve our sex life. i need help pls. thanks

If you want sex, initiate

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by otswag(m): 4:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
Work on your Outlook. Eat healthy. Loose some weight if its on the high side.. Get your haïr done. Get some sexy outfits and lingerie. Take Great care of yourself. Remind him of how u looked when You were still dating. In addition to this, talk to him about it. Also, There's no crime in initiating sex. Plus, do not be a log of Wood during sex. Be créative and improvise. Drag That libido out from where it Is hiding. If all thèse do not work, go see a sex therapist. If That still doesnt work, na prayer remain.

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Adefaze(m): 4:02pm On Apr 09, 2015
LewisO:
Must u tell us he dis-virgined u?

Oya were is the certificate that he dis-virgined u?
silly guy.., that is not the right response for her question

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by macanu(m): 4:02pm On Apr 09, 2015
Chai
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by queenbetty1(f): 4:03pm On Apr 09, 2015
I wonder oooo cheesy cheesy
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by ElFenomeno1: 4:04pm On Apr 09, 2015
ayoayo911:
My husband is a very faithful man, no extra babes or stuff but only makes love to me like once a month,yes we sleep on same bed under same roof. He disvirgined me after we were married 6 yrs ago. i feel sex starved, and cant even think of cheating on him. how do i tell if its low libido and what can i do to improve our sex life. i need help pls. thanks

Get a dil...do and leave the poor man alone!
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by kushsy: 4:04pm On Apr 09, 2015
And you are so sure he is not seeing anyone outside? Woman wake up...think and look closely....maybe you are not giving him what he wants..check your self too.
And talking with him about your pains might help.

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by kushsy: 4:04pm On Apr 09, 2015
And you are so sure he is not seeing anyone outside? Woman wake up...think and look closely....maybe you are not giving him what he wants..check your self tpo.
And talking with him about your pains might help.

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Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Apr 09, 2015
F*cking Attention seeker woman everywhere i go! dont know maybe EMPTYHEN is the proud supporter





justmag:
There is Google but you still come here to ask these questions. .. undecided
Re: My Hubby Starves Me Of Sex: What To Do? by kushsy: 4:07pm On Apr 09, 2015
bigfrancis21:


You might not like what I am about to say but this is often common with men who don't like sleeping with women - your husband might be gay and obtaining se.xual satisfaction from other men outside. He might not even be attracted to you in the first place but had to use you as cover to mask his sexuality.
Not an impossible thing or he derive pleasure else where..a normal man? Once a month..God please change my husband to At least thrice a month.

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