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My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 11:21pm On Apr 09, 2015
I heard my brother got a job at a maintenance firm in PH. I came back for Easter and on sunday after attending holy saturday vigil mass (we are catholics), and that morning, he dressed up for service at some other church.

I asked why he was going there, and he started explaining that it was part of the job he took- the employer's wife is the owner of the church and the man makes it compulsory for every one of his employees to attend else a certain amount will be deducted from your salary. If you don't come during weekdays to cut grass and do clean-up, money will also be deducted.

I fail to understand how a human (somebody that calls himself a man of God) would violate people's freedom of religion like that all in the name of job.

The most annoying part is that he forces them to receive communion. That is particularly worrying because you don't know what really you are receiving especially since there is tattle that the man could be an Ogboni man.

The money being deducted ranges from about 5000 to 15,000 and their salary is about N50,000. If there is any donation in the church, the man deducts it from your salary.
So I need advice.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by ubiquitousade(m): 11:31pm On Apr 09, 2015
Octaves:
I heard my brother got a job at a maintainance firm in Warri. I came back for Easter and on sunday after attending holy saturday vigil mass (we are catholics), in the morning, he dressed up for service at some other church. I asked why he was going there, and he started explaining that it was part of the job he took- the employers wife is the owner of the church and the man makes it compulsory for every one of his employees to attend else a certain amount will be deducted from your salary. If you don't come during weekdays to cut grass and do cleanup, money will also be deducted. I fail to understand how a human (sb that calls himself a man of God) would violate people freedom of religion like that all in the name of job. The most annoying part is that he forces them to receive communion. That is particularly worrying because you don't know what really you are receiving especially there is tattle that the man could be an ogboni man. The money being deducted ranges from about 5k to 15k and the salary is about 50k. So I need advice.

ask your brother if the bolded is part of the job description he signed for when he got employed. 'church maintenance lol'

but whatever his response is let him know he puts himself there and in the best position to decide.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Trizyd(m): 11:31pm On Apr 09, 2015
Go, At Least For A While

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by siegfried99(m): 11:32pm On Apr 09, 2015
Chai..
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 11:34pm On Apr 09, 2015
Not part of it. But he's going to lose the job if he doesnt comply
ubiquitousade:


ask your brother if the bolded is part of the job description he signed for when he got employed. 'church maintenance lol'

but whatever his response is let him know he puts himself there and in the best position to decide.
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Fabdedon(m): 11:35pm On Apr 09, 2015
hmm visit the church and explain to the pastor of the church to help you out..
They always respect their pastors
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 11:35pm On Apr 09, 2015
You mean to the church?
Trizyd:
Go, At Least For A While
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 11:37pm On Apr 09, 2015
Na the wife be the pastor. If u visit, you are fired
Fabdedon:
hmm visit the church and explain to the pastor of the church to help you out..
They always respect their pastors

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by ammyluv2002(f): 11:42pm On Apr 09, 2015
Nigeria is ranked 2nd most religious country in the world yet we don't know 1/3 of the things in the Bible*smh*

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Fabdedon(m): 11:42pm On Apr 09, 2015
Octaves:
Na the wife be the pastor. If u visit, you are fired
sorry i didnt read the post..you friend needs to look for another job meanwhile working with him.. If you cant beat them Join them.. I dont blame ur friend.. Unemployment

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by ubiquitousade(m): 11:43pm On Apr 09, 2015
Octaves:
Not part of it. But he's going to lose the job if he doesnt comply

tell your bro to look for another job. it is slavery

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Fabdedon(m): 11:43pm On Apr 09, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Nigeria is ranked 2nd most religious country in the world yet we don't know 1/3 of the things in the Bible.
you are very right

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 11:45pm On Apr 09, 2015
He's looking o. But in the mean time, he's still there.
ubiquitousade:


tell your bro to look for another job. it is slavery
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Nice365: 12:15am On Apr 10, 2015
Story for the gods. Know thyself.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Chukaholic: 12:51am On Apr 10, 2015
Octaves:
in the morning, he dressed up for service at some other church. I asked why he was going there, and he started explaining that it was part of the job he took-.

From your satement, it seems your brother is fully aware of the nature of the job before accepting it?...if so, then, it means he doesn't see it as much of a big deal. It actually seems you are the one doing the whining here?. Totally his call bro.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Chukaholic: 1:02am On Apr 10, 2015
Fabdedon:
sorry i didnt read the post..you friend needs to look for another job meanwhile working with him.. If you cant beat them Join them.. I dont blame ur friend.. Unemployment

Hmm, bro are you usually like this(commenting without reading a post)? Or you just don't find his post interesting to read through? The post says its the brother not the friend.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by engrtee(f): 1:14am On Apr 10, 2015
Resign

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by UnknownT: 5:58am On Apr 10, 2015
Chukaholic:


Hmm, bro are you usually like this(commenting without reading a post)? Or you just don't find his post interesting to read through? The post says its the brother not the friend.
lol Wanted to ask him the same question since you have done so, no need again

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by free2ryhme: 6:32am On Apr 10, 2015
Octaves:
I heard my brother got a job at a maintainance firm in Warri. I came back for Easter and on sunday after attending holy saturday vigil mass (we are catholics), in the morning, he dressed up for service at some other church. I asked why he was going there, and he started explaining that it was part of the job he took- the employers wife is the owner of the church and the man makes it compulsory for every one of his employees to attend else a certain amount will be deducted from your salary. If you don't come during weekdays to cut grass and do cleanup, money will also be deducted. I fail to understand how a human (sb that calls himself a man of God) would violate people freedom of religion like that all in the name of job. The most annoying part is that he forces them to receive communion. That is particularly worrying because you don't know what really you are receiving especially there is tattle that the man could be an ogboni man. The money being deducted ranges from about 5k to 15k and the salary is about 50k. So I need advice.


the thread of lies people open on nairaland these days

na wa oo

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by italo: 6:59am On Apr 10, 2015
Octaves:
I heard my brother got a job at a maintainance firm in Warri. I came back for Easter and on sunday after attending holy saturday vigil mass (we are catholics), in the morning, he dressed up for service at some other church. I asked why he was going there, and he started explaining that it was part of the job he took- the employers wife is the owner of the church and the man makes it compulsory for every one of his employees to attend else a certain amount will be deducted from your salary. If you don't come during weekdays to cut grass and do cleanup, money will also be deducted. I fail to understand how a human (sb that calls himself a man of God) would violate people freedom of religion like that all in the name of job. The most annoying part is that he forces them to receive communion. That is particularly worrying because you don't know what really you are receiving especially there is tattle that the man could be an ogboni man. The money being deducted ranges from about 5k to 15k and the salary is about 50k. So I need advice.

You see? This is what happens when "Catholics" don't actively practise their faith.

They become like balloons that can be blown by any wind to any corner.

No actively practising Catholic will even contemplate this.

I for one would die of starvation before I do this.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 7:19am On Apr 10, 2015
He already got the job b4 knowing. Am not whining this is modern day slavery done in the name of God. It is serious
Chukaholic:


From your satement, it seems your brother is fully aware of the nature of the job before accepting it?...if so, then, it means he doesn't see it as much of a big deal. It actually seems you are the one doing the whining here?. Totally his call bro.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by CrazyMan(m): 7:19am On Apr 10, 2015
That's slavery, cos I doubt if working as a church cleaner was part of the agreement when he took the job.

Every Nigerian has rights, and those rights must be respected. Its high time we stop enslaving ourselves all in the name of hussling for daily bread.

Tell him to quit that job asap.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 7:27am On Apr 10, 2015
My family is a staunch catholic family, that's why we are bothered. He attends 6a.m mass every sunday b4 going there. Catholic church doesnt give jobs. Just pray you don't fall into such temptation.
italo:


You see? This is what happens when "Catholics" don't actively practise their faith.

They become like balloons that can be blown by any wind to any corner.

No actively practising Catholic will even contemplate this.

I for one would die of starvation before I do this.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 7:28am On Apr 10, 2015
No offence, but Do you have another ready for him.
CrazyMan:
That's slavery, cos I doubt if working as a church cleaner was part of the agreement when he took the job.

Every Nigerian has rights, and those rights must be respected. Its high time we stop enslaving ourselves all in the name of hussling for daily bread.

Tell him to quit that job asap.
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Yustash001(m): 7:33am On Apr 10, 2015
Lol...the nigga setting up another business...

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 7:35am On Apr 10, 2015
What makes you think the thread is a lie?
free2ryhme:



the thread of lies people open on nairaland these days

na wa oo
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by CrazyMan(m): 8:01am On Apr 10, 2015
Octaves:
No offence, but Do you have another ready for him.
Its much better to be an unemployed free man than to be a slave. This is the 21st century in case you're not aware, slave trade has been abolished so no one boss or not has the right to force anybody to do things against his will, issue threats and go on to carry out those threats should you decide not to give into slavery.

I read a thread on this section few weeks ago where a guy lost his job simply because he refused to carry his boss handbag. He knew that bag carrying wasn't part of the job description, so he stood his ground and refused to become someone's errand boy. How much more your friend, whom his boss has practically turned to a slave...tell him to stand his ground.

Yes we all need jobs, but jobs shouldn't cost us our freedom. I cannot work in any organisation where my rights as a human is constantly being violated.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by italo: 8:07am On Apr 10, 2015
Octaves:
My family is a staunch catholic family, that's why we are bothered. He attends 6a.m mass every sunday b4 going there. Catholic church doesnt give jobs. Just pray you don't fall into such temptation.

I can't judge your brother. Sorry if I sounded judgemental.

I know exactly what I'm talking about because I have quit two jobs just because they demanded I do things contrary to my faith.

The Catholic Church might not give jobs, but as a "staunch Catholic" you should know it gives life eternal. No job is worth risking your soul.

No job in the world can make me willfully disrespect the Blessed Sacrament by receiving a 'fake version' from some other place.

If it were I, it would be obvious to me that this is the devil's trick to distract me from the Church.

Also, bear in mind that a staunch Catholic family doesn't necessarily translate to actively practising Catholic family members. You can go to mass everyday with your family and queue for communion, even though you aren't allowed the teachings of the Church pass through you...and you don't live everyday by the faith. But I want to believe your family's faith is alive.

Pray for your brother. I will pray for him to.

There is nothing God cannot do.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 8:20am On Apr 10, 2015
Thanks
italo:


I can't judge your brother. Sorry if I sounded judgemental.

I know exactly what I'm talking about because I have quit two jobs just because they demanded I do things contrary to my faith.

The Catholic Church might not give jobs, but as a "staunch Catholic" you should know it gives life eternal. No job is worth risking your soul.

No job in the world can make me willfully disrespect the Blessed Sacrament by receiving a 'fake version' from some other place.

If it were I, it would be obvious to me that this is the devil's trick to distract me from the Church.

Also, bear in mind that a staunch Catholic family doesn't necessarily translate to actively practising Catholic family members. You can go to mass everyday with your family and queue for communion, even though you aren't allowed the teachings of the Church pass through you...and you don't live everyday by the faith. But I want to believe your family's faith is alive.

Pray for your brother. I will pray for him to.

There is nothing God cannot do.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by italo: 8:22am On Apr 10, 2015
Octaves:
No offence, but Do you have another ready for him.

Is this what you would say if you saw him in a cage?

Yes, slave workers were found locked in cages somewhere in South East Asia.

Sorry about the strength of my language. I'm telling you the exact thing I would tell my brother.

No time for sugar-coating.

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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 8:36am On Apr 10, 2015
I get what you're saying. It's like he's there with one leg in one leg out. He's keenly looking for another job. Hopefully he will quit soon.
CrazyMan:

Its much better to be an unemployed free man than to be a slave. This is the 21st century in case you're not aware, slave trade has been abolished so no one boss or not has the right to force anybody to do things against his will, issue threats and go on to carry out those threats should you decide not to give into slavery.

I read a thread on this section few weeks ago where a guy lost his job simply because he refused to carry his boss handbag. He knew that bag carrying wasn't part of the job description, so he stood his ground and refused to become someone's errand boy. How much more your friend, whom his boss has practically turned to a slave...tell him to stand his ground.

Yes we all need jobs, but jobs shouldn't cost us our freedom. I cannot work in any organisation where my rights as a human is constantly being violated.
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by CrazyMan(m): 8:41am On Apr 10, 2015
Octaves:
I get what you're saying. It's like he's there with one leg in one leg out. He's keenly looking for another job. Hopefully he will quit soon.
Good...I wish him the best of luck.

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