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Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
parismarc: This one is a real sad story though He finally had to go into a care home because friends couldn't render the help he needed,diapers etc I still picture him healthy and walking around a few years ago Illness is not what I will wish on anyone wallahi |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Ariyke: 10:01pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Can't blame her, she had no ounce of enjoyment when he was fine so she can't expect to enjoy with a disabled man |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
babyosisi: I don't condemn her. Nemesis caught up with him |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Ariyke: That is exactly why I don't blame her How I can I stay back and turn and feed and nurse a man that womanized and beat me and my kids up and didn't support me in my goals? E go hard o From early 30s with no recovery date in sight |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Pavore9: 10:09pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
babyosisi: You captured it very well, Da Beatrice left for omugwo in 2002 and since then she visits Nigeria every 2 years. All her children are now resident in the U.S except for a daughter living in Owerri. She single-handedly catered for 9 children while uncle was gallivanting with his Owerri woman! |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Pavore9: My namesake sef Hahahahaha There are many They will be praying for the daughter to deliver yearly so the omugwo will be prolonged After that,they become the nanny and go to visit the husband every once in a while Once he starts his rikichi,she flies back to Obodo Oyibo I don't blame her jare At least she has an outlet |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Pavore9: 10:17pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
babyosisi: She went for the first one and stayed there, now she rotates among her children as at least one is giving birth every year! Da Beatrice really suffered, let her enjoy the fruit of her labour! 1 Like |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
I heard about a man who was so mean to his wife because she didn't have a baby,kept threatening her with getting a new wife She went to Ghana back then and took the nurse's exam and came to the USA The husband wanted her back home,she refused to return ,he married a new wife Many years after,he is retired,pension not forthcoming,The wife here sends money to him to take care of himself She built a house for herself in the town,visits home from time to time and goes to see him and his new wife and kids in their old house and never sleeps there sha The new wife is much younger and calls her aunty She even scolds her for not keeping their house clean And gives her money to cook for him Na so life suppose dey sometimes |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by cococandy(f): 10:23pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Pavore9:what a man He's polygamous in nature sha. They for try understand #justkidding |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Mcdokwe,I just saw you How are you my brother? |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Mintayo(m): 10:28pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
babyosisi:I understand you, but so many people will see otherwise, especially the husband's family members may tag her as the architect of his ailments. I am not blaming the woman though, if she were to be my sister, I would v asked her to leave, even if it's for a while, before his illness starts! |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Pavore9: 10:30pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
cococandy:Understand wetin? He had a wife and 9 children to cater for! |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Pavore9: 10:34pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
babyosisi: At least she has her dignity and her peace of mind. |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by cococandy(f): 10:38pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Pavore9:what do you want me to say Na? I'm playing good understanding african woman. |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by cococandy(f): 10:39pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
babyosisi: My ribs So he got his new younger wife and then what? |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by oloyede252(m): 10:41pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
story story,,,,,..... |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
cococandy: Wife get levels now When the previously maltreated wife is buying similac for you why won't you call her aunty and start sweeping when you hear she is coming by |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Pavore9: 10:45pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
cococandy:Afriwetin? l remember back in the 90's when the wife attended a gathering of widows who were to be given some foodstuff. Uncle accused her of wishing him dead by her registering as a widow! The men in the family took it up against her but she asked if any of them had bothered to ask after her and the children to know how they were coping? na im everybody quiet! 3 Likes |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by miss20(f): 10:59pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Mintayo: Bros you no go like drop dat african mentality?.y will she be seen as the cause wen he has a report of ill health from d doctor.everything does'nt have to b juju u knw,dis one is a clear case of karma. SHE'Z A B•TCH you have a point though,cus in africa,dat s wat pple might think.but where wer those "PEOPLE" wen he turned her to hiz punching bag nd was treating her like sh•t. Abeg dey should park well jor 1 Like |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by cococandy(f): 11:24pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Pavore9: babyosisi: This thread is hilarious |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Pavore9: Chai But really why should people blame her,I see her point She needed food to feed her kids,she wasn't wishing him death If na me I go register too |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Pavore9: 11:53pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
babyosisi: The Nwunye edi group came with their own fine and she asked them to list out the responsibilities of a husband, this they did and which of the listed responsibilities is her husband taking care of? 1 Like |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by mcdokwe(m): 11:57pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
babyosisi:lol. Babyosisi my love. I dey o 3 Likes |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 11:58pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
Pavore9: One can only take so much I guess Maybe they should modify the definition of widow to mean a woman whose husband is dead or as good as dead You will see that there are more widows |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Pavore9: 12:04am On Apr 14, 2015 |
babyosisi: l still can not grasp why a husband/father would think he has the liberty to turn his back on his family and still expect that same family to be his care-giver at the later stage of his life. Life has a way of settling everyone. 1 Like |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 12:08am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Pavore9: There was a thread here many years ago about a husband that abandoned his wife and kids and moved on with a new family I don't remember the details but I remember nairalanders being angry that the woman was alienating the kids from the man many years after when he wanted to come back in their lives I sided with her o I said if na me,he will have nothing to do with them again I will change their surname sef and he will never see them again A man that abandoned me and kids should be gone forever, after I have mourned his loss,that door is closed and he closed it You don't leave me to bring up kids all by myself,move on to another family and the kids I bore in my womb will bear your last name Never! They will bear my family name,the family that brought them up You don't deserve to have them answer your name,that is an injustice 1 Like |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Pavore9: 12:11am On Apr 14, 2015 |
lt is now 2.11 a.m here in Nairobi, make l go sleep. Wishing you all a restful night, Lala salama (sleep well in Swahili) |
Re: Would you stay with a mean spouse that gets seriously ill ? by Nobody: 12:13am On Apr 14, 2015 |
Pavore9: Where won't these Igbo boys go to Please keep safe o Let al shabab die die die by fire!! 1 Like |
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