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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 8:59pm On Apr 15, 2015
Stillfire:

Here's a man full of logic and wisdom! cool cool

that was how that homicidal akolade arowolo started too. legend has it that he was a fantastic cook. a beta-type husband who would stop at nothing to do every house chore until......... grin cheesy

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Stillfire: 9:01pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:

not necessarily....
it's just to buttress my point that there's no equality between the two. the source is different for the male & the female.
2 different things cannot be equal.
now that we have established adam wasn't equal to eve then we should analyse which of them was superior to the other....agreed?
there are hundreds of millions of christians in villages all over the world who still plant yams to make a living. what have you gotta say to that?

Wow you really would like to feel superior, don't you? grin
In mathematics there is something called Vertical Opposite Angles or congruent angles. The angles turn out to be opposite and equal! cheesy
So yes two different things can be equal. cheesy

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 9:01pm On Apr 15, 2015
crackhaus:

Lol... keep calm and don't be so angry, you wouldn't want wrinkles messing up your pretty face.

So what has churches or Jerusalem being referred to as SHE, got to do with this?

You must have missed Elementary English classes, and I'm now sure you might actually be really dumb or just pretending to be for sake of dragging this because you can't accept being tutored.
So you're telling me you don't know that the pronoun 'she' can be used to refer to non-living entities huh?
I'm ashamed for you, truly and genuinely... gringrin.



David was a rebel, unless you don't know what a rebel is...that he was forgiven countless times after being rebellious does not make him any less of a rebel, get it?

grin grin

And to think I advised her about fixing that
sad
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 9:04pm On Apr 15, 2015
Stillfire:

Wow you really would like to feel superior, don't you? grin
In mathematics there is something called Vertical Opposite Angles or congruent angles. The angles turn out to be opposite and equal! cheesy So yes two different things can be equal. cheesy

opposite angles are the same.
if it's 30 on one side, it's 30 on the other side too. no cheating.

2 different things can never be the same. the example you cited are 2 same things placed in opposite directions. grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Stillfire: 9:09pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:


that was how that homicidal akolade arowolo started too. legend has it that he was a fantastic cook. a beta-type husband who would stop at nothing to do every house chore until......... grin cheesy

Boohooo! Jealousy!

5minsmadness:

I prefer the NLT version:
Then he said to the woman, "I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you."
Fighting for equality can be a depressing sport at times. No matter how many women advance to positions of power, and in spite of all those progressive action movies out there to prove that scantily-clad blondes can karate chop and headbutt just as well as the men, it is still much pretty obvious that the female is the gentler and more fragile of the species.
And all i see in this statement is overwhelming jealously for the male species. "the need for superiority"? loooool! My dear, it is your need to not appear inferior that makes you see any man that approaches you as a threat. Truth be told, you will only settle down when you outgrow this insecure attitude.
Twist it anyhow you want, God (Omnipotent, Omniscient) created Eve as an afterthought. It might sting, but there it is. And creation has not rested since.

This is so weak.
Do anyone of you pose as a threat to me? Rotflmao. One of my opening statements on this thread was that all illogical statements will be crushed. And crushed will it be. grin
God's original intention was not to make you rule over the woman. I hope you can sleep well at night knowing this revelation, that you were made EQUAL to a women. Rotflmao! grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Stillfire: 9:15pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:

opposite angles are the same.
if it's 30 on one side, it's 30 on the other side too. no cheating.
2 different things can never be the same. the example you cited are 2 same things placed in opposite directions. grin

We are opposite and equal then! cheesy How about that? No superiority argument for you there. Watch it while it goes into the lagos lagoon. grin
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 9:18pm On Apr 15, 2015
Silly logics.

Osama bin laden was an alpha husband--atleast, his religious view says so. Same as all the islamic terrorists e.g ISIS, Al-queda, Bokoharam.

Same as Christian terrorists that killed in dark ages and still doing in some countries.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 9:20pm On Apr 15, 2015
Stillfire:

We are opposite and equal then! cheesy How about that? No superiority argument for you there. Watch it while it goes into the lagos lagoon. grin

equal?
do you have a peniš? show me if you do. grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Stillfire: 9:22pm On Apr 15, 2015
This thread is an evidence why FEMINISM must exist as long as patriarchy exists, to avoid tyranny, dictatorship, despotism and the misappropriation of power. cool cool
I'm sure a lot of men would have died now because of my comment. Hehehe! tongue

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Stillfire: 9:28pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:


equal?
do you have a peniš? show me if you do. grin

Eww.
We are opposite and equal grin. This has been established. Don't you diversionary tactics to change the subject! Hahaha cheesy

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 9:30pm On Apr 15, 2015
Stillfire:


Eww.
We are opposite and equal grin. This has been established. Don't you diversionary tactics to change the subject! Hahaha cheesy

opposite & equal would be 2 males standing in opposite directions. a man & a woman are not equal. even animals can tell the difference between a man & a woman.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 9:39pm On Apr 15, 2015
The useless girl has invaded this thread.
Probably, one guy would send you a PM because you are not a feminist.

I know you are above 30 and searching. grin grin
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 9:42pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:


thunder fire your weave on! grin
aproka!
Amadioha, Orunmila, Sango fire you! angry

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 9:43pm On Apr 15, 2015
Vickybee:
The useless girl has invaded this thread.
Probably, one guy would send you a PM because you are not a feminist.

I know you are above 30 and searching. grin grin

vickybee, don't be jealous.
in few years time, you might be in her shoes - prowling the internet for love from high school boys. grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 9:46pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:


vickybee, don't be jealous.
in few years time, you might be in her shoes - prowling the internet for love from high school boys. grin
That lady claims to be a young feminist. That is very interesting thing about her though.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by 5minsmadness: 9:46pm On Apr 15, 2015
BlackLeopard:


I haven't viewed it that way either, yet how we as individuals view something doesn't change the notion in majority group of anywhere.
I didn't view it that way, and you didn't view it that way either. So where is this phantom majority group coming from?



Those laws were long overdue. It's a shame they weren't there sooner, that it had to be this long to even get laws in effect guaranteeing basic human rights. So your statement 'it's the men who enacted the original laws' could surely be viewed as men doing a favor of sorts to women... but if you look at the larger scope, guaranteeing any minority group basic rights they have as fellow PEOPLE, it's really not doing any sort of a favor, but very belated apology after years of that other group's inmesurable suffering.

This is your interpretation. And i must say it is very wrongly twisted. If this is how you reason then it is no wonder that men can never do anything right in your eyes.
Kind of reminds me of someone here actually.
Em, pardon me, i don't mean to assume, but you are a man right?
Or is this an alternate moniker?


But look at the next many women who don't for instance even hear of having any rights, who whole their lives just hear to suck it up, it could have been worse somewhere. That sort of logic doesn't get us anywhere; it's always worse somewhere. I thought the goal is getting be better
.
In every society there will always be the haves and have-nots, the fortunate and less unfortunate. there will always be women whose husbands are uncaring monsters and women whose husbands are loving caregivers. Surely you don't believe that all women living in male dominated societies are unhappy and 'sucking it up'?

And what desperate people do to get their voices heard is I don't think up for judgment of those not sharing that despair. It's as simple as that. It's not hypocritical to require respect however (preferably legally) available.
And thus you effectively throw responsibility out the window. Its not their fault the poor fragile women, they are looking for whatever means to be heard, poor fragile women.
please.

A woman had more respect then than they do now. The modern feminist woman puts herself first before family, she puts herself first before the children, she puts herself first before anything else. She knows nothing about honor and self-sacrifice. She barely respects herself as evidenced by her skimpily clad outfit and her freedom to bare all her honourable assets in the name of modern fashion. She objectifies herself and calls it freedom of expression. The modern feminist woman is a downright hypocrite and deserves none of my respect.(She can start earning it by starting a protest to abolish bride-price. Now that would be something to respect wink)



Neither. My first thought would be there's a naked person, who is walking, and depending the style of the walk and ocassion, it's either not my business, or my business to ask that person if they don't need an assistance, because a naked person in the middle of a street when it isn't a march specifically meant for that is surely experiencing a mental distress they better get addressed, and is requiring a medical attention.



The hurt party. The slapped person.

Individual. I can't respond to that with generic idea, there's multiple men who don't have that muscle mass and women who do.


Ditto, it's still individual.

The interpretation of those signs as masculine x feminine, is. We could well be simply talking of X trait, as required for Y activity, or as suitable Z activity instead of something else. We could be talking about bodies in a different way than label gender and the informational value woulda be the same, if not greater.

blackleopard, I hereby re-christian thee the Artful Dodger wink

I haven't - thank you for the movie recommendation and I will ammend that as soon as possible, it certainly sounds as an interesting movie to watch. grin

It is. It showcases the primitive reactionary role play of the male and female gender of man in response to survival situations. When push comes to shove, the men will always protect the women and the women will never speak up for gender equality at such a time.


However, that some people are inclined to do this or that role, still doesn't speak about biological determinism, more shared cultural values passed through genetically, if something, but the beginning of that division was still cultural, somewhere along the way, and then deciding it works out just well, let's do it repeatedly.
Wait grin
Cultural values can be passed genetically? grin

I officially give up! cheesy


You're entitled to your views, but you're still owing fellow people a basic respect, and a way for them to not feel threatened around you. Which spreading hate everywhere one goes, indeed isn't. This isn't just about being politically correct. This isn't about rhetorics. This is about lived feeling of safety. About being a decent person to fellow people. You don't have to adapt the same mindset, values, lifestyles. But to restrict people's right to live their lives in peace, with who they are happy with? Yeah, I do see an issue with that.

i dont spread hate. i am a male and if i see a male and a female in trouble i will always help the female first. I am not ashamed to say it(unlike you who couldn't be honest with your answers) it is in my nature, it is the right thing to do. I don't open the door for girls because they are ladies, I open the door because I am a gentleman. THAT is my mindset, my value, my lifestyle.
And when I see a man behaving less than himself it is completely within my rights to lift him up and make him all he can be. There are too many 'manginas' in the world already and they will grow up to become effeminate fathers who cannot instill courage and discipline into their sons when those sons need it the most, thus giving rise to even more effeminate men who will soon start looking up to the women to defend them. And that my dear, will be a travesty to nature.

cc francistony, the last paragraph is for you.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 9:49pm On Apr 15, 2015
all4naija:

That lady claims to be a young feminist. That is very interesting thing about her though.

they all start that way until they meet a boyfriend. it's nothing new cheesy

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 9:50pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:


vickybee, don't be jealous.
in few years time, you might be in her shoes - prowling the internet for love from high school boys. grin
Atleast, I won't be as useless as the scumbag.
Desperate about marriage.
Impressing men online.

At 25, trust me, I will woo and marry a man. grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 9:52pm On Apr 15, 2015
Vickybee:

Atleast, I won't be as useless as the scumbag.
Desperate about marriage.
Impressing men online.

At 25, trust me, I will woo and marry a man. grin
shame written all over your comment..

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by 5minsmadness: 9:54pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:


that was how that homicidal akolade arowolo started too. legend has it that he was a fantastic cook. a beta-type husband who would stop at nothing to do every house chore until......... grin cheesy
until he SNAPPED grin grin grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 9:59pm On Apr 15, 2015
Unibenstudent:
shame written all over your comment..
You are a big idìot.
Anencephalic douchebag exhibiting his foolery.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 10:01pm On Apr 15, 2015
Vickybee:

You are a big idìot.
Anencephalic douchebag exhibiting his foolery.
how is my new pics baby
grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Airforce1(m): 10:06pm On Apr 15, 2015
Vickybee Calm down, calm down. grin
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by 5minsmadness: 10:14pm On Apr 15, 2015
Stillfire:


Boohooo! Jealousy!



This is so weak.
Do anyone of you pose as a threat to me? Rotflmao. One of my opening statements on this thread was that all illogical statements will be crushed. And crushed will it be. grin
God's original intention was not to make you rule over the woman. I hope you can sleep well at night knowing this revelation, that you were made EQUAL to a women. Rotflmao! grin grin grin grin grin
You ranted.
You didn't address my post.
You didnt address the valid interpretation of the NLT which is read by countless millions around the world.
You jumped over all that and gave your own unendorsed and unfounded opinion(and in a high soprano voice i would imagine)
That is the height of illogicality.
But I forgive you. It is not gentlemanly to continue arguing with you.
That would make me effeminate grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by 5minsmadness: 10:15pm On Apr 15, 2015
FrancisTony:
Silly logics.

Osama bin laden was an alpha husband--atleast, his religious view says so. Same as all the islamic terrorists e.g ISIS, Al-queda, Bokoharam.

Same as Christian terrorists that killed in dark ages and still doing in some countries.
wtf has this got to do with anything we have been discussing?

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 10:27pm On Apr 15, 2015
5minsmadness: i dont spread hate. i am a male and if i see a male and a female in trouble i will always help the female first. I am not ashamed to say it(unlike you who couldn't be honest with your answers) it is in my nature, it is the right thing to do. I don't open the door for girls because they are ladies, I open the door because I am a gentleman. THAT is my mindset, my value, my lifestyle.
And when I see a man behaving less than himself it is completely within my rights to lift him up and make him all he can be. There are too many 'manginas' in the world already and they will grow up to become effeminate fathers who cannot instill courage and discipline into their sons when those sons need it the most, thus giving rise to even more effeminate men who will soon start looking up to the women to defend them. And that my dear, will be a travesty to nature.

cc francistony, the last paragraph is for you.
Err' that I support females on Nairaland doesn't mean that I can tolerate nonsense from them.

Nairaland family section men use hypocrisy to support their argument and I detest it.

Family section women are more matured than most women I come across in the real life.
I roll with few females in the real life and meet lots of them.

If a woman slap me, I will return it back to her. Last time I had an altercation with any gender was back in S.S3.
A female classmate slapped me and I returned it back to her(Actually she was fond of slapping boys)

Lastly, sorry-to-say I can't open door for any gender be it man or woman though I can allow anybody to get in first. That's how I was brought up

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 10:30pm On Apr 15, 2015
5minsmadness:

wtf has this got to do with anything we have been discussing?
That men and women are equal doesn't mean a woman can control me.

Same way no man can control me except in my work place which can be male or female.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 10:32pm On Apr 15, 2015
FrancisTony:
If a woman slap me, I will return it back to her. Last time I had an altercation with any gender was back in S.S3.
A female classmate slapped me and I returned it back to her(Actually she was fond of slapping boys)

akolade arowolo in the making..... cheesy grin

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 10:40pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:


akolade arowolo in the making..... cheesy grin
Who told you I love fighting?

Last time I fought was back in S.S2 with a male. He persistently wanted it.

Last time I fought with a girl was back as a young boy probably 6 and that was with a female cousin two years older. grin

I don't think I'd fight with anybody again.

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 10:43pm On Apr 15, 2015
FrancisTony:

Who told you I love fighting?

Last time I fought was back in S.S2 with a male. He persistently wanted it.

Last time I fought with a girl was back as a young boy probably 6 and that was with a female cousin two years older. grin

I don't think I'd fight with anybody again.


so if you get into an altercation with a woman tomorrow & she slaps you real hard, what are you going to do?

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Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by Nobody: 10:46pm On Apr 15, 2015
coogar:



so if you get into an altercation with a woman tomorrow & she slaps you real hard, what are you going to do?
I return the slap and she'll definitely stop.

Why should a normal girl slap whether a man or her fellow woman?
Re: Why The Modern Woman Is Sad by coogar: 10:49pm On Apr 15, 2015
FrancisTony:

I return the slap and she'll definitely stop.

Why should a normal girl slap whether a man or her fellow woman?

because even sometimes, normal people do snap.

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