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Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by biGPoppaSays(m): 7:21pm On May 04, 2015
Hi y'all I need your views on this, I've been thinking maybe I'm a fool or it's just maturity..

this happened to me last night

there's this girl living in my neighborhood and I've been trying to woo this girl but, she says we can only be friends that I'm not her type.
she even shouted at me one day on the phone that I should leave her alone... Well, I heeded to her wish.. as time goes on, our friendship becomes too tight because I already agreed to be friend with her.... I still disturb her most times that I wanna be her boyfriend but she still insist that she can't date me...

Now, yesterday/last night, I was sitting outside then she suddenly came and asked me a favor that one guy is coming to see her that night and he's a stranger in the town... he does not know anywhere and he's coming with his car so I should help her direct him to the house...I didn't even think twice,,, I accepted immediately and went on to bring the guy.... I almost wasted about an hour b4 I could get the guy because I was communicating with him on phone ...

anyway time cut the long story short,, I finally met the guy it was around 9:45 pm.... and guess what?? the guy na mopol.... Omo in my first thinking at the moment, I think say na set up..but he later calmed me down not to be afraid.. we drove straight down home... I know he's her boyfriend but when I asked her on whatsapp this morning, she says he's just a friend to her...

now my question to you guys is am I so dumb or I just played a maturity game..

don't mind my English tho... If it's bad
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by dharay88: 7:26pm On May 04, 2015
u ain't dumb, buh u are just a lazy scared àss tongue grin grin
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by woky: 7:29pm On May 04, 2015
you ar not dumb; besides, wht are friends for..
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by dnacrystal: 7:34pm On May 04, 2015
Calm down joor. You displayed dumbturity.
Maturity for assisting a FRIEND
Dumb for feeling dumb.
As in when a girl says "let's be friends instead", it means she isn't into you. You will stay friends till forever and she will continue asking you for favours that make you feel dumb when you do grant them out of "maturity".
So.....

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Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by mrking3(m): 7:36pm On May 04, 2015
You're on FRIEND ZONE! So you'll have to take any shit that comes your way!! Between, you played matured not to have felt jealous or refused her request! Pls dont force yourself on the chick so you dont end up seeing things that would cause you heartache!!!
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by jnrbayano(m): 7:37pm On May 04, 2015
Op,

Nothing matured about it and nothing dumb about it.

You said you are friends with her or didn't you?

It's a normal thing but if it happens another time, know that your position has started to drift towards being dumb.

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Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by StPete: 7:39pm On May 04, 2015
She has refused to let you date her but she has now automatically turned you to her errand boy that's just so dumb!

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Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by jnrbayano(m): 7:39pm On May 04, 2015
mrking3:
You're on track bro! BetweenBTW you guys aint dating! Hence she's made her position clear abnitio! She's not your girlfriend.

BTW= By the way

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Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by demmy0325(m): 7:40pm On May 04, 2015
Too long..
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by Anyi3(m): 7:41pm On May 04, 2015
The poster above me is brilliant
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by TheSonOfMark(m): 7:45pm On May 04, 2015

These are the kind of effeminate men who logon to Nairaland to kiss the butts of these silly girls.




YOU'VE BEEN PLAYED DUDE, BIG TIME!
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by Venom104: 7:45pm On May 04, 2015
Hang in there bro.. you'll surely hit it.. in 2050
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by biGPoppaSays(m): 7:49pm On May 04, 2015
Venom104:
Hang in there bro.. you'll surely hit it.. in 2050
Bro e no funny at all
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by biGPoppaSays(m): 7:50pm On May 04, 2015
jnrbayano:
Op,

Nothing matured about it and nothing dumb about it.

You said you are friends with her or didn't you?

It's a normal thing but if it happens another time, know that your position has started to drift towards being dumb.
hmmm
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by ronald4lif(m): 7:51pm On May 04, 2015
It's no surprise why she couldn't date you but prefer you as a friend so she could push you around. Truly, you've proven you are undeserving of her by running an errand for a girl who blatantly rejected your relationship offer. Worse still, you shamelessly went to escort someone who's prolly riding what you'd longed for. It's a pity!
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by LewisO: 7:52pm On May 04, 2015
Bro! The girl takes you as fool, nothing matured about what you're doing to her.

She's is using your brain also turned you to an errand boy, if you are not smart you will start washing her undies while the guy do the thing... lipsrsealed without u doing anything just because of the silly love you have for her.

She's trying to downgrade you that you aren't up to par to be her boyfriend... That was why she sent you to know the kind of guy she's moving with.

#GolddiggerAlert.

When you have money go and date her. Nigerian girls for you.

You have nothing to do with that kind of a girl close her chapter, luckily she might be the one coming for you.

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Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by LewisO: 7:52pm On May 04, 2015
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by nedu2000(m): 7:52pm On May 04, 2015
Your not really friends.....if your guy asked for such a favour would you have assisted him?talk true
Your only hoping that by being friendly she'll get to love you or give you some free sex
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by mrking3(m): 8:28pm On May 04, 2015
jnrbayano:


BTW= By the way
get off my mention
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by biGPoppaSays(m): 8:52pm On May 04, 2015
you guys really got me going crazy... I felt sh1t after doing the thing....I am now ashame of myself.... ***covers eyes***
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by Nobody: 8:54pm On May 04, 2015
Op, there's nothing wrong in what you did, you are helping a sis out, next time dress the bed for them .
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by biGPoppaSays(m): 8:57pm On May 04, 2015
LewisO:
Bro! The girl takes you as f00l, nothing matured about what you're doing to her.

She's is using your brain also turned you to an errand boy, if you are not smart you will start watching her undies why the guy do the thing... lipsrsealed without u doing anything just because of the silly love you have for her.

She's trying to downgrade you that you aren't up to par to be her boyfriend... That's was why she sent you to know the kind of guy she's moving with.

#GolddiggerAlert.

When you have money go and date her. Nigerian girls for you.

You have nothing to do with that kind of a girl close her chapter, luckily she might be the one coming for you.

Hmm, I think You're right, the last time she asked me was 'what am I going to buy for her on her birthday' coming 18th of this month...
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by jnrbayano(m): 8:59pm On May 04, 2015
mrking3:
get off my mention

Chagrin?

Oh no, I meant well. I come in peace.
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by biGPoppaSays(m): 9:00pm On May 04, 2015
oyin17:
Op, there's nothing wrong in what you did, you are helping a sis out, next time dress the bed for them .
ahah, Auntie oyin,, you are not nice at all....that's so harsh
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by ronald4lif(m): 9:07pm On May 04, 2015
biGPoppaSays:


Hmm, I think You're right, the last time she asked me was 'what am I going to buy for her on her birthday' coming 18th of this month...

Birthday what?. Are you sure you haven't been spending on her for her to come up with such talk. Better get rid of her asap. The insult is too much already.
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by Nobody: 9:20pm On May 04, 2015
biGPoppaSays:

ahah, Auntie oyin,, you are not nice at all....that's so harsh




uncle big, you are helping a lady move her ministry to the permanent site. You did the right thing
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by biGPoppaSays(m): 9:31pm On May 04, 2015
ronald4lif:


Birthday what?. Are you sure you haven't been spending on her for her to come up with such talk. Better get rid of her asap. The insult is too much already.
Brah...looks that way o...lolz
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by biGPoppaSays(m): 9:34pm On May 04, 2015
oyin17:





uncle big, you are helping a lady move her ministry to the permanent site. You did the right thing
Hmm...would you as a lady do something like that to a man?? it's ridiculous
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by Nobody: 9:36pm On May 04, 2015
biGPoppaSays:

Hmm...would you as a lady do something like that to a man?? it's ridiculous

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A guy won't try such with me, seriously don't let her use u like an errand boy
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by biGPoppaSays(m): 9:56pm On May 04, 2015
oyin17:


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A guy won't try such with me, seriously don't let her use u like an errand boy
Oi..thanks... but seriously, I dunno what to do cos I really have feelings for the girl
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by YUNGLURD(m): 10:23pm On May 04, 2015
Weakling...u saying u luv her is incredible, all u wanna do is to sample her punny. perhaps, u can visit the brothel iF u re sex starved.
Re: Am I So Dumb Or Just Maturity (please Read) by MrBasketball: 1:42am On May 05, 2015
Cc. Lalasticlala and ishilove this guy is suffering from a girl o. grin

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