happyjuliet:
Eya Bro. Take heart, shit do happen most times. Try and take 2 her and iron tins out, it will not be easy knowing she cheated on U and d love u have 4 her will reduce. Frm ur write up she is worth fighting 4...So if u till really have a little feelings 4 her fight 4 it.

Tallesty1:
If good is a person, it would sue you for abuse and misuse.

There is no good girl on earth.



@OP, Confront her, not because you still want the relationship but because you want her to know why you are leaving.

Then pick the biggest piece of your broken heart and move on.

adanduka:
You are not married, right?
You guys were fornicating before she moved on to someone else.
If a girl sleeps with you before marriage, there is a high possibility she does it with someone else.
That's why God is against these things

Sorry for your pain.

teflonbuzz:
, pictures of their private parts which they exchanged, hotel receipts, plane tickets to vacations, convos of how they are having a good time etc.

simplex2:


All these in her mail box?

teflonbuzz:

Yes I saw her flight itinerary and hotel bookings sent to her by Expedia which she forwarded to the guy, I saw pictures she sent to herself(I guess she was trying to save them), I saw her Whatsapp chat history with the guy (she sent it to herself from her phone). The WhatsApp chat is what showed me all they have been talking about. I KNOW WHAT I'M SAYING!

simplex2:


More like she was setting herself up for you to findout; can't find any other reason why she will be documenting evidences to be used against her; that's why I find it hard to swallow.

And when people shout with all CAPS that they know what they are saying, it leaves a lot to be desired

teflonbuzz:
I have 100 percent proof my gf is cheating on me. We were living together for over a year in Dallas before we moved to different cities in the U.S. I found out about her sexcapades from her email which I happen to know the password without her knowing. I am still contemplating how to handle it because what she has done is horrible but she has been too good to me before now. I really love this girl and I know she loves me because she has made sacrifices that no other gf has ever made for me and cried a lot when we moved to separate cities. When we were in college in Texas, this girl used to support me morally, financially, spiritually and sexually. She sold her car at some point to help me pay off my tuition debts. Yes! she is that good. We were making plans for the future before this long distance thing happened out of necessity. She started sounding somehow lately and I decided to dig and found that she has been having an affair with another guy in Illinois where she is currently. I saw their erotic convos about their bleeping, her messages asking him to bleep her and vice versa, pictures of their private parts which they exchanged, hotel receipts, plane tickets to vacations, convos of how they are having a good time etc. I am so depressed and have had to see a psychologist because of this. I don't know how to handle this because of the way I found out and because I don't wanna loose her forever; besides this the girl is really any man's dreams cos she is very pretty, kind and intelligent even though she has a bad temper sometimes. It is partly my fault because for sometime I was not calling her as much but it was cos the things I was busy with not cos I was cheating or anything like that. I JUST HATE THIS SITUATION. I don't know how I can move on from here. I had thought I found the one for real but now this! She was all I wanted. Is it love carrying me through or am I being stupid? It's okay to be sincere and tell me I am stupid now cos I just feel all kinds of way. Love is really a damn tragedy! I need opinions...it may help before I board a plane to Illinois and do something really really stupid.

teflonbuzz:
Knowing her, if I confront her she likely won't deny but will get defensive and it may get really ugly.

micktoxin:

Anyways, break up with her. She will most likely regret leaving you. I can't bet you the other guy will leave her as soon as he is done with her.

yuzedo:

Hmmm.....

quenzi:
If you asked me, I'd say you shouldn't hv gone digging just to confirm your suspicion. Don't get me wrong, a cheating gf is d worst thing that can ever happen to a guy and its really demoralising however what you don't know won't kill u. As it is right now, I believe it's your time to step up to the plate and make a sacrifice, forgive n forget and also try to live wit the trauma. Remember, she ain't perfect and like you mentioned, she's done a great deal of good in d past.

yuzedo:
[size=3pt]Sir,

Making excuses for a cheating woman is dangerous. You don't want to be with someone who can pass off bàstards as yours. Nothing good about a cheating woman because she is automatically a liar, thief, and a potential killer.

Be strong and do the painful (but right) thing. You deserve better and I promise you if you go out there knowing you can, you WILL get better. Don't dwell on her and how nobody out there can match her love or beat the connection/chemistry you both had. Speaking on the authority of experience... Cut that bìtch off for your futures sake. Your kids deserve better than a heaux mama.

Salute. [/size]

teflonbuzz:

There is really nothing to disprove it because pictures and receipts don't lie. I just did not see this happening to me. You can imagine how I felt when I saw those pics. There is no disproving. You think I can live with knowing the things she's done? You think my love for her will let me look beyond this?

ahsekeena:



Awwwwww








U need to tell her that u know she's cheating. That might be a wake up call for her. I'm sure she'll apologise and u two will be good together again. Happens.


Everyone cheats

adanduka:
You are not married, right?
You guys were fornicating before she moved on to someone else.
If a girl sleeps with you before marriage, there is a high possibility she does it with someone else.
That's why God is against these things

Sorry for your pain.

oppinionated:
she hurt you this bad? I can make everything okay you know?

teflonbuzz:

If you love someone truly, you can't stay out of their business. I already forgave her without even asking...it's just what comes after.

teflonbuzz:
Most people not everyone.

teflonbuzz:

It's not that easy, you know.

teflonbuzz:
I have 100 percent proof my gf is cheating on me. We were living together for over a year in Dallas before we moved to different cities in the U.S. I found out about her sexcapades from her email which I happen to know the password without her knowing. I am still contemplating how to handle it because what she has done is horrible but she has been too good to me before now. I really love this girl and I know she loves me because she has made sacrifices that no other gf has ever made for me and cried a lot when we moved to separate cities. When we were in college in Texas, this girl used to support me morally, financially, spiritually and sexually. She sold her car at some point to help me pay off my tuition debts. Yes! she is that good. We were making plans for the future before this long distance thing happened out of necessity. She started sounding somehow lately and I decided to dig and found that she has been having an affair with another guy in Illinois where she is currently. I saw their erotic convos about their bleeping, her messages asking him to bleep her and vice versa, pictures of their private parts which they exchanged, hotel receipts, plane tickets to vacations, convos of how they are having a good time etc. I am so depressed and have had to see a psychologist because of this. I don't know how to handle this because of the way I found out and because I don't wanna loose her forever; besides this the girl is really any man's dreams cos she is very pretty, kind and intelligent even though she has a bad temper sometimes. It is partly my fault because for sometime I was not calling her as much but it was cos the things I was busy with not cos I was cheating or anything like that. I JUST HATE THIS SITUATION. I don't know how I can move on from here. I had thought I found the one for real but now this! She was all I wanted. Is it love carrying me through or am I being stupid? It's okay to be sincere and tell me I am stupid now cos I just feel all kinds of way. Love is really a damn tragedy! I need opinions...it may help before I board a plane to Illinois and do something really really stupid.