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| First Timer- First Question by truthalways(m): 6:35pm On May 09, 2015 |
First question, Is it okay for a guy to ask a lady he is dating if she has had an abortion? Second question, what is the best way to ask a lady if she has had an abortion? |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by tosyne2much(m): 6:37pm On May 09, 2015 |
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| Re: First Timer- First Question by Tallesty1(m): 6:38pm On May 09, 2015 |
I don't ask cause it is silly. But a thorough examination of her body will reveal it. |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by tohpahz(f): 6:38pm On May 09, 2015 |
truthalways: Lol.. u wanna look for trouble right??  |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by Tapout(m): 6:39pm On May 09, 2015 |
wahala dey o... |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by Princecalm(m): 6:39pm On May 09, 2015 |
Two in one questions |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by temitemi1(m): 6:41pm On May 09, 2015 |
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| Re: First Timer- First Question by Dotwillis1(m): 6:42pm On May 09, 2015 |
Idk tho |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by Tattooboy: 6:43pm On May 09, 2015 |
Tallesty1:hw thorough? I got two ladies to confess after i made up a story of my ex aborting without my consent. Worked like magic. |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by truthalways(m): 6:44pm On May 09, 2015 |
tohpahz: Am suspecting she has- from her body language and saying things like if i get pregnant we would sharperly remove it |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by mentorandfriend(m): 6:47pm On May 09, 2015 |
There is a stage in a relationship that you can ask that. It is a period of opening of baggages. You simply tell her that you are willing to go all the way with her and that she should tell you if there is anything she would like to tell you from her past which could hamper the relationship in future if it comes open. Allow her to talk and take only what she tells you. Never ask her plainly if she has done abortion in the past. You could ask her if she has carried a baby before. It is a more matured question. 2 Likes |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by tohpahz(f): 6:48pm On May 09, 2015 |
truthalways: If u thinking marriage.. i think it's permissible to ask her.. But,if u aren't, i really don't think it's necessary yet.. Nd u guys should try to use protection so she wont get pregnant.. Who knows,Maybe the gal is just scared of getting pregnant outside wedlock. But if u still wana ask her please be cautious because the gobe that will follow is mind blowing  |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by ronald4lif(m): 6:52pm On May 09, 2015 |
I need to first of all know the essence of such question. Wetin you wan take the information do?. Your only concern should be finding out if she's still fertile and she's got no health issues that could deter her from conceiving, that's if you're planning to tie the knot. 1 Like |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by adewaletb3(m): 7:07pm On May 09, 2015 |
Why the_Fuck would you ask such a question  ?? |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by TheSonOfMark(m): 7:18pm On May 09, 2015 |
Why should you ask a lady if she's had an abortion? It's like a lady asking you if you've got low sperm count. Yes, that express on your face right now? It's the way she'll react to. To ask a female that it means you intend to settle down with her. What if she hasn't had any abortion? What would you do next? You just raised her hopes. Yes, you did! Her mind begins to calculate the EVENTUALITY and no longer the POTENTIALITY of YOU MARRYING HER. Hopefully you'll marry her 'cause if you don't , you've got trouble on your hands. And trust me, you don't want a woman's TROUBLE. 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by jamex93(m): 7:20pm On May 09, 2015 |
tell her directly na abi u dey fear her ni |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by ShayGirl(f): 7:35pm On May 09, 2015 |
U won't jex walk up to her and throw d question to her cos there r ways and times u can ask such, maybe during play-mood or telling of pasts...BT I tell u even if she has had an abortion, it wud only take d grace of God to make her open up cos only 5% of ladies can do that.. |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by Nobody: 7:52pm On May 09, 2015 |
How else will you ask her than opening your mouth to ask her? You guys discuss sex and aborting a lot. She even said she'll remove it once she gets pregnant. Why o why didn't you open your mouth to ask her there and then if she has undergone the procedure before? |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by funlord(m): 8:52pm On May 09, 2015 |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by usman638(m): 9:23pm On May 09, 2015 |
Op wich kind pesin u b sef nawa o |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by tohpahz(f): 10:41pm On May 09, 2015 |
funlord: Well.. u can as Well vote for me..  1 Like |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by funlord(m): 11:21pm On May 09, 2015 |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by funlord(m): 12:38am On May 10, 2015 |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by Pinkiedearie(f): 1:01am On May 10, 2015 |
Why ask that kinda question.. You're just getting to know each other for pete's sake |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by Burnnotice(m): 1:17am On May 10, 2015 |
weed |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by tohpahz(f): 6:59am On May 10, 2015 |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by MizMyColi(f): 7:33am On May 10, 2015 |
| Re: First Timer- First Question by tohpahz(f): 7:38am On May 10, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Morning, am on it,gonna get it to u guys today |
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