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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by IamYhudii(f): 12:24pm On May 17, 2015
Our membership in our local churches is merely symbolic, what matters is Christ in you d hope of glory (Colossians 1.27). D church you marry from does'nt matter, so long as it is a Bible believing one. What many christians do not know is- "When God comes to inquire of His true followers, d question will not b: who worshipped in RCCG, CAC... but d question will be: who worshipped in spirit and in truth". Christianity is a RELATIONSHIP not a religion.
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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Nobody: 12:25pm On May 17, 2015
olu77:
Bold lies
Mr Truth...
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Nobody: 12:26pm On May 17, 2015
you no go understand! Imagine marrying a deeper life girl and forcing her to fix weavon! What do you think will happen when she refuse? That's y some people preach against marrying from a church that has an abstract believe because it could raise issues in the family.
For instance, I don't believe in using any form of image for worship because i think its against the will of God. What do you think will happen if I marry a catholic who doesn't share the same belief? Force her to stop using images of Mary? Nah! she will tag me a devil, and that would not be good for our marriage.
So the least one could do is marry where the doctrine supports what you believe.

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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by cooluc(f): 12:26pm On May 17, 2015
[quote author=VOICEOFTHEMASES post=33815745]Seriously this madness going on in the church has got to stop. What are we Nigerians turning the body of Christ into?

Why on earth will a Pentecostal Church not let its members to marry a Catholic person. The moment a wedding announcement is made in the church and one of the member is from a different church denomination, you start hearing murmuring going on. Seriously this rubbish has got to stop.

Look at a church like Jehovah witness, there is nothing on earth that will make them marry an outsider, never. The same thing with Deeper Life yet these same people want to come preach for you. Seriously, we have got to stop all this.

In the book of 1 Corinthians 12:27 & Romans 12:5, the bible talked about we being the body of Christ. So it is an error for any pastor to tell any member of his denomination not to marry an outsider. We must put an end to this madness for there is no where in the bible that says a person cannot marry outside his or her church. The bible never talked about denomination, the bible only talked about the church as the body of Christ.

And to you out there that wants to get married and you are letting this issue of church stop you, I sorry for you because you be original mumu.

In case you don't know, God will not judge you on judgement day based on the church you attended but he will judge you based on your works. So don't let anybody deceive you in the name of religion. Christianity is not a religion but a way of life.

So dear pastors make una talk the one una see.

VOM[/quote
How about religious groups with questionable doctrines, the parents might even be the ones to oppose not the church.
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Simeonmalachy(m): 12:27pm On May 17, 2015
Yap. You are right
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by begwong: 12:29pm On May 17, 2015
soe:
That is why we keep saying...islam is the way
Islam too has denominations mallam.
An example are the sect that worship sheik tijani inyass,the islamic scholar that also performs miracles.This man hails from senegal and died nearly 3decades ago,but yet those islamic sect worship and remembers him yearly,though 80%+ of other islamic sect dont like this sect because they feel inyass was considered to be like a god.
Christianity's own is much because everybody wakes up,get a single room and starts preaching the doctrine he/she feels as preaching,but it has been foretold that these shall be the signs of "end of time"

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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by adeomos(m): 12:29pm On May 17, 2015
I am in this kind of situation she is a jw, have decide not to pursue any more after 6 years of dating, it just the real love I have for her and I hope I can love someone else sincerely if it does not work out
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by mooremedia: 12:29pm On May 17, 2015
pls where is my house adress...you sound like a terrorist and cyber bully.
soe:
see this guy.

By the way...i caused a nairalander to close his account. His name is rexxie. He kept on insulting me..and i gave him his name, age and place of work....the guy closed his NL account immediately... Hahahahah
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by tranxo(m): 12:33pm On May 17, 2015
Dollyak:

Ignorance and misinterpretation of the bible as usual.
We will like to hear your own interpretation, AFTER you have buttoned up your shirt.
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by adeomos(m): 12:33pm On May 17, 2015
jcmaiah:
you no go understand! Imagine marrying a deeper life girl and forcing her to fix weavon! What do you think will happen when she refuse? That's y some people preach against marrying from a church that has an abstract believe because it could raise issues in the family.
For instance, I don't believe in using any form of image for worship because i think its against the will of God. What do you think will happen if I marry a catholic who doesn't share the same belief? Force her to stop using images of Mary? Nah! she will tag me a devil, and that would not be good for our marriage.
So the least one could do is marry where the doctrine supports what you believe.

But what of situation where the two party understand their differences
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by alobam1: 12:34pm On May 17, 2015
Them religious people dey confused.Very very confused..Lol

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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by gagewonda(m): 12:36pm On May 17, 2015
Who haven't dated a Jehovahs witness babe will nt truly feel d pain. Myn was pain to d 3rd degree. Had to let go of my last relationship cos she was JW. We loved eachoda madly bt den she got reprooved(suspended) cos of me nd risked disfellowshiped. Her elders were against me den came her family too. Guys I had to let go cos I cldnt act nollywood movie. So sad nd I tot we r all one body in christ smh

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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Cutehector(m): 12:40pm On May 17, 2015
IamYhudii:
Our membership in our local churches is merely symbolic, what matters is Christ in you d hope of glory (Colossians 1.27). D church you marry from does'nt matter, so long as it is a Bible believing one. What many christians do not know is- "When God comes to inquire of His true followers, d question will not b: who worshipped in RCCG, CAC... but d question will be: who worshipped in spirit and in truth". Christianity is a RELATIONSHIP not a religion.
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lol if christainity is a relationship, I will love to be ur boyfriend. grin
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by baybeeboi: 12:43pm On May 17, 2015
sonOfLucifer:


Both Abrahamic Siamese twins (Yahweh and Allah) are incompetent gods prone to acts of violence now and then..

Their worshippers act likewise.
i have just seen ur moniker....
Sonof lucifer vs sonofGod.
No way........
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by baybeeboi: 12:45pm On May 17, 2015
LuckyLadolce:
Gimme a chapter in the Quran where Allha call HIMSELF the god of Bokko harram. tongue
gimme one place in the Bible where God called himself the God of confusion.

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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by achiever007(m): 12:47pm On May 17, 2015
The same thing with Deeper Life yet these same people want to come preach for you.

VOM[/quote]

Bro,why judging from afar. I am a member of the Deeper Christain Life Ministry,and there is notin lyk not marrying outside the church in the doctrine. Nobody force anyone to marry from the church. You are only advised to marry a born-again christain and nothing more.... I'm sure U're judging based on what you hear... Buh m telling U,itz nt true. I cant speak 4 any oda church buh I fink I sud be able to speak about the church I attend.

Besides, ur using d term 'madness' on the body of christ is wrong. I advice u withdraw ur statement.
THANK YOU
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Nobody: 12:47pm On May 17, 2015
It still beat me that Africans still do church weddings even when those that brought Christianity won't consider African union in any form.... inferiority complex.
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by gabriel212: 12:48pm On May 17, 2015
Trottle:
A sunni and shia can marry, and nobody can stop any from praying in the same mosque.
r u upto date of the happening in Iraq?
do you know of what was conducted on the abducted women in Iraqi who were predominantly Shite by ISIS who r Sunni Muslim?
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Dollyak(f): 12:48pm On May 17, 2015
tranxo:
We will like to hear your own interpretation, AFTER you have buttoned up your shirt.
Why did you find your way to my profile? Hypocrites.
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by boma95(f): 12:55pm On May 17, 2015
soe:
see this guy.

By the way...i caused a nairalander to close his account. His name is rexxie. He kept on insulting me..and i gave him his name, age and place of work....the guy closed his NL account immediately... Hahahahah

Please tell me my own let me close my NL account grin

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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by annice2014: 12:55pm On May 17, 2015
buskie13:
so true op....Deeper Life calls other Pentecostal n non Pentecostal fellowship unbelievers... not right
Deeperlife do marry 4rm other denominations as long as d person is God's will for them. But my denomination is d worst.
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Missmossy(f): 12:56pm On May 17, 2015
The comments here though grin grin hmmm it is well. Everything in life is simply a matter of choice,even in marriage and deciding to marry from any denomination.
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by bbjummy: 12:57pm On May 17, 2015
It's really terrible and tiring. I know a friend getting married 2 weeks from now, u won't believe that d wedding is yet to be announced in the pentecostal church he attends simply because the bride is a Catholic and the wedding ain't taking place at the groom's church. Nawa oh!
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by buskie13(m): 12:57pm On May 17, 2015
annice2014:

Deeperlife do marry 4rm other denominations as long as d person is God's will for them. But my denomination is d worst.
no ooo...deeper life doesn't give their ladies out to other denominations... by the way...which denomination u from??
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by emsheddy(m): 12:58pm On May 17, 2015
Dats why many JW chicks remain unmarried. the wise ones don dey dodge go marry outside. but if u try am, ur popsy n mumsy wey be JW no go ever attend dat marriage
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by mezebel(f): 1:02pm On May 17, 2015
Dear girl, keep forming "hard to get"... until ur parents put u on OLX

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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by ransomed: 1:02pm On May 17, 2015
cirmuell:
which version of it? cool #morning
::--He wanted to invite you the Boko Haram way, the Chapter that "girlsnapps" sorry, kidnapps girl and forcefully impregnate them , the verse that gets married to under 13 (Children) and call it the right Sunnah.
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by omooba969(m): 1:02pm On May 17, 2015
gabriel212:

do you know that such happen within the Islamic folk? that a Shia Muslim can not marry a Sunni Muslim?
In addition, due you know that the unrest in the Muslim countries originated from the two group difference on Rituals and interpretation of Quran?

LuckyLadolce:
heheheheheh LIE LIE LIE LIE LIE... yourself knows the ONENESS in Islam is greater than that of any other religion on earth. Chaiiiiiiii stop lying jst to justify Christianity shortcomings as a religion. U guys are not one! ISLAM is one all over globe!

@lucky,

You are the misleading LIAR cos the rivalry btw sunni&shia is shocking. If u r well informed of wot happens outside 9ja( in d muslim world ) then u will knw dat BOKO menace is only a storm in a tea cup. Plz be well informed abt world news & cut down on watching Africa Magic & Channels Tv.

Gud day to u.

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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by engineerboat(m): 1:04pm On May 17, 2015
VOICEOFTHEMASES:
Seriously this madness going on in the church has got to stop. What are we Nigerians turning the body of Christ into?

Why on earth will a Pentecostal Church not let its members to marry a Catholic person. The moment a wedding announcement is made in the church and one of the member is from a different church denomination, you start hearing murmuring going on. Seriously this rubbish has got to stop.

Look at a church like Jehovah witness, there is nothing on earth that will make them marry an outsider, never. The same thing with Deeper Life yet these same people want to come preach for you. Seriously, we have got to stop all this.

In the book of 1 Corinthians 12:27 & Romans 12:5, the bible talked about we being the body of Christ. So it is an error for any pastor to tell any member of his denomination not to marry an outsider. We must put an end to this madness for there is no where in the bible that says a person cannot marry outside his or her church. The bible never talked about denomination, the bible only talked about the church as the body of Christ.

And to you out there that wants to get married and you are letting this issue of church stop you, I sorry for you because you be original mumu.

In case you don't know, God will not judge you on judgement day based on the church you attended but he will judge you based on your works. So don't let anybody deceive you in the name of religion. Christianity is not a religion but a way of life.

So dear pastors make una talk the one una see.

VOM

ASSUMPTION AS USUAL.

Have u ever visited any of this churches to ask what s really going on in the churches you mentioned above, instead of waiting for nairalanders to teach you what to say.

Some people will look at you and ask who is this individual saying what he doesn't know about.

My Questions for you,

1. Are you interested in any of the ladies in this churches.
2. What was the Ladies response to your proposal.
3. What is the church reaction to your relationships.
4. How does the Ladies parents react to you faith.
5. Have you tried each of this questions in all the churches you mentioned above before making your conclusion.
IF NOT, then you ARE WRONG.
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by menxer: 1:04pm On May 17, 2015
this OP sef, u dey vex? u want to marry and ur church no gree u?
Bros, there is court marriage.
If ur 'church' gives u any excuse as per your choice of spouse, remind them that marriage is a carnal thing and holds no value in the hereafter...
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by engineerboat(m): 1:06pm On May 17, 2015
buskie13:
so true op....Deeper Life calls other Pentecostal n non Pentecostal fellowship unbelievers... not right

Your ASSUMPTIONS is very wrong, does it happen to you, if yes can you share with us YOUR EXPERIENCE before we believe your assumption
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by bbjummy: 1:06pm On May 17, 2015
Arrant nonsense.

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