If you won't mind me. Nairalanders, please, im here to seek your mature advice about this issue im battling. I met her some months ago and of course i asked her for a relationship. This took her some time before she accepted to go out with me. Anyway, we've started bn romantic when i discover that she's 3yrs older than me. She looks young and infact, she's falling deeply in love according to my own judgement though. My problem is that i am yet to tell her my age, i waved the question the day she asked. I don't know if i should tell her she's older than me. Im thinking that might break her heart. Im also in love with her.
Im sure many have survived this atmosphere im going into. Please, to those who have good judgement. Can i do it? Is there any negative implication to it? Can i just open up and go on? Im really in need of your advice. Thanks

Hell no

I will advice you to tell her cos I can see you are interested in her. the decision is between both of you.

but as for me, I can't date a lady that's older than me.

u would be selfish if u dont tell her..

let her concur it u guys can go on..

No... Age is more dan just a number..

Age is just a number

shakazuldadon:
Hell no

your reasons sir. Thanks

You've gotta tell her, age is just a number and it isn't supposed to change how she feels about you.

@ops, Tell her now before things should get out of hand. I don't think age should be a problem between u guys. My opinion though.

The truth they say, will set u free

Aspiregreat:
Age is just a number

You are right but when the lady is older she av to be tolerant of his childish behavior. You behaved like a kid. coward!

Sooner or later she will findout, The best thing to do is to tell her ur age, if shes willin to continue, then study her behaviour afterwards, if her xracter remains d same afterwards n provided she is respectful n does not lay emphasis on the age ish seriously or jokingly durin discussions.
Then go on with her if shes willing, d main thing is she respectin u.

oyin17:




You are right but when the lady is older she av to be tolerant of his childish behavior. You are behaved like a kid. coward!

The simple solution is dont let a lady knows she's old than you,just tell her you are 2years older than her or simply pull out

Im afraid, i dont want to break her heart. I cant live with that conscience

bettercreature:
The simple solution is dont let a lady knows she's old than you,the OP should pull out

My love, I didn't know you are online. How f*ck?

Op! I agree wit d fact that age is just a number bt it relevance cannot be over emphasize. For nw it might seem as ntin bt wat abt later wen u finaly marry her? U nid someone that shld respect u like an either broda nt someone dat is older dan u. The respect may be limited when the love and infatuation finaly fade nd the harsh reality of a married life surface, that nt withstanding u cn go ahead if u are ready 4 a draw wit her later. Note dat ladies grew faster dan men. By the time she give birth and start looking like ur mum dn't look outside bear d cross. I have one of such in my neigbhourhood.MY TWO SCENT THOUGH, IT STILL A CHIOCE NT AN OBLIGATION.

Drabeey:
Im afraid, i dont want to break her heart. I cant live with that conscience

You better tell her now, break that heart now. They behave as if they care while they don't.

Op! I agree wit d fact that age is just a number bt it relevance cannot be over emphasized. For nw it might seem as ntin bt wat abt later wen u finally marry her? U nid someone that shld respect u like an elder broda nt someone dat is older dan u. The respect may be limited when the love and infatuation finally fade away nd the harsh reality of a married life surface, that nt withstanding u cn go ahead if u are ready 4 a draw wit her later. Note dat ladies grew faster dan men. By the time she give birth and start looking like ur mum dn't look outside bear d cross. I have one of such in my neigbhourhood.MY TWO SCENT THOUGH, IT STILL A CHIOCE NT AN OBLIGATION.

oyin17:



My love, I didn't know you are online. How f*ck?

sweetie am sure you are fine,f*ck ke?we were just drinking and drinking and drinking and drinking till 5am,got flat battery i forgot the charger at home,just charging it now,meanwhile the OP should forgive me,please continue f*cking that lady

Age is noting but a number, but please let her know what she's getting into. If she doesn't want to go ahead because of that, let her be

In Aaliyah's voice *Age is nothing but a number*

As a matter of fact, the age difference is very ok. There is nothing wrong with you falling in love with an older lady provided the age difference does not exceed 5years.

Yo need to tell her,she may agree both of you to move on....Age is just a motherfucking number.

Drabeey:
If you won't mind me. Nairalanders, please, im here to seek your mature advice about this issue im battling. I met her some months ago and of course i asked her for a relationship. This took her some time before she accepted to go out with me. Anyway, we've started bn romantic when i discover that she's 3yrs older than me. She looks young and infact, she's falling deeply in love according to my own judgement though. My problem is that i am yet to tell her my age, i waved the question the day she asked. I don't know if i should tell her she's older than me. Im thinking that might break her heart. Im also in love with her.
Im sure many have survived this atmosphere im going into. Please, to those who have good judgement. Can i do it? Is there any negative implication to it? Can i just open up and go on? Im really in need of your advice. Thanks

Keeping this from her will hurt more because you didn't let her choose to be with you or not. There is a negative implication to lies the signature remains until confession . Open up and go on if she really likes you she will stay.

bettercreature:
sweetie am sure you are fine,f*ck ke?we were just drinking and drinking and drinking and drinking till 5am,got flat battery i forgot the charger at home,just charging it now,meanwhile the OP should forgive me,please continue f*cking that lady

B& B is served,,,,waiting for u to come. So lonely without you.

EroticAngelina:
In Aaliyah's voice *Age is nothing but a number*

so u can date .... A younger dude.... Be sincere

andromida:


Keeping this from her will hurt more because you didn't let her choose to be with you or not. There is a negative implication to lies the signature remains until confession . Open up and go on if she really likes you she will stay.

How would the atmosphere looks like when i want to open up. And please, what is the exact words i can use to qualify my mind to her? Cus now, im really dumb to even know what to say

See Dem ladies scream age is just a number.... Most of Dem Na potBelly men....Dem dey follow ooo *smd

Tell her your age, then u both decide wots next....whether to go on with the relationship or not . Atleast u won't be the first person to date someone younger neither will u be the last.
I think everything all boils down to being happy with whoever you choose to be with.

2dice:
so u can date .... A younger dude.... Be sincere

yeah.

pls endevour to tel her ur age

EroticAngelina:
yeah.

what about marriage.... U knw dating and marrIng Aint the thing