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She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:22pm On May 21, 2015 |
If you won't mind me. Nairalanders, please, im here to seek your mature advice about this issue im battling. I met her some months ago and of course i asked her for a relationship. This took her some time before she accepted to go out with me. Anyway, we've started bn romantic when i discover that she's 3yrs older than me. She looks young and infact, she's falling deeply in love according to my own judgement though. My problem is that i am yet to tell her my age, i waved the question the day she asked. I don't know if i should tell her she's older than me. Im thinking that might break her heart. Im also in love with her. Im sure many have survived this atmosphere im going into. Please, to those who have good judgement. Can i do it? Is there any negative implication to it? Can i just open up and go on? Im really in need of your advice. Thanks |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by shakazuldadon: 5:22pm On May 21, 2015 |
Hell no |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by agarawu23(m): 5:24pm On May 21, 2015 |
I will advice you to tell her cos I can see you are interested in her. the decision is between both of you. but as for me, I can't date a lady that's older than me. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by kilokeys(m): 5:25pm On May 21, 2015 |
u would be selfish if u dont tell her.. let her concur it u guys can go on.. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Cutehector(m): 5:25pm On May 21, 2015 |
No... Age is more dan just a number.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Aspiregreat: 5:25pm On May 21, 2015 |
Age is just a number 1 Like |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:25pm On May 21, 2015 |
shakazuldadon:your reasons sir. Thanks |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:25pm On May 21, 2015 |
You've gotta tell her, age is just a number and it isn't supposed to change how she feels about you. 1 Like |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:26pm On May 21, 2015 |
@ops, Tell her now before things should get out of hand. I don't think age should be a problem between u guys. My opinion though. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Jaycool18(m): 5:27pm On May 21, 2015 |
The truth they say, will set u free 1 Like |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:29pm On May 21, 2015 |
Aspiregreat: You are right but when the lady is older she av to be tolerant of his childish behavior. You behaved like a kid. coward! |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by dulux07(m): 5:30pm On May 21, 2015 |
Sooner or later she will findout, The best thing to do is to tell her ur age, if shes willin to continue, then study her behaviour afterwards, if her xracter remains d same afterwards n provided she is respectful n does not lay emphasis on the age ish seriously or jokingly durin discussions. Then go on with her if shes willing, d main thing is she respectin u. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by bettercreature(m): 5:31pm On May 21, 2015 |
oyin17:The simple solution is dont let a lady knows she's old than you,just tell her you are 2years older than her or simply pull out |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:33pm On May 21, 2015 |
Im afraid, i dont want to break her heart. I cant live with that conscience |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:33pm On May 21, 2015 |
bettercreature: My love, I didn't know you are online. How f*ck? |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 21, 2015 |
Op! I agree wit d fact that age is just a number bt it relevance cannot be over emphasize. For nw it might seem as ntin bt wat abt later wen u finaly marry her? U nid someone that shld respect u like an either broda nt someone dat is older dan u. The respect may be limited when the love and infatuation finaly fade nd the harsh reality of a married life surface, that nt withstanding u cn go ahead if u are ready 4 a draw wit her later. Note dat ladies grew faster dan men. By the time she give birth and start looking like ur mum dn't look outside bear d cross. I have one of such in my neigbhourhood.MY TWO SCENT THOUGH, IT STILL A CHIOCE NT AN OBLIGATION. 2 Likes |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:37pm On May 21, 2015 |
Drabeey: You better tell her now, break that heart now. They behave as if they care while they don't. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:37pm On May 21, 2015 |
Op! I agree wit d fact that age is just a number bt it relevance cannot be over emphasized. For nw it might seem as ntin bt wat abt later wen u finally marry her? U nid someone that shld respect u like an elder broda nt someone dat is older dan u. The respect may be limited when the love and infatuation finally fade away nd the harsh reality of a married life surface, that nt withstanding u cn go ahead if u are ready 4 a draw wit her later. Note dat ladies grew faster dan men. By the time she give birth and start looking like ur mum dn't look outside bear d cross. I have one of such in my neigbhourhood.MY TWO SCENT THOUGH, IT STILL A CHIOCE NT AN OBLIGATION. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by bettercreature(m): 5:38pm On May 21, 2015 |
oyin17:sweetie am sure you are fine,f*ck ke?we were just drinking and drinking and drinking and drinking till 5am,got flat battery i forgot the charger at home,just charging it now,meanwhile the OP should forgive me,please continue f*cking that lady |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by missKiffy(f): 5:42pm On May 21, 2015 |
Age is noting but a number, but please let her know what she's getting into. If she doesn't want to go ahead because of that, let her be |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:42pm On May 21, 2015 |
In Aaliyah's voice *Age is nothing but a number* |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Kingsasian(m): 5:46pm On May 21, 2015 |
As a matter of fact, the age difference is very ok. There is nothing wrong with you falling in love with an older lady provided the age difference does not exceed 5years. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Rapsodee(m): 5:57pm On May 21, 2015 |
Yo need to tell her,she may agree both of you to move on....Age is just a motherfucking number. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 5:57pm On May 21, 2015 |
Drabeey: Keeping this from her will hurt more because you didn't let her choose to be with you or not. There is a negative implication to lies the signature remains until confession . Open up and go on if she really likes you she will stay. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 6:04pm On May 21, 2015 |
bettercreature: B& B is served,,,,waiting for u to come. So lonely without you. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by 2dice(m): 6:04pm On May 21, 2015 |
EroticAngelina:so u can date .... A younger dude.... Be sincere |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 6:05pm On May 21, 2015 |
andromida:How would the atmosphere looks like when i want to open up. And please, what is the exact words i can use to qualify my mind to her? Cus now, im really dumb to even know what to say |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by 2dice(m): 6:10pm On May 21, 2015 |
See Dem ladies scream age is just a number.... Most of Dem Na potBelly men....Dem dey follow ooo *smd 2 Likes |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Hayormeah(f): 6:11pm On May 21, 2015 |
Tell her your age, then u both decide wots next....whether to go on with the relationship or not . Atleast u won't be the first person to date someone younger neither will u be the last. I think everything all boils down to being happy with whoever you choose to be with. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 6:26pm On May 21, 2015 |
2dice:yeah. |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by pinkiberry(m): 6:34pm On May 21, 2015 |
pls endevour to tel her ur age |
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by 2dice(m): 6:37pm On May 21, 2015 |
EroticAngelina:what about marriage.... U knw dating and marrIng Aint the thing |
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