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Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 6:40pm On May 21, 2015
Drabeey:

How would the atmosphere looks like when i want to open up. And please, what is the exact words i can use to qualify my mind to her? Cus now, im really dumb to even know what to say

No special atmosphere required a visit to her house will do i don't want to put words in your mouth as this has to be all you but along the lines of you've avoided telling her your age because you are 3 years younger. You really like her and you don't want to lose her you are sorry for holding back on something so important you had no intention to deceive her you were just scared she will leave you. Courage dear courage.

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Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by danbrowndmf(m): 6:43pm On May 21, 2015
EroticAngelina:
yeah.
Nigerian girls are now trying o.cheesy 2dice,i even prefer older girls sef.cheesy...dy hv lil complains,ts always a give and take relationship,ts nt one side always doing the giving...
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 6:59pm On May 21, 2015
2dice:
what about marriage.... U knw dating and marrIng Aint the thing
if I really love him, I'll marry him.
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by 2dice(m): 7:41pm On May 21, 2015
EroticAngelina:
if I really love him, I'll marry him.
do you knw.... There is a tendency ...of him not much financially bouyant when compared to other suitors.... Don't tell u .... U will ignore that factor
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Aspiregreat: 7:48pm On May 21, 2015
oyin17:




You are right but when the lady is older she av to be tolerant of his childish behavior. You behaved like a kid. coward!


Ur point don't hold water undecided

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Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by 2dice(m): 7:50pm On May 21, 2015
danbrowndmf:
Nigerian girls are now trying o.cheesy 2dice,i even prefer older girls sef.cheesy...dy hv lil complains,ts always a give and take relationship,ts nt one side always doing the giving...
what do u mean they are now trying.... U wan compare Dem with our mothers??... Dey are trying Shii Shii.....money rules.... When u get money the cutest bae.... Go be your item 7 ....abi u think Dangote need to write love letter Ni.....ordinary my name is ALIKO DANGOTE .... DAT ur bae WEy dey form...... I can't do without U.... U are the air that I breathe .... Don format ur existence for her brain.... Few are reasonable ..... While some when menO-when-press-pause she gonna be all nice to even the nearest mechanic guy available

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Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by zinachidi(m): 7:54pm On May 21, 2015
age is just a number,, though i hope she behaves maturely when she knows u are younger, nt trying to boss u around...
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 7:54pm On May 21, 2015
Guys. Seriously, truth be told? Im scared like sh*t
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 8:07pm On May 21, 2015
Drabeey:
Guys. Seriously, truth be told? Im scared like sh*t

A 3-year gap isn't bad.
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 9:39pm On May 21, 2015
KcMark:

A 3-year gap isn't bad.
Whao, lots of advice. I know she's gonna takes it personal. But anyone with speech i can use please. There gotta be
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 9:41pm On May 21, 2015
Aspiregreat:



Ur point don't hold water undecided



The person I'm talking to know himself. I no talk am make e sweet u.
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 9:57pm On May 21, 2015
Drabeey:
If you won't mind me. Nairalanders, please, im here to seek your mature advice about this issue im battling. I met her some months ago and of course i asked her for a relationship. This took her some time before she accepted to go out with me. Anyway, we've started bn romantic when i discover that she's 3yrs older than me. She looks young and infact, she's falling deeply in love according to my own judgement though. My problem is that i am yet to tell her my age, i waved the question the day she asked. I don't know if i should tell her she's older than me. Im thinking that might break her heart. Im also in love with her.
Im sure many have survived this atmosphere im going into. Please, to those who have good judgement. Can i do it? Is there any negative implication to it? Can i just open up and go on? Im really in need of your advice. Thanks
Bro i heard "LOVE IS BLIND"
Go on Love cant recognise the difference between your ages, after all Men grw faster maturely then women.
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Fidecoo(m): 10:08pm On May 21, 2015
Drabeey:
If you won't mind me. Nairalanders, please, im here to seek your mature advice about this issue im battling. I met her some months ago and of course i asked her for a relationship. This took her some time before she accepted to go out with me. Anyway, we've started bn romantic when i discover that she's 3yrs older than me. She looks young and infact, she's falling deeply in love according to my own judgement though. My problem is that i am yet to tell her my age, i waved the question the day she asked. I don't know if i should tell her she's older than me. Im thinking that might break her heart. Im also in love with her.
Im sure many have survived this atmosphere im going into. Please, to those who have good judgement. Can i do it? Is there any negative implication to it? Can i just open up and go on? Im really in need of your advice. Thanks
. Age is just number. So go ahead bro.
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 10:36pm On May 21, 2015
Fidecoo:
. Age is just number. So go ahead bro.
Thx
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:45pm On May 21, 2015
2dice:
what do u mean they are now trying.... U wan compare Dem with our mothers??... Dey are trying Shii Shii.....money rules.... When u get money the cutest bae.... Go be your item 7 ....abi u think Dangote need to write love letter Ni.....ordinary my name is ALIKO DANGOTE .... DAT ur bae WEy dey form...... I can't do without U.... U are the air that I breathe .... Don format ur existence for her brain.... Few are reasonable ..... While some when menO-when-press-pause she gonna be all nice to even the nearest mechanic guy available
Lmao....If girls dem read dis one,dem go chop u raw o.cheesy
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 11:03pm On May 21, 2015
sameer1212:
@ops, Tell her now before things should get out of hand. I don't think age should be a problem between u guys. My opinion though.
I think i will
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by 2dice(m): 11:41pm On May 21, 2015
danbrowndmf:
Lmao....If girls dem read dis one,dem go chop u raw o.cheesy
lol... Na today ... Na raw me sef like am condomS no. Dey sweet
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Farnen(m): 12:54am On May 22, 2015
You can tell her. Infact, tell her. But from that moment, she might start seeing you as a younger brother, lol. She would start recalling all the childish things you'd done since you met, and the only thing she would end up saying is "No wonder".

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Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 6:21am On May 22, 2015
Farnen:
You can tell her. Infact, tell her. But from that moment, she might start seeing you as a younger brother, lol. She would start recalling all the childish things you'd done since you met, and the only thing she would end up saying is "No wonder".
.
So is it best i just play along?
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Chilug(m): 6:55am On May 22, 2015
Op, I didn't read what u wrote. But u said what? Older than u? Please please respect your self.
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 7:15am On May 22, 2015
Chilug:
Op, I didn't read what u wrote. But u said what? Older than u? Please please respect your self.
Just let her go? I'll just break her heart
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Farnen(m): 8:28am On May 22, 2015
Drabeey:
.
So is it best i just play along?
I think it's better you let her know. Also make sure she understands that the age gap means nothing to you. If it means something to her, let that be her decision to make.
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Ellagoldy(f): 8:34am On May 22, 2015
Why not tell her? Who knows she may not break up with you. The earlier you tell her the better. To me age doesnt matter
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by j0rdannkyle: 9:02am On May 22, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Op! I agree wit d fact that age is just a number bt it relevance cannot be over emphasized. For nw it might seem as ntin bt wat abt later wen u finally marry her? U nid someone that shld respect u like an elder broda nt omeone dat is older dan u. The respect may be limited WHEN THE LOVE AND INFATUATION FINALLY FADES AWAY, AND THE HARSH REALITY OF MARRIED LIFE SURFACES.that nt withstanding u cn go ahead if u are ready 4 a draw wit her later. Note dat ladies grew faster dan men. By the time she give birth and start looking like ur mum dn't look outside bear d cross. I have one of such in my neigbhourhood.MY TWO SCENT THOUGH, IT STILL A CHIOCE NT AN OBLIGATION.


sorry, finally fades?? harsh reality?? why get married in the first place then? when u know it is as u claim inevitable.

@op, age is still just a number....and 3 is an even smaller number. if the love is there, y not. and that whole crap of the lady looking like ur mother eventually.... is well, crap. that's what healthy eating and exercise is for.
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by chigoizie7(m): 9:12am On May 22, 2015
Its quite a pity that that relationship might not lead to marriage. In my own opinion, such relationships are the best,she is mature enuf to handle ur up and downs, she is always supportive, well, maybe from my own point, they knw wat being in a relationship is all about.

Sorry to say,I ve dated about......in d past and they are all older either by 1 year or 3, it all never lasted cos dey believed dat a guy should be older when it comes to marriage, so, they chickend out, they never stopped loving but they just have to accept d fate.


All tru my date with dem, they never for one day showed dat dey are older,dey are so respectfull, their fears is that marriage is harder than relationship,nd dey doubt if dey can still hold demselves from exhibiting such superiority in age.



My guy, I advice u to be with her, she is loving, she won't disrespect o for now, but when its time to settle down,things might change. Njoi urself while it lasts.


And NEVER forget that person that made u laff even if it is once in ur life. Happiness aint easy to come by.
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by austine4real(m): 11:02am On May 22, 2015
oyin17:



My love, I didn't know you are online. How f*ck?
plz dnt derail d thread if u wnt 2 fvçk pm him tnx
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 11:10am On May 22, 2015
First you have to explain the Level of your romance so we can take it from there
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 11:12am On May 22, 2015
EroticAngelina:
if I really love him, I'll marry him.
yinmu
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 11:14am On May 22, 2015
KcMark:

A 3-year gap isn't bad.
You are right boss. ...it's not bad it's worst
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 11:15am On May 22, 2015
KcMark:

A 3-year gap isn't bad.
You are right boss. ...is not bad is worst than worse
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by Nobody: 11:29am On May 22, 2015
austine4real:
plz dnt derail d thread if u wnt 2 fvçk pm him tnx


Lol, sorry
Re: She's 3 Years Older Than Me. Can I Go On? by austine4real(m): 3:04pm On May 22, 2015
oyin17:


Lol, sorry
i'm nt jokin o

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