cyprus000:
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**My personal kuli kuli on the matter**
Brda,if you want that ideal woman. Just leave this country and search for her,cos this galz,aint worth it. [/size]

tizblink:


Leave the country to find an ideal woman.
Ah ah! Our society is not that bad.
There are a whole lotta good ladies out there.
Iono buh maybe I've got to meet the good ones

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Brda I see none..to be sincere with you.

I have travelled to so many countries and I tell you that something is terribly wrong with our..

We are missing something in this our society and the ladies don't even see anything wrong to take correction.
If you try to advice them,they will not waste time in attacking you..their favourit quote is "BROKE ASS NIGGA"

All this galz are just gud in pretending,.
They will act good galz,until wen you marry her and she stand firmly in the marriage.

Dats wen you see her true color.
I lost two of my uncle to this kind of women.
wen one of them had stroke,this woman just sent this good man to early grave,as soon she had her hand on his property.

Waiting cosin me with property,me wey even dash my younger broda my pops man ish,wen I leave pops man house.

Waitin vex me na the man wey loose em life to such women.

If I start talk about my other uncle story,you go start to cry.
That one no be even money ish make am die

Same thing with other people I have seen.
all this galz are dangerous.

You no go know,until the marriage dun tey and children dun start come,na him you go see true color.

I dey talk from xperience,no be emotion.[/b][/size]

LuvSwollenPussy:
Op. I like d experiences you've gathered but u need check out ur portrayal b4 ladies. It goes a long way to determine what kinda ladies that come ur way.

There are still good ladies although scarce and being good doesn't mean one hasn't had some experiences b4. Like I often say..some non-virgins are more conscience-stricken than virgins. Believe me its true. I've come accross so many women and I've learnt

D issue of having their men cook 4 them is a matter of understanding and agreement btw both of them. One man/woman's food is another's poison.

Doortun:
Do we still have ladies with some dignity? Yes brother, I can confidently tell you, this type of girls are irredeemably ugly that they have no choice than to be humble and have a true African lady persona.

On the other hand, the pretty girls of nowadays (even normal girls) with moderate bweast and ass feel they are entitled to everything in the world and they never want to loose out on anything big thanks to media.. They want to catch the big fish, 6ft tall, dapper, rich kid, God fearing( hot looking guy that will mumu for them) and all. You will fear if you travel through ladies mind. Too bad lots if not all always be at loss in the end.

jashar:
1st of all, I hate the word spinster. I don't know why.

2nd of all, what exactly are feminine chores? The only chore I know a female can do that men can't is get pregnant and give birth.
(no mind those oyibo science people that want to make it possible for a man to do)

Lastly, to answer your question @ OP, yes; such ladies booku fine fine.

The thing is, they may not be as flashy and glamorous as the girls you find everywhere. Hence, you'll probably over look them.

Namaste.

MizMyColi:
Well the truth might hurt Bro...but I'mma tell ya

Yessss....there are o
Or at least, there are those who are doing their best to keep heads up and maintain dignity (as they understand it).


But hey, if it makes you feel any better....

No Bro....No Lady out there has dignity anymore
If your prize is right and on point, then they're game;

WebSurfer:
i do not want to believe you are one of them, at least not yet. if you cant identify things females should probably do instead of a guy in the house, then ?

WebSurfer:
I wish to understand what is going on with most of our ladies of this generation, As a young bachelor seeking to get the nearest best available Spinster since no one is perfect, i am left to try out some level of friendship by taking time to find a decent lady for courtship. As days go by in so many aspects, I keep getting difficulties trying to understand what ladies truly want, Categories including lies, pretence, fake lives, pride and materialism, Laziness, Beneficiaries , and mostly common, the ladies with so little or no dignity,

What happened to girls who can at least try to keep themselves to one man only or at least seeking to stay in one place when they claim to like or love someone. Seriously , do Ladies understand they are ladies and not Guys ? I know that perspective might be wrong but it doesn't change the fact by tradition in any part of the world ladies should have some more self respect for their body..

Secretly i have known quite some number of friends whose partner get caught up one or two ways personally or by other mutual friends about their Whorish acts and they would even be so bold to stylishly beg you to keep it away from them.

Ladies would go as far as being lazy and proud of guys doing cooking, feel so much comfortable with guys doing most feminine chores and so on, i really dont understand where we are heading to, what happened to Ladies and the dignities of an African woman?

Notice: This is just my opinion and i need some candid explanation or possibly advice on how to do away with these type of ladies i keep meeting. ~Positive responses only please, Thank you

WebSurfer:


What happened to girls who can at least try to keep themselves to one man only or at least seeking to stay in one place when they claim to like or love someone. Seriously , do Ladies understand they are ladies and not Guys


Ladies would go as far as being lazy and proud of guys doing cooking, feel so much comfortable with guys doing most feminine chores and so on, i really dont understand where we are heading to, what happened to Ladies and the dignities of an African woman?

Sparkles003:
please can you assist me with a honest unbiased list of the qualities you possess and the qualities you expect from a woman of dignity.then i can give you a deserved answer if i am sure you deserve a woman of dignity.

amokeme:
we still have very faithful ladies out there.. Tue problem with guys like you is that you just assume base on the bad experience uv had or others around you. If you keep going about with this kind of mentality, then you are no difference from the girls who says all men are the same.

Secondly, if a man wants to do the dishes or cook, I don't see anything wrong with it.. There is no big deal in all these things.. I don't see how doing the chores defines a woman's dignity.

WebSurfer:



i am not talking of wanting to do dishes or other types of chores on personal agreement, of course we do not have to ask, we we supposed to tell a girl whom woke up together on thesame bed to make the bed in the morning, are we supposed to cook or prepare meals, do required kitchen and house cleaning on our own? these things they will watch you do them and feel very comfortable without even trying to ask for assistance not knowing we are just hipping these thoughts in our head, amongst others, these days, Ladies would feel it is love to even help them with laundry, sometimes i begin to ask myself where they grew up from.

cyprus000:
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Brda I see none..to be sincere with you.

[b]I have travelled to so many countries

amokeme:
I honestly didn't understand anything you wrote up there

WebSurfer:
I wish to understand what is going on with most of our ladies of this generation, As a young bachelor seeking to get the nearest best available Spinster since no one is perfect, i am left to try out some level of friendship by taking time to find a decent lady for courtship. As days go by in so many aspects, I keep getting difficulties trying to understand what ladies truly want, Categories including lies, pretence, fake lives, pride and materialism, Laziness, Beneficiaries , and mostly common, the ladies with so little or no dignity,

What happened to girls who can at least try to keep themselves to one man only or at least seeking to stay in one place when they claim to like or love someone. Seriously , do Ladies understand they are ladies and not Guys ? I know that perspective might be wrong but it doesn't change the fact by tradition in any part of the world ladies should have some more self respect for their body..

Secretly i have known quite some number of friends whose partner get caught up one or two ways personally or by other mutual friends about their Whorish acts and they would even be so bold to stylishly beg you to keep it away from them.

Ladies would go as far as being lazy and proud of guys doing cooking, feel so much comfortable with guys doing most feminine chores and so on, i really dont understand where we are heading to, what happened to Ladies and the dignities of an African woman?

Notice: This is just my opinion and i need some candid explanation or possibly advice on how to do away with these type of ladies i keep meeting. ~Positive responses only please, Thank you

Adaeze003:
Uhm... what's that saying again? "You are what you attract"?

So first off Mr, do you have any dignity at all? This one you're already claiming girls should have "more" respect for their body which is something a loose(whorish) man will say.

Secondly, what is wrong with a man cooking and doing chores in his home? I'm sure you expect that once a girl lands, you should do nothing. Now, isn't that what a lazy man will do?

So, how will a lazy and loose man attract a girl with dignity?

Like your brother advised, leave the country and find a perfect or how did you put it again "nearest best available spinster"...