Dear NL,

Pls help out a friend.

I am 22 years of age, A complete Virgin( No Romance or First kiss Yet). And my determination is to remain such till marriage.

I like having men around as friends But the instance they show interest in Dating me I Begin to hate them.

I tried to keep few boyfriend but it didn't last two month. I get bored with them and chase them away.

I know that most men can't be in a relationship without s3x or Romance and that fuel my dislike for Men.

I hate going to a man's house with passion even if he's a complete gentleman. So far he's shown interest in me.




Seriously I wanted to try dating BUT I can't help but feel disgust toward my toasters. Maybe it's because I don't see myself having a future with them.

Most importantly I hate being in a relationship with a man I cannot settle down with. & I hate the thought of Having an EX.



Someone said it's because I'm still a Virgin But I have seen countless woman that married as virgin even after having many EX.

Why is my own different

Your contributions will be Appreciated....

Omotayor123:
Dear NL,

Pls help out a friend.

I am 22 years of age, A complete Virgin( No Romance or First kiss Yet). And my determination is to remain such till marriage.

I like having men around as friends But the instance they show interest in Dating me I Begin to hate them.

I tried to keep few boyfriend but it didn't last two month. I get bored with them and chase them away.

I know that most men can't be in a relationship without s3x or Romance and that fuel my dislike for Men.

I hate going to a man's house with passion even if he's a complete gentleman. So far he's shown interest in me.




Seriously I wanted to try dating BUT I can't help but feel disgust toward my toasters. Maybe it's because I don't see myself having a future with them.

Most importantly I hate being in a relationship with a man I cannot settle down with. & I hate the thought of Having an EX.



Someone said it's because I'm still a Virgin But I have seen countless woman that married as virgin even after having many EX.

Why is my own different

Your contributions will be Appreciated....

Hope you are not attracted to girls sha

Try dating women. Maybe u r a lesbian and u don't know.

I don't hv an advice now,may b later I will

You need to see a pyschologist or better still go for rehabilitation, cos u ve programmed urself to act this way. No offense.

So we now have an uncompleted virgin

lera

You need serious counceling because its not normal for you to chase guys. No sex before marraige is good but don't chase guys if not you might remain single till 30+ and then end up with a man that might marry you and maltreat u or even still you might be frustrated of being single and even do the worst, so look for a good believing Church and join, Consult your Pastor's wife because she will give you the best advice ever... Thanks and GOD bless u

Maybe you are a closet lesbian

rogerdat

The thread sef dey confuse pass GeJ .... Op we knw it is you ... Don't be shy .... Girl ..

Try dating me... I cure manophobia.

But you don't mind having it with ladies?

Omotayor123:
Dear NL,

Pls help out a friend.

I am 22 years of age, A complete Virgin( No Romance or First kiss Yet). And my determination is to remain such till marriage.

I like having men around as friends But the instance they show interest in Dating me I Begin to hate them.

I tried to keep few boyfriend but it didn't last two month. I get bored with them and chase them away.

I know that most men can't be in a relationship without s3x or Romance and that fuel my dislike for Men.

I hate going to a man's house with passion even if he's a complete gentleman. So far he's shown interest in me.




Seriously I wanted to try dating BUT I can't help but feel disgust toward my toasters. Maybe it's because I don't see myself having a future with them.

Most importantly I hate being in a relationship with a man I cannot settle down with. & I hate the thought of Having an EX.



Someone said it's because I'm still a Virgin But I have seen countless woman that married as virgin even after having many EX.

Why is my own different

Your contributions will be Appreciated....

First and foremost im impressed with your writing skills and precision.

It is perfectly normal to feel the way you are feeling because you have this subconscious subliminal self defense mechanism that makes you back off because you are so scared you may not be able to stop if you go a little closer to guys.

So i guess you should maintain this nature until you are ready to go into marriage and the guy has at least shown interest in marrying you.

My advice however is to try to date guys with a wide age gap to avoid prolong waiting in the name of long courtship which may eventually make you succumb to sex before marriage.

Hope this helps

Omotayor123:
Dear NL,

Pls help out a friend.

I am 22 years of age, A complete Virgin

I like having men around as friends

I tried to keep few boyfriend

I know that most men can't be in a relationship

I hate going to a man's house with passion




Seriously I wanted to try dating

Your contributions will be Appreciated....

Just try as much as possible to fence your completed building with



less boyfriends



less or no visit to guys house



forget relationship till you have made up your mind to undo your fence






then u can date

Dis one is very strong.
Your case is very critical

dont worry noww....ur hatred for men will end wen u clock 45years old......

This case is as simple as ABC


Since men disgust you,Try hanging out with girls and see how your feelings react to it.




But wait, does it mean you dont have the urge or feelings to get down with a man??

Toks2008:


First and foremost im impressed with your writing skills and precision.

It is perfectly normal to feel the way you are feeling because you have this subconscious subliminal self defense mechanism that makes you back off because you are so scared you may not be able to stop if you go a little closer to guys.

So i guess you should maintain this nature until you are ready to go into marriage and the guy has at least shown interest in marrying you.

My advice however is to try to date guys with a wide age gap to avoid prolong waiting in the name of long courtship which may eventually make you succumb to sex before marriage.

Hope this helps

Yes... tnx a million.
But a friend said marriage without Dating might have consequences. what do you think

Whizzcute:
This case is as simple as ABC


Since men disgust you,Try hanging out with girls and see how your feelings react to it.




But wait, does it mean you dont have the urge or feelings to get down with a man??

Having girlfriend around feel refreshing.... And yes No urge at all but you know sometimes you want to feel among and have a boyfriend like every other lady..

Goandie:
Dis one is very strong. Your case is very critical

How

Virgin with that sagged boobi , my sister u need jesus o

Hmmm ..mayb u were a slut in ur first world

INTERMAN:
But you don't mind having it with ladies?

Not what you are thinking. Say No to Lesbianism #

2dice:
The thread sef dey confuse pass GeJ .... Op we knw it is you ... Don't be shy .... Girl ..

Lol..

dulux07:
You need to see a pyschologist or better still go for rehabilitation, cos u ve programmed urself to act this way. No offense.

Tot as much. tnx

missKiffy:
Hope you are not attracted to girls sha

Not at all...

Omotayor123:

Having girlfriend around feel refreshing.... And yes No urge at all but you know sometimes you want to feel among and have a boyfriend like every other lady..

Hmmm,since you feel to have a boyfriend around you but when the guys come ,they disgust you. I think people that exhibit such qualities are Lesbians or chronic masturbators,are you part of any?

You're a V, by the time you taste sugary 7inches Di<k you'll love men. And Don't complain about men disturbing you go and date prayer warriors pls and leave bad nigs alone. Gat that

castro316:
Try dating women. Maybe u r a lesbian and u don't know.

Shoro niyen

You don't have a problem...its just ur mentality and its a good one...



I suggest you focus on ur goals in life. And when its time to get married ur man will appreciate this mentality you call a problem.

Whizzcute:
Hmmm,since you feel to have a boyfriend around you but when the guys come ,they disgust you. I think people that exhibit such qualities are Lesbians or chronic masturbators,are you part of any?

Nope