Orijin101:

I've seen a situation like that before, real life not movie. . .

The mother never wants to see the boy at all, instead of showing the poor boy love, hatred is all the boy is getting from her which is now making the boy a kinda sullen and you know what that can lead to. . .

Borrussia:
Anybody can be a victim of circumstances, be it good or bad. That doesn't mean there is no God.

Remember everything happens for a reason, life evolves.

Captainswag225:
yeah i do. Eg for a married women to carry a rapist child to term can break her marriage, not forgetting the emotional stress and other issues. Abortion should be allowed but if the person can carry the child to term and then give out to lets say the foster home, thats also good. In this situation, i think the child should carry the baby to term and then give him or her out for adoption.

Mynd44:

My point is that if you say abortion is a sin against God, then God should have protected the poor lady from being rapped in the first place

Borrussia:
Well I still don't think aborting a baby is a bad idea, the mum may hate the child once gives birth to him, and that's when he'll likely suffer and wish he was breed at all.

ronald4lif:
Yes, if it's my daughter I won't bat an eyelid on having a D&C done.

Religious fanatics shouldn't quote me to spill crap biko.

Borrussia:
A very good point, what if an housewife was raped at gunpoint, will the husband agree to father the child?

Mhizkel:

If you think aborting a baby isn't a bad idea, then you are in support of killing..Abortion doesn't make one a mother of an unborn baby, it makes one the mother of a dead child! She has no reason to hate the child cos the child is her blood irrespective of who the father is...

Borrussia:
The boy would feel worse, his mother does not love him, where else on earth can he get an ounce of love from?

Captainswag225:
i know most men wont but some men might be against abortion so they may allow their wives to keep the pregnancy and put the baby up for adoption.

Orijin101:

Nowhere bro. . .
And that's when the devil will appear to dominate the boy's heart. . .

I saw a topic on FP the other day, the op asked if abortion can be encouraged in the case of those chibok girls raped by boko harams. . .

I swear if those unwanted pregnancies ain't terminated, I'm afraid this beautiful country will never be terrorism-free coz the bad names and reputation the children will be getting in the society will make them even do more harms than their fathers did. . .

Borrussia:
Would it still be killing when it's still a foetus? I doubt.

But let's see it like these, if mhizkel were to be raped by a rapist and she was given two conditions.

Abort or nurture, I doubt if you'll go for the latter.

Borrussia:
And would they care for the wife during the pregnancy period?

Twaci:
Mark Junior I was asking a rhetorical question .

My point is; Rapist or not, Dangote's child or not....the unborn child should be treated same. Like a human.

But then, I'm not forcing u to understand and/or agree with my opinion.

Mhizkel:

I would definately go for nurturing.. The baby would ease my pain of been raped..Children are to be seen as joy and happiness..Not sadness!
Who knows what he/she would become in future?

Rosemary216:
Abeg keep d baby 1st; wen u deliver it u bring d child to me, i wil take full responsiblity and raise d child!!!

Who even brought d idea of abortion I need to shove a carrot down dat person's throat!!

ronald4lif:
Yes, if it's my daughter I won't bat an eyelid on having a D&C done.

Religious fanatics shouldn't quote me to spill crap biko.

Rev. Fr. K. Mark just did.

Borrussia:
Lol, that's what they are also gonna do, it is easier said.


Who would watch his/her daughter nurture the child of a rapist?

Captainswag225:
thats a big no. U know how proud we men are, taking care of your wife who is carrying the child of a rapist will be like being stabbed with a knife.

TheSonOfMark:



Ofcourse the only thing to point out was what I highlighted; poignant, telling and depicting it sure is. It only lends further credence to the much vaulted mantra of the shallowness of your ilk.

Borrussia:
You just hit the nail on the head, Nigerians are very good at telling you the history of your life and the circumstances that led to your birth. The child will just become frustrated and seclude himself from the society, where the devil will wine and dine with him.

Lolz. . . Black men and their black characters. . . Dem go tell you history of ur life sotey you go commit suicide

Borrussia:
I can only hope you meant every word that came outta your jugular.

You have a good heart.

TheSonOfMark:


Rev. Fr. K. Mark just did.

Borrussia:
You just hit the nail on the head, Nigerians are very good at telling you the history of your life and the circumstances that led to your birth. The child will just become frustrated and seclude himself from the society, where the devil will wine and dine with him.

Mhizkel:

It's my baby we talking about here..I don't care who the so-called father is..As far as i'm concerned, i conceived the baby, went through child labour, uhmm..Tell me why i won't treat the baby right? It's not his fault that his father is a monsterous rapist!

ronald4lif:


Since when did sniper Mark became a parishioner. Are women with make-ups welcome in your parish?.

"...For the house of my father is open to them all...".

Bless you. It is well.

TheSonOfMark:



Birthing a child you won't love is the same as killing that child. I am an abortionist when the health (physical and mental/psychological) of the mother and/or foetus are threatened.

The child's mental/psychological health is already threatened so why keep i? To make it endure a miserable existence?

Kiessling is perhaps the most famous conceived-by-rape speaker. She was conceived in 1968, before Roe v. Wade. Still, she says she was "targeted for abortion," and that her biological mother almost aborted her twice in dangerous, illegal situations. Despite, or rather, because of her mother's experience, Kiessling does not think abortion should be legal under any circumstances. About 20 percent of the American population agrees with her. On her website, she tells her story:

I was adopted nearly from birth. At 18, I learned that I was conceived out of a brutal rape at knife-point by a serial rapist. Like most people, I'd never considered that abortion applied to my life, but once I received this information, all of a sudden I realized that, not only does it apply to my life, but it has to do with my very existence. It was as if I could hear the echoes of all those people who, with the most sympathetic of tones, would say, “Well, except in cases of rape. . . ," or who would rather fervently exclaim in disgust: “Especially in cases of rape!!!” All these people are out there who don‘t even know me, but are standing in judgment of my life, so quick to dismiss it just because of how I was conceived. I felt like I was now going to have to justify my own existence, that I would have to prove myself to the world that I shouldn’t have been aborted and that I was worthy of living. Excerpts from http://www.thewire.com/politics/2014/01/inside-world-anti-abortion-activists-who-were-conceived-rape/357314/

TheSonOfMark:



"...For the house of my father is open to them all...".

Bless you. It is well.

Twaci:
Don't waste ur "powerful and grammatical lyrical lines" on me dear.

OP asked for our opinions and i gave him mine. Its ur turn.

Lol .. The fear of grammar catch you!..If I hear say you no run!!

ronald4lif:


Hehe! I'm sure they would be welcomed but the sermon wouldn't be that receptive and beneficial to their 'vainglorious' lifestyle. That's if the new-born parishioner stick to his rule of engagement experienced on this part of the blogosphere

Most times when I use the 'make-up jibe' it is usually to connote hypocrisy, deception , insecurity and the vanity in their part and not the use of make-up per se (those I totally against HEAVY MAKE-UP). Most people tend not to get the allusion so I let it slide.