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Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Amynature(f): 12:01pm On Jun 10, 2015
My dear just let go of her, she don't worth it.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Aitee1: 12:02pm On Jun 10, 2015
Op so technically she's your doc... undecided
Na so delta guys dey always behave cheesy

My ex once told me if I leave him he'll die, I left to be a living witness but for where nigga is still breathing till date grin

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Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Akinz0126(m): 12:03pm On Jun 10, 2015
naijaboiy:
is this Op kidding me right now?

She has been cheating on you for 3years and you are still in that relationship.

I need to ask you a question.

Is it that you are ugly to attract another girl or you are just obsessed with this girl who doesn't love you.

Mehn don't be a fool. undecided

Wisen up!



No matter how Ugly he might even look as a guy a beautiful sheer butter await him. I called this Obsession.dnt blame him when a guy over love a lady he becomes there foot mat
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by columbus007(m): 12:06pm On Jun 10, 2015
elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now
hmmm,you must have suffered or still suffering from a chronic bitch dependency,its crazy how you go about with a girl this long knowing fully well how her fingers are quick to removing her pant for another,and to crown it all u have come here to day how her friends are falling to their kneels to beg you to stay.u must be sick bro
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by ifewise(m): 12:07pm On Jun 10, 2015
Move on
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by dinachi(m): 12:07pm On Jun 10, 2015
What kind of sick dumb Bleep is this?
This is exactly how GEJ ended up with mama piss. It is very clear the lady toys with you for fun. You pay the bills and you are her bitch,why the other guy is the real boyfriend. She dumped you three years ago but seeing how fragile you are she decided to stick by just so you dont die of heart break.

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Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Humblebloke(m): 12:09pm On Jun 10, 2015
RickRichards:
Please OP, whatever you do, steer clear of politics. Na people like you they become leader like GEJ: docile.


Have Mercy....... You just ruined someone's careergrin

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Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Holluwatarhyor(m): 12:09pm On Jun 10, 2015
Dullarpo
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by okonivwe(m): 12:10pm On Jun 10, 2015
U Nor Wise ? Na Girl Dey Use U Play Foolball Get Out Gare Mumu Like U Wen Many Women Dey Beg 4 Marry.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by dinachi(m): 12:10pm On Jun 10, 2015
She dumped you three years ago but seeing how fragile you are she decided to stick by.I do not blame her I blame the Op for going into a same sex relationship. Op is a woman she needs a man in her life.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by loomer: 12:10pm On Jun 10, 2015
agarawu23:
should I call you a fool?undecided
her friends are begging you to endure and promised you to change her ways? you wasted additional 3years after your discovery? chai !!! you must be the girl's MAGA!!!. I guess you are rich bro wink

dump her ass and move on.

if she truly love you, she won't be sharing your love with another guy.

God loves a cheerful giver
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by saintbeckie(f): 12:11pm On Jun 10, 2015
Dear OP,the truth of d matter is dat d lady is not meant for u,cos she didn't av an iota of luv for u. If she can't be faithful while u are still dating,she will never be even wen u get married.An infidel wife is more dangerous than a poison,ur life is not safe wit her@all. A broken rlship is far better dan a broken marriage!!! Free her and trust God to settle u.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jun 10, 2015
elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now





Chairman.....The very thing you choose to over look when you're dating someone is the very thing that will come back to haunt you later..don't settle for less. Control + alt+ delete the wrong one so that your real night & shining armor can alt+save you from the heart breaking vigilantes. But then again, the best time for change to be properly executed and consistency applied is when YOU'RE ready not when someone else pushes you into change that's why you keep falling sick after after a day or two because YOU'RE not tired of your situation.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by agarawu23(m): 12:11pm On Jun 10, 2015
loomer:


God loves a cheerful giver
hahaha if I hear
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Samuel2337(m): 12:14pm On Jun 10, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
U've dated her close to 2 tenure of office & u've not taken her to d altar??.. God help u the time when u will come here to blame ur state govt. or FG for spending 8yrs in office without achieving anything..




You Don't Deserve Any Advice As Far As I'm Concern!!
brother kilo de
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Nobody: 12:15pm On Jun 10, 2015
elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now


YOU THIS DUMB MOR0N , HOW MANY TIMES DO I HAVE TO TELL YOU THAT NEVER PUT 100% LOVE IN ANY RELATIONSHIP,


YOU FALL SICK BECAUSE YOU WANT TO SICK.


MY ADVICE! DON'T DATE ANY NAIJA GIRLS, ONLY HAVE THEM FOR SEXX THATS ALL.

IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR LOVE, FIND FOREIGN GIRLS, THEM WILL GIVE YOU MORE THAN 200%LOVE



NAIJA WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANIMALS (USELESS SET OF WOMANBEINGS)
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by chenn(m): 12:15pm On Jun 10, 2015
@Elijah4: Guy na imbe you be?? abi na nimcompooo u be? why are u so dumb? Na guys like you de make theses oloshes , okpake and bitches feel say dem bi superstars because they r bleeping mumude like you!

Please ne fall bois hand, no come here again bleeting dis he goat pooo here again please

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Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by 9jatatafo(m): 12:15pm On Jun 10, 2015
OP you fall my hand. You are in final year and an OND1 guy is bleeping your babe and you have the audacity to come to NL seeking advice. You better chase that girl away. She is telling you indirectly that you are the spare tyre. OP na love slowpoke.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by carzola(m): 12:19pm On Jun 10, 2015
grin grin mah nigger if you cant beat them join them, go get urself other gf's and join the league right now i have a complete soccer team as my gf's so why dahfuck would i care if any is bagging another guy? use condoms and go for check ups every 6 months thats the way to live a happy life.... if u never put ring for woman finger she is for every body and for no body.... lol

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Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Nobody: 12:20pm On Jun 10, 2015
Hw can a guy be in a situation like dis?are u her atm?wait till she tells u "i belong to nobody and i belong to everybody".u r nt in a relationshp mr man,u r just a spare tire,beta learn 2set ur standards right.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by yomi007k(m): 12:20pm On Jun 10, 2015
agarawu23:
should I call you a fool?undecided
her friends are begging you to endure and promised you to change her ways? you wasted additional 3years after your discovery? chai !!! you must be the girl's MAGA!!!. I guess you are rich bro wink

dump her ass and move on.

if she truly love you, she won't be sharing your love with another guy.
A glass of Andre for this broda.

Cheers bro,gba gbe oshi
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by loomer: 12:20pm On Jun 10, 2015
agarawu23:
hahaha if I hear

True na
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by SmooshCHN: 12:20pm On Jun 10, 2015
elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now
Hey Bro, it's not a mistake you're being insulted and being called a fool of dummy, it's just the bitter truth. If you want people to tell you what you want to hear that she will change you are only digging a deeper pit. If your getting ill whenever she's not with you I bet it'll be worse if she's the one who quits the relationship. Take a great step and break up with her. You will only be deceiving yourself if you think she'll change. girls are like that in general. Call her and tell her your no more interested and don't let her tie you down with sex or whatever she had been using to hold you down. Be a man and don't wallow in low self esteem. You will get someone more better and feel better. Don't wait until she infects you with terminal illness. A word is enough. Her friends will only give you false hope that you always wanted to hear.

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Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Toks2008(m): 12:20pm On Jun 10, 2015
elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

This is the dumbest post i have ever read on nairaland.MUMU. Please this is my advice for you,keep hoping she will stop seeing the guy till she eventually gets married to him.

There are millions of sweet looking ladies out there and if you search well you wil find one who is willing to be faithful to a guy.

For the records,i also had a failed affair of 12years and why im not with a lady till date is not because i am expecting her to come back or still in love but its because im taking my time to get another sweet,delectable,super hot and sexy lady.

If a lady decides to leave a guy,whose loss is it? Abeg give yourself brain and tell her to pack her used body and parcel it to the next user.BE A MAN BRO.

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Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by kenchop: 12:22pm On Jun 10, 2015
My brother , heres a word of advice, just let her go. its not gonna be easy , but you will see it through.LET HER GO. YOU will surely get a better person.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by DrGroove(f): 12:22pm On Jun 10, 2015
@OP...You are the type of guy I like






MUGUrized MAGA lacking every form of common sense and smartness

Emotional wreck! over a girl
I need you in my life!!
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by hensben(m): 12:22pm On Jun 10, 2015
dinachi:
What kind of sick dumb Bleep is this?
This is exactly how GEJ ended up with mama piss. It is very clear the lady toys with you for fun. You pay the bills and you are her bitch,why the other guy is the real boyfriend. She dumped you three years ago but seeing how fragile you are she decided to stick by just so you dont die of heart break.
i heard mama piss has a boyfriend in PH.. lipsrsealed
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jun 10, 2015
elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

U've been sharing her for the past 3 years....U have caught whatever already. Woman Wrapper/Foooooool.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by Gguy4real: 12:24pm On Jun 10, 2015
Guys why una dey fall my hand like this, see how this guy dey talk about love as if he don see love face to face before, one girl dey play your heart and you still claim to love her I think you are not serious what kind of love is that u better wake up and let go of her
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by carzola(m): 12:25pm On Jun 10, 2015
this guy cant be a final year student nah he is lying, [quote author=9jatatafo post=34621286]OP you fall my hand. You are in final year and an OND1 guy is bleeping your babe and you have the audacity to come to NL seeking advice. You better chase that girl away. She is telling you indirectly that you are the spare tyre.
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by dokchizzy(m): 12:25pm On Jun 10, 2015
brother for d past 3yrs a gal has been cheating on u n u don't know how to end d relationship
brother, their is always dat time dat u just hv to mk a hard decision in ur life n i guess dis one is one dem....brother ma simple advice for is to just kindly walk away from dis relationship cos it's not worth it..
Re: My Six Years Relationship Almost Crashing by AreaFada2: 12:25pm On Jun 10, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
i am really pained
i thought we had finally gotten rid of guys like you.
3yrs-long infidelity?
haba bros....
.


Nnah ehn,

This guy gives guys a very bad name.

If you were not seriously after dating and just wanted occasional condomised bleep, I will even hear. But possibly over 3 years of infidelity and you stayed put. Haba! Abeg check yourself.

Anyway like 80% of guys are being cheated on, only just not aware.

90% of ladies, especially students in higher institutions that I talk to, actually think dating 2, 3 or 4 guys is not really a big deal.
Even after engagement, playing away for some girls is ok.
Only after marriage most are not ready to do it. At least they claim so. It may just be "forming" decent wife things.

In infidelity stakes, girls have overtaken guys years ago, with the advent of social media and smart phones.

So make we nor cruficy this guy. We're all mostly ignorant mugus.

This guy knows, that's the only difference.

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