yomi007k:



No p bro, just show me where d polling boot is.

Our ideology is alike, so I'm doing myself a favour by voting u.

thanks bro

Z8:


I don't have time to go through the comments..this is the best and only response to your post.

Your life is yours and yours alone. God brought you in this world to fulfil a purpose. Perhaps he destined you to be a force for change in this our beloved country and you're here stupidly linking your health with a girl, who by the way is a confirmed cheat.

What is wrong with peoples brain?

I hope he learn

ya life hav finish. u nid Jesus

@op its either dat guy bleeps beta dan u or u r richer dan d guy. either way she kanot do wifout d both of u but ma dear, run 4 ur life.... free dat bastard who is nt satisfied wif ya small dick. buh guy, get sense na, y u dey fall guys hand na, u nid beta mending 4 ya dumb ass. fool

DrGroove:

You can imagine...there is this distant relative I have.we hardly see but we very close on chat.he usually gists me how soon-to-be brides visit him for banging.he meets them mostly on social media..sometime ago,i visited him in d company of his sister.one of his male friends was dere as well.a lady visited him n spent d nyt.would u believe she ended up being bleeped by both guys?d following day was thursday,she gave us IV to attend her wedding on Saturday.said d TM held d Saturday before...
I was surprised but d dudes were not.meanwhile as she was there,her husband would call her n she talked like she was in her room in school....
they say what u don't know doesn't kill you else most people would have died by now.the rate at which people cheat is alarming.women are now competing with men on number of sexual partners.some ladies have slept with close to 50 meN,yet they see nothing amiss with it
Personally,i dont expect faithfulness from my partner.i can only preach safe sex n we get tested every 3 months.shikena!

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Yep, not surprising at all. Sad though.

Actually lots of men don't have as many girls as they like to brag about. Dating girls in 9ja costs time and money. And men need time to hustle for money. If you're well to do, you can have very many girls indeed. And in Nigeria of today, less than 30% have that level of comfort to "afford" many women.
The moneyed young men that are equally promiscuous get many girls. That is why bosses in top jobs bleep both married and single female staff. They have authority, influence & money. These three things attract women like magnet. Of course there are still some babes not greedy for money.

An average looking girl that dresses well and carry herself nicely can be approached by many "try-your-luck" guys and serious ones too. If she's not picky, she can have a new man daily. But it takes toasting, paying date bills and other expenses to get a girl. So ladies have more opportunities to cheat.

Also women can date young, old, single, married men BUT most guys would date single and younger women, so that the pool of women a guy can chose from is less than the pool of men girls can get men from.

Thank God you have seen it up close, so you know how it is.
But you cannot blame the women alone. It is still men who knowingly or unknowingly bleep the married and engaged women.

Being in a relationship with a cheater or being a side nigga is as good as not being in a relationship at all. I was in this hell of relationship way back but with the advice of good Nairalanders I quit the relationship and move on. And honestly I have no regret. I was obsessed to the babe but av put it behind me.

Dude my advice is quit this nonsense.

The funny part of this matter is that u might even be well to do, assist, show support and have better future plans for this girl... than the other nigga.

But no, ladies are funny and they will still cheat.

Aitee1:
Op so technically she's your doc...
Na so delta guys dey always behave

My ex once told me if I leave him he'll die, I left to be a living witness but for where nigga is still breathing till date

delta guys ko, because u dated one means they are all the same abi

clear example of hasty/faulty generalisation

Love has deluded into Obsession of thoughtlessness. Jeeezzzzzz!!!! Ur gf has been double dating 4 3 gud yrs kwanu!!!
N u dey here dey find self pity. Wrong address my guy. Maybe d Asylum will do. Face ur book my frend. ?

Hey bro, my candid advice to you is to let her go if you are sure of all you have said. You will definitely meet someone who will stay with you and won't have the guts to cheat on you again.

Bro u weren't dating her...she was d one dating u n she picks u up wen ever she needs u..omg 3yrs too far for her to change...see sit her down n let ur intention b known n frm there if she luvs u..then u will knw...but how long ve u bin on Nairaland...cuz u r just wasting data n money reading but not learning...


quote author=elijah24 post=34616916]I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now[/quote]

If op was my bro! I go cage am for 6 months without food or water for violating men dating rules stickin to a bitch for 3 years. Op! how come you were the sperm that made it?

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

nigga get ur shit and get the ff*******k out ,dere aint worth shit bruh 6 years means notin bruh my relationship just turned 6 years by march 13 and she broke up with me a month later u wil as what d problem was ? and i wil tel u i dnt have d slightest idea tokd wit her in d monin and she called me later in d day dat it was over just like dat and she is dating someone else alredy,broda i gave dat chick 6 yrs of my life and she just woke up one day and said it was all ova so u nid to get a hold of ur self and face reality dat she is screwing someone else i wil advice u leave honourably cos she fit even bring her wedding invitation for uafter u guys just made love so bro dey aint woth sh***t.word of advice trust no girl cos dey al reason alike cos once a lady starts givin someone else attention its all ova

Adortem:
Six years relationship is too long

My thoughts exactly..

Try www.questang.com for your questions, comments, advice and suggestion on anything including relationship and romance

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

you must be rich, and you are her MAGA. Irgo just end the shit, its not love, its called obssesion.

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

Baba nla Mugu.

My only advice to you is to give me her number so I can help you tap my own share.

You are a "real man", you will always be there for her to go back to.

this thing called love is sometimes stvpid.

elijah24:
I've been dating her for six years. 3 years ago i found out she was seeing someone else, but when i asked her she said she was going to stop seeing the guy immediately but till date she still goes to see the guy, sometimes even in the guy's school.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.

i feel betrayed and wanna end the relationship but all her friends are begging me to give her time to put an end to the affair with the guy. She also begged me to pardon her that she will end it. My problem is i can't share my girl with someone else especially in this era of STDs and even HIV. I love her and anytime i ask her to stay away from me i fall sick after a day or two. Please guys and babes, i need sincere and genuine advice. I don't wanna act and regret later.

I am confused that's why i brought it to the house for good advice. Please pals help a bro that is helpless now

u've jst bin demoted frm a boyfrnd to an asistant boyfrnd , if u intend to marry a girl dont date her for too long! Finally neva give a bitch ur hrt xcpt u wana marry her!

PLEASE NOTE
there is different btw love and lust,
ask urself ds question
1 have i slept with her?
2. did u pray and seek the face of the lord before embarking on the relationship?

na lust no be love it simply means u are just sinner patners that why u tink you love her

bro my advice is go on three days fasting and ask for mercy, and that God show reveal ur true wife to be.

all is well if u can seek the face of the lord!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are just a goat no offence! is there anybody in your entire village that you can compare to the achievements of GEJ? even if they give you 10 life time, you wont achieve what GEJ has achieved. Once again you are a goat

RickRichards:
Please OP, whatever you do, steer clear of politics. Na people like you they become leader like GEJ: docile.

I am in my final year while she is in her 3rd year. The other guy is in his OND1.




And u have dated for six year. Did u two started in junior class?
Probably the girl is older than u. U need to let her be and move on with ur life.

Give us in full, i mean full detail of what happend. abi you are not a complete man? cox a sensible person wouldn't think twice before he walk out of this sink relationship.

E-slaps the OP and urinates on his thread. People still dey mumu like this?

Ishilove:



The matter taya me

your pattern make brain

Very simple bro, get sick now or get sick later. one will surely happen

ALL DIS SMALL SMALL CHILDREN WEY DEM GO SEND GO SCHOOL GO READ THEM GO GO THERE GO DEY FUK DEY DO LOVE DEY DO MY GIRL MY GIRL. U never graduate u never find work u never work u never earn money u just go dey fuk free sara fuk 4 school apparently dey do abortion by d time wey 2 of una come out them go carry remnant come give us 2 marry. Rabissssssh!

U dont like 2 share ur girl. woman wey u never even pay 1 kobo 4 her head u dey cry like dis. Mtcheeewwwwwwwww!

DrGroove:
@OP...You are the type of guy I like






MUGUrized MAGA lacking every form of common sense and smartness

Emotional wreck! over a girl
I need you in my life!!

WICKED!

firetrap:
my first instinct after reading this was to go in on you and tell you how foolish you are for sticking in that kind of a relationship even after finding out that she's still seeing the guy, then I remembered that I was once in your shoes and couldn't bring myself to end it before she broke up with me. Op believe me, whoever breaks up with the other person in a relationship holds all the aces but after a while it doesn't matter anymore.

The best thing for you to do now is harden your heart, I know it won't be easy but believe me when I say that you'll be better off for it. delete all her pictures that you have. even the ones that ur in and delete her number and all text messages you guys have ever exchanged block her from all ur social media accounts and platforms and take a 2 to 3 weeks long break without any contact with her and you'll see that your better off without her. though it took me awhile, but I discovered that I deserved better than my ex and these days I don't settle for less that I deserve. Anyone who acts stupidly with me gets shown the door. no time

Cc: elijah24 I enjoin u to follow this advise.
I want u to overlook all d insults, it's normal, that's how people usually react to stuff like this. But it isn't ur fault, it's called love, I'm pretty sure she's ur first.

A man's first love always makes him to act foolishly, u're not d first, neither shall u be d last, just wink at all dat happened & move on.

@ UZOLEXIS BT I will describe u in two words CHEAP PROSTITUES

Cheap prostitute

naijaboiy:
is this Op kidding me right now?

She has been cheating on you for 3years and you are still in that relationship.

I need to ask you a question.

Is it that you are ugly to attract another girl or you are just obsessed with this girl who doesn't love you.

Mehn don't be a fool.

Wisen up!

Except she's a side chick this issue isn't normal. But that's life it reminds me of one night where I was with two guys one was lamenting on a cheating girlfriend while the other was trying to fade a side chick who was crying love on his head. This was happening at the same time .


Well for a main squeeze level the guy is the girls definition of blessed with a mugu.

That's the world for you.

PS what on earth is she doing with an ND1 dude if she's in 300l.

Nairalanders may I introduce the op to you as the first confirmed side guy.

vizkiz:
you have been on nairaland for a while and you are yet to learn anything....nigga you are just too dumb for my liking. I'v gat nothing to say to you dummy!

Three reasons why you are a bloddy fool
1.You girlfriend is furcking another guy and you are still in the relationship even though you are very much aware of that fool!!!!

2. Even her friends has the knowledge of her cheating and they still want you to chill for her, and you agreed to that... FOOOOL!!!!

3. You typed six years mean while she has been in another relationship for the past three years with another dude. Don't you know you'v been a side dude for three years now Fooollll!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Don't worry, the world will never run out of fools. They are born everyday.