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| Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by avwerosuoo: 8:27am On Jun 15, 2015 |
my husbands always hits me anytime we argue. i cant even talk to him when he is wrong cos he is always defensive and what he says is always right. i ve noticed that this is a pattern. pls i need the contact of any organizations that handle violence against women. i ve been quiet for too long. pls someone should help me. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Allureoftheseas(m): 8:29am On Jun 15, 2015 |
He WL kill you soon don't worry 6 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 8:31am On Jun 15, 2015 |
On no account should any man hit a woman  please madam just leave dat marriage before you end up in a coffin.6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by freecocoa(f): 8:34am On Jun 15, 2015 |
You should probably leave the house for now, because he would give you a serious beat down, should he find out what you are up to. What do you want exactly? To punish him for hitting you or that he stops? 1 Like |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Martinsvp1(m): 8:35am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Run as fast as u can,,because a beast will always be a beast....he can't change ...these is d bitter truth 2 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by INTROVERT(f): 8:35am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Not again. Try his family members first, uncles anuts brothers then church pastor priest or Elder before Nigeria Human rights commission 3 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by avwerosuoo: 8:44am On Jun 15, 2015 |
i dont want family members involved. as for his people its a no go area cos they will not say anything. i just need an organization that helps in such issues. i want to threaten him, if it doesnt help then i make my next move. i have handed it over to God, but just getting tired, cos u dont know what to say that will aggravate him. 2 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by focus7: 8:52am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Every police station has the human right section, walk in to them they will attend to you, if your your is outside their jurisdiction they will direct to where you should go. But I will suggest you leave him. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Gloriagee(f): 9:04am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Hi dear, Project Alert on violence against women (http://www.projectalertnig.org/progs.html). A separation may be your best option in the interim. (((hugs))) 1 Like |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 9:52am On Jun 15, 2015 |
I thought women love an ALPHA male according to some guys in this section?. Isn't this one of their so-called traits? As in, women need tough hand/love....Why are you complaining?. Still waiting for the day, a Nairaland female will come to complain that she wants to leave her marriage because her husband is too quiet and respects her.  **** Anyway, OP, I'll advice you to tell his family first to see their reaction(s) - if they support him, just tell your parent and leave the marriage, biko. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 9:52am On Jun 15, 2015 |
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| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Pineapp: 10:02am On Jun 15, 2015 |
lilspiceyy:Will you marry her?? Hypocrite!!!!! Madam, assess yourself and find out what you do that pisses him off.. If he was like this before you married him, then you saw fire and jumped into it. One sided stories touch the heart. 4 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 10:09am On Jun 15, 2015 |
| are you minding those noise makers you should have known that they were only entertaining themselves and massaging their stoopeed little egos FrancisTony: 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 10:13am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Ahen another one don come o Mr fists that cannot be kept to himself. He has to beat to show he's a man E for kuku beat this one na Pineapp: 4 Likes 2 Shares
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| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Joy1706(f): 10:31am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Pineapp:Will you bring her back to life if he ends up killing her? Anuofia! The person that needs assessment and evaluation is her psycho husband 24 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by SAMBARRY: 10:36am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Joy1706: 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilmax(m): 11:31am On Jun 15, 2015 |
You did something wrong 2 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by thorpido(m): 11:37am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Pineapp:No matter what she says,he could walk away.Moreover,the beating is consistent so it's an issue more with the husband. @Op,I think you should let his famiy know what is going on and also make arrangements to stay separated from him in the interim. Do you people have kids? |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 11:41am On Jun 15, 2015 |
lilspiceyy:***yawns*** 2 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by mrsmith11(m): 11:59am On Jun 15, 2015 |
Joy1706: Must you insult when making your point. It seems to be very common among female members here then tomorrow you will open a thread that your husband is abusing you whereas you can't. Open your mouth without insulting SMH 10 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by freecocoa(f): 12:05pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
mrsmith11:In other words, it's okay to beat up a woman for supposedly insulting a man na. Don't you know what Pineapp wrote is also an insult? He called her a hypocrite so he started it. You seem to love faulting women, weldone o. 16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 12:12pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
If it isn't a case of him hitting you in self defense (i.e. you hitting him first) I would leave, personally. In such cases I believe in divorce as much as I do 'marriage' |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by mrsmith11(m): 12:15pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
freecocoa: I can never defend a man that hits a woman.I wasn't making any comment regarding the post because someone already posted an organisation "project alert" and that was the aim of the thread to get info about an organisation It was the anuofia she said I was replying to. However some women can avoid abuse if they know how to talk to ther spouse or stop cursing Thanks 1 Like |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by freecocoa(f): 12:20pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
mrsmith11:Did you not see the "hypocrite" he wrote? He also made a snide remark by asking if she'll marry the OP, Why didn't you call him out on it but chose to attack her and the women folk in general. If Pineapp and joy were to get into a brawl now and she got beat badly, it's very obvious who you'll blame because you think she brought it on herself by calling him anuofia. Men and women should control themselves, verbal abuse is never justification for physical abuse please. 13 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by mrsmith11(m): 12:26pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
freecocoa: Well,before God and Man I didn't see the hypocrite until you said it. However two wrong can't make things right but will only make things worst I thought women are suppose to be calmer and meek. She doesn't need to reply him the same way to pass a point |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Pineapp: 12:33pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Joy1706:I'm having a good laugh here Anuofia's friend! |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 12:38pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Pineapp:It seems u are the kind of man dat beats a woman. mtchewww even if she pisses him off or says hurtful words to him he shldnt raise his hands on her. Period! 5 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by lilspiceyy(f): 12:40pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Whatever  5 Likes |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Pineapp: 12:41pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
lilspiceyy:Unfortunately some women are programmed to learn not to insult a man the hard way. |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
Pineapp:Hmmm....since when did you become a man  1 Like |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by 5minsmadness: 12:46pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
lilspiceyy:You must be very young to hold on to that belief. Why should a woman provoke her man and not expect to get hit? What makes them so special? 1 Like |
| Re: Help, My Husband Hits Me Anytime We Argue by Pineapp: 12:50pm On Jun 15, 2015 |
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