kinibigdeal:
I dont know why men and women of nowadays find it hard to keep to themselves before marriage. Only God knows what this world is turning into?? am sure in population of around 150million, we can hardly count 20 virgins

The WORLD is turning into this because...
..... It has been WRITTEN.
..... daughters of JEZEBEL abound.
..... Seductresses are on the loose.
..... The PROPHECY has to be fulfilled.
..... SOCIAL media's influence.
..... Reprobate minds (stony heart) on the loose.
..... USA's influence on BRITISH system of courtesy

sexymoma:
Daylight robbery

hahahaha,chai una women baad pass devil for hell, thats why even God dejects and runs from you women...

kilode100:
What's with men and virgin ?
Are you trying to say that for two years the man no fvuk toto?
Women sef, youknow say your kini na expressway you still dey lie!


Who virgin don help sef?

Cos its a sign of someone thats trustworthy.
do you wish to marry someone that cant be trusted?

In my opinion they are married since they have done the trsditional wedding. The rest are just cosmetics to fulfil our regular 3 weddings on this side of the globe. On the other hand the lady did deceive the man which on its own is bad but it is the man's beans wether to forgive her or not. If he is to forgive her (which I support) he has to deal with deception on the lady's part by letting her know it pays no one as it hurts more when his mind is prepared for a differrent expectation.

If she continues with lying she would only end up destroying what would otherwise have been a wonderful marriage life for the two of them. Divorcing her though would not guarantee he would get someone better. All women have at least a fear but being the one they can open up to is a task not for the feeble minded and if he fails once it might draw her more into a deeper shell. The decision sha lies with the hubby. I hope he does the right thing.

STEVENcrack:

See your life outside.your level of stupidity exceeds my understanding. We are all disappointed in you.

STEVENcrack:

See your life outside.your level of stupidity exceeds my understanding. We are all disappointed in you.

Stewpid a.rsehole, cave man feeling like he knows what's up. Can't u pass ur comment without showing how shallow-minded u r. U must be proud of wot u put up there fuuccker.

Let me knock some sense into ur black brain, u r not a match for me baby so go & dry clean ur tired boxers ok.

I will still tolerate ur sorry a.rse cos u knw not hw u function. So drop woteva commonsense-starved comment u wanna contribute or get d f.uucck off my mention.

Omo eran rada rada...mtcheeeew !

Anybody that knows he or she is not a sinner should cast the first stone.

I have always DATED VIRGINS and will NEVER settle for less when it comes to MARRIAGE.

I have NEVER promised any LADY, marriage and FAILED.. (past continuous tense)

opey112:
Anybody that knows he or she is not a sinner should cast the first stone.

My man...
We have been CASTING STONES since oooo..

Did u just JOIN NAIRALAND...?

kilode100:
What's with men and virgin ?
Are you trying to say that for two years the man no fvuk toto?
Women sef, youknow say your kini na expressway you still dey lie!


Who virgin don help sef?

The point is "she lied". If I were the guy in question, I'll divorce her sorry as.s

sexymoma:
wetin bring dat wan nao

...sweeery I be in that place Nigeria next months for juss 5 days and I need a company for 5 days (friend only kinda).... so am thinkin ,maybe u may be the luckuy chick....serrriously....am I said *MAY*...No promise yet!!

Call what off? In the eyes of the law them don marry already. The law recognises traditional marriage. The basic diff is dt with trad marriage u r free to marry again

Please do not judge this girl wrongly. Many girls (unmarried) have tasted Sex forcefully or non-forcefully and many had to give up their virginity because of the love they had to their significant other, and let's assume she was faithful with this particular guy and something happened between them along the line that caused them to split / break up and she now luckily for her meets another guy who would die for her but is unwilling to have Sex with her, this scenario will make her scared of coming out of the closet because of her fear of being reprimanded by him she is forced to keep it but at this point wen marriage is so close she is scared of wat will happen to her wen she gets married to him and he later finds out. So to me she did what she had to do to prevent the imminent from happening. My advice : if he loves her truly he should forget the past and forgive her and move on.

The issue at stake isn't her virginity, but rather trust. But on a serious note, the guy no try.
A girl tells me she is a virgin, walahi I go check first oh. Same goes for ladies, check your guy to know if everything works oh.

Chiscomax:
And how is that your business?

He wants to help his friend take the decision

OkikiOluwa1:

Cos its a sign of someone thats trustworthy.
do you wish to marry someone that cant be trusted?

Virginity is a sign dat one is trustworthy?

The bedrock of ur education needs revisiting...seriously.

MEILYN:
That was how a girl deceived me. I was a virgin too at that time, so I didn't know what'sup. She told me with all seriousness that she was a virgin and no man would ever touch her till she gets married. I loved her more because of that, I gave her everything she wanted, hoping to get married to her someday. Things happened so quick and we found ourselves making love. I wanted to give her that respect but she declined, she held me tight, this girl held my manhood and twisted it from left to right. I was afraid, I didn't want to cu.m too quick because I was a novice but her romance made me so Hot. I took of her panties, did a little pre-intimacy (The ones I see on Porn). I inserted my joystick and walahi it was free like badagry express way. I jumped out and asked her why she lied that she is a virgin when she is not? She told me that she didn't feel anything, she also said I didn't penetrate very well and insisted she is a virgin. As a Jew man, I went again to confirm, doubting my ability in the process. It was as wide as ever. I came out again and her excuse this time was that she was circumcised at a young age. That was the last time I saw her......

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

MrCork:



...sweeery I be in that place Nigeria next months for juss 5 days and I need a company for 5 days (friend only kinda).... so am thinkin ,maybe u may be the luckuy chick....serrriously....am I said *MAY*...No promise yet!!

Ain't light skin.... Next door pls

sexymoma:
Halo

I like the beautiful eyes r they yours?

[quote author=kilode100 post=34888949]What's with men and virgin ? Are you trying to say that for two years the man no fvuk toto? Women sef, youknow say your kini na expressway you still dey lie!

Who virgin don help sef?
me, l, then u. u they real they vex any way na children they look for virgin.

peeparty:
that doesn't matter he can forgive and go ahead with the plans.

The best response so far.

Mattkent:


I like the beautiful eyes r they yours?

By the grace of God

sexymoma:
Ain't light skin.... Next door pls

....sweeery u hav nice eyes & I tink I can manage u...I usualy talk to dakskin females only when am in Nigeria for few days and I tink u may be the lucky chick...CONGRATS!!

omooba969:


The question is, 'Is he marrying the lady for sex or better still sexual gratification?' Come to think of it, what's the big deal about this virginity madness gan?

Will virginity bring food to the table?
Will virginity add funds to the bank account?
Will virginity guarantee a blissful & successful marriage?
Will virginity prevent a lady who's gonna cheat in marriage from doing so?
Is virginity a factor when it comes to good character?
Who cares if you are a virgin or not !

I believe marriage is for the couple to love, cherish & complement each other; not to mis-place your priority by focusing on some fuuccckn virginity.

Please ladies, there's no point hyping what's not a means to an end ok.

Nonsense !

Friend,dt a lady.was able to keep her virginity in ds age of immorality speaks volume about her character.

OkikiOluwa1:

Cos its a sign of someone thats trustworthy.
do you wish to marry someone that cant be trusted?

I rather believe that it is the deception in this case that made her non trustworthy. The man according to the story was not even the one disturbung her on her status. She disrupted his expectation by her own deception thinking it would aid hooking the man.

MrCork:



....sweeery u hav nice eyes & I tink I can manage u...I usualy talk to dakskin females only when am in Nigeria for few days and I tink u may be the lucky chick...CONGRATS!!

Congrats for wetin...

omooba969:


The question is, 'Is he marrying the lady for sex or better still sexual gratification?' Come to think of it, what's the big deal about this virginity madness gan?

Will virginity bring food to the table?
Will virginity add funds to the bank account?
Will virginity guarantee a blissful & successful marriage?
Will virginity prevent a lady who's gonna cheat in marriage from doing so?
Is virginity a factor when it comes to good character?
Who cares if you are a virgin or not !

I believe marriage is for the couple to love, cherish & complement each other; not to mis-place your priority by focusing on some fuuccckn virginity.

Please ladies, there's no point hyping what's not a means to an end ok.

Nonsense !

lol oga o virginity matters a lot.... who knws she might hav lost hr womb long tym ago

omooba969:


Virginity is a sign dat one is trustworthy?

The bedrock of ur education needs revisiting...seriously.

you should
visit your educational background.

It would be rather stupid to go ahead and marry her. I doubt he would ever be happy again. there's no evidence of love here.

desoul:
l have a friend who recently did his traditional marriage..he has been dating this girl for two years but never had sex with her hoping that it will be new and more romantic after their wedding..

According to him he promised himself that he will never make love to the girl until after their wedding,but one day in his house the girl asked him why he doesn't want to take her virginity but the guy pretended as if he did not hear her and she repeat the question again, at this time the guy turned and asked her why she is asking him that kind of question and the girl said she is a virgin and the guy was happy because the babe has made his promise easy.

He cancelled and told the girl that they should wait after their marriage so that they will go abroad for their honey moon..but after the traditional marriage the girl could not hold on...she pleaded with the guy to make love to her hence they have finished their traditional marriage.."to his greatness surprise the gate to the hinduedum was wide open without paddocks."

Behold she is not a virgin..when he asked her,she said that her first boyfriend forced his self on her...but since them she has not meet any other man..but the issue is that the guy never asked her about her virginity rather she said it her self were as she knows it is a lie..

Please should he go ahead with wedding plans or should he quit because he is finding it difficult to trust the girl.matured comments pls.

Your friend indeed, fvcking impostor, I could Sue Ur fat empty head for editing and re-posting my post without my consent, get ur own story or facts right before coming here to spew rubbish Mr man.

my dear d main issue here is not about virginity its about lie and lack of trust I think we shouldn't let our sentiment becloud our assement and judgement on matters abeg.

kilode100:
What's with men and virgin ?
Are you trying to say that for two years the man no fvuk toto?
Women sef, youknow say your kini na expressway you still dey lie!


Who virgin don help sef?