Jollyjoy:
U neva had a boyfriend but when u wer dating u dn"t allow ur b.f sleep with u.

Jollyjoy:
U neva had a boyfriend but when u wer dating u dn"t allow ur b.f sleep with u.

She said her relationships aint serious no REAL boyfriend. So she's not dating.


Don't use your mouth to cos problem for yourself OP.
Guys are naturally stubborn even if you are possessed,they'll come.

hottest111:
Mtcheeew..post ur picture first before we can continue dis discussion * walking out *

Magician1503:
Make we see your face first na

maverickdude:
WAP..we ar nothin buh pencil in d hands of d creator

Nairalanders..we ar nothin buh mumu in d eyes of op


#superstory ,post ur picture

Arami92:

So Nairalanders! i Need advice oo!


I'm Nigerian, but i'm very Americanized..(came to America when i was small).

People tell me i'm a very pretty girl, and most of my friends say it won't be hard for me to get married...BUT i can't seem to get a boyfriend talk-less of marriage. At 23 i've never even had a serious boyfriend and i don't know why. i'm starting to wonder if there is something seriously wrong with me that i cannot see.

Here are the things i think may be the problem (based on my opinion and what others have told me):

a) I'm not always super approachable. i'm not mean at all but i don't go out of my way to be talking to everybody. But i always dress well, i smile and act friendly and i'm not mean to people. But my friends still say because guys may be intimidated when they see a pretty girl who has a stuck up appearance they won't approach her. I have pride but it's not arrogance.

b) I'm still a virgin. I get scared when it comes to sexual things because my biggest fear is to lose my virginity with a man that will only leave me or doesn't truly love me. So when i'm dating a guy and he tries to make things sexual i always cut that very short!. My friends say this may be a turnoff to guys because you have to tease them and give them something to hang on to because men are very sexual. (Like i won't even kiss you until i really like you.) BUT my father raised me to never be ashewo! So i try to keep myself as pure as possible for the right person, so sometimes that gets in the way of the natural flow of things.

c) I'm stubborn o! Like sometimes i like to form *Hard-to-get* I was always told as a woman you should never be too easy for a man, that you should let him chase you. And this is usually what i do. And i also don't always show my emotions. Like if i'm starting to really like a guy i'm very scared to express it. I always hold back unless he professes his love for me first. I feel like if you show too much emotion too soon you can scare men away so i let him lead on how much emotion to show.

d) lastly I only like to date Nigerian guys. But i live in a city where there are very few of us. My friends say when i move to a city with more Nigerians the suitors will be rolling in but idk. I still cant help but feel like maybe something is wrong with me.


Words of advice will be appreciated<3

chigoizie7:




I was in my friends village, we were strolling, then we saw, a young gal, well endowed and very beautiful, the way she play with people easily suggests that she is friendly.


My friend now said to me,

Ebuka :- gozie, see that small gal, oga, dat gal fine oooh.

Gozie:- chooi, and she is well endowed. Nawa ooh, it like this village looks good on her.

Ebuka :- which kind village? For dis fine gal? Make she commot for this village and come to awka (she is decently dressed,no make up, nice air) make she dey "tushed" up.

Gozie :- tushed up as in how? She is ok, like this now, @least she is happy with her environment, well,maybe because she is a poor gal, but she doesn't need tushing up.

Ebuka, :- guy , u no know wetin u de talk, if this babe enter awka, she go reform, if u see her, u no go know her again. She go tear eye. She go know what's up,

Gozie:- maxi(ebuka), if this gal enter awka like this, she will be messed up, she will be tushed up, but she will hate herself,

Ebuka:- u no know anything, this fine babe. She go enjoy awka die.

Gozie :- if this gal enter awka in the pretence of getting herself tushed, she will get nothing than being phucked and dumped by many guys.



Now ask me how and why, and I will tell u how her case is almost same as urz.

honeygirl17:






Na pastor fit you, what a sermon!

chigoizie7:


Lolz, pastor fire, I reject it in jesus name, shout Amen.

To be sincere, I be male ashawo,as in, a fucklicant. I no sabi phuck like the type u like ooh.

But na true I talk, 80% of beautiful and endowed young gals, end up messing themselves up all in the name of pleasing the society. If u be fine and sexy gal, no allow that to enter ur head, if not, the only thing u will get is many d!cks going in and out of ur puissy


Because, guys will capitalize on ur beauty to wash ur brains with hypo mixed with jik, den u will be feeling fly.

And guys will be ramming into ur puissy like a piston of 911.that is on top speed. B4 u know it, u will be, "ooh, that gal? Bros forget that b!itch, she is an easy lay, many guys don phuck phuck her tire, unless u wan still go collect ur own ooh" and u will still be there thinking that u have value.


By now, u re relegated to the group called "achikota ekwee onu".

Nneka123:
Op, How did you discover Nairaland?

Arami92:


google, i use to view threads on here a lot i just never posted or made an account.

chigoizie7:


Lolz, pastor fire, I reject it in jesus name, shout Amen.

To be sincere, I be male ashawo,as in, a fucklicant. I no sabi phuck like the type u like ooh.

But na true I talk, 80% of beautiful and endowed young gals, end up messing themselves up all in the name of pleasing the society. If u be fine and sexy gal, no allow that to enter ur head, if not, the only thing u will get is many d!cks going in and out of ur puissy


Because, guys will capitalize on ur beauty to wash ur brains with hypo mixed with jik, den u will be feeling fly.

And guys will be ramming into ur puissy like a piston of 911.that is on top speed. B4 u know it, u will be, "ooh, that gal? Bros forget that b!itch, she is an easy lay, many guys don phuck phuck her tire, unless u wan still go collect ur own ooh" and u will still be there thinking that u have value.


By now, u re relegated to the group called "achikota ekwee onu".