Buh if na him girlfriend dey chat am him go dey very romantic

Ishilove:
Silly, immature question.

I was beginning to wonder if everyone has gone crazy.

How can one ask such a question? And someone even compared baby food to wife's hairdo. Yous gotta be kiddin' me.

oluwadanie1:


how is your own wife and daughter sir?

They are greeting you sir

tolu4you:

I no dey around so we mostly chat online

Perhaps you often ask Iya Tolu "how is Tolu?" without asking her "How are you?"

freecocoa:
I was beginning to wonder if everyone has gone crazy.

How can one ask such a question? And someone even compared baby food to wife's hairdo. Yous gotta be kiddin' me.

The love a man feels for his wife is different from the love he feels for his daughter. How can she even ask such a question?

Abi is there something the man is not telling us?

why on chat? Is anything wrong with this husband and wife?

freecocoa:
I was beginning to wonder if everyone has gone crazy.

How can one ask such a question? And someone even compared baby food to wife's hairdo. Yous gotta be kiddin' me.

he wasn't comparing the two. He was making the point that the needs of the baby are new and superior to that of the wife and will generally supersede, rightfully, what had hitherto been considered the needs of the woman thus the feeling of sudden deprivation of what might have come to be expected as a proof of love might lead to one feeling unloved. that is what the guy was trying to say.

Na winch be d mother of your baby...

Make mama Tolu no go kill Tolu o

yorke1:
Are you sure the woman in question is your wife?

Dumbest guy on Nairaland I bet u must be IBO!U can never read anything reasonable from this guy!grow up or is that too hard for u

seangy4konji:
Na winch be d mother of your baby...

Menace2Society:
Dumbest guy on Nairaland I bet u must be IBO!U can never read anything reasonable from this guy!grow up or is that too hard for u

AncientJerk:


he wasn't comparing the two. He was making the point that the needs of the baby are new and superior to that of the wife and will generally supersede, rightfully, what had hitherto been considered the needs of the woman thus the feeling of sudden deprivation of what might have come to be expected as a proof of love might lead to one feeling unloved. that is what the guy was trying to say.

Alright, even so, the woman shouldn't even be complaining if that were to be the case, is she supposed to be told the baby's needs supersedes hers?

If the husband is neglecting her
because of the child, then that's not the approach to the matter at all, they should both love the kid with no drama/contest for places in the child's life or theirs.

That question is something only an insecure and jealous person would ask.

Ishilove:

The love a man feels for his wife is different from the love he feels for his daughter. How can she even ask such a question?

Abi is there something the man is not telling us?

Who knows?

yorke1:

400billionman:

So he lied nah ?
Abi you hate the truth ?

Some things are better left unsaid. Besides, that statement is too generalized to be true. Thanks

@poster, I don't blame ur wife jare. Even ur profile name has ur daughter's in it. Though I think it's normal for daddy's to get attached to their daughters while mummy's get attached to their sons. Let's wait until u have a son, u might just understand d feeling when u see her bonding with ur son.

flyca:
You made your point by telling her you love them both. But you would have skipped telling her that "women and jealousy are synonymous".

wat about your signature

ikombe:
wat about your signature

I said that statement is too generalized to be true.

ikombe:
wat about your signature

I said that statement is too generalized to be true.

southernbelle:

thanks

jst a bit disappointed abt nt seeing ur pic

tolu4you:
I had this chatting with my woman yesterday. She asked me if i love my daughter more? Fellow nairalander, anything wrong with the question? Coz the question dey somehow.
How on earth asking such a question from your husband if he love his child more than you

you gave her the correct answer. Don't tell her you love any of them more. Women are very mysterious.

flyca:

I said that statement is too generalized to be true.

its the truth
thats final

tolu4you:
I had this chatting with my woman yesterday. She asked me if i love my daughter more? Fellow nairalander, anything wrong with the question? Coz the question dey somehow.
How on earth asking such a question from your husband if he love his child more than you.


CC : lalasticlala

Its because of your username.

freecocoa:
Are you well at all? So a man loves his wife the same way he loves his kids? Is it now kids that keep couples together? Are you like for serious?

Sick.

Daughter of impudence, clap for your sour-mouthed self. How shameful that you couldn't convey your thoughts like a well-mannered lady I erroneously thought you were! Sickening!

R u sure dat ur wife is de moda of dat ur daughter bcuz any gud woman will nt jelous ha own daughter...

PastorJohnny:


Daughter of impudence, clap for your sour-mouthed self. How shameful that you couldn't convey your thoughts like a well-mannered lady I erroneously thought you were! Sickening!

Excuse me biko, no one really cares what your opinion of me is, as that's not the topic of discussion here.

And it's well mannered of you to come at me with that post of yours, give me a break.

freecocoa:
I don't find such questions healthy.

I can never ask my man that, it will be my pleasure that he puts the kids before me, he should certainly love them more please.

Freecocoa I would have to disagree on this one. I do not think any husband should love his children more than his wife, plain and simple. Neither should he put his children before his wife. The simple answer to this question is I love you more than my daughter.

As a married man your priorities should be your wife, your children and then yourself in that order. Unfortunately as Africans we tend to put children before our spouses and that is very wrong. Our spouses MUST always come first regardless. After 18 years the child would leave the house but your wife is not going anywhere(except in the unfortunate case of a divorce).

Even the bible agrees that husbands should love their wives more than their children. Children are a gift from God and should be loved and cherished but the wife must always come first

I must definitely love my kids more than any other person for planet earth. Who no like should GO AND DIE

snakebeat:
Na for online u & ur wife dey communicate? Why she no ask u 4 house?

No mind them jare,maybe na there own indirect way of telling the other say peckus dey hungry them

tolu4you:

I no dey around so we mostly chat online

u no dey around so u mostly chat online...#thumbsUp. Next question would/might be....u understand?

sevule:


Freecocoa I would have to disagree on this one. I do not think any husband should love his children more than his wife, plain and simple. Neither should he put his children before his wife. The simple answer to this question is I love you more than my daughter.

As a married man your priorities should be your wife, your children and then yourself in that order. Unfortunately as Africans we tend to put children before our spouses and that is very wrong. Our spouses MUST always come first regardless. After 18 years the child would leave the house but your wife is not going anywhere(except in the unfortunate case of a divorce).

Even the bible agrees that husbands should love their wives more than their children. Children are a gift from God and should be loved and cherished but the wife must always come first

Well, that's your belief and I don't care what the bible says btw.

That I said he should put them before me doesn't mean he should stop loving me, children's needs are above that of the parents especially in their formative years when they really can't do much for themselves, how a man loves his woman is different from how he loves his kids, the two can never compete as they are not even in the same class, so that you all think it's healthy to be in competition with one's kid is nuts to me, but by all means, carry on.