Nairalanders why isnt it possible for a guy to sleep or lie on the same bed with a gurl without making a move even if they arent  attracted to you?
this is my interesting story:

Once I was holidaying at my cousins with my siblings. My cousins also had their cousins (not related to me).  I was 16 my eldest cousin 15, one of her 'cool' older cousins he was 21 and I fancied the knickers of him! [i]You know girls are at 16  He was fairly good looking, into modelling, and all that.

One nite we were all in the living room I was sitting beside him and he was   caressing my stomach and holding my waist or something like that. Don’t remember clearly now,  but he was acting normal so I was like waterworks u wish! later that nite, we were all in my cousins room. there we 2 beds. I was lying face down on the bed everyone else was sitting around. trust NEPA now there was no light.  He slowly started touching my back and moving towards my side, then up towards my boobs. everyone was ther but it was too dark. It was weird cos he had never shown any signs of liking me before. Alas! NEPA brought light and everyone ran down to play video games. We wer alone. He slowly sneaked hes hands under my shirt and touched my boobs!  then he moved towards my bum, put hes hand down my skirt and into my panties. I could hear him slowly breathing, I wasnt sleeping but I froze and pretended to be cos It was just too weird! i wanted to face him so hell know i was awake i jst could not! When anyone approached he'd snatch away hes hands and wait till they left. I think one of them came in and he eventually stopped.

i eventually had to move to my bed; I faked sleep but from the corner of my eyes I saw him watching (maybe to know If I noticed) my mind was racing I was thinking WAT THE HELL? Frm there I slept. by the next morning he had gone.

he was fine and always had pretty models around him. was he Hot Or what? Wasn’t he very bold to try wat he did? This was 5 yrs ago. I have only seen him once since then. (hes not even that cute now!) Other times with guys similar stuff has happened but the tory is getn too long so girls has it happened to u b4? Tell ur story. Guys why oh why? Even at ur own risk?!
do u think he knew i was awake? i doubt it.

x
waterworks

because the riskier the adventure, the sweeter the taste of the conquest

It's very much possible for them (boys/girls) not to, I guess it all comes down to self control.

Dvampire:

because the riskier the adventure, the sweeter the taste of the conquest

Exactly.

Davampire long time o! how you de?

@poster
sweet tale girl


I guess i did more than that as a guy; whenever girl is around it's just a simple drive to experiment and feel some excitment. The boldness tingy is jst impulse. U were bold as well by keepin sealed lips; that's hw most of my girl then did.

When I recall these scenes, I smile to myself; YOU LITTLE IMP!

LOL!

crazykid:

Davampire long time o! how you de?

i dey fine my brother.

;Dlol

femi wetin dey laff u?

i once had a bofriend hu said it was like a thief stealing in the middle of the night!

Its easy to forgive you for that 5 years ago. One can easily claim that it was naivette on your part but it will ba shame if you let that kind of thing happen now.
As for the guy, na giant Bleep up on him part. In fact you should open a giant can of Whoop Ass! on him EVERYTIME you see him just for the heck of it.[color=#000099][/color]

@ op
See u talking like u didn't enjoy every minute of it.
I won't even let u lie next to me! The boy wanted to give u a baby & u were fumbling. . . U miss ur luck!

@ kzARSCIT
you just dey make mouth now oh! if u see me now na kneel down u go dey kneel follow me. (yes im that good looking)

basically i think a regular guy would jump @ d slightest oportunity to satisfy orgies' @ least its "stressfree" i.e u dnt have to first create an impression for likeness or attraction or all d stuntz of nocturin', its just a cheap way to satisfy inner desires dts why boys possibly do dt, for Hot sex tips kindly view: http://sexandhumanity..com

Poster thats not true. . . ok, maybe for African men I presume?

But in Malaysia, its never like that. I have alot of guy friends and we always sleep on the same bed without doing something naughty and Im safe till morning, They do have a hard on at times but they know where their standing at

that's like licking off all the ground nut oil on the surface of a tasty piece of fried chicken and not having the permission to sink ur canines into it (sigh )

Well, face it, we all cannot have every single thing in life.

its normal for guys to wakeup in the morning with hard-ons,, any guy who doesn't should be worried
girls shldn't get scared, its junior saying goodmorning nigeria!!!

I've once experience the incident, but you still have to forgive and still move on with life.You still have one or two things to do for each other,well that's guy's for you.

Well guys do it because they are Hot I guess, and just to see if the will 'get lucky' with the girl. There's definitely some 'thrill' involved in it - you both know what is happening but are both acting like nothing is happening at the same time.

What you described sounds a bit disturbing though, you were 16 and essentially underage and he was 21 yet he was handling you and all that. I guess because you didn't object to the rubbing your tummy and waist while sitting down, he felt you might be game for more. . . and since you didn't resist, he went as far as he could. Hope he didn't mess with your younger cousins or relations that way

Don't think all guys would do it though; for some it's a momentary thing, others are just very perverted and will continue sneaking into people's beds even when older.

Really busy aint you Debo!

@poster

u've done noble by confessing your sin or else your immorality would have eaten you up but then, its vice versa. ladies arouse young chap on bed too, i'm a witness.

ah ah ohaechesi? tell me ure story!

gabrywyl:

Poster thats not true. . . ok, maybe for African men I presume?

But in Malaysia, its never like that. I have alot of guy friends and we always sleep on the same bed without doing something naughty and Im safe till morning, They do have a hard on at times but they know where their standing at

hmm! well it can never b a general norm for men, perhaps your malaysian friends no gather enuff liver, well if u say african men i might agree but i have heard several gist of this kinda issue from beyond our shores!!!
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@ Poster

You too enjoy the thing sha. You no even move.

olasboy:

@ Poster

You too enjoy the thing sha. You no even move.

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

I once was sleeping in my boxers and a t-shirt as a young dude. When i woke up suddenly, i noticed our house girl [who was like 10yrs older than me] on all fours like she was looking for something under my bed, but i knew she was peeping at my nuts

he tought you'r asleep but was thinking you'd like it even if you wake up

@ poster. . . babe which kin mumu job u do, just lie down dere. . . small gurl lyk me sef go dash him uppercut for his troubles.
anyways, a boy and a girl can sleep on a bed with nofin happenin but it takes a lot of control on the guys part

The only thing i gather from this thread is that waterworks got smooched one time too many.
BossB you call yourself small girl,at 16? Wake up!

:d ;d

It was weird cos he had never shown any signs of liking me before.

But I'm sure u had shown signs of liking him which he has observed from ur girly eyes, which drew him to u, to show u things u might wanna feel.

And by not moving . . . u enjoyed the touch and he knew that his secret was save